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Groom Disappears On His Wedding Day, Bride Goes Ahead With The Event In U.K / Advice Needed: Should I Go Ahead With The Introduction / My Fiancee Betrayed Me: Should I Go Ahead With The Marriage Plans? (2) (3) (4)
Re: Can We Still Go Ahead With The Introduction Plan?pls Advice by yungchop: 8:54am On Dec 03, 2021 |
Mercychen: Mehn!!! F A C T ! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Can We Still Go Ahead With The Introduction Plan?pls Advice by yungchop: 9:15am On Dec 03, 2021 |
OSDD: I dey tell you boss.. She go just kill the bros perfectly without leaving any trace |
Re: Can We Still Go Ahead With The Introduction Plan?pls Advice by VicUkegbu(m): 9:29am On Dec 03, 2021 |
Amiralord: From what you are saying I guess you have actually made up your mind... Just like the saying " You can drag a horse to the stream but cannot force it to drink"... This is what you want to hear " Marry her, keep her and start a family", but you must be fooling yourself. Well the ball is in your court. Please don't come back here after 3yrs lamenting how your wife did this and that... Try to use your head.. Be a man!!! |
Re: Can We Still Go Ahead With The Introduction Plan?pls Advice by Amiralord: 9:31am On Dec 03, 2021 |
VicUkegbu: Am done with the relationship bro |
Re: Can We Still Go Ahead With The Introduction Plan?pls Advice by VicUkegbu(m): 9:35am On Dec 03, 2021 |
Amiralord: It must be hard on you but that's the wise decision to make... |
Re: Can We Still Go Ahead With The Introduction Plan?pls Advice by omotoshodontee1: 9:53am On Dec 03, 2021 |
So many people av make costly decision because of this shit called LOVE.. pls don't join the queue bro..nah beg I beg u |
Re: Can We Still Go Ahead With The Introduction Plan?pls Advice by Finewarriboy: 10:07am On Dec 03, 2021 |
Thank you all for saving this brother... If you still go ahead with her, please don't come back to show your foolery here. A girl like that is a snake, you must drive her away at all cost... Avoid her for life. Bear the heart break, you will get over it. If you mistakenly marry that one, you will either commit suicide or she will kill you or just rarely, you will be ruined for life only Take the advise of everyone here telling you to run. Don't even see her again cos it's obvious she can manipulate you with sentiments, just avoid her all together. Good luck. |
Re: Can We Still Go Ahead With The Introduction Plan?pls Advice by abdullahi45: 10:24am On Dec 03, 2021 |
yungchop: Aameen and you too. Aameen You said it all |
Re: Can We Still Go Ahead With The Introduction Plan?pls Advice by abdullahi45: 10:25am On Dec 03, 2021 |
yungchop: You are welcome bro. Wa iyyaka bikhayr. Aameen |
Re: Can We Still Go Ahead With The Introduction Plan?pls Advice by Keji1012(m): 10:28am On Dec 03, 2021 |
Amiralord: Never trust a lady that can swear in vain.. Remember Chidinma Ojukwu |
Re: Can We Still Go Ahead With The Introduction Plan?pls Advice by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 11:52am On Dec 03, 2021 |
Amiralord: Ladies can cry and swear with their lives and stilll be lying. By the way, was she dating the news vendor man ? |
Re: Can We Still Go Ahead With The Introduction Plan?pls Advice by olola4(m): 12:14pm On Dec 03, 2021 |
Amiralord: You are very funny bro, if you never come into her life in the first instance maybe she will have met a better person, don't think of what will become of her, leave her now or let her sins continue to hunt you for the rest of your life. She is very desceptive and manipulative, all she want from you is marriage, after you guys are married, bro just go and write your will and start digging your grave. |
Re: Can We Still Go Ahead With The Introduction Plan?pls Advice by Amiralord: 12:31pm On Dec 03, 2021 |
MyVILLAGEpeople: The conversation I saw was suspicious |
Re: Can We Still Go Ahead With The Introduction Plan?pls Advice by nokspos: 1:12pm On Dec 03, 2021 |
Amiralord , you've been sleeping with someone else's wife and you are saying you don't know where to start from, start from asking God for forgiveness. Secondly, you want to marry someone but you don't know her house. when you finish begging God for forgiveness, beg God for sense. after that, Delete her number and move on . Get some nice bathing soaps, cloths, shoes and perfume, cleanup then start over again. No pressure: Elon must married at 42 Bill Gate married at 39 Larry Allison married ant 59 Olu Jacob Married at 45 Jay-z married at 39 And they are all very wealthy and happy. be careful 2 Likes |
Re: Can We Still Go Ahead With The Introduction Plan?pls Advice by Amiralord: 1:30pm On Dec 03, 2021 |
nokspos: You got me really badly I detest married woman, single mothers,but here I am,I will pick up my little pieces sir |
Re: Can We Still Go Ahead With The Introduction Plan?pls Advice by OSDD(m): 1:32pm On Dec 03, 2021 |
yungchop:Bros, if she kill am, e go even dey okay.. No be today person dey die, las las we go type RIP for the post... She will use him and dump him in a foreign land, considering the law that empowers women over there, she fit claim say he wan kill her(with teary eyes and they will believe her) or make his life a living hell... But what do I know, I Never marry before |
Re: Can We Still Go Ahead With The Introduction Plan?pls Advice by Deffjam: 1:51pm On Dec 03, 2021 |
This story is completely haox...........fallacy written everywhere.......... everything written in the wall, you still contemplating whether to go on with the relationship. Your God in Islam would not forgive you....and if you eventually go on with the introduction,I see it crumbling within a year or 0.5. |
Re: Can We Still Go Ahead With The Introduction Plan?pls Advice by Oyiboman69: 2:01pm On Dec 03, 2021 |
Foolish question.... |
Re: Can We Still Go Ahead With The Introduction Plan?pls Advice by oilmane(m): 2:14pm On Dec 03, 2021 |
[quote author=Amiralord post=108163060]Pls kindly ignore my typos because I'm sad and I felt betrayed. My story might be a bit lengthy,I will try to highlight the main point,and I need candid and mature advice please romancelanders. I met this lady through Facebook around Aug 2017(though my junior in secondary school,but never knew her in school) and the relationship has been going on smoothly,she's the perfect example of the type of woman I always dream of, and on my part, I've been faithful to a fault to make things work out for us. Problem started around March last year when my best friend who visited me,saw my babe,only to inform me that she has given birth to 2 kids, because they live within the same area before he travelled out. I confronted my babe,but to my surprise,she denied it vehimently.Telling me she's ready to swear with anything just to prove that she has not given birth.I let it slide and we move on This year again,my guy touched down to naija,visited me with his younger brother,only for his younger brother to recognize my babe,called me and informed me that my babe is married with two kids and the baby daddy is someone he can link me with to confirm the authenticity of the information. I asked her again,she vehimently denied.Then I begin to suspect her moves. Mind you,3 years of dating,I don't know where she stays,I don't know any of her family members,this introduction arrangements was even conceived on phone.On my part, my family all knew her, because I've been under serious pressure to settle down. This night,I collected her phone,begin to look for anything suspicious,after much resistance from her side,she tore my cloth and normal manhandling,but when she realized am not backing down,she decided to open up. She told me she has given birth to 2kids,she said she's scared to loose me and that her reason for not telling me is because she realized I hate single mothers base on our normal discussion and My stance on single mothers. From the chat I saw on her phone,she's still well into her ex, though his not in naija,but am sure if the guy is home,they will surely bleep Wella. Pls guys,I can't deny it,I love this lady,my mum loves her,3 years down the drain,I don't know where to start from.I didn't keep or have any lady as back up,she's my all. Pls be sincere,advice me on how to handle this issue,I'm 28 and she's 26.Introduction Is next week Thursday, with all this red light.where do I go from here? What advice do you want? Do you need anyone to tell you to call it quit with her? 3 years of deceit and you're still considering going on with her? A lady who can deny her kids, do you know what else she's hiding from you? Bro move on. |
Re: Can We Still Go Ahead With The Introduction Plan?pls Advice by Spy360(m): 2:39pm On Dec 03, 2021 |
Amiralord:Marry her! As a Muslim you will still marry like 3 more wives so what's the f.? |
Re: Can We Still Go Ahead With The Introduction Plan?pls Advice by Snitch24(m): 3:48pm On Dec 03, 2021 |
The earlier you let go of your emotions and focus on you mental health the better for you bro |
Re: Can We Still Go Ahead With The Introduction Plan?pls Advice by Freestainworld(m): 4:03pm On Dec 03, 2021 |
Amiralord:marriage is a lifetime thing, what ever mistake you do now stays with you forever, make the bold step, if I am in your situation, I would call it off. |
Re: Can We Still Go Ahead With The Introduction Plan?pls Advice by revived: 5:00pm On Dec 03, 2021 |
If you go ahead with that introduction you are mad |
Re: Can We Still Go Ahead With The Introduction Plan?pls Advice by Buharidgeneral: 8:17pm On Dec 03, 2021 |
This one na fable You don't know the house of the girl you want to do introduction with. No friend no relatives no investigation Gbam next na introduction Is it introduction or introduction ceremony |
Re: Can We Still Go Ahead With The Introduction Plan?pls Advice by mosdii(m): 8:19pm On Dec 03, 2021 |
stacyadams: Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them 2 Likes |
Re: Can We Still Go Ahead With The Introduction Plan?pls Advice by rayvelez(m): 10:26pm On Dec 03, 2021 |
Amiralord:Alfa if you proceed on relocating with her to US I just hope she won’t deport you back to naija with all the red flags you have seen here in naija. Bro think twice before you do it cos no sharia court in America ooo. 1 Like |
Re: Can We Still Go Ahead With The Introduction Plan?pls Advice by Love800(m): 11:35pm On Dec 03, 2021 |
I woke diz morning nd i ask masef is life really worth it or i should blast masef. OP plz leave dat gal. She has giving birth nd still denied it, athough it was because she doesnt want to lose u dats why she denied. But is it real love dat make her want to be with u or ur money or she just playing around. But d fact is she has already giving birth. Drop her 1 Like |
Re: Can We Still Go Ahead With The Introduction Plan?pls Advice by Shehu30: 6:44am On Dec 04, 2021 |
My brother leave her for your own good |
Re: Can We Still Go Ahead With The Introduction Plan?pls Advice by Ulysses71: 12:00pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
xeratek:Wetin this Patlex guy do you wey you dey always mention am |
Re: Can We Still Go Ahead With The Introduction Plan?pls Advice by samneutron1: 1:14pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
OP, I like your story though I'm a christian but let me contribute my little piece, you see girls like her, God have seen her suffering right from the beginning and that is why he sent someone like you to her to meet her and be her source of hope, but she blew it up she didn't open up to you she lied for good three years without contemplating that is bad. You have to leave her you have fulfilled your part as God's sent but she failed in her part, so forget about her. Peace unto you 1 Like |
Re: Can We Still Go Ahead With The Introduction Plan?pls Advice by ABANGWABOI(m): 2:10pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Amiralord See Boy. Wife her.. make her happy.. it is a huge honor to marry a single mother.. You think it is easy.. Even your pastor would envy you.. Your imam would be glad too.. It shows you are a REAL man.. All matches in football start from 2 or 3 Zero down.. it is a huge privilege to be a step dad.. make sure you train the kids at Oxford Uni.. Congratulations AmiraLord |
Re: Can We Still Go Ahead With The Introduction Plan?pls Advice by babavik: 4:35pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Dear Op, I don't know the God you worship, but believe you me that your God is a living God, seriously fighting for you even when you are TOO blind to see it. Thanks |
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