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Re: My House Maid Has Become My Madam In My Own Home by TheRareGem1(f): 3:02pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
What's your fuse. Wetin concern you for this matter. |
Re: My House Maid Has Become My Madam In My Own Home by xheyii: 3:28pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
She should allow the father in-law be happy na..he found a wife who can take care of him, she and her hubby can decide to move out if her eyes no de the duplex and properties..make them shift if respect is what she so desires |
Re: My House Maid Has Become My Madam In My Own Home by Nobody: 3:39pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Better goan wish your MiL happy married life, before they throw you out and bring in a submissive iyawo. Thank God say no be your husband built the duplex |
Re: My House Maid Has Become My Madam In My Own Home by Nobody: 3:42pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
xheyii: That's why I laugh at Wives who are planning to abandon their Husbands in old age, with no one to take care of him, bla bla bla... Except the man did not plan and prepare for old age. |
Re: My House Maid Has Become My Madam In My Own Home by Babatunde7109(m): 3:46pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
MrPresent: To start with, if her family is well-to-do as well, I don’t think she would have any cause to lay emphasis on her father-in-law’s wealth like she did in the writeup. Do you know that it is easier for the father to dissolve their marriage than the wife would dissolve his’ (with the nanny-cum-wife)? The fact that she’s trying to contest an incontestable situation is very irrational and insensible. For the husband to have agreed to stay with the father or vice versa, should tell her more about how strong the bond that exists between them is. She can’t just ‘easily’ turn them against each other. Also, why would the nanny’s change of status be a problem to her? Was she treating her badly as a nanny and feels now that she has become a superior member of the family, she would want to retaliate? Well, if this hasn’t been the case, then she needs to calm down, accept the situation as it has happened, move on, and avoid troubles for herself and her marriage. She needs to let go of that PRIDE in her, and the oozing sense of entitlement. Automatically, once her (the nanny-cum-wife) status has changed, every other thing follows. Calling her ‘Aunty’ and the kids calling her ‘mummy’ will not take anything from them. It brings no disrepute on them rather, it consolidates peace in the family. Let her just do the needful, and she will see herself spending the rest of her life and marriage in peace. |
Re: My House Maid Has Become My Madam In My Own Home by Nobody: 3:47pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Biglittlelois: My Dear, if she is happy with him, I will dash him the car and build them two houses. Next! |
Re: My House Maid Has Become My Madam In My Own Home by wallarwallar(m): 4:04pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
You are the bad one here so a nanny does not have a life abi. Useless woman with pride. If u hv treated the nanny with love and like ur own blood u wud have been a mother to d nanny and enjoy d moment and ur life to the fullest. Treat people with respect and love regardless of thier status. Dis Life no balance 1 Like |
Re: My House Maid Has Become My Madam In My Own Home by purpleicious(f): 4:11pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Leave your father-in-law to choice his choose. |
Re: My House Maid Has Become My Madam In My Own Home by Gnosticstudent(m): 4:23pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Biglittlelois: You seem mentally attractive. Your comment is so down-to-earth like that of a trained psychoanalyst. 2 Likes |
Re: My House Maid Has Become My Madam In My Own Home by Nobody: 4:25pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
crackhaus: And the 'maid' would even have a better and tighter vagina. Let her Allow the man live life abeg. Stupid girls feeling entitled. |
Re: My House Maid Has Become My Madam In My Own Home by Emaprince: 4:26pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Biglittlelois:This your question is coming from a bitter heart. How does it correlate with the woman in the Ops situation? Was it the womans father that impregnated her maid? It was her father inlaw. So the right question should have been what if his mother inlaw got impregnated by her driver...but no, you had to look for a way to insult and bring his mother into it..hence, reinforcing the belief that women hates themselves the most. |
Re: My House Maid Has Become My Madam In My Own Home by ImaIma1(f): 4:50pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Biglittlelois: Guys on this forum always waiting to judge women with tougher standards. No one sees what the old man did as questionable. He's given a free pass but the woman should be put on a stake to die for all they care. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My House Maid Has Become My Madam In My Own Home by mila1121(m): 5:03pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
You get luck say no be ur husband marry the nanny You are comfortable why not allow the woman to be comfortable Ur husband is already getting what’s his in the family accept life and move on focus on love not hate madam supermarket owner is calling another nanny |
Re: My House Maid Has Become My Madam In My Own Home by Fantazy(m): 5:07pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Biglittlelois: It's not a big deal. The driver is a human just like you are. |
Re: My House Maid Has Become My Madam In My Own Home by crackhaus: 8:29pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Laren24:I'm telling you... |
Re: My House Maid Has Become My Madam In My Own Home by Eyanbahose: 9:09pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Drakkernoir:unku, sometimes before you comment you should put yourself in the person's shoes. I can feel what that woman is feeling and it's not cos she's a maid but the thought that the maid might loose the respect she had for her. The best thing to do is relocate from the house or the father in law moves out to his other houses. The Husband clearly doesn't respect his wife and consider her feelings. This thing dey pain but you just dey think from your own point of view. 2 Likes |
Re: My House Maid Has Become My Madam In My Own Home by Pataricatering(f): 9:24pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
neonly:so because one woman can't imagine her nanny being her mother in law is equal to women hating themselves? Please when men kill themselves as they do quite regularly - Is it love ? We won't hear about men hating themselves though ' it's only women . 3 Likes |
Re: My House Maid Has Become My Madam In My Own Home by SilasIBB: 9:29pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
MrPresent: Grace Speaking |
Re: My House Maid Has Become My Madam In My Own Home by valinno(m): 11:24pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Women and jealousy,so because she's your maid,she cannot become anything in life.Be happy for her my friend and start calling her Aunty.In life, overtaken is allowed. |
Re: My House Maid Has Become My Madam In My Own Home by adexdebo17: 12:08am On Nov 09, 2021 |
If you treat her well you will not have much problem in accommodating with her love,care and be your real self matters |
Re: My House Maid Has Become My Madam In My Own Home by bigbossila: 12:59am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Your husband is such a nice gentle man. Just follow his advice and let everything go please. Look at the bright side, you are healthy with a nice family that loves you. That's all that matters |
Re: My House Maid Has Become My Madam In My Own Home by Christmasdon(m): 5:26am On Nov 09, 2021 |
The only problem here is the failure of the nanny not have the disclose her affections and love towards her father in-law to her madam since from day 1 the woman got to know all this because of the protruding pregnancy. this lady was only not happy because she has not been aware what was happening. nobody seeked 4 her consent thats why. |
Re: My House Maid Has Become My Madam In My Own Home by Christmasdon(m): 5:37am On Nov 09, 2021 |
valinno:this peel is too hard for her to swallow don't you get it. nobody carried her along before father in law start sleeping with her. the father in law should have met with his sons wife and declare his love intentions to marry her own nanny you get this is not morally right. tell the woman that brought her in. the nanny should go and apologise to her madam and the madam would give her the nanny her blessings and everyone would live in peace. 1 Like |
Re: My House Maid Has Become My Madam In My Own Home by missidy: 8:42am On Nov 09, 2021 |
The FIL should seek her consent for what? Is she the nanny's mother, guardian or the one that gave her life? She was only an employee of the lady, she doesn't have any control or say in her life. The former nanny doesn't need the woman's blessings, she isn't her mother. What both of them need is mutual respect. Small scale employers always feeling like mini gods. Christmasdon: |
Re: My House Maid Has Become My Madam In My Own Home by BluntTheApostle(m): 10:51am On Nov 09, 2021 |
jornwhite: She has a bad attitude. That is the point. She was only concerned about the status of the woman. |
Re: My House Maid Has Become My Madam In My Own Home by optm(m): 11:44am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Christmasdon:and the said lady told you she ll give approval of the relationship if she was informed? |
Re: My House Maid Has Become My Madam In My Own Home by Konquest: 11:55am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Klass99:@Klass99 I luv you for this post. You truly have a heart of gold, and you've got an elevated understanding of emotional intelligence, and the fact that we live in a world of cause and effect. Obrigada! Enjoy your day. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My House Maid Has Become My Madam In My Own Home by optm(m): 12:04pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
Fantazy:i tire o. She's having a problem because of this status issue in the head of many nigerians. There should only be a problem if the guy is an irresponsible person and with questionable character. He being a driver doesn't make him less of a human than you are . Even the person forming class /status today could loose everything if life happens to him or her ( it has happened and would continue to happen) . We should know that whatever we are having, it's not cos we are the most deserving of it or that we are better than others lacking it; but because God /fate has decided to smile on us and bless us with those things . |
Re: My House Maid Has Become My Madam In My Own Home by Klass99(f): 12:37pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
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Re: My House Maid Has Become My Madam In My Own Home by Christmasdon(m): 12:48pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
optm:.She never said that. Oga Ade. 1 Like |
Re: My House Maid Has Become My Madam In My Own Home by Christmasdon(m): 12:57pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
missidy:. lets say You brought someone to township feed this person for a month or two grace found this person and park out of ua appartment without letting u know and starts his/her own company and becomes wealthy don't you think you will be angry for zooming out of ua house like that. my dear lets reason like a human being. |
Re: My House Maid Has Become My Madam In My Own Home by missidy: 1:06pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
She never said she brought the nanny from the village. She said she employed her so the nanny doesn't owe her anything. There is a difference between someone you brought into your house from the village to help and someone you employed for a job in your house whom you have no relations with. The former needs to alert you before moving on with her life while the other doesn't owe you an explanation. Christmasdon: |
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