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Husband Abandons His Wife, Says Twins, CS Are Taboos In Rivers (Photo) by dre11(m): 9:49am On Dec 22, 2021
Nursing mother tackles husband over abandonment, says hubby claims twins, CS are taboos

A 33-year-old woman, Mrs Nwamaka Chinwendu, who gave birth to twins, has lamented that her husband, Amajiri, abandoned her and her two-month-old babies because she gave birth to twins through a caesarean section.

Amajiri hails from Igbo Etche, in the Etche Local Government Area of Rivers State, while the woman is a native of Ameka village, in the Ezza South LGA of Ebonyi State.

The family, however, lives at Mile 50, Abakaliki, the Ebonyi State capital.

Nwamaka recalled that when she was pregnant with her first child, her husband informed her that it was a taboo in his hometown for a woman to be delivered through a caesarean section.

She said she was fortunate to have been delivered of the child without any surgical operation.

The woman, who spoke to our correspondent on Tuesday in Abakaliki, said trouble started when she went for an ultrasound at seven months of her pregnancy and was told that she was carrying twins.

She said when she broke the news to her husband, he became angry and told her to abort the pregnancy, but she refused.

“He began to beat me without any provocation. He stopped helping me with house chores. I went for another scan before delivery and I was told that the babies were not well positioned and that they were positioned with their buttocks. The sonographer said we should hope that the babies would position well before nine months.

“But when it got to nine months, one of the babies turned, while the other didn’t turn. So, I was told that the only way out was through CS. When I got home and told my husband, he said I was on my own. He started nagging that CS and twins were taboos in their culture. He said if I wanted the marriage to continue that I should abort the babies.

“Since I gave birth to my twins (a boy and a girl) two months ago, he has abandoned us. He did not come to the hospital; it was my elder brother that paid the hospital bill and he has been the one catering for us,” she added.

Mrs Chinwendu, who said her husband claimed to be a marine engineer but never dressed up for work one day, noted that he always provided for them before the arrival of the twins.

She said she was no longer interested in the marriage, adding that all she wanted was for her husband to take care of his children.

Husband petitions police, accuses in-law of kidnap

However, the state Police Public Relations Officer, DSP Loveth Odah, said Amajiri wrote a petition to the police, alleging that the woman’s elder brother brutalised and kidnapped him.

She said, “The allegation before us is different. This woman’s husband came to the police with a petition, alleging that one Mr Arinze Utobo beat him up with seven others, kidnapped him and locked him up in a wardrobe; that is the allegation before the police.

“It was in the process of investigation that we found out that the suspect in the matter was the woman’s elder brother.

“It was when we arrested the suspect, including the woman with twins, that we now asked if the woman was part of his problem. We now got to know that she was the wife of the man who came to lay allegation that he was beaten up and kidnapped by Mr Utobo and seven others.

“The woman came up with her own story that since she was pregnant and discovered it was twins, the husband said in their community in Rivers State it is a taboo to have twins and to also deliver through a caesarean section.”

Odah noted that the state Commissioner of Police, CP Aliyu Garba, had ordered investigation into the incident.

Amajiri’s in-law, Utobo, denied kidnapping him.

He said, “He abandoned his wife, who gave birth to twins and ran away for two months and did not ask after their whereabouts.

“So, one day, I saw him at the Abakaliki Stadium with two women and I asked him if what he did was OK.

“It was then that I told him to take me to his house so that I could get his wife’s clothes, because it was just one wrapper that the woman took to the hospital the day she put to birth that she had been using. It was then that he threatened to deal with me and started alleging all manner of things.”

Efforts to get Amajiri proved abortive as calls to his phone rang out and text messages were not replied to as of press time.

https://punchng.com/nursing-mother-tackles-husband-over-abandonment-says-hubby-claims-twins-cs-are-taboos/

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Re: Husband Abandons His Wife, Says Twins, CS Are Taboos In Rivers (Photo) by dingbang(m): 9:54am On Dec 22, 2021
No strength left in me to read. Kai

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Re: Husband Abandons His Wife, Says Twins, CS Are Taboos In Rivers (Photo) by Mood11: 9:54am On Dec 22, 2021
Ebonyi my state in the mud sad

Which kind archaic husband be that angry

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Re: Husband Abandons His Wife, Says Twins, CS Are Taboos In Rivers (Photo) by Bola146(f): 9:58am On Dec 22, 2021
See what people are looking for with their millions every month, yet this man is ungrateful. Who do we question; God or this couple?

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Re: Husband Abandons His Wife, Says Twins, CS Are Taboos In Rivers (Photo) by GboyegaD(m): 10:07am On Dec 22, 2021
The story get k-leg. I hope the police get to its root.

Most importantly, the topic is misleading.
Re: Husband Abandons His Wife, Says Twins, CS Are Taboos In Rivers (Photo) by Bigggloadofcum: 4:47pm On Dec 22, 2021
grin

Children are blessings from God. Why would a sane man run away from God's blessing?

He probably isn't financially capable and was only expecting one baby but the good lord changed his plan. Cuz I don't understand how someone would give such a lame excuse as reason to abandon his babies.

Are there still archaic traditions like that? This is 21st century for fvck's sake.

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Re: Husband Abandons His Wife, Says Twins, CS Are Taboos In Rivers (Photo) by TimmyTen(m): 4:47pm On Dec 22, 2021
There's nothing ignorance can't destroy. It is a curable disease, but not when it reaches an epidemic stage like this one. How ignorant n remote can this man be? In this jet 21st century?

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Re: Husband Abandons His Wife, Says Twins, CS Are Taboos In Rivers (Photo) by Kusheer(m): 4:47pm On Dec 22, 2021
The man is cra*y

When he dey do both missionary and doggy style no be taboo oo grin cheesy grin grin

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Re: Husband Abandons His Wife, Says Twins, CS Are Taboos In Rivers (Photo) by daddytime(m): 4:47pm On Dec 22, 2021
Such a stone-aged bushman.

Children, especially twins wey people dey use hand and leg dey look for.

Truly truly, who get head no dey get cap and who get cap dey look for head.

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Re: Husband Abandons His Wife, Says Twins, CS Are Taboos In Rivers (Photo) by Equal2DeTask(m): 4:48pm On Dec 22, 2021



I can easily identify an Ebonyi indigene...
Re: Husband Abandons His Wife, Says Twins, CS Are Taboos In Rivers (Photo) by Godswillu(m): 4:48pm On Dec 22, 2021
From the story I will say the man is running away from expenses that come with twins.
Because from the day you gave birth to twins, you will start to buy baby food, breast milk alone will not be sufficient

and baby food is not cheap.

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Re: Husband Abandons His Wife, Says Twins, CS Are Taboos In Rivers (Photo) by LibertyRep: 4:48pm On Dec 22, 2021
The woman's elder brother wanted to treat his f**k up for abandoning his wife and babies at the hospital.

But then didn't he have family members he could be reported to?

See how they simply turn a civil matter into a criminal matter.

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Re: Husband Abandons His Wife, Says Twins, CS Are Taboos In Rivers (Photo) by Omniman(m): 4:48pm On Dec 22, 2021
lipsrsealed
Re: Husband Abandons His Wife, Says Twins, CS Are Taboos In Rivers (Photo) by inoki247: 4:48pm On Dec 22, 2021
Buh wen u dey pour ur akamu inside no b Taboo....

No b ur sperm fertilize the egg wey turn pikin wey no gri wan come outside naturally....

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Re: Husband Abandons His Wife, Says Twins, CS Are Taboos In Rivers (Photo) by FalseProphet1(m): 4:48pm On Dec 22, 2021
I see this man finding his way back to his wife whom he abandoned after Rachel Umahi (the kind hearted wife of the governor) donates millions to her for the upkeep of the twins.

I see him lying on the floor begging his wife like a thief about to be lynched, I see her accepting him back.

This I have seen.

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Re: Husband Abandons His Wife, Says Twins, CS Are Taboos In Rivers (Photo) by thebosstrevor1: 4:48pm On Dec 22, 2021
Women don suffer.

This man from Igbo Etche in River state rejected the product of his sperm after it fertilized 2 eggs.

Uche and chidema, come and see una people

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Re: Husband Abandons His Wife, Says Twins, CS Are Taboos In Rivers (Photo) by Vddazaa: 4:48pm On Dec 22, 2021
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Re: Husband Abandons His Wife, Says Twins, CS Are Taboos In Rivers (Photo) by qtguru(m): 4:48pm On Dec 22, 2021
Definition of a useless man

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Re: Husband Abandons His Wife, Says Twins, CS Are Taboos In Rivers (Photo) by jagged44: 4:48pm On Dec 22, 2021
If she wanted a responsible husband, then why did she marry an Amajiri?

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Re: Husband Abandons His Wife, Says Twins, CS Are Taboos In Rivers (Photo) by Kharol1234: 4:49pm On Dec 22, 2021
When person there bear almajiri Abi amajiri why e no go japa

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Re: Husband Abandons His Wife, Says Twins, CS Are Taboos In Rivers (Photo) by revived2: 4:49pm On Dec 22, 2021
E be many things
Re: Husband Abandons His Wife, Says Twins, CS Are Taboos In Rivers (Photo) by illicit(m): 4:49pm On Dec 22, 2021
Amajiri from rivers

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Re: Husband Abandons His Wife, Says Twins, CS Are Taboos In Rivers (Photo) by MidaserveNG: 4:50pm On Dec 22, 2021
sad Over millions are out there looking for at least just 1, here you have twins at 1shot and saying wot really?

That's the problem with most of us here, we condemn everything good, threatening every Inventions n innovations before us, hindering growth.

Who say conceiving no be miracle?
Who say giving birth to twins is not a miracle?
Who say successful C.S. no be miracle?
Who say if and only if you give birth naturally are you a woman, who?

The beautiful ones are not yet born and the ugly ones refuse to die.
dre11:
Nursing mother tackles husband over abandonment, says hubby claims twins, CS are taboos



https://punchng.com/nursing-mother-tackles-husband-over-abandonment-says-hubby-claims-twins-cs-are-taboos/

Some wuld start saying "hum*ns are insatiable anumanu"

But if later he see d future of the children via his MTheaded Spiritual Dad's, he'd start chasing them like sh*t hungry houseflies

sad

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Re: Husband Abandons His Wife, Says Twins, CS Are Taboos In Rivers (Photo) by Zico5(m): 4:50pm On Dec 22, 2021
And later they will say Igbo are the best when it comes to taking care of women. That's how one left a woman cos she gave birth to baby girl twice. The matter is still with PDA as I'm typing this. Truly they are the best.

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Re: Husband Abandons His Wife, Says Twins, CS Are Taboos In Rivers (Photo) by ednut1(m): 4:50pm On Dec 22, 2021
Planned work to get support. Which tribe get CS for their tradition
Re: Husband Abandons His Wife, Says Twins, CS Are Taboos In Rivers (Photo) by Raxxye(m): 4:50pm On Dec 22, 2021
Hmmm.
Can the story about the man saying it's taboo to have CS and twins be true? In this age and time?
Let me just stroll to Igbo-Etche and confirm. Thank God it's noy far from here!
Re: Husband Abandons His Wife, Says Twins, CS Are Taboos In Rivers (Photo) by sofeo(m): 4:50pm On Dec 22, 2021
Ok.
Re: Husband Abandons His Wife, Says Twins, CS Are Taboos In Rivers (Photo) by Mulimv64: 4:51pm On Dec 22, 2021
D
Re: Husband Abandons His Wife, Says Twins, CS Are Taboos In Rivers (Photo) by ShitHead(m): 4:51pm On Dec 22, 2021
He's broke.

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