I have my car but she doesn't have, so I planned to buy her one this new year. I have saved 800k already. I might chop the money so I saved it in her second account that she is not using.
though I didn't tell her the money is for her car. I was surfing through her phone last night and I saw the money has reduced to 480k from 800k.
I confronted her and she changed it for me o, untop my money o.

she couldn't give excuse on how she spent the money, she was just saying the money is with her that I shouldn't worry myself.

now I told her I want all my money by weekend. she has not been talking to me since last night.
was I wrong to ask where my money was

Super story crafters.

Lol

You made a mistake man..... Instead of guyman to keep money with him woman,e go better say make he kukuma save am inside piggy bank .

Just imagine,had it been you've made it clear to her that you've been keeping the money simply because you wanna buy her a car, perhaps even shishi for no remain again self . Fear Women.

Your wife is your money and your money is your wife..... What am saying is this you both has the equal rights. And beside she can keep it save for you

Fear any bank that has hair

collect her the balance and forget about the car, let are continue using leg.

I think men that doesn't tend to have full control of their home shouldn't go into marriage. It's getting too much for crying out loud...

Collect 400k from the remain money left with her before you tell her that the money is actually for her car. If you tell her without collecting the money, she fit go borrow friend who won't pay her back or squander the remaining 480k

EniHolar:
Fear any bank that has hair

Any bank with hair na liability.

God why are The men of this Generation so Daft and Foolish?

You are afraid To collect your own money from your wife? What is wrong with you?
When we tell you Men not to get married,you won't listen. Y'all keep deceiving yourselves that you will marry the "right woman" by the grace of God. Now look where that has gotten you.
Now let me tell you something you will never accept, your wife doesn't have a single Atom of love for you.

You got married in this 21st century where Women have almost succeeded in "Castrating" the men of this Generation. You have chosen your cross, it's best you carry it or Even better,Drop it on the ground and GO YOUR OWN WAY!

Ihuomanice1:
Your wife is your money and your money is your wife..... What am saying is this you both has the equal rights. And beside she can keep it save for you

Women and their funny way of Reasoning.

Men, can you see why it is A very bad idea to get married to a regular Nigerian woman? Look how shallow their level of Reasoning is.

To be frank, the mistake is from you,
If you must save money with your wife account, you must inform her of it, Don't be secretive in marriage, it brings problem. You might not tell her the purpose but just tell her you want to be saving money in her account and that one naira should not miss from the money simple. Save yourself from stress.

Ihuomanice1:
Your wife is your money and your money is your wife..... What am saying is this you both has the equal rights. And beside she can keep it save for you

This is very wrong, at least not all women are having this mentality it's a stupid ideology, as of today the safest place to keep my money today are my parents father,mother & sister infact I kept OVER 20m in my girlfriend account for over 6 Months without her touching a dime. Na me dey tell am say incase she has an urgent need make she comot money from there to solve am but she no go gree na me go still send money from my own end give her because she won't use the one i kept at her disposal. ... Throughout 2020 she does most of transaction for me through her account to the extent that GTB restricted her account because how she dey run her account and she's still a student in one federal university in East until I get involved because I also operate GTB and of the same branch as hers and they know my inflow due to the nature of my business.
When someone gave you money to keep is of trust, you don't need to touch it , shey if that person no keep that money with you, you no fit sorts yourself ni.

Stenewiser:
collect her the balance and forget about the car, let are continue using leg.

Lols

rollybest:
To be frank, the mistake is from you,
If you must save money with your wife account, you must inform her of it, Don't be secretive in marriage, it brings problem. You might not tell her the purpose but just tell her you want to be saving money in her account and that one naira should not miss from the money simple. Save yourself from stress.

she knows about the money but not the purpose of the savings. she has full control over the account

gabazin080:
she knows about the money but not the purpose of the savings. she has full control over the account

I'm sorry for that but she having control of the account is very lame excuse, I can't advise you because I'm not married Yet but you keeping that money with her was out of trust and it's never madatory for you to disclose the reason of that money, I can only advice you NEVER SAVE money with her again for peace sake.

P.s
Safest place to save money should be through your partner but now is the opposite.

Collect the remaining balance from her quietly, never get her any car again, she has eaten her own car with her mouth, and never tell her what the money was meant for.

Ihuomanice1:
Your wife is your money and your money is your wife..... What am saying is this you both has the equal rights. And beside she can keep it save for you

I can bet that you are less than 20 years.

Ihuomanice1:
Your wife is your money and your money is your wife..... What am saying is this you both has the equal rights. And beside she can keep it save for you

Are you making any sense? No accountability again? I can't keep such woman as a wife and if she can't provide to the last dime, then she needs to go on holiday at her father's house.

MPESA:



This is very wrong, at least not all women are having this mentality it's a stupid ideology, as of today the safest place to keep my money today are my parents father,mother & sister infact I kept OVER 20m in my girlfriend account for over 6 Months without her touching a dime. Na me dey tell am say incase she has an urgent need make she comot money from there to solve am but she no go gree na me go still send money from my own end give her because she won't use the one i kept at her disposal. ... Throughout 2020 she does most of transaction for me through her account to the extent that GTB restricted her account because how she dey run her account and she's still a student in one federal university in East until I get involved because I also operate GTB and of the same branch as hers...
When someone gave you money to keep is of trust, you don't need to touch it , shey if that person no keep that money with you no fit sorts yourself ni.

Nice one here. I believe accountability is key. Any woman that is not accountable is not a good woman.

The way some men the mumu de very alarming

Why you come de cry give us?

gabazin080:
she knows about the money but not the purpose of the savings. she has full control over the account

Did you tell her you don't want to find one naira missing?

U funny o,na simple thing na if na Eod you wan buy for her before,just buy golf1 now.or 504

With this kind of story, marriage get really scary. Why would you go spend money kept in your account, where is accountability? She spent almost half of the money, that's too bad. OP, when you become governor, this your wife will become first lady, I pity the state. Women just sacrifice their value on the alter of money, I see how Yahoo guys are uselessing girls in my school, too bad.

gabazin080:
I have my car but she doesn't have, so I planned to buy her one this new year. I have saved 800k already. I might chop the money so I saved it in her second account that she is not using.
though I didn't tell her the money is for her car. I was surfing through her phone last night and I saw the money has reduced to 480k from 800k.
I confronted her and she changed it for me o, untop my money o.

she couldn't give excuse on how she spent the money, she was just saying the money is with her that I shouldn't worry myself.

now I told her I want all my money by weekend. she has not been talking to me since last night.
was I wrong to ask where my money was

Lol..you never see anything.
Women and money 5 and 6.

there are 3 people I cannot give money to keep... My mum,my wife and my friend.. they'll send it and there's nothing you can do.
Ask your money from you Mum,and you would hear how he nurtured u without ur father's caring and she suffered while bringing u up.
from your friend, you might end up losing the friend..

gabazin080:
I have my car but she doesn't have, so I planned to buy her one this new year. I have saved 800k already. I might chop the money so I saved it in her second account that she is not using.
though I didn't tell her the money is for her car. I was surfing through her phone last night and I saw the money has reduced to 480k from 800k.
I confronted her and she changed it for me o, untop my money o.

she couldn't give excuse on how she spent the money, she was just saying the money is with her that I shouldn't worry myself.

now I told her I want all my money by weekend. she has not been talking to me since last night.
was I wrong to ask where my money was

So in all these years of ur marriage, you weren't aware of such tendencies in ur wife?

That woman is not a good wife neither is she a home maker.. you can quote me anywhere.

MPESA:



This is very wrong, at least not all women are having this mentality it's a stupid ideology, as of today the safest place to keep my money today are my parents father,mother & sister infact I kept OVER 20m in my girlfriend account for over 6 Months without her touching a dime. Na me dey tell am say incase she has an urgent need make she comot money from there to solve am but she no go gree na me go still send money from my own end give her because she won't use the one i kept at her disposal. ... Throughout 2020 she does most of transaction for me through her account to the extent that GTB restricted her account because how she dey run her account and she's still a student in one federal university in East until I get involved because I also operate GTB and of the same branch as hers...
When someone gave you money to keep is of trust, you don't need to touch it , shey if that person no keep that money with you no fit sorts yourself ni.

Whenever I see “Shey” “ni” next thing that comes to my mind is Yahoo Yahoo...I can’t be the only one thinking this way.

Yahoo boys are our worst enemies.

A figment of your imagination.

Imagine not being able to trust your wife with valuables.


Must be nice.