Mexicanbreed:

Is Regina Daniel jobless, is she penniless

Candidlady:
Please I need a reason why any lady would agree to be a second wife?

Doubleoo:


Patewo fun ara re. Clap for yourself.

Now tell us why a lady would ask married men for financial help, date married men for money etc.

Let me sit down and learn.

Candidlady:


desperation is really killing some people! So i'd get despresd cuz iaint married!? You dont know me.

¤anyways we are diferent¤

have a lovely day

toujurs:
Nawa for you oh, you are talking like you don't know whats up,Most women are now commodity, its pay as you go. You pay and i will become yours. I know a guy that is married to a white woman at Germany, and still came down to Nigeria to marry a Nigerian. It's a common thing

Mariangeles:


Everything!

The man was never and can never be yours.

Oyin2212:
Wise sayings I'm shocked this came from you.

Mariangeles:


I actually know of a lady who agreed to the polygamy arrangement, with the agreement of the first wife of course.
The couple have been married for some years without a child, so the husband with the consent of his wife married the lady, and within a year, the second wife gave birth to twin boys.
The first wife and the second wife were cool with each other as at then, I don't know about now.

Some people have their reasons for going into such agreement sha.

1Sharon:


Nope. Regina has some advantage over her co-wives. She's the freshest and youngest.

Don't be surprised to know that Ned has forgotten his older wives.

If you want to be a co-wife, make sure you stand out, so you aren't forgotten.

Lucas4903:


You are not married and yet you have not learnt one or two things about life for you to know that life is not rigid. For the fact that u don't like being a second wife will not stop a lot of people from going into it and that's ur headache to deal with. What is wrong in minding your business and not judging people and let people just be fine where ever they find their happiness but do I blame you? NO. Prejudice is part of the Nigerian system. Everyone is a Saint and they can never fall into the mistake of the other person. Wehdone ma.

okonlahwon:
We should just be sincere with ourselves, You cannot be a second wife but you can date married man.
Your husband can use money to entice his female collogues, and put-on his car a/c for a little girl on campus for 7hrs in a spot.
You claim to be" Catholic priest" but you are struggling with sex abuse case in court.
Your husband develop love for a new chicks but he needs to put up trouble and file for divorce.
You see nothing wrong with "baby mama" but see plenty wrong with polygamous.
Otedola propose to your beautiful sister, your family vow to disown her if she refused to grab the offer.


Please who is fooling who!

Candidlady:


asin eh
ihad always thought it was charm!



he tells you he is married but he wanna make you a second wife. Men get mind sha!

Candidlady:


what is bad in becoming a second husband

Candidlady:


what is bad in becoming a second husband

Cerebellum:
When you reach 40 years, go Shiloh for years

Nah then you go geh sense to become 4th wife

Iyaebe:
Well I have aunties who are second and third wives and seems to be enjoying their life since Islam permits it.Some men especially the Muslim men are expert in handling a polygamous home but not all men have that wisdom to maintain a polygamous home, so polygamy isn't for every man even when the religion permits it.Well,I CAN/CAN'T accept polygamy for some secret reasons I won't like to mention here on this toxic forum.

1Sharon:


He used the German woman for citizenship.

When you play with people's heart and they pour you acid, you'll say women are wicked.

Magnoliaa:


Okay, and if the wife is open to that, too? Like genuinely, really open and the unbothered type? No. I ain't talking about the sneaky, snaky, hypocritical, poisoning type. But imagine if the two women are all vibes and good feelings. LMAO. Or maybe I'm just being idealistic with picturing two wives like this. And with a man. Yunno. I want to think there are some that have that much autonomy and self-awareness.

I explained further in another comment sha. Why polygamy generally is distasteful and would be seen as such. And that doesn't mean monogamy is automatically better, just because it is monogamy oh, in my view.

Yup. Being Muslims too is one reason.



Nothing. Absolutely nothing. Nothing wrong with that, too. Or should be wrong with it. If women can be second wives, men can be second husbands. It's only hypocritical men that'll support the former and not the latter. And I suspect they'll soon arrive here. If this topic was created for them now, all of their objectivity will fly out the window and you'll start hearing, 'men cannot be XYZ and igbadakodo.'



Ehen. This is an example.

emonis88:

Small pikin see agbo think say na coca cola, u can even marry as many husbands as u wish, Is anyone stopping u? Lol!!! Una go just come dey make mouth for here, talk d talk, n walk d walk, when u do then u go come tell us d story n lesson weh u learn. Hahaha!!!!!

Iyaebe:
How?is it by some of my comments here? don't be too fast on passing judgement over someone you haven't met.

Magnoliaa:


What's this one saying? Mscheeewww.

Candidlady:


asin eh
ihad always thought it was charm!



he tells you he is married but he wanna make you a second wife. Men get mind sha!

Solofresh2:
Yes, it's by your comments here.
And I don't know why you always attack men on most of your comments

dogmart:


Smiles. Even as an only wife if you don't stand well, you might still get forgotten.
There are a thousand and one side chicks out there.
I hope you get the point?

Well, it is understandable that women of today want equal rights in marriage.
It unfortunate fact is it cannot be so.

Either you agree your husband marries a second wife or not, you still will get to share him with other women.

Mariangeles:


I can't lie to you that I can be OK with that arrangement.

Skyview01:


Do you think a girl like Regina Daniel is enjoying her marriage?

Candidlady:


asin eh
ihad always thought it was charm!



he tells you he is married but he wanna make you a second wife. Men get mind sha!

MrBrownJay1:


- desperation to stay married at all cost
- money
- she has no other option than to accept because she is jobless/pennyless etc
- because she cant take the mental/physical workload to be a wife by herself
- because two is better than one
- because she has already been brainwashed by her hubby
- because it is commonly accepted in African culture
- because she grew up in a polygamous home/family