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Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Alohaa: 8:06am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Ijaya123: Even Bill gates 1 Like |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by colestephan86: 8:09am On Nov 09, 2021 |
wunmi590:This is a fool. |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by babzlim(m): 8:11am On Nov 09, 2021 |
After the man handles all the bills in the house, you still expect act of service and loyalty as he's love language okwaya. I laughter in monkey language. |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by colestephan86: 8:18am On Nov 09, 2021 |
wunmi590:Lol, She earns 6 figures and I a business man. One day she said the reason thing are hard for me is cos I don't pay tithe, then I do every single thing . I said Okey , henceforth, you will get the groceries, pay for cable TV, and toiletries Andi will do other things like car maintenance, NEPA bills, new home appliances etc Twas then she see say kahki no be leather |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Nobody: 8:22am On Nov 09, 2021 |
NoToPile: Thats how it should be. |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by neonly: 8:23am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by MrCodeSolo: 8:27am On Nov 09, 2021 |
As a man, u don't have to be a cement or oil guru to enjoy comfortability...in this present economy, a man needs multiple streams of income to handle the general affairs of everything around him... the only power I fit show to a woman naa to provide enough comfort. & If she try wan give me extra headache on top my outside the home induced headaches... thinking say I go swallow tablets? Knor! dz life wey I come so, I no need paracetamol, naa she go go in the stead of the headache. I no do again, bcuz I love my sanity more than anything. Lol |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by ityP(m): 8:29am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Iyaebe: Lmao. Very anyhow reasoning. Marry my type, you'd practically be begging for the sex |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by ityP(m): 8:33am On Nov 09, 2021 |
eazzzy1: You're a very wise man 1 Like |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by JohnOkolo: 8:45am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Mariangeles: You mind stupidity and stupid simps. If a Woman is not ready for marriage and to be supportive let her go meet this old fool that posted this trash. |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by DoggoneDogg: 8:47am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Pataricatering: Nobody is arguing this. Nigerian women challenge their husbands these days a lot so they have to foot bills too. |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by DoggoneDogg: 8:49am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Oghenerobo2002(m): 9:16am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Iyaebe:This is why people say women only offer sex |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Oghenerobo2002(m): 9:21am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Its like you don't know the price of things in the market anymore. Even siblings who stay together contribute to run the home. How much does a man need to earn before taking 100% responsibility at home? 1m a month? Do you know how much is school fee? Feeding? Clothing? House rent? Outings and vacations? You will die before your time 1 Like |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Mendy101: 9:23am On Nov 09, 2021 |
kmcutez: Ehen, now you are talking, help out your guy, was angry with you before, no longer angry, try dey help out ehn, we will be aiit, stay blessed and God bless you sweet love |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by lordally(m): 9:25am On Nov 09, 2021 |
sharone21: Beautiful!!! 1 Like |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by jonadaft: 9:34am On Nov 09, 2021 |
wunmi590:@ Bolded, are you sick or something? You need some pills Who are you to tell or dictate to people what they should know?
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Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by BigBashiru: 9:37am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Pataricatering: I can pay 100% of thr bills under these conditions: no nagging, no quarrels, no arguments every day, ability to send her packing when I can no longer afford her. ... then the girl must hv a body count of less than 5 prior to marriage. It's all about "is the arrangement a good deal"?.... Why should I pay 100% and every day quarrels etc plus she has even been used by prior niggas for free?? |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by jonadaft: 9:39am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Iyaebe:Who wants to release sperm in you before when there are millions of better people with better pussies outside. Men deserve to be praised for giving you people sex. It's not easy.... |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by EddieAsuzu: 10:00am On Nov 09, 2021 |
This topic wouldn't have come up if women understood that they are stronger than men. An average feminist brainwashes her fellow woman to challenging a man's authority at home at because of that the man resorts to such attitude. A woman who loves her husband will go to any length to take care of her family not minding what might happen ! |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Kaybex007(m): 10:10am On Nov 09, 2021 |
when I see post like this or similar ones, I ask myself "are we really sincere with ourselves" but the answer is NO, we all are always sentimental in our judgement. Back in the days, when Africa was Africa before the intervention of the whites, the yoruba culture doesn't teach the man to share the responsibility of the family with the wife, except for when the man is not financially buoyant, while this was done by the men, the women maintains high level of respect while the man also reciprocate by showing love and care. Some years after the intervention of the whites, the wives started seeing themselves as the same level with the husband who solely handles the responsibility of the family and this has triggered all sorts of ideas into the husbands of nowadays, you can't claim equal right in a relationship where there is no equal responsibility. Now this question goes to ladies, let's be sincere with eachother, if you were in the position of a man who takes full responsibility of the house and your wife keep acting as if you both share the responsibility, won't you wake up one day to tell her let's share the responsibility since we have equal rights. let's be sincere and not sentimental when it comes to relationship matter. Note: I've never been in support of a woman sharing responsibility with the husband and I will never be except in some cases cuz a typical Yoruba man will never do that cuz it's not part of our culture. Thanks. Peace be unto everyone of us. |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Theanyanwu: 10:34am On Nov 09, 2021 |
When there is love, all these will matter less abeg. Let love lead and apply for the Golden morn promo so that you all will have lots of love and gifts to get this Christmas season 1 Like |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by snoopz: 10:36am On Nov 09, 2021 |
wunmi590: Another entitled buffon in her deluded imaginations... if you want a stable and long relationship with your husband, pls don't listen to this opinion it's misleading. You married to help one another no the give all your responsibility to your husband, na wife he marry no be responsibility |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by snoopz: 10:37am On Nov 09, 2021 |
wunmi590: How did you know otedola and dangote doesn't, or you think their wives are just useless and irresponsible? |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by abeggnow: 10:58am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Justbehave:a lot of people commenting here are not married and as such, I laugh at them. In a home there should be family income, family income is basically made up of the gross income of the husband and wife. This is what the family uses. I now understand why a lot of young men don't want to get married because lots of Nigerian women have an entitlement mentality. |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Dollish(f): 11:02am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Advancedman:why the insult? He said his mind why not say yours n move on or u keep quiet. Must u comment? I don't know why his opinion pained u so much. Oga he's not the architect of your frustrations, u can as well tell your wife to foot the whole bills while u look on it's not our business but showing how immature u are to the public is ridiculous. 2 Likes |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Lordjulius(m): 11:33am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Iyaebe:You b big mumu....stop misleading young ladies please..... |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by GboyegaD(m): 11:41am On Nov 09, 2021 |
Pataricatering: I said mine, you can run yours the way you want to. |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by NELLY1990: 12:25pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
My dear you caught my attention fa. It’s easier said than done. In marriage, both parties needs to contribute in one way or the other. Eg the wife has the responsibility to cook, clean the house, childbearing, training and even training children, praying, making of clothes, industrious in a nutshell etc Proverbs 30:1-10 talked about a wife of noble character. The husband, provide food, protection, shelter, security, may be more may be less. Do you know that there are faithful wives who receive s hell of a beating, emotional abuse and all sort of evil treatments from their husbands yet, they are still in that union? Your wife is your help mate not a machine you coerced to bay your bills, allow her to do it with a free Spirit just as the Bible puts it, “give according to how your heart pleases not under duress. the major responsibility lies with the husband. Some wives work but it’s the husband does the spending, y? She can’t even help herself, nor the children, nor relatives, do you know how painful it can be? Husbands help us do our work right. Don’t force us to do things as if we are children, we have brain in our head please. If you are a wife, please be wise. DaSugarBoi: |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Exceed15: 12:29pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
All that matters is understanding between the two.. Mind u love also means 'Sharing' . It's an action word. |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Ogaonos: 12:38pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
wunmi590:dis op is nt realistic at all even using dangote Nd otedola pple who made their moni thru fronting for political elites.let be realistic here u are a married man with four kids who had a salary of 300k during Jona administration his in charge of responsibilities at home even open a biz for Ur wife she make 30k per month at DT time.now Buhari enta scatter economy it affected d company his working .the company decided to shut down their Nigeria branch or move to Ghana now u now unemployed living on Ur savings few months u got a wrk of 50k .he tried to search for a beta wrk but d pay is below 50k of his current wrk.now d wife biz income has rose to 100k per month den during lockdown a foreign opportunity came Nd her biz profit has risen to 300k.now hw can such man still live up to his responsibilities with 50k for Buhari time hw much be rice for market.THERE IS A SAYING DT WHEN TRIAL OR TRIBULATIONS COMES LIKE BEING LOW IN CASH THAT WEN U KNW WHETHER U HAVE A WIFE OR NOT.MY ADVICE IS TO PRAY TO GOD TO GIVE U UR OWN WIFE MATERIAL.ND DO DT IN A LIVING CHURCH . |
Re: Husbands, Never Force Your Wives To Split Bills by Raalsalghul: 12:45pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
Pataricatering: I absolutely agree with this. Besides that, I've been shocked by some of the comments I'm reading here. 1 Like |
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