Lemmy123:


So he shouldn't make friends because he's married? Is it me or you're a little ill mannered?

Loreettaa:
Everyone expects you to be bad mannered.
If you're good mannered and very beautiful, it's too good to be true. You're pretending.

Everyone expects you to be getting constant male attention. Meanwhile, most men are very wary of extremely good looking women and would rather approach average ones to boost their ego.

People can't just accept it that you're single. Like singularly single. Somehow, they think you're lying because they expect men to be flooding your DM.

Others expect you to use your beauty to secure privilege. "How can a beautiful lady like you be jobless? Or broke?" they say.

Men think you're getting constant sex. Especially if you have a pretty face with a "hot" body. It's almost unbelievable if she's fair skinned and claims to be a virgin.

You can add your own.

LadyD22:


The one I hate is ppl thinking I have everything in life , I get asked out once in a decade
its like there's a good boy repellent somewhere around me , the good guys look at me like I'm arrogant and then the bad ones come and they're coming coz they want to prove something to their friends not coz they like you , my ex literary came because his friend wanted to ,
I'm 21 never fallen in love and never been loved by a guy either , I keep hearing that I'm beautiful but I didn't feel beautiful until just recently ( age) coz like I have a friend that I knew I was better than ( personality , physical , academically, morally etc) and she's getting asked out back to back , gifts left and right and finally got a man that loves her like mad , this a friend that we had issues coz she admitted she was jealous in the past ( she didn't know I was the one that was supposed to be jealous).

Its lust everywhere , no one wants to keep you around.
The few men that approach me want to be like decoration , ghost mode , its always " you don't know what I face , you have this you have that " " I won't give you this I don't want to spoil you "
I'm not a virgin but when I was no one believed me oh only my friends
I was in a business group one time , at first I felt good that ppl come to my DM to tell me I'm pretty (even girls) but later it got depressing because what will I use your compliments to do , when its time for business they won't remember fine face oh , I had to take down my profile pic and I stayed like that , ppl started to think I was a man which was better for me.
My friends keep telling me there's nothing wrong with me , at the right time someone will love you , and luckily for me I have very lovely friends , God used them to compensate my "barely there" relationship life.
I only had few chances when I was much younger to actually know that I was not ugly especially in my last years of highschool , but now ehn everybody dey vex for me oh , nobody get my time again
Las las e fit be say na arranged marriage I go enter , na my papa prayer but God forbid

Loreettaa:

I'm a few years older than you. And I'll say you put it succinctly. Most beautiful ladies WHO DON'T SHOW SKIN hardly get asked out. People assume you're taken. Period. I'm not miss world but I look good, dress well. So I know what you're saying has a lot of truth to it.
Na married men dey stand ontop my matter. Most of the single guys coming are in the university, job hunters and that's even online. Offline, I hardly get toasters.
I like you. I'd like to be your friend if you don't mind.

LadyD22:


Omo I tire for married men issue oh , I come dey wonder whether person dey do me for village
Same with me , the ones I like will look at me like I'm just not it , you go see wey person look you commot face with that "she's one of them " look
Yeah its okay for me but I'm really not comfortable posting my number here so maybe you can send your number to my email I'll message you on WhatsApp

Loreettaa:

Lol. Married men are daring where sinhle guys don't. Some it's after marriage that their eyes will be open to see your beauty.
Not today, satan

I just sent you a mail. You should edit your post so nairaland boys don't start disturbing you anyhow.

Loreettaa:

Lol. Married men are daring where sinhle guys don't. Some it's after marriage that their eyes will be open to see your beauty.
Not today, satan

I just sent you a mail. You should edit your post so nairaland boys don't start disturbing you anyhow.

LadyD22:

Didn't get your mail yet

obinna58:

No, I like to see beauties
Once had a very beautiful girl but I had to run for dear life, most of these beautiful girls thinks they're doing a favor dating you.


Most Beautiful girls claim not to have weaknesses but everyman wants to see the weak sides of his woman
Imagine seeing beauties cry for you.... So romantic

They have No loyalty

Ex0rcist:

Mine's beautiful but she's loyal asf. Not all of them are heartless though. That part of beauties crying for you got me though....its really romantic. I just look at her for some minutes doing nothing just looking at her face and can't help it but laugh at how such a beauty could be so loyal. Three years now, still going strong. I'm gonna make sure I wife her.

Divoc19:
Coffee shop, somewhere online

Idaytesj29:


Somewhere in real life, if you don't mind.

Divoc19:
Am thinking how possible that could be...cos I only hangout online

Idaytesj29:


We live in the world of possibilities. If we really want to do something, as human, we can make it happen by our determination to make it happen.

You should try offline hangout too, with me.

LadyD22:


The one I hate is ppl thinking I have everything in life , I get asked out once in a decade
its like there's a good boy repellent somewhere around me , the good guys look at me like I'm arrogant and then the bad ones come and they're coming coz they want to prove something to their friends not coz they like you , my ex literary came because his friend wanted to ,
I'm 21 never fallen in love and never been loved by a guy either , I keep hearing that I'm beautiful but I didn't feel beautiful until just recently ( age) coz like I have a friend that I knew I was better than ( personality , physical , academically, morally etc) and she's getting asked out back to back , gifts left and right and finally got a man that loves her like mad , this a friend that we had issues coz she admitted she was jealous in the past ( she didn't know I was the one that was supposed to be jealous).

Its lust everywhere , no one wants to keep you around.
The few men that approach me want to be like decoration , ghost mode , its always " you don't know what I face , you have this you have that " " I won't give you this I don't want to spoil you "
I'm not a virgin but when I was no one believed me oh only my friends
I was in a business group one time , at first I felt good that ppl come to my DM to tell me I'm pretty (even girls) but later it got depressing because what will I use your compliments to do , when its time for business they won't remember fine face oh , I had to take down my profile pic and I stayed like that , ppl started to think I was a man which was better for me.
My friends keep telling me there's nothing wrong with me , at the right time someone will love you , and luckily for me I have very lovely friends , God used them to compensate my "barely there" relationship life.
I only had few chances when I was much younger to actually know that I was not ugly especially in my last years of highschool , but now ehn everybody dey vex for me oh , nobody get my time again
Las las e fit be say na arranged marriage I go enter , na my papa prayer but God forbid

Dmacqh:

When you are beautiful and wise , you don’t need to market yourself. All you need to is make sure you are well packaged , show the humane side of you . Have something to offer . Not only body and sex . Also some beautiful girls I’ve been with comes off with entitled mentality . They expect to command the attention of Davido and Wizkid and CR7 . That’s not good . And most times they rub the beauty on the faces of their partners .
Don’t forget insecurity, it takes grace and discipline for a beautiful girl to be humble . Little quarrel , she expects you to beg her because she’s a beautiful.
The only girl , I loved , my ex ( we both deflowered ourselves ) was a good example . She was loyal , humble but changed. Her beauty took her places , I couldn’t take her to , exposed her etc, she changed . Normally , we are open to each other , I apologize if I’m wrong , same with her , but after the sometime , if I don’t call for 2 days , she won’t call . I also noticed that she comes around mostly for sex. I managed a bit , but concluded , that last last , man need make money . I’ve to let her go . She never believe I could do that , maybe because she’s beautiful. So once my leg work click by God grace , I’ll definitely look for a beautiful one both( face and soul ) and date . For now , let me be useful to myself , my parents and siblings , and make excess money .

LadyD22:


Good luck , I hope you find what you're looking for , and sometimes it happens like that , when ppl tell you nice things about yourself on a regular basis , it starts to get to your head , I'm guessing that's what happened to your ex

sageb:


Succinctly said
Do you reside in Delta state?

Estherqueen50:
Nope reside in Lagos State. Sorry for the late reply.

Eleyigidgan:
give me your number

Loreettaa:
Everyone expects you to be bad mannered.
If you're good mannered and very beautiful, it's too good to be true. You're pretending.

Everyone expects you to be getting constant male attention. Meanwhile, most men are very wary of extremely good looking women and would rather approach average ones to boost their ego.

People can't just accept it that you're single. Like singularly single. Somehow, they think you're lying because they expect men to be flooding your DM.

Others expect you to use your beauty to secure privilege. "How can a beautiful lady like you be jobless? Or broke?" they say.

Men think you're getting constant sex. Especially if you have a pretty face with a "hot" body. It's almost unbelievable if she's fair skinned and claims to be a virgin.

You can add your own.