Rickmann:



You very correct..
Sometimes been too good-looking could even be a problem in this country and this phenomenon applies to both genders. Having too many admires and constant DMs puts you on the edge sort off and you get confused cos a large percentage of people around you are stereoscopic (they saying the same stuff and using same methods) which bores you.

Exactly! Very boring.

A least post your pic
Let's see the "beautiful"

placeofallure:
Seeing is believing. Look again

she's grownup...

Loreettaa:

If she keeps to herself, her beauty is getting to her head.
If she takes care of herself and enjoys soft life, one rich man is involved.
If she doesn't, she's a fo.ol.
If she is still single, maybe she has bad manners or she's too picky.
Whatever she does will always be tied to her looks.

Its a tough one, quet dicey

What people think or say remains an opinion, and they say everyone is entitle to there opinion however, you as a person from time to time check yourself (m/f), review ur taste & expectations, check feasibility and simply make adjustment if necessary thats how to make progress.
Worry less about what people think and be more curious about what yu aint doing right

Loreettaa:

What's so wrong with being aware of your beauty? Handsome men don't shy away from theirs, some are very cocky about it and the sky hasn't fallen. What's with this mindset of beautiful women downplaying their good looks so as not to seem vain to men?

Downplaying, like seriously whats happens to just being "Normal" ...

@placeofallure do you now see where the generalization is coming from

placeofallure:

Seeing is believing. Look again

in your mind now, you are beautiful? Huh

Loreettaa:

What's so wrong with being aware of your beauty? Handsome men don't shy away from theirs, some are very cocky about it and the sky hasn't fallen. What's with this mindset of beautiful women downplaying their good looks so as not to seem vain to men?

How is she downplaying her beauty?? By being respectful and courteous??

Favfables1:


How is she downplaying her beauty?? By being respectful and courteous??

You can be both beautiful, kind, and confident (what weak people mistake for pride).

Loreettaa:

If she keeps to herself, her beauty is getting to her head.
If she takes care of herself and enjoys soft life, one rich man is involved.
If she doesn't, she's a fo.ol.
If she is still single, maybe she has bad manners or she's too picky.
Whatever she does will always be tied to her looks.

Better stop minding people and live your life.

AdeOri99:

Better stop minding people and live your life.

I'm writing generically, not just talking about my person.

Loreettaa:
Everyone expects you to be bad mannered.
If you're good mannered and very beautiful, it's too good to be true. You're pretending.

Everyone expects you to be getting constant male attention. Meanwhile, most men are very wary of extremely good looking women and would rather approach average ones to boost their ego.

People can't just accept it that you're single. Like singularly single. Somehow, they think you're lying because they expect men to be flooding your DM.

Others expect you to use your beauty to secure privilege. "How can a beautiful lady like you be jobless? Or broke?" they say.

Men think you're getting constant sex. Especially if you have a pretty face with a "hot" body. It's almost unbelievable if she's fair skinned and claims to be a virgin.

You can add your own.

Yeah, especially the last part.. They will even assume you're planning your wedding already

placeofallure:
Back in my university days, I was a Jambite and lived with my 400 level-accounting big sister and her two friends. One of her friends borrowed a book from a medico student (a guy) in the neighborhood. He came that afternoon to collect his book and I was the only one at home. After welcoming him, I offered to search around for the book. I didn't see it and I told him so. He left afterwards. We later became friends. It was then he confessed that he used to think I'm a snub, that he always wondered how a girl could be so beautiful and still be courteous and respectful. His friends too couldn't believe it.

I never lack the company of the opposite sex, even younger men up till tomorrow. Now, I don't see beauty as anything. I believe in a woman being smart, resourceful, homely and humane. That's what's more important. If you have physical beauty as a woman, it's just an icing on the cake. That's why my beauty doesn't ever get into my head. It's relative.

But you don't have a photo

obinna58:

But you don't have a photo

So you can mock her right?
Lalasticlala, front page please.

Loreettaa:

So you can mock her right?
Lalasticlala, front page please.

No, I like to see beauties
Once had a very beautiful girl but I had to run for dear life, most of these beautiful girls thinks they're doing a favor dating you.


Most Beautiful girls claim not to have weaknesses but everyman wants to see the weak sides of his woman
Imagine seeing beauties cry for you.... So romantic

They have No loyalty

obinna58:

No, I like to see beauties
Once had a very beautiful girl but I had to run for dear life, most of these beautiful girls thinks they're doing a favor dating you.


Most Beautiful girls claim not to have weaknesses but everyman wants to see the weak sides of his woman
Imagine seeing beauties cry for you.... So romantic

They have No royalty

In other words you prefer a downtrodden, low self esteem beauty you can Lord over. Because I'm not understanding the "cry for you" part.

There are still some beautiful women who have none of these problems. Some men are just so lucky with gfs or wives; blessed with beautiful ladies with virtues. I pray for such good luck, too.

brosom:
Unfortunately, that's of the bad of being too beautiful.

It comes at a cost

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, Beyoncé is an ugly duckling to so many men.

Loreettaa:
Everyone expects you to be bad mannered.
If you're good mannered and very beautiful, it's too good to be true. You're pretending.

Everyone expects you to be getting constant male attention. Meanwhile, most men are very wary of extremely good looking women and would rather approach average ones to boost their ego.

People can't just accept it that you're single. Like singularly single. Somehow, they think you're lying because they expect men to be flooding your DM.

Others expect you to use your beauty to secure privilege. "How can a beautiful lady like you be jobless? Or broke?" they say.

Men think you're getting constant sex. Especially if you have a pretty face with a "hot" body. It's almost unbelievable if she's fair skinned and claims to be a virgin.

You can add your own.

@OP: Aunty rest, who be fool?

Beautiful has different meanings.
Some looks
Some brain
Some body physique
Some intelligent conversation
Some religious beliefs
But in all, LOOKS and BODY PHYSIQUE dey suffer pass bcus they think everything revolves about that and it gets to them hence most guys just go in for kill and once done. The move unto the NEXT!!!

fine girls like us.. Our bf dey use us do yahoo

Divoc19:
Beauty for me is in the brain.
A smart and intelligent girl is beautiful... like, I have to interact with you (literate or not) before I can conclude your are beautiful or not.

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You will need to write your own dictionary to redefine beauty without the aesthetic appeals.

Beauty is beauty. Intelligent is intelligent. Two different things. Both may be mutually exclusive.
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True sha, same thing as men

OP, are you beautiful and single, are you nice?

I’m fair and broke

True talk

But the truth of the matter is that,on an average,55% of the men we have outchea are so much into this ➡️https://www.nairaland.com/6850602 that's why problems do evolve in Relationships and marriages

That second girl no sabi wear that top, that top no need bra na, she is meant to sample her nipples with that top na

If the OP is beautiful and single, I'm officially asking her out.

That one na your wahala, don't stress me

A beautiful lady is like a magnet that can never go unnoticed without attracting Irons and metals which are seen as men.

I remember during my service year this beautiful corper every corper in my cds group wanted to knack at all cost... Including the local villagers and students. Mehn this babe na beauty personified. I regret not having my share even when it was freely served at my table.
She's happily married and still retain her beauty and sexy look.

Rexwalters1:
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, Beyoncé is an ugly duckling to so many men.

Did u even read before comments?

The thread could only have made a bit sense assuming that a woman who is beautiful created it. With your apple shaped head and owl looking face, you lack the privilege to know what it takes to be a beautiful woman. I hope people are not mistaken the stolen photo on your DP here as your real photo.