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life na werey oo..
Enter villa go carry one fresh banny laa

Village girls eyes don tear tey tey na,some of them worst pass city girls sef.

Evercurious:



Of course YES I shld be scared but God knows I cant even spared more than 18 months.. The 18 months sef too much for my eyes.. The highest I ve done was about 2 years and hmmmm, sincerely me I tire(lol)... I just woke up one day and walked away. Though I was so pained cos I had invested so so much. Financially,, emotionally, time etc but I check am, I no fit..My only regret was that I shld have left within 1 year of that relationship .. Naive me..

As for now, I set time frames on my mind . Immediately the time is up, I take a stroll.. if oga is serious he ll come ask.and if he doesnt, then it all ends there.. No need to take sef or embarrass ourselves. True she was immature and I know I CAN'T try that

I read this again and again. I would say you’ve never been in love. You are not lucky to ever be. You are being too calculative in your relationship that you aren’t giving love a chance.

One day, for real, try to love without boundaries. Without ego. Without thinking about consequences. Just love without a reason. Love without thinking of how much the worth of your commitment is. Leaving one dude for another because you feel you’ve invested time is not worth it.

Iretii0511:





I read this again and again. I would say you’ve never been in love. You are not lucky to ever be. You are being too calculative in your relationship that you aren’t giving love a chance.

One day, for real, try to love without boundaries. Without ego. Without thinking about consequences. Just love without a reason. Love without thinking of how much the worth of your commitment is. Leaving one dude for another because you feel you’ve invested time is not worth it.

Lol... I know of something called opportunity cost and I know what that relationship cost me.. abeg no make me remember all my mumu back then at that old age because I was naive.. if you like term it overthinking, calculative etc, I care not cos I ve seen the other side and I ve learnt to make use of this my head/ brains too..

Sorry ooh, I ll continue being calculative till I meet someone that believes , PRACTICES love and knows that life and relationship is all about give and take,no need for malice, grudges,selfishness and unnecessary arguement ,competition ,wrong attitude to responsibilities etc.. Yes there can be misunderstandings but they shld NEVER see the next day unresolved . Mind you that relationship made me keep off dating for 7years to recover .. lol.. Thank God I can even laugh now when talking about it.. Well I m laughing at my 'foolishness ' back then... very funny indeed

Life is good (LG)and I m not ready to waste my love on someone that cannot even recognize love but misinterpretes and abuse it.

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Ahbi