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Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by Supreme145(m): 2:28am On Nov 29, 2021
RealUncleJohn:
What's your niche??
Frontend web development
Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by Tzar(m): 5:46am On Nov 29, 2021
A contented lady who recognizes the potentials in the man can date such a guy.
But such women are so rare. There are also no guarantees that the man will settle down with such patient women after he becomes well to do.

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Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by Benferdy(m): 7:57am On Nov 29, 2021
Only ladies can relate to this: everyone is right on her opinion.

Restoration of love if possible
I'm writing on top of your voice
I feel I still have a choice
I never know is too late
I never know you're testing my knowledge all this while: you could at least let me know about the exam.
I always wished we're happier and our old stories will be a signals to our greatness.
I never feel this way all my life even when I wanted to behave like a Man: even when he warned me not to call you yet I can't pour out those memories of ours.... What's the meaning of life (me) ? You gave me reasons for living �: your kindness, caring and loving hearts have nothing to compare with.
My heart is killing the body I'm into
I'm sorry CJ-U: if we light up we can scare away the dark.
No choice of living: I caused it all (blame me but please �❣️� don't forsake me: I'm only a boy then). Beyond words..... I love you (Saltme)
Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:17am On Nov 29, 2021
INCREDIBLE007:


Uyai

Omo you are a beauty to behold

Ame yaya aboho

You are doing well

Tainks. smiley
Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by showafrica(m): 8:20am On Nov 29, 2021
heniford2:
Be buying stuff small small like pillow etc

For what na.. Dude say he is more interested in his future not the house or the ladies. He is my kind of guy.. I no dey value properties that won't bring money in return.
Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:21am On Nov 29, 2021
Zztt:
That’s why there are many single ladies

None want to struggle with a man

Why should we struggle with them when they'll later dump us when they find a better and soft landing. The world has evolved. Let everyone build themselves. No one loves suffering.
Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by Harrykn: 9:26am On Nov 29, 2021
megatran:


I rarely comment on here but I have to say this. Judging by your comment it seems you reside in Uyo. I do too and I must say judging from where I live and how most indigenous ladies do not value the space, I must say the OP won't wish he lived in uyo. I live in a well furnished 2bdrm apartment and it's almost like it is nothing. The ladies in this state are rich from their perspective. My two cents.
Yes o, I live in Uyo. Abeg you fit teach me any hustle ground nor balance here
Mek I contact you?
Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by jorrey(m): 9:45am On Nov 29, 2021
God bless you. It's only few ladies that can say things truthfully the way you made your points.

Datboredberry:
The guy living in this sort of apartment shouldn't even think of getting married.

Financial stability is as relevant as love... If not more...

As for dating, ofcourse! Somehow, it's fun...

I remember, I dated guy who invited me to his friend's home... Just like this!

There was a colourful mat on the floor... A bulb... It gave off a dim red light... I still think it was insanely romantic...

But I didn't love the guy tho... We spent minutes, he tried to get me to take off my clothes... With I was wriggling, trying to escape his tight grip on my waist... grin

Your neighbour is an idiot... For shaming your condition... Funny enough, it's men who set such high standards for themselves...

There are millions of ladies who wouldn't care what your home looks like... Damn! If your personality is great... I wouldn't mind if it's a mud house... Just enjoy the company...

If I date men in your condition... And I sincerely love him... them we would work together to build a better home...

But I definitely would not make you feel small... My own parents have been in situations where this would have been a castle... wink

And, bad times don't last... Just do your sh**... Avoid entitled hoes and don't let all the negative energy from your dumbass male friends get to you... Okay?

There are decent women..
Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by xjiggy: 9:50am On Nov 29, 2021
Supreme145:
I was on my own chilling jejely when my next door neighbor knocked on my door, he said I wanted movies so I let him into my room reluctantly. I hardly relate with my co tenant's beyond hi hi greeting so I was kinda uncomfortable letting him into my room.

He sat down and had this bewildered look on his face, the next thing I heard was, Bros omo you get mind dey stay inside this kind empty room o, so na ontop this kind flat bed you dey run all these your babes wey dey come see you ehhn....nawao you be badt guy oo. So na ontop this bed that one wey get big nyash dey even lie down with all slay queen shakara. He kept blabbing while I kept silent, I asked him so even if I want to buy a better it should be because of ladies baa, and he said ehhhn now, how you go dey run matters on top this mat. This someone that I gave transport fare to go and meet someone he said was owning him.

He kept quizzing me on how I'm able to attract ladies despite the vaguely furnished room, I went on to tell him that girls are not my problem now. Moreover I'm not dating most of them, I run projects for people so some of them are people I'm working for.

Even though I've developed a tough skin to this kind of negative comments, I was upset though I masked my embarrassment. But why do some guys feel everything must be to impress ladies, I for one don't have time for them and I'm fully focused of sharpening my programming skills in order to get a job before the year runs out so I can renew my rent by January. For someone that was once homeless and slept in lecture halls, this my current place is like a duplex to me, and how I got this place is still a miracle to me.

Hence my question is the room really that bad? I've visited some friends and my room is nothing to write home about. Is it so bad that the guy feels I am not worthy to have a girlfriend just because of it?

Ladies can you date or marry a guy living in this kind of apartment?
Bro, keep equipping your brain. GOD willing, that brain will build you house tomorrow. Don't listen to foolish talk
Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by INCREDIBLE007(m): 10:35am On Nov 29, 2021
UyaiIncomparabl:


Tainks. smiley

You are welcome

Ndo free agent o
Just incase

Ufan modo kudo
Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by MMXX: 12:37pm On Nov 29, 2021
Mogul750:
no bro
Alright

Good luck,God be with you

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Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by Pritipresh(f): 1:33pm On Nov 29, 2021
Am I marrying the house or the man? Some people have misplaced priority in this life

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Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by Eastcoastboy(m): 3:37pm On Nov 29, 2021
Mogul750:
i feel lonely bro, so i gat to buy it

Well it's cool
Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by Eastcoastboy(m): 3:40pm On Nov 29, 2021
Mogul750:
i feel lonely bro, so i gat to buy it

Can I PM you?
Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by Sleekfingers: 5:35pm On Nov 29, 2021
Supreme145:
I was on my own chilling jejely when my next door neighbor knocked on my door, he said I wanted movies so I let him into my room reluctantly. I hardly relate with my co tenant's beyond hi hi greeting so I was kinda uncomfortable letting him into my room.

He sat down and had this bewildered look on his face, the next thing I heard was, Bros omo you get mind dey stay inside this kind empty room o, so na ontop this kind flat bed you dey run all these your babes wey dey come see you ehhn....nawao you be badt guy oo. So na ontop this bed that one wey get big nyash dey even lie down with all slay queen shakara. He kept blabbing while I kept silent, I asked him so even if I want to buy a better it should be because of ladies baa, and he said ehhhn now, how you go dey run matters on top this mat. This someone that I gave transport fare to go and meet someone he said was owning him.

He kept quizzing me on how I'm able to attract ladies despite the vaguely furnished room, I went on to tell him that girls are not my problem now. Moreover I'm not dating most of them, I run projects for people so some of them are people I'm working for.

Even though I've developed a tough skin to this kind of negative comments, I was upset though I masked my embarrassment. But why do some guys feel everything must be to impress ladies, I for one don't have time for them and I'm fully focused of sharpening my programming skills in order to get a job before the year runs out so I can renew my rent by January. For someone that was once homeless and slept in lecture halls, this my current place is like a duplex to me, and how I got this place is still a miracle to me.

Hence my question is the room really that bad? I've visited some friends and my room is nothing to write home about. Is it so bad that the guy feels I am not worthy to have a girlfriend just because of it?

Ladies can you date or marry a guy living in this kind of apartment?



This is a sign of extreme poverty......if my daughter , present a guy living in this kinda crib to me. I will disown immediately.....as a matter of fact, I will send her mother away too.

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Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by petite626: 6:20pm On Nov 29, 2021
IF I FELL IN LOVE WITH HIM BEFORE SEEING THIS THEN YES IF NOT NOPESSSSSS
Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by Agricmoney(m): 9:39pm On Nov 29, 2021
which sector of Agriculture are you into?[/quote]


For this year, we undertook snail farming, poultry production and crop
Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by 90skid(f): 10:29am On Dec 01, 2021
ThisisIkemefuna:


Your story is funny because you make it sound like you were only pretending just as a bet that he had a bright future and would succeed and not because you really were a virtuous woman and that's your nature regardless of circumstances.
pretence is a strong word,i felt i was been tested cos i liked him and he was broke of all the guys around he was d only one i liked and i was gonna b doing a lot of giving .i made it sound funny cos it is funny.i lost my time,money,love even my confidence wen it went doing cos he never gave a reason and d only bet or gamble dat there was was me cos it was either he left or stayed and the truth is i am all d bright future i need trust me

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Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by 90skid(f): 10:31am On Dec 01, 2021
KingMilan:
Without much ado, I'd like to meet your acquaintance for a start.
very well my good sir
Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by ThisisIkemefuna(m): 5:15pm On Dec 01, 2021
90skid:

pretence is a strong word,i felt i was been tested cos i liked him and he was broke of all the guys around he was d only one i liked and i was gonna b doing a lot of giving .i made it sound funny cos it is funny.i lost my time,money,love even my confidence wen it went doing cos he never gave a reason and d only bet or gamble dat there was was me cos it was either he left or stayed and the truth is i am all d bright future i need trust me

Believe me I understand how devastating it is to be let down by those we loved and trusted. Betrayal from our loved ones is truly gut-retching. It takes a lot to recover from it. I am sorry that it happened to you and I hope your healing has been completed. I have had my own fair share and I think we all have. Will I do it again? Of course yes, because that's the only way I know how to truly be alive. I WOULD be more careful next time. But hell no, a bad experience will not change me into what I am not.
Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by Rosement(f): 5:36pm On Dec 01, 2021
Supreme145:
I was on my own chilling jejely when my next door neighbor knocked on my door, he said I wanted movies so I let him into my room reluctantly. I hardly relate with my co tenant's beyond hi hi greeting so I was kinda uncomfortable letting him into my room.

He sat down and had this bewildered look on his face, the next thing I heard was, Bros omo you get mind dey stay inside this kind empty room o, so na ontop this kind flat bed you dey run all these your babes wey dey come see you ehhn....nawao you be badt guy oo. So na ontop this bed that one wey get big nyash dey even lie down with all slay queen shakara. He kept blabbing while I kept silent, I asked him so even if I want to buy a better it should be because of ladies baa, and he said ehhhn now, how you go dey run matters on top this mat. This someone that I gave transport fare to go and meet someone he said was owning him.

He kept quizzing me on how I'm able to attract ladies despite the vaguely furnished room, I went on to tell him that girls are not my problem now. Moreover I'm not dating most of them, I run projects for people so some of them are people I'm working for.

Even though I've developed a tough skin to this kind of negative comments, I was upset though I masked my embarrassment. But why do some guys feel everything must be to impress ladies, I for one don't have time for them and I'm fully focused of sharpening my programming skills in order to get a job before the year runs out so I can renew my rent by January. For someone that was once homeless and slept in lecture halls, this my current place is like a duplex to me, and how I got this place is still a miracle to me.

Hence my question is the room really that bad? I've visited some friends and my room is nothing to write home about. Is it so bad that the guy feels I am not worthy to have a girlfriend just because of it?

Ladies can you date or marry a guy living in this kind of apartment?
Yes, I can date and marry a guy that is living in this kind of apartment as long as he plans on moving out of the house after marriage. After marriage, we will start bearing kids, I don't want my kids to live in such a house.

My parent struggled to give me a better life, I have to also struggle to give my kids a better life. Such house can be convenient for a single person but it will not be convenient for a family. This is my own personal choice, I'm not advising anybody to do the same.
Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by Agricmoney(m): 10:56pm On Dec 01, 2021
komodapson:


which sector of Agriculture are you into?



Na integrated o but the focus is on the ones easily wanted not to run into loss


Anyway, Agriculture is life
Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by Agricmoney(m): 10:59pm On Dec 01, 2021
Thazard:
[/b]


Please explain the bolded.


In a simple way, it just means most things we do revolve round it directly or indirectly. It is something that we can't do without in our daily life since we must eat to survive no matter the cost.


Anyway, Agriculture is life
Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by Thazard(m): 11:04pm On Dec 01, 2021
Agricmoney:



In a simple way, it just means most things we do revolve round it directly or indirectly. It is something that we can't do without in our daily life since we must eat to survive no matter the cost.


Anyway, Agriculture is life

Agriculture is one business I would like to delve into when I have the money because there are always customers for your products.


Are you into it?
Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by Agricmoney(m): 11:26pm On Dec 01, 2021
Thazard:


Agriculture is one business I would like to delve into when I have the money because there are always customers for your products.


Are you into it?


Yeah and that's why I am proud of it. But before you go into anyone, check it out first and do your feasibility studies not to run into errors or loose your money



Anyway, Agriculture is life
Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by Wealthinwealth1: 8:20am On Dec 02, 2021
Datboredberry:
The guy living in this sort of apartment shouldn't even think of getting married.

Financial stability is as relevant as love... If not more...

As for dating, ofcourse! Somehow, it's fun...

I remember, I dated guy who invited me to his friend's home... Just like this!

There was a colourful mat on the floor... A bulb... It gave off a dim red light... I still think it was insanely romantic...

But I didn't love the guy tho... We spent minutes, he tried to get me to take off my clothes... With I was wriggling, trying to escape his tight grip on my waist... grin

Your neighbour is an idiot... For shaming your condition... Funny enough, it's men who set such high standards for themselves...

There are millions of ladies who wouldn't care what your home looks like... Damn! If your personality is great... I wouldn't mind if it's a mud house... Just enjoy the company...

If I date men in your condition... And I sincerely love him... them we would work together to build a better home...

But I definitely would not make you feel small... My own parents have been in situations where this would have been a castle... wink

And, bad times don't last... Just do your sh**... Avoid entitled hoes and don't let all the negative energy from your dumbass male friends get to you... Okay?

There are decent women..
You sounded jst like my wife, we still have wonderful women around, God bless you sis. If only ladies could think this way, I was living in a place worse than where op was living as at last year march, still saved the pictures for my future book and documentary, my wife wasn't fazed she believed God in my future. When I told her I was a guy trying to find balance, she replied "THAT IS WHY SHE IS HERE" God that response can NEVER erase from my head. Fast forward to today we are in the United Kingdom, shes my account officer now, every money I make, I transfer into her naira account which means the transparency is there cos shes a God sent to me. OP, dont be fazed, all you jst need is trust in GOD and believe in yourself. Forget about knacking and keep on moving. My song when the pressure was much then was "I WILL DIG A LITTLE DEEPER, JESUS LOVE MUST BE SWEETER..." and God did it for me. I that was earning 15k as a teacher march 2020 with corona virus still putting a hold on it, by God's grace I earn X150 of it in a month and it will only get better than that by God's grace. I had to quote this wonderful lady cos my prayer for you this morning is if ur not yet married, your own God ordained man shall locate you in Jesus name. And incase you are married, your marriage shall be a heaven on earth in Jesus name. I love it when ladies are supportive. SHALOM

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Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by damo2014(m): 9:20am On Dec 02, 2021
seankim:
Rome was not built in a day.

Lol. Funnily though, it was destroyed in a day
Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by Hintona(f): 7:32pm On Dec 07, 2021
lkillbrokehoes:
Of course you can fall for anything sofra undecided

Why don't you mention Siofra directly?

You know that she'll finish you with insults.
Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by lkillbrokehoes: 5:09am On Dec 08, 2021
Hintona:


Why don't you mention Siofra directly?

You know that she'll finish you with insults.
Kiddo aren't you siofra? your alternate moniker siofra is languishing in Nairaland jail for trolling and insulting people, I've told you countless times to use your time for something positive, I wonder why kids like you don't listen to advice.
Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by Freelane33(m): 5:18am On Dec 08, 2021
Damn this reminds me of when I was in 100 level in the university some years back . Bro there is always light at the end of every tunnel . Trust me you’ll be okay
Re: Ladies Can You Date/Marry A Guy Living In This Kind Of Apartment? (Photos) by Hintona(f): 7:06am On Dec 08, 2021
lkillbrokehoes:
Kiddo aren't you siofra? your alternate moniker siofra is languishing in Nairaland jail for trolling and insulting people, I've told you countless times to use your time for something positive, I wonder why kids like you don't listen to advice.

Don't worry let her ban end first. She'll start with you.

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