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Re: What Can This Family Do? by VTJN(m): 8:41am On Nov 30, 2021 |
Karleb:That is a wrong choice of word to use. Imagine the woman wasn't helped to have family planning, she probably might have had another child/ren. Life isn't the way you preview it. We all can't mind our business and put a deaf ears and blindfolded eyes to things happening. If you can't look for means in your very little way to make life better for your fellow humans then you have no business claiming to love God Imagine when the woman son was arrested for stealing phone and Op father focus on his own problem or mind his business, that boy might have gone way too far beyond redemption now OP is on course. What he does is highly commendable. You know we all don't have same mindset. Op probably don't have the mentality of minding his own business when things are going so wrong despite his present condition. While you on the other hand might probably ignore it This is pure love. This is the love Christ expected from us and not those fake romantic love 3 Likes |
Re: What Can This Family Do? by Nobody: 8:57am On Nov 30, 2021 |
Ishilove: My suggestion is that parents are to be heavily taxed, while all kids are taken care of by the government |
Re: What Can This Family Do? by Nobody: 9:18am On Nov 30, 2021 |
In my opinion, it should be mandatory for every kid to be taken care of by the government, while the parents are heavily taxed depending on how many kids they had. Sincerely, if I ever become the leader of this country, I shall take this seriously to secure the future of the nation, most parent don't train their kids at all, I am orphan that has lived with a couple of people, so I know. And if you argue that this isn't possible cause if democracy, well you are right, but don't you think it is high time we switch from democracy. Democracy is supposed to be a government of the people, but Nigerian can't rule themselves, and this is very evident in family settings, most nigerians prefer taking instruction from someone they can trust and hold accountable, and laments at the lack of people to trust, therefore, i believe If you can prove to be that person, you will never had a problem ruling this nation, provided you do not follow the democracy policy and you are transparent enough for people to trust you. |
Re: What Can This Family Do? by AmazonTopaz(f): 12:16pm On Nov 30, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: This is a powerful statement. I weak 2 Likes |
Re: What Can This Family Do? by Karleb(m): 12:29pm On Nov 30, 2021 |
VTJN: Where did I claim I loved God? Pure love? Love christ expected from us? What are you talking about? You are the the one using the wrong words here. A set of individual can not be creating problems for another set of people to take care of it. Even teenagers know if they have sex, they'd get pregnant. Most teenagers know what a condom is and how to use it, how much more a married woman?. I'm sure the woman in question has been to ante-natal at least once in her life and over there at ante-natal, they teach them various ways to prevent pregnancy. What of the irresponsible husband that turned his wife's private part to consolation for poverty? 6 kids and the eldest being 13 means they were having new baby every 2 years. Maybe the guy should marry the woman and take responsibility for the 6 kids on his N25k salary or he can face his front and seek for his own help because, obviously, he needs it. I hate irresponsible people in my life. 3 Likes |
Re: What Can This Family Do? by Karleb(m): 12:41pm On Nov 30, 2021 |
Oizee: Stop pitying her. I have one like that in my neighborhood, 6 kids and the eldest is not upto 11. She had a baby in 2019. She had another in 2020. She's not even upto 30. Husband na okada man with betting addiction, wife na tailor wey no get shop. They were in abject poverty. I'm just happy for the kids because somehow somehow, she travelled abroad this year. |
Re: What Can This Family Do? by Spherical77(m): 3:28pm On Nov 30, 2021 |
Karleb:Since You said the Op should leave the family to rot in perpetual suffering. Also, from your statement @Bolded. Would you help the Op? I believed you aren't talking for nothing. You meant every tiny words you said. Starting from the Op should leave the family to continue living their misery life and should stop looking for how to ease their burden. Then you later said the Op should focus on his life that it's quite obvious that he also needs help The question is, will you help the Op who is responsible, educated but just unfortunate of the Nigeria system in getting a reasonable job? Don't forget you claimed to hate irresponsible people in your life. I believed Op is very much responsible. Do you mind helping him? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Can This Family Do? by Kobojunkie: 4:25pm On Nov 30, 2021 |
Karleb:This is Nigeria where people still make excuses for the most foolish of things. The couple had all 6 kids in the span of 9 years, not one kid every two years, more like 1 every year and half. Na for house she take born those children wey she no know say family planning be a thing? Any solution that does not include a vasectomy for that man and maybe the tying off of the woman's tube is likely to turn out a joke. |
Re: What Can This Family Do? by Kobojunkie: 4:28pm On Nov 30, 2021 |
Karleb:The foolishness dey here as well oo. Many Nigerians here carry that same mentality enter abroad too. 1 Like |
Re: What Can This Family Do? by izzygoing(f): 12:22am On Dec 01, 2021 |
tensazangetsu20: You don't have to curse other people's children when you are not God, you call them foolish and you forget that God uses the foolish things of the world to justify the overwise like you. If you are wise enough you won't make such derogatory statement about those children or their family. You mustn't comment on everything, you can ignore things that doesn't please you. Those children can be better than you or your children tomorrow but I don't wish you evil, no person is God and know one knows what the future holds for anyone in this life, so don't talk like you have seen their end or what will become of them in the future. Who was our Ex President's (Obasanjo) father? and what was their family background? There are people who were very poor and later became very rich in this life and those who were very rich and became very poor afterwards. He who mocks the poor, mocks his creator and he who gives to the poor lends to God and surely will get his/ her reward. If you cannot help someone or a group of persons, please don't discourage others who may be willing to help, if you don't have a good heart or compassion, it does not mean others shouldn't have, always show compassion towards others no matter what you may think was their mistakes in your own eyes or perception and don't display your hate in the public because it defines you as a person. You can contribute in helping someone in many ways, by prayer, advice and by giving what you can afford. Don't think it's the number of children they parents have that put them into suffering, yes, it can amplify it because of many overheads, most times it's lack of proper planning for the future, lack of education, lack of skills, lack of employment or life mistakes and also an enemy can be the cause of any person's suffering. There are people who were very rich many years before and now become poor, death can even make one's children or family to suffer, unemployment, and too many factors, so do not act as if you have the antidote for suffering or you are immune to suffering because anything can happen to the wisest, the smartest and richest people in this life and everything they laboured for will disappear in a blink. Before, when I hear that someone committed suicide I would say "Why would someone kill him or herself?", but experience of life have thought me that people commit suicide when they have reached their breaking point or elastic limit where death becomes meaningful than life itself and at that point the switch will occur. Just pray that the unexpected doesn't happen to you or your loved ones and you see yourself in a helpless situation because a man's wisdom is foolishness before God. Blessed are the merciful, for the shall obtain mercy. Some have food but they cannot eat Some can eat but they have no food If you have food and can eat, then Glory to God. May the Lord bless and provide for his children everywhere, who may be in pain, difficulty, sickness for his truth and righteousness sake. Amen! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Can This Family Do? by blessedvisky(m): 12:50am On Dec 01, 2021 |
Trios: The problem with your suggestion is that, 9 out of ten times, they will require more and more help in a geometric progression. How many people can keep up with that? Charity and giving is not that easy o 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Can This Family Do? by Spherical77(m): 5:49pm On Dec 01, 2021 |
blessedvisky:Yes you're right. But i think giving them just money no matter the amount without guiding them through would mostly result coming back to you Enrolling those kids in school Establishing a business for the man and woman Have a descent accommodation I believed this will go along way in helping the family and stop the children from being exposed to the public. 3 Likes |
Re: What Can This Family Do? by blessedvisky(m): 12:12am On Dec 02, 2021 |
Spherical77:Good point. Too many people live their lives waiting for life to happen to them. Zero or poor planning Zero financial education Zero / poor Social skills Waiting for 'Helper' Giveaway Oniduro or Big god to settle bills that were carelessly incurred. It's time to start teaching the younger generations these things and I've started already 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: What Can This Family Do? by JeffreyJunior: 4:42am On Dec 04, 2021 |
Villa12:Great job sir. Thank you and I hope potential helpers will now know how to proceed. 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: What Can This Family Do? by Spherical77(m): 6:55am On Dec 15, 2021 |
@Mynd44, Seun, Dominique, lalasticlala, OAM4J etc. Please take this to front page for wider view These are the likes of what should grace front page. Please Mods, take this post to front page. Pity the family abeg |
Re: What Can This Family Do? by VTJN(m): 5:26pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Villa12:@MMotimo please this family is going through hard time. They'd sincerely appreciate the food items or any other thing available It saddened my heart to have read what the family had gone through. Please ma, this family would eternally be grateful if you can help in any little way Btw, I'm so sorry to have mentioned you on a dead thread without your permission. Gracias! |
Re: What Can This Family Do? by funkyjaay: 8:22pm On Aug 06, 2022 |
They most be willin to take responsibility for they lives.there are NGOswith good programmes that would help them; such as save the children,women for women but their programmes are for a specific periods. while the send some to learn some hand work and also engage in subsistence farming to support themselves |
Re: What Can This Family Do? by Kobojunkie: 10:09pm On Aug 06, 2022 |
funkyjaay:Any such program ought to require the man to undergo a vasectomy and the woman have her tubed tied in order to be effective. Else those monkeys are bound to continue having more kids without stop. |
Re: What Can This Family Do? by seguno2: 12:22pm On Nov 16, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Please what else do extreme poverty paupers have to entertain themselves apart from sex and procreation |
Re: What Can This Family Do? by Kobojunkie: 2:57pm On Nov 16, 2023 |
seguno2:Sex as a form of entertainment maybe but procreation? Come on that is pure evil! |
Re: What Can This Family Do? by Kobojunkie: 3:21pm On Nov 16, 2023 |
Village, you never come tell us whether dem don add another mouth or if the woman don dey get sense since your last report. |
Re: What Can This Family Do? by Villa12(m): 9:29am On May 05 |
Good morning boss. @goldenval Please sir I really need your help. I'm teaching in a private school and we just resume last week. Till month end before I'd get paid. I wasn't paid April salary because school was on holiday. I don't have anything to eat at home. I earn 40k monthly and i support my parents and siblings from it. There's nothing in the house that my family will eat. Please boss help me. I'm even using my mum button phone to type. My phone was stolen @Iyana ipaja when i went for a job interview last two month. I can send you evidence that I'm working as a teacher if you don't mind. Please boss help me. |
Re: What Can This Family Do? by VeryDarkMan01(m): 8:47pm On Jun 08 |
Villa12: What of the family yo wanted us to help No update about them again Is It you we should help now Choose one the family or you 1 Like |
Re: What Can This Family Do? by Sapasenator: 9:21pm On Jun 08 |
Zero pity for these kind of people. Absolute zero pity from my side for anyone who knowingly births children into known poverty. The poor should be restricted to only one child IMO. I just feel for the poor kids but they are the Let the woman continue to roll on the floor, she go soon get pregnant again when oga returns. 1 Like |
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