| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Jefferyhi86(m): 6:33am On Nov 03, 2021 |
Ode Midas01:
34 year old man without sense. |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Komo4dmoney: 6:39am On Nov 03, 2021 |
You've made some good points but there's a correction here, MouthAction, especially sucking if p*say don't cause mouth cancer. Go do your findings. samsard:
I guess the same principle is what you guys use to justify anal rimming?
Nothing like washes well. No self-respecting and health conscious man should put his mouth there. Have you heard about the correlation between MouthAction and increased risk of mouth cancer? Yeah, "the vagina is clean" yen yen yen |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by samsard(m): 6:45am On Nov 03, 2021 |
Komo4dmoney:
You've made some good points but there's a correction here, MouthAction, especially sucking if p*say don't cause mouth cancer. Go do your findings.
A study found an increased risk of mouth/throat cancer with MouthAction. It's not like every time it results in cancer, just like every smoker doesn't develop lung cancer. |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Ungodly: 7:07am On Nov 03, 2021 |
Remman:
It's your fault.
Just change his diet. Let him eat well. And let him take viagra like 30mins before action, you'll love him. I seem not to believe all you said. I'm sure there's something you're not right about which is irritating him and that's what you should find out and fix. You are the one that's not romantic. You need to turn him on and spoil him with really crazy pre-intimacy, he will be the one to want more. It's possible his sexual drive is dropping due to age or some medical factors. Secondly, buy intimacy gadgets and masturbate before him and fake pleasure, he'll be very jealous. You will see him want to replace that toy next time. If you cheat you might end up getting STD or end your marriage soon. Sometimes you can just grap his d!ck or massage him sometimes after bath. He'll hungry for you. Also, meet a doctor to give you a great viagra pill and ask him to take it before action. Do this and don't think about f*cking your life out of a good marriage a lot of people are scrambling to have what you have. Tks you gained me as a follower with this… God bless you proper |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Ebonygeek(f): 7:17am On Nov 03, 2021 |
cr7lomo:
This is why marrying a virgin is best So that she won't be able to tell that you're a crappy lover? Lol mediocre lovers all over this thread unwilling to improve 1 Like |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by ojari: 7:17am On Nov 03, 2021 |
cr7lomo:
This is why marrying a virgin is best A virgin who has never read a single book about sex education or romance novel ever. A virgin who has never heard the word "climax" or "orgasm" in her life. A virgin who is so ignorant and empty upstairs that she does not know that sex is supposed to end in cloud 9. Hehe. Dat kin virgin fit dey sha. What God cannot create does not exist!  |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by MeghaneMorgane(f): 7:20am On Nov 03, 2021 |
Iyaebe:
Marriage is indeed complicated,this your story makes premarital sex looks important but however it's against God's commandments which brings the question on how do we know the sexual compatibility of a partner before marriage? I don't know what to say. Unmarried people, I won’t encourage fornication. But I’ll encourage people to talk about their sexual fantasies. That way you will have an idea if the person is sexually compatible 2 Likes |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Fourwinds: 7:35am On Nov 03, 2021 |
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| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Nobody: 7:39am On Nov 03, 2021 |
BRATISLAVA:
The real ten seconds man.
And because he's a man, he doesn't see it as a big issue, neither do other men. He probably claims it's dehumanizing because if he does oral on her, she would want to do the same on him, and he can't keep it up for more than ten seconds before blowing his load. A very crafty man.
He could probably have tricked her into a lavender manage and can't wait to be done with the compulsory sex, so that his true desires stay hidden. Hence his ten hurried seconds.
Don't believe men who use words like "dehumanizing".
Very selfish man indeed. He just left his wife to be a ticking time bomb. Poor woman indeed. Can't even give her oral, I'm pretty sure he's very lame at other aspects of forreplay. God abeg. 2 Likes |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Fourwinds: 7:41am On Nov 03, 2021 |
Sterope:
Post marital sex can be different from premarital sex as well. People change  na true oooooo...you know how the thing dey be now  |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by TheOmoney(m): 7:41am On Nov 03, 2021 |
He should try some psychostimulants b4 sex
e.g. Alcohol...right quantity of this heightens one's libido and shut down some wall of defense.
Thank Me later |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by wisekings: 7:46am On Nov 03, 2021 |
seek counsel ... psychologist maybe |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by BRATISLAVA: 8:25am On Nov 03, 2021 |
Lollittaa:
Very selfish man indeed. He just left his wife to be a ticking time bomb. Poor woman indeed. Can't even give her oral, I'm pretty sure he's very lame at other aspects of forreplay. God abeg. Lol Man may be doing those things for his side dish. |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Konquest: 8:27am On Nov 03, 2021 |
Greystone:
Hubby already insulted himself by refusing to lick his wife to multiple orgasms.
Small head make he dey give Madam e no gree, now we are trying to encourage Madam not to cheat. 
If na me, I go lick that my wife pussy clean till e shine like mirror...
In fact na 69 position go sweet pass... Yup! Your post is interesting. To each his own. Just as I earlier adviced on this thread, a "dental dam" can be bought by the dude or any other man to provide an oral barrier when giving a head. This is to prevent potential oral and vaginal infections. |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by culf: 8:28am On Nov 03, 2021 |
Maryliola:
Hey guys
I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.
Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.
Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.
Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.
Help!
Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this. talk to him when he is happy, if you are like friends as you said, he should do what will make his friend and wife happy and oral is the easiest and fastest way to satisfy a Lady to me. Keep talking but if he refused to agree, get yourself a toy. marriage is supposed to be enjoyed not endured. #Life is funny, while some men that like oral got married to women that will hardly agree to it, the ladiws that love it end up marrying the no oral men 1 Like |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by fxexperts: 8:29am On Nov 03, 2021 |
TheOmoney:
He should try some psychostimulants b4 sex
e.g. Alcohol...right quantity of this heightens one's libido and shut down some wall of defense.
Thank Me later Baba. You sabi the koko. I only give a mouth action when under the influence of alcohol and then my sex drive is always high. Ask him to do this and thank me later. culf:
talk to him when he is happy, if you are like friends as you said, he should do what will make his friend and wife happy and oral is the easiest and fastest way to satisfy a Lady to me.
Keep talking but if he refused to agree, get yourself a toy.
marriage is supposed to be enjoyed not endured.
#Life is funny, while some men that like oral got married to women that will hardly agree to it, the ladiws that love it end up marrying the no oral men That's why they life. This life nor balance. Good guys gets married to them Oloshos. While bad guys get the good girls. Am Sure OP had a lot of sexual fantasies with randy men when she was single, and her husband was a virgin before marriage. She saw a good man and jumped to marry him and the husband was carried away by Op seductive body type. I think that is the root cause of her problem. Iyaebe:
Premarital sex is not good but I'll device a means to know my partner's sexual ability, I can't keep myself this long while my partner starts behaving like ops partner in marriage.I want a partner that'll be active 24hrs and will overdose me,I don't want to ever have any yeye cravings inside marriage.My story will be what can I give my partner to reduce the too much urge for sex all the time.lol Hope the man you are dating now is among one of those touts who use tramadol. Or he is currently doing what you wish to you right now. When he cheats on you tomorrow, dont leave him and go look for a God fearing man. So you will not come to Nl to cry like Op. 1 Like |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by omoluka: 8:34am On Nov 03, 2021 |
Prechgold1180:
Write me on WhatsApp
I can recommend something for your husband with no side effects not sex drugs
It’s works instantly he get to rub on his cap 5 minutes before sex
He won’t cum for 25 minutes first round second round might be more than 1 hour
I will send u the name and picture of what I m talking about
And you can get in few stores
Originally made in Ethiopia
If he tries it and it does not work change my name
I am being serious
And if he applies it for like four times
He would automatically be healed of 10 seconds cumming
No side effects
I don’t sell the drugs I ll give u the name and where u can get it
No side effects
U can browse about it online Ethiopian herbs i guess 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by bizzibodi(m): 8:44am On Nov 03, 2021 |
Iyaebe:
Then go back to the fifteenth centuries and join your forefathers. Its that simple Save your man lives,did God created it for d mouth or for cock?do other primates do it,learn lessons from lower animals! |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by makydebbie(f): 8:47am On Nov 03, 2021 |
Iyaebe:
That's an insult to the husband You’re really all over this thread saying nonsense. 2 Likes |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by IdeasPro(m): 9:31am On Nov 03, 2021 |
Maryliola:
Hey guys
I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.
Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.
Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.
Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.
Help!
Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this. Hmmm, this is serious! Matthew 6 verse 21 says where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. Why not focus on the future of your family and son? Get yourself occupied with productive thinking and doings. Because of the worthwhile things I occupy myself with, I hardly have time to think of things that are extraneous which will not add value to my life and the world at large. |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by nullboss: 9:32am On Nov 03, 2021 |
LifeOfTrigga:
Na wa o, different wahala. Me Wey be say if I knack my gf laso she no fit stand up or walk for some minutes after sex! Cos the way I been dey knack her self even sperm i dey always find m like lcm and she go din cum so many times that I won’t be able to see the flesh of my dick again as my dick din turn white cos of her cum! E go come thick like say Na coldstone ice cream Na yeast, you dey call cum? 1 Like |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by LifeOfTrigga(m): 9:50am On Nov 03, 2021 |
nullboss:
Na yeast, you dey call cum? Lol werey, no be only yeast but laafu or semo 1 Like |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Perseverance127: 9:54am On Nov 03, 2021 |
send an email |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Ajibade123(m): 10:08am On Nov 03, 2021 |
Iyaebe:
Marriage is indeed complicated,this your story makes premarital sex looks important but however it's against God's commandments which brings the question on how do we know the sexual compatibility of a partner before marriage? I don't know what to say. you don't know what to say ke and you are 63 years old lol 1 Like |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by dheilaw1(m): 10:41am On Nov 03, 2021 |
Tzar:
You be thief. I am sure you steal meat from you momma’s pot as a kid!
What I do na? No be fight ke.... I just want to help |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by muykem: 10:44am On Nov 03, 2021 |
bilulu:
Maggi ke.... how does that work? Do what I said. I didn't ask you for money and this instructions is harmful to you and your family. Two months from now, quote me on the result and I will answer you. |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Tzar(m): 10:49am On Nov 03, 2021 |
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| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by winner37(m): 11:09am On Nov 03, 2021 |
Men !!! Having been through traditional marrage and church weeding and you don't eat your wife all the eatable on her body is like rounding a business with no profit..
Someone like me ,I can never kiss ,suck anyone girl I don't love because there is spirit controling thatu but I will give you maximum drive on sex ..
Mrs poster , my advice for you is that 1.check yourself very well in the aspect of personal hygiene .
What will discouraged a man from kissing , sucking your boobs and cunts is how smelling it is ...
2 .Secondly don't always stand naked in front of your husband too much always have a moment of privacy likewise a man too because sometimes eyes do get satisfied with what it sees ...
3. Get a marriage counselor involved just to help you out ....
4.Do you really loved and trust your husband ? 1 Like |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by nairamaniac: 12:13pm On Nov 03, 2021 |
Maryliola:
Hey guys
I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.
Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.
Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.
Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.
Help!
Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this. op maryliola, pls be quite honest and accurate with us. First you are exaggerating about the 10secs thing. Whenever I hear these, I never believe it. At times men ejaculate so fast becos they are too into the sex. Have u tried distracting him with other stuffs around? Like play a movie while you guys are at it. This helps to delay the sex a bit/much more. Also try to change rhythm whenever you feel he's us about to get there. Work on his diet, health, exercise and habbits. Also concerning him not to go down low on you. Was he always the type that never liked it before you guys got married? Or he just grew against it with time? Pls reply. Wishing u well |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by ogene70: 12:14pm On Nov 03, 2021 |
Iyaebe:
Too many married women are becoming sex starved hence the increase in adultery. Men really need to up their game and live a healthy lifestyle. Most married men are busy messing up with single girls, abandoning their wives to drivers and gate men. I remember a friend of mine who had issues with his wife and refused to make love to her for months , I was really worried for him . Back to the topic: Op did he give you mouth action during courtship? How was his sex life prior to your wedding? If you had mouth action from him and his sex life was good before marriage then you guys need to talk things out . 1 Like |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Lacash: 12:16pm On Nov 03, 2021 |
Maryliola:
Hey guys
I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.
Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.
Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.
Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.
Help!
Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this. I believe you should have known this during your courtship that your husband to be is not an headBoi/headMan, Lolz. But if you wouldn’t mind, we could be your counselor, Lolz. |
| Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Blackdisciple(m): 12:23pm On Nov 03, 2021 |
Oya over to the married ones...
We the up coming artist wants to learn |
? I’m getting scared...