MufasaLion:


My heart can't be captured. I capture hearts, not the other way round.

helinues:


You can't enjoy life without good money, except if one only came to heart to pay bills.

Money, Kudi, Ego, Owo dey paramount for life, relationship, marriage

TMTR:




And here comes the holier than thou hypocritical bitch who thinks she is better than everyone else whereas she is even worse off


First I don't do prostitutes because I can't stand the fact and mental picture that someone else in fact multiple men has already slept with her and even more will continue to sleep with her...

Don't be shortsighted and quick to judge people , it tells a lot about your intellectual capacity..

And lastly when it comes to morals , I don't think you are even better than me because I can see through you, I have seen a lot like you who potray moral and Godly stance but living with you is worse than hell on earth, you don't fool me bitch

Now fúck offf

TMTR:




I can pay you your whole salary for doing nothing till the day you drop dead, I am not of those niggas you can broke shame bitch nigga,if we check well now, You are not living no better than my gate man.

Npower is for your likes ,I have no business with that ,go ask your fellow hood rats idiot

TMTR:
I see pre wedding pics being posted everyday on the net, I have attended a couple of weddings , even my elder sister is already married happily with kids but this phobia just won't go away

I don't even know how the phobia all started sef because I remember vividly looking forward to getting married one day when I was still a teenager and I wonder what changed, what happened , I now see people getting married as very brave people because I don't think I can ever try that shit...

Is my phobia for marriage justified, I wonder

TMTR:
I see pre wedding pics being posted everyday on the net, I have attended a couple of weddings , even my elder sister is already married happily with kids but this phobia just won't go away

I don't even know how the phobia all started sef because I remember vividly looking forward to getting married one day when I was still a teenager and I wonder what changed, what happened , I now see people getting married as very brave people because I don't think I can ever try that shit...

Is my phobia for marriage justified, I wonder

Drella:


I don't know why people can't resist the urge to brag!
Me that my mom was the chief justice of my state and my dad a deputy vc in a private uni, have I ever bragged about it before
Small change go dey una pocket una go con dey swell like garri

If you like me, just say it and stop beating around the bush

You didn't see where he was trying to broke shame me

You focus on the reaction and ignore what caused the reaction in the first place, people like you irritate me

TMTR:


If you like me, just say it and stop beating around the bush

You didn't see where he was trying to broke shame me

You focus on the reaction and ignore what caused the reaction in the first place, people like you irritate me

Drella:


Alaye first of all remove that "like me" cos I be man with better ponron!

Lol man gaz dey pipe low.You no need prove anything to anybody.
I sabi 1 popular business man wey dey this NL.He dey catch cruise wella.People wey no fit see handshake collect from am dey broke shame and yab am steady on NL.You won't know who he really is offline.

Peace bro.

You should be comfortable with your gender and remove that "f" there, what tha fúck nigga, abi u wan turn bobrisky

And there is a difference between cruise and and an attack

TMTR:
First I don't do prostitutes because I can't stand the fact and mental picture that someone else in fact multiple men has already slept with her and even more will continue to sleep with her...

Don't be shortsighted and quick to judge people , it tells a lot about your intellectual capacity..
...

Kobojunkie:
You were quick to condemn prostitutes as being worse than suckaway toilet but in your next breath to ask another not to be quick to condemn people?

Are you certain this "phobia" of yours is not in some way linked to your perception of women there?

solidmyk:

Aunty shey you get one you fit introduce me to, cos I doubt if this character you described still exist in this part of the world

Iyaebe:
It exist my dear,but most of you are in the wrong places looking for good companions, you'll laugh at this type of girls on a normal day because they don't know all the American stars and much about the internet.My daughter is kind of taken so I wish you luck

solidmyk:

My own is not about making jest of them, I think my issue with this type of girls is their lack of being self decisive, like getting their parents permissions to do every lil stuffs, it's always tiring

placeofallure:


You should first apologise to iyaebe. I also feel you were rude in your response to her post.

Girls like that still exist. Before I got married, I was like that too. My parents were not jailers but you have to account for every of your movement. Even when I left the house for university, several miles away, I was modest. I never missed class. The discipline had already been instilled. We're 3 girls raised like that, we're all married and our husbands are filled with gratitude to our parents. There's nothing my husband in particular can't do for my mum. She raised us well. You shouldn't be by yourself in this mother earth.

Intensify your search for a good girl, I always insist they still exist.

PrimadonnaO:



You've internalised too many negative marital stories.

And perhaps there's one out of those stories that mirrors a trait you have, so you're scared that may be your story too if you get married.

Please it's a very conscious decision to not internalise negativity.

Decisively refrain from letting anything scar you.

Rationalise and let go.

Focus on the thriving stories.

For me, marriage will always be beautiful... regardless of the plenty sad stories I read about on a daily basis.

Iyaebe:
Yes,that's how they are raised, a wise man will avoid ladies who have free time to do and undo without been answereth to anyone. How to go about your complain is to get close to the family as well especially her mom because those type of ladies usually give account for all the happenings in their life to their mom for proper guidance but they will eventually outgrow it when you've established some high level of trust in their hearts such that they can trust and confide in you with anything. I was like this during my time,I always give account of my toasters to my mom and she tells me how to go about it,I don't do hide and seak,if you like me then be bold about it and if I like you I'll allow you to start paying me visits in my house.So that's it.It was part of the reason I detest online dating and meeting anyone online,not my thing.

Drella:


This exactly is my problem.
So many threads on "my wife did this to me,my wife did that to me".
So if I marry,is that what my wife will be "diding" too?

juri:


Regarding your last statement on meeting anyone online, the truth is meeting someone online is one of several platforms through which you could get to know someone. Even on a faceless platform like this, the way people express themselves in terms of what they say or how they express those ideas , tell a lot on who they are in terms of their personalities, values etc.

It does not matter if it is a political opinion, development ideas or National Crises prevention solutions that are expressed here, one could thereforepre desire to get to know such an individual because of the similarities of idealogy, thinking, or mindset. So, don't completely ignor, simply bcs of some negative happening regarding meeting someone online.

I guess you know where I am going with this line of reasoning seeing you appear to owe me a certain critical information. And less I forget, don't forget I am 80 so!.

Iyaebe:
lol,the zeal to meet people who are faceless no matter their personality and similarities in ideas does not tickle my boxes whatsoever,I don't just fancy it hence the reason I hardly reply dms.I have only spoken to one nairalander recently with this my account(hakym) whose number was on his signature over my late cousins predicament,and again I'm kind of nasty here and as such I don't look forward to making friends here as well who already have a wrong assumption about my true kind of person, I'm just here for fun,I might soon deactivate if something busy and demanding comes my way lol.

Iyaebe:
Yes,that's how they are raised, a wise man will avoid ladies who have free time to do and undo without been answereth to anyone. How to go about your complain is to get close to the family as well especially her mom because those type of ladies usually give account for all the happenings in their life to their mom for proper guidance but they will eventually outgrow it when you've established some high level of trust in their hearts such that they can trust and confide in you with anything. I was like this during my time,I always give account of my toasters to my mom and she tells me how to go about it,I don't do hide and seak,if you like me then be bold about it and if I like you I'll allow you to start paying me visits in my house.So that's it.It was part of the reason I detest online dating and meeting anyone online,not my thing.

solidmyk:

So you expect a reasonable person to do all those shit here
Mk she go marry her mama then

TMTR:
I see pre wedding pics being posted everyday on the net, I have attended a couple of weddings , even my elder sister is already married happily with kids but this phobia just won't go away

I don't even know how the phobia all started sef because I remember vividly looking forward to getting married one day when I was still a teenager and I wonder what changed, what happened , I now see people getting married as very brave people because I don't think I can ever try that shit..

Is my phobia for marriage justified, I wonder

TMTR:




I can pay you your whole salary for doing nothing till the day you drop dead, I am not of those niggas you can broke shame bitch nigga,if we check well now, You are not living no better than my gate man.

Npower is for your likes ,I have no business with that ,go ask your fellow hood rats idiot

Iyaebe:
lol,the zeal to meet people who are faceless no matter their personality and similarities in ideas does not tickle my boxes whatsoever,I don't just fancy it hence the reason I hardly reply dms.I have only spoken to one nairalander recently with this my account(hakym) whose number was on his signature over my late cousins predicament,and again I'm kind of nasty here and as such I don't look forward to making friends here as well who already have a wrong assumption about my true kind of person, I'm just here for fun,I might soon deactivate if something busy and demanding comes my way lol.

TMTR:




I can pay you your whole salary for doing nothing till the day you drop dead, I am not of those niggas you can broke shame bitch nigga,if we check well now, You are not living no better than my gate man.

Npower is for your likes ,I have no business with that ,go ask your fellow hood rats idiot