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Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by Bonab: 12:32pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
He will get over it. Don't allow him break your marriage. 1 Like |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by jimmychang: 12:34pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Annabelle12344: Babe you dated him abeg.You lured him on and you even like him or lemme say love him.Sister for this life no start watin you no fit finish. |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by alizma: 12:40pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Annabelle12344:Move on, he is a simp and you just served him right. There is nothing like friendship between married opposite sex and once someone is not your brother or sister, there is nothing as he is just like a brother or sister to me. All that is cheap lies, you kept him because you were enjoying the financial benefits. 1 Like |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by mandate12: 12:41pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
cococandy: Hahaha... A kiss from u whenever I c u! |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by xpress101(m): 12:43pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Please let your fiance know about it ASAP. It's very important or else the devil can use him as he's vulnerable through his weak emotion. Also, don't keep a relationship with a married man in any form. He's attached to you because he has a problem at home and you somehow maybe have the solution directly or indirectly. I'm sorry to say this, your parents are part of the problem. what is a married man doing with you at home and your mum is comfortable about it? LET THIS BE PART OF WHAT YOU WILL RESOLVE DURING YOUR MARRIAGE COUNSELLING. YOUR FIANCE, PARENT, MARRIAGE COUNSELLOR AND PASTOR MUST END THIS! or else, the man can set you or your husband up later in the future. furthermore, you can connect him to someone who can help him repair/rebuild his family Annabelle12344: |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by bukatyne(f): 12:46pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Annabelle12344: All of you are all jokers Trust me, a worse choice of word is playing in my head. 1. You: a married man asks you out and you say no. Shouldn't common sense tell you to run away from him? No, you become bestie and following him to the market and all sorts. Because of the monetary gains, someone you have no blood ties with becomes big brother. 2. Your family: they are a very very very greedy lot who obviously lack integrity and virtue. 3. Uncle Isonu Animasahun Alagbere: You left your wife and kids to be forming bestie with a small girl. A part of me hopes you lose your job and family since you have refused to have sense 4. Brother Oko Iyawo: May God open your eyes to see that you are a side boo to your wife to be. She is still offering emotional healing to uncle onisekuse. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by Nobody: 12:51pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Go and face your marriage!!! Ewu. 1 Like |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by Airoflaw(m): 12:52pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Beebah2000:continue |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by Tundex911: 12:53pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Don't lie both of you don knack una sef... Say God |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by Asapchris(m): 12:55pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
If I’m your husband to be and I found out about this, I will end the marriage so that you can continue with your besties or whatever. 2 Likes |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by Mason360(m): 12:56pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Annabelle12344: I understand the scenario. He's suffering from what's called oneitis. He's gotten so used to you that made him develope a deep feeling for you. This blinds him to every other options and makes him jealous and see anyone close to you as a threat. No matter how much you like him, he's the one that needs to fix himself. Not you. The best way is for him to keep distance and spend more time with his wife and other people. For a while till he's over you. 1 Like |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by Mryacks: 12:57pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Exactly....she was busy doing "couple things" with someone she does not love but benefits from. Why even bring him that close to her family? Does her boyfriend/husband to be even knows about the man?....people just start things off and leading others on without thinking of the consequences ... |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by cooooooks(m): 12:58pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
If not fake, talk it out. Some stuff you could say: - Friendship is not lost because of marriage. We are friends, and I'd like us to stay friends. - I have been clear from the beginning of our friendship that I won't date or marry a married man. Tell me where you got it confused. - That this childish reaction to the next chapter of my life is hurting and disrespectful. In fact, I am disappointed. - I'm always here for you as I take you like a bigger brother. Crack a joke about how big brothers should be happy when their sisters get married. The guy is sensitive and needs kid gloves. Be firm, understanding, almost mother him. Bia, are you looking for him to sponsor your wedding?? Annabelle12344: |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by Mryacks: 1:01pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Well written... Mercychen: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by aneka785(m): 1:04pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
You can't have both of them. Let him go and face your life 1 Like |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by Hungerbadoo: 1:04pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Any married woman or man wey get bestie na ashawo, efulefu, idiot, akuna, useless LovePeddler. For those of you that are into relationship or married, faced your front and leave bestie matter. |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by Votukpa(m): 1:16pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
My conclusion: Leave poor girls from poor families alone. They CANNOT relate with humans without seeing them as some sort of benefit or opportunity to come up. Their poverty has made them too greedy to be righteous. This behavior will only birth an attitude of entitlement, lack of accountability and self-delusion. At the end, they will blame you for bringing yourself close to them. I blame that married man for being foolish and investing his money in a poor girl and her family. If the OP tries to say she isn't poor and didn't stick around for the fringe benefits, I would in turn ask her, "what made you act so immorally to the point of dating a married man for 4 years, while your immediate family was ok with it?" Poverty. If you had your own resources and was contented, and you still did what you did then I would say that you acted selfishly and wickedly, because you HAD A MAN WHO WAS INVESTING IN MARRIAGE WITH YOU ALREADY!! Bear your burden. Men, leave women alone. You will be alone anyway. |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by Chyma231(m): 1:22pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
This girl can lie !!!!!!!!!!!! Tufiakwa |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by Toonice(m): 1:37pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
I will only advice you when you are ready to tell us the whole truth about what happened between you and that man. Good luck |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by Nobody: 1:40pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Toonice:Then keep waiting. If you can't read or believe all I've said. |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by Nobody: 1:48pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Munzy14:Not everyone likes clubbing, some of us hate it with passion, stop using club girls attitude and behaviour to generalize |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by emmyN(m): 1:59pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
bukatyne: You didn't read where she said he asked her out? |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by fortunechy(m): 2:08pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Ur story is incomplete.... From ur write up I can sense that u dated this man. Infact, he's ur sugar daddy.... Meanwhile, the only advise u and other upcoming u is to desist from dating married men..... E get why?? |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by Stallione(m): 2:09pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
I dnt know why people keep posting trash here all the time. Ur bestie is hurting because ur getting married bla bla bla. Must u make it public, must u tell us that he is hurting. How does it reduce the country's problem. Stupid post 1 Like |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by BobbyJ1800: 2:10pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Mexzy4sho: Eweeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee.. i cant stop laughing.. carry ur cross.... Oluwa awa pelu eeeee |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by BobbyJ1800: 2:11pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
fortunechy: she wont stop ask me why...... |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by BobbyJ1800: 2:16pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
vagina people no go kill person with their excuses abeg... next chapter please..... |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by dudekennyboi(m): 2:18pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Let his wife know about the situation already That's of course if you don't have anything hiding Let his wife be his emotional saviour biko focus on your marriage |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by Munzy14(m): 2:21pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Iyaebe:Are you the OP? Did you say some of us? Hehehehehe speak for yourself o..Na who never see small stout in abundance go say hmmm that bitter thing.... Ooooh!!! I forgot daddy GO say people who party are evil people... |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by betterbest: 2:23pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Mercychen: Your brain is very sharp. I like you already 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by Nobody: 2:25pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Munzy14:So you are even among those club guys sef,you need to be born again,follow pastor Chris oyakhilome on YouTube and you will never remain the same |
Re: He's Hurting Because I'm Getting Married. by saasala(m): 2:35pm On Nov 13, 2021 |
Annabelle12344: You should be tied to a baobab tree and flogged mercilessly for toying with the heart of that man. The best thing to do at this point, and I mean it, is to fvck him. Let him enjoy your body. That is the only thing that will heal him. At least he don chop pekus; that is enough consolation. Bye! |
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