My boyfriend of 2 years just left for Europe.,,,i hear stuff about him frm his friends and yet he tells me he loves me and gets mad when i assume or blames him for ignoring me, help me please i love this guy what do i do.i have insisted he tells me the truth so i can back out now even though it would hurt but i know later would hurt worst.yet he says he loves me and will come back for me and that my assumptions makes him so mad.what do i do people?help me plsssss

victorycmr:

My boyfriend of 2 years just left for Europe.,,,i hear stuff about him frm his friends and yet he tells me he loves me and gets mad when i assume or blames him for ignoring me, help me please i love this guy what do i do.i have insisted he tells me the truth so i can back out now even though it would hurt but i know later would hurt worst.yet he says he loves me and will come back for me and that my assumptions makes him so mad.what do i do people?help me plsssss

he needs to define when and how.

he tells my friend he will be coming in december and he wants it to be a surprise to me you know.howeva i have asked him to tell me where he thinks our relation will take us, where he sees us in a year to come and he sees us together i dont know but some how i dont beleive a guy.maybe its becos its mmy second relationship eva and the first wasnt good,

Depends on your needs.
Some people one need 'long distance' affection with limited committment.
Others need 'proximal' relationships.
Bottom line?
It depends on the need and situation.

Some marriages only survive because of the long distance situations.

help me please i love this guy what do i do.i have insisted he tells me the truth so i can back out now even though it would hurt but i know later would hurt worst.

You can still love your guy while you explore other options like he is doing. . . just incase. . .

It looks like he is still searching too. . . you should allow him and concentrate on yourself.

No smart woman puts all her eggs in one basket in this day and age.

Na wa
ow many tym pesin go tell una say LDR sucks
gosh

thanks Blazay, i will do just that,
Dyt thanks too, you too funi

Oh yh
my relationship s funny n it does sucks

hahaahahahahah for real?

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victorycmr:

My boyfriend of 2 years just left for Europe.,,,i hear stuff about him frm his friends and yet he tells me he loves me and gets mad when i assume or blames him for ignoring me, help me please i love this guy what do i do.i have insisted he tells me the truth so i can back out now even though it would hurt but i know later would hurt worst.yet he says he loves me and will come back for me and that my assumptions makes him so mad.what do i do people?help me plsssss

Your man just left for europe and you already hear things from his friends? what type of friends does he have anyway that they will be filling your head with all types of crap. How is he supposed to come for you when he just left? is a a legal immigrant? or is he just working and he will come back?

thanks guys@omega,i dont know how they roll in europe but i guess he will take his christmas brea k off.well i am just with him now on facebook and i think he truely just tell me stuffs to keep me ok.he never sounds caring.now i guess i should move on i left him a mge that when he is done leaving the life he is into now ,he should come for me that is if his love is or was ever there.i will be here for him i am dne stressing growing pal while he is , wateva just hurts a lot.i know its not a kul decision and i will be tempted to contact him but if he doesnt make a first move i wot either and even if he does i will tell him same thing, how about that?

and ohh i guess his frieds say those stuffs cos they know he is not serious how about that?>

victorycmr:

thanks guys@omega,i dont know how they roll in europe but i guess he will take his christmas brea k off.well i am just with him now on facebook and i think he truely just tell me stuffs to keep me ok.he never sounds caring.now i guess i should move on i left him a mge that when he is done leaving the life he is into now ,he should come for me that is if his love is or was ever there.i will be here for him i am dne stressing growing pal while he is , wateva just hurts a lot.i know its not a kul decision and i will be tempted to contact him but if he doesnt make a first move i wot either and even if he does i will tell him same thing, how about that?

victorycmr:

and ohh i guess his frieds say those stuffs cos they know he is not serious how about that?>

can you give an example of what they said he is doing? and i bet one of these friends of his is currently trying to ask you out isn't he?

No.

Ldr is, and will always be bullshyt. It sucks, period.

well his friends tell me he waas dating other gals b4 he travelled and he wont advice me to think he is ever gonna come back for me, yeah he tried asking me out

nope,
becos of lack of Womanliness.

victorycmr:

well his friends tell me he was dating other gals b4 he travelled and he wont advice me to think he is ever gonna come back for me, yeah he tried asking me out

well there goes your answer. That friend of his is a dirt bag. He just left and he is already moving in on you chai.
Look the reality is anything could he may come back for you he might not who knows what tomorrow holds but you should work on your relationship with your man and close your ear to what his jealous friends have to say and whatever happens happens

thanks omega, that couldl work but i dont think so cos he meets me online and doesnt write.since he left he has never called .he only sends free sms to me when am mad i guess this shows he cant sacrifice cos i call him like all the time and strange thing is i dont work.well i think he know i am so into him that i cant live without him so he does wateva so i told him this and since monday i havent as much as said hi to him weh i meet him online but guess wat§he hasnt called or texted all he leaves for me is an offline hey u there stuffs u know never the less i am out, let me give him time to play his games when he is tired am here.@@@@@ MMM EEEEWWWW TO YOU

op
sorry ur BF is eating white Womanliness now.

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thanks guys

victorycmr:

thanks omega, that couldl work but i dont think so cos he meets me online and doesnt write.since he left he has never called .he only sends free sms to me when am mad i guess this shows he cant sacrifice cos i call him like all the time and strange thing is i dont work.well i think he know i am so into him that[b] i cant live without him [/b] so he does wateva so i told him this and since monday i havent as much as said hi to him weh i meet him online but guess wat§he hasnt called or texted all he leaves for me is an offline hey u there stuffs u know never the less i am out, let me give him time to play his games when he is tired am here.@@@@@ MMM EEEEWWWW TO YOU

My dear, he dosen't call you or chat with you when you are on line and what are u still waiting for. Never you say such a thing that you can't live without somebody, is he the person dt brought you into the world or is he the one feeding you. PLEASE AND PLEASE, don't put all your hope in him. just do your own thing, if he is for you, he will come back but don't believe or even assume that you are waiting for him. I have been there, but thank God i got wiser and move on with my life, even with him still being around the corner.

thanks.now strange thing, he finds out am in London then my phone cant stop ringing.he chats with me online,call,comes on when he says he will and all.hahahahahaha how funny, guess he fears i will find me a white guy.lol

Try and study other potential replacers even here on NL. If you find the perfect fit. Tell Europe man that your relatonship with him would continue from where it stopped when he gets back.

Don't let go till you get replacement oh. Satani 22 is searching and close by.

Satani/Victory = 10- Married according to the game Flames.