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Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by tomtomastom4: 12:02pm On Nov 18, 2021 |
debbydams: Not once, not twice. I have done that. |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by tomtomastom4: 12:03pm On Nov 18, 2021 |
Saintmary: Thank you so much. |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by tomtomastom4: 12:04pm On Nov 18, 2021 |
tosaino95: I have no comment on this one. But I cross my hrt on this. |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by benqo01(m): 12:51pm On Nov 18, 2021 |
Op you don't need any choking this time,cos your business will fetch you more money when it grows,I suggest she should just calm down cos at the end na she go enjoy am..... If she has been listening to sidetalks from her friends let her stop it cos things like this re initiated by friends,if dey enter her head too much it isnt good for her at all and that will affect her relationship with you. 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by debbydams(f): 1:26pm On Nov 18, 2021 |
tomtomastom4:play along, to avoid her stress |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by tomtomastom4: 6:09pm On Nov 18, 2021 |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by debbydams(f): 6:33pm On Nov 18, 2021 |
tomtomastom4:no, I mean don't argue with her, let her know u can't afford the gown,lf she doesn't listen den free her,u are a man u know what to do |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by tomtomastom4: 7:09pm On Nov 18, 2021 |
debbydams: Ok, now I get. Sure I knw wat to do. |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by debbydams(f): 8:02pm On Nov 18, 2021 |
tomtomastom4:this life is short and simple..I don't stress myself over relationship if it works fine if it doesn't we move, in as much my business is doing fine and I'm eating a good food, then I'm fine.. what's mine won't leave me. |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by tosaino95(m): 4:28am On Nov 19, 2021 |
tomtomastom4:make cross don go break on your heart |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by tomtomastom4: 11:19am On Nov 19, 2021 |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by tomtomastom4: 11:21am On Nov 19, 2021 |
debbydams: I fully understand you. Thanks for your time and advice. |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by killerdragon(m): 1:49pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
tomtomastom4:Hustle Leave that stupid girl alone and face your front When you have made it they will come running to you I repeat leave that idiot alone o |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by OlapejuB: 3:04pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
tomtomastom4: Sincerely what you need is not a break. No No! You need her all round support. Someone you are marrying should support your business by marketing it because if the biz is thriving she will enjoy from it, so now that it is at the beginning, let her join and do her best. But if she is not supporting and complaining, you can be excused based on her complaint till things turn out well and even then, you will think twice before continuing with her. My submission o! |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by tosaino95(m): 4:42pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
tomtomastom4:You know what you're saying, okay oh i wish Safe journey you already embark on. |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by tomtomastom4: 5:17pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
tosaino95:Thank you so much. |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by tomtomastom4: 5:18pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
OlapejuB: She's still in school. Not disposed to join the biz. |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by tomtomastom4: 5:18pm On Nov 19, 2021 |
killerdragon: |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by tomtomastom4: 12:59pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
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Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by markdamon90: 2:43pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
ask her first |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by larryking540: 2:48pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
Bola146:when a guy tells you ,he needs a break ,it literally means I want to be alone ,and it's might be 50 50 either we return back or relationship ends ,,,,nobody takes a break from relationship or marriage , I still don't know why we love to use terms used in Telemundo thinking everybody will accept such statement in real life , relationship no be Africa magic or Telemundo |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by tomtomastom4: 11:54am On Dec 05, 2021 |
Update. We have finally broken up. |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by tomtomastom4: 11:58am On Dec 05, 2021 |
About two weeks back, my friends tried to settle up, so that we would be back together. We all met in one eatery and they were advising. Cos they know that our relationship was serious and even planning to start our marriage process next year. So after all the talk and advice in my mind I agreed to have her back, but she said she needed to think about it and have some words with me alone. 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by tomtomastom4: 12:07pm On Dec 05, 2021 |
Two days later, she called me and both of us went back to the eatery to talk. She poured out her heart, stating her "grievances" to me and telling me that am not doing well to make her happy. (In her words). So I asked for clarification. She said that she can't go on with the relationship again, that if I can't take care of her now, how can I be able to take care of her when we are married and having babies and other responsibilities. She mentioned times and times when she made me know that she was broke and without money while in school, but I didn't respond by sending something. That if I really cared for her, that I don't have to wait till she make request for money before I send to her. She mentioned that I haven't for once given her money to buy cosmetics or to even make her hair. She went on and on. Then finally she said she can't continue with me again. Then I told her that I have heard her, but before I accept the break, she should send me a text message in the morning, informing me about her intention to break up with me. Lo and behold, she sent me the message in the afternoon of the following day. So officially, we have broken up. I feel really bad sha. Like I lost something very special to me. 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by tomtomastom4: 12:19pm On Dec 05, 2021 |
There is no doubt. From my side, I have not really been supportive of her. Though I tried in my own way. I knw very well, I haven't given her money in the name of making her hair or buying cosmetics, but I knw that within the last one year, at least twice a week I usually send some small cash to her just to support her. Though at one time, after her people where unable to complete her school fees before exam started, I paid up the balance, which was more than half of the fees. But then I have my parents and brothers to support, and that should be my priority. She too she have senior siblings too who are working, so I supposed that her siblings she help her out in her finances. When you say that someone is selfish or stingy, first of all find out his financial capacity and expenses before you conclude on that. 2 Likes |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by tomtomastom4: 12:29pm On Dec 05, 2021 |
I have learnt my lesson sha. Nothing concern me with any woman again. Let me just focus on myself and family. No need to start adding someone that will put pressure on me. when the work I do is giving me so much pressure. I feel emotionally down, but everything happens for good. At least since after I called for a break, all the time we spend at night making some calls, I have been using it to sleep and rest my head Mayb before I reason woman matter, e go take time. But then, why must it be that I will be the one to provide some of her needs. When my sis where in sch, I knw how our first son was doing all he can to send money to her. Back then when I was with him, I used to hear him call my sis and tell her when and how much he's going to send to her too. When I was in sch, my monthly up keep was coming from my brother, then when my sis started working, she was contributing half while my bro contribute half. Right now, our last born is in sch, am not the one sending him his monthly up keep, but every month I never fail to send money to him cos I don't a scenario where he will be managing. My former babe have 3 sisters and a guy ahead of her. One of the sister is in paramilitary and the bro is in Canada, is it not their responsibility to send money to her. Well, like I said, I have learnt my lesson. 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by tomtomastom4: 12:32pm On Dec 05, 2021 |
What I will say to ladies is that, when a guy approaches you for relationship/dating. Assess his financial capability before you accept him. Of his finance is low for your standard, please reject is advances so that you will be putting someone son under unnecessary pressure. When he doesn't actually have money to carter for your need, you will now be calling him stingy guy. Do you want him to go and steal. Also, it's good to note that even when you see his income flowing in, you should know that he has a family who are depending on him and that his family on a normal should be his priority. 1 Like |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by tomtomastom4: 12:39pm On Dec 05, 2021 |
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Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by Mariangeles(f): 1:13pm On Dec 05, 2021 |
Then I told her that I have heard her, but before I accept the break, she should send me a text message in the morning, informing me about her intention to break up with me. Why did you ask this of her? I believe you had a reason, and I'd like to know why if you don't mind sharing. Cc: Tomtomastom4 |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by tomtomastom4: 1:17pm On Dec 05, 2021 |
Mariangeles: Nothing serious. Just wanted her to go home, sleep over it and send me a message. Cos I knw, some people when pouring out their mind might end up saying what they didn't mean. So I was giving her the benefit of doubt. |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by Angelacruz: 1:28pm On Dec 05, 2021 |
This too shall pass tomtomastom4: |
Re: I Told My Girlfriend That I Needed A Break, Did I Do Wrong by Nobody: 1:34pm On Dec 05, 2021 |
tomtomastom4: Why would you do an update in an old thread? Those who read the previous post will not be able to follow it cos they won't know what page it is or even have the time to start checking. Better you create a new post afresh for the update. |
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