pansophist:


Firstly, you'll have to determine if they want to learn, or just fixated on their views. Also, approach them with a question, instead of trying to teach them why you think death is actually not as bad as people see it. In their attempt to answer your question, they will see the fault in their reasoning.

Now ask them these questions. What are the problems that the living suffers from, that the dead also suffer or the dead suffers worsely? Also ask, if humans enjoy sleeping, why won't they enjoy being dead? Also ask, why fear death when "not being alive" is the natural state of being ?

Life is merely a blink of existence, just as the fire from a lighter is only a blink. By default, the lighter gives no light, and being itself is more of not being alive, than bring alive. So how is it a bad thing when not being alive is the natural state of existence?

Like a vineyard, all kinds of flowers will grow in it, it will also host all kinds of insects, birds, fruits and even human. But the plants will wither, life will die, but the vineyard still remains. Not being alive (known as death), is the natural state of being, not life. Make peace with these, and you won't fear death. Now do you see why they say that time is your most valuable asset ?

Sanmel:
I love this pattern

Sanmel:
Hmmmm...
My mental health.. I've started ignoring and avoiding most of the people that stress me out with annoying questions and billing.. I'm working towards moving out of the family house to my personal space..

iLegendd:


Your thinking is in the right direction.

Meedon:


Na very good pattern you deh see so.

pansophist:

Use condom na
I studied at the University of autodidactism

iLegendd:

Okay, I give up. I have finally seen someone funnier than humor.

iLegendd:

ashewoboy:
Great thread. used to think the op was a troll.

iLegendd:
4. Death of somone you know or care about hurts and it's emotionally damaging. What I do to protect myself is to let myself know that this world is not our home and whoever is gone has peace of mind more than us that are living and going through all the atrocities that are being committed by ritualists, terrorists, satanists, cultists, wicked government officials, etc.

I let myself know that they're in a better place — somewhere more peaceful and beautiful than planet Earth and we all can't wait to visit them in some years ahead. So, I see them as lucky, not unfortunate.

With this mental manipulations, the pains I initially felt when I heard the news begins to evaporate and I get my mental health back again in few hours.

Death is one of the reasons you shouldn't love people too much — like them, but mind how you love (if you wish to love) — it hurts.

I prefer to only like and appreciate than to love because when death takes them away, it may seem your world has ended. Luckily, telling yourself they're in a better place will lessen the pains.
Yeah � absolutely Boss Ilegend you are right have experienced this before but all thanks to God I have gotten over so long.
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