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Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by MisterKennedy(m): 12:48pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
debbydams: Good afternoon Debby Merry Christmas to you dear And I wish you the best of new years ever |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by MisterKennedy(m): 12:50pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
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Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by MisterKennedy(m): 12:53pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
InTheCloudySky: Lol... Babe I love your hum our But you're right though Merry Christmas to you dear And have the best of new years ever 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by MisterKennedy(m): 12:56pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
Datboredberry: Sweetheart don't mind him OK, just ignore.... I read your comment and you're right Don't let let him spoil your Christmas spirit and energy oh jare |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by Abudu2000(m): 12:59pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
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Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by MisterKennedy(m): 1:00pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
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Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by MisterKennedy(m): 1:01pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
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Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by MisterKennedy(m): 1:04pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
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Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by MisterKennedy(m): 1:06pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
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Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by Nobody: 1:09pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
MisterKennedy:Hello MisterKennedy Thank you very much Merry Christmas to you too. I wish you the best of new years ever 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by Tundem88(m): 1:16pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
I earn less than 50k I am married with three kids, self owned 2 bedroom apartment and pencils Camry. It's God and wife understanding. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by MisterKennedy(m): 1:33pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Haba dear... What if he's very hardworking and very promising but isn't there yet... Would you give up on him? |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by MisterKennedy(m): 1:38pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
Mrscarter: I love your reply here Mrs. Cater. It's the best female reply here so far.... I really love your mindset ma Merry Christmas to you Ma And a very prosperous and the best new year ever to you and yours. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by NemoDatQuod(m): 1:41pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
Hmm! Please how much is accommodation in Lagos? How much is one room a month? How much will be the monthly travel cost for the husband and wife? How much will it cost them to eat twice a day(not even three times)? What about decent clothing and dressing, electricity bills, water bills, etc? How will N50K be alright let alone enough for an individual, let alone N100K for a family of two? I've read several stories like this and this is hearkbreaking. The average Nigerian citizen allows himself/herself to be pushed to the wall to the extent that we are now pushed into the very wall itself and yet we will not resist. The monies being stolen each day by politicians and others you all know is more than enough to pay a living wage to so many hardworking Nigerians. When are you guys going to wake up and insist that enough is enough? Is it not better to die on one's feet than to live under circumstances not worthy of humans? Yet, we are still dying in droves from minor challenges that adequate finances would have solved. So is it not better to die while fighting for equity than to still die as a result of lack of the same equity ? How does an individual even survive let alone thrive on N100k a month in a city like Lagos. We should please not even think of bringing innocent kids into this world on such a wage. It will be an act of injustice on our part to do that. This is really heartbreaking. Datboredberry: |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by MisterKennedy(m): 1:42pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
Toks2008: I'm very happy for you bro Thank God for your life They won't understand the pain we go through to make this money, especially in a backward country like Njgeria 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by NemoDatQuod(m): 1:49pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
Really? That is why Nigeria has now grown an army of the uneducated, unlearned and uncontrollable kids who are running rampage across the country. The greater damage they will inflict in the coming years and decades will affect every single person living in Nigeria. What you earn MUST determine when and IF you should marry to the extent that you marry to procreate. If you will not procreate, then your income should not determine when and IF you should marry, to the extent that you can find a fellow sufferhead to be your mate(male or female). But then, show me the Nigerian who wants to marry and not procreate. We have raised an army that will annihilate that country in the years and decades to come, simply by marrying and procreating when most of us have no busines doing so. Iyaebe: 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by NemoDatQuod(m): 1:57pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
It actually shows he understands what marriage entails and therefore is very serious about marriage. His question does not insinuate that his marriage mate will be an idle individual with no income. We all should cut our coat according to the material available. He is stating the clothing material he has available and asking the opposite sex, who will know better, if they will agree to marry someone on that salary. But we commentators have taken the normal Nigerian route of presupposing the woman brings nothing to the table. You can be sure that a guy who makes N50K a month will most definitely not marry someone who does not have an income(if he likes himself at all). But it is possible that a good number of women who have an income may not want to marry a guy with such an income as himself. He is serious and has asked a very serious question and I applaud him. motymop: |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by NemoDatQuod(m): 2:04pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
Your reality is different from his reality. He is probably a decent guy on that one income who will not use his employers' time to hustle for other sources of income. It is easy to talk about several other sources of income at the same time. If that is easy in practise, I am sure there will be no poor person in Nigeria. Let's focus on his question: If you are a girl and I approach you, will you find the fact that I make N50K a month a turn off? And yes, a woman you want to marry has an absolute right to know what you make so it can inform her decision, just as you have a right to know what she makes so it can inform your decision. It's not just earnings: Where did you go to school? Did you finish High School? Did you go to college? Did you go to post-graduate school? How many siblings do you have? does your mother or father still control what you do? Where are you currently living? Who pays the rent? etc,etc,etc. Hard but necessary questions each party must ask before they decide if you are a worthy marriage mate. Else, kasalla go burst later in that marriage. tnerro1: |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by MisterKennedy(m): 2:12pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
Wuminity: I love your reply dear. You actually have a very wonderful mindset Merry Christmas to you dear And a Fantastic New Year To You 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by MisterKennedy(m): 2:17pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
havigold: Wow!!! I really love your reply dear... It's so epic and mature. Merry Christmas to you dear And may you have a very wonderful and fantastic new year... May it be the best new year for you so far. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by NemoDatQuod(m): 2:17pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
Yeah! just as there are many vagabond kids roaming that country and killing and maiming others. There is a basic/minimum standard for life to be lived in every country in every generation, including in the days of our grand parents and great grand parents. Majority of Nigerians have been deprived of that in our generation because of authority stealing and we have all acquiesced to it. We now have a standard of living that animals in some other african countries will be ashamed of. The consequences in terms of the quality of kids we are raising, are beginning to show up and in our life times, we shall all feel the effect. sofiscatedmoron: 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by MisterKennedy(m): 2:21pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
ultraviolet27: Wow!!! I love your reply dear... You really have a very phenomenal mindset... It's so epic and mature. Merry Christmas to you dear May 2022 be your best year so far 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by ladapokofoshy(m): 2:21pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
meetme01:Pls can we talk I want to learn form you the other side hustle you do... am in your shoes and things has not been fine am also a civil servant |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by MisterKennedy(m): 2:22pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
PastorM: Lol... Why are your ears burning? |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by ladapokofoshy(m): 2:22pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
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Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by tnerro1(m): 2:26pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
NemoDatQuod: Try to understand, it’s not all about the salary. I know a lot of Igbo people who are civil servants who don’t depend on their salary. One has a car wash in my area I usually get my car washed. He is a young guy but he has prospects. If he tells a girl he is a civil servant with 50k as salary and the girl looks down on him and walks away, na her loss 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by Nobody: 2:54pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
MisterKennedy:Lol. Thank you. Happy new year in advance. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by debbydams(f): 3:26pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
MisterKennedy:thanks so much..best wishes 1 Like |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by Nobody: 3:38pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
Datboredberry: My darling angel on Nairaland.....state your suggestions. Hell can't be too hot for you..... I would rather be your burning wall of protection ..... money is just a tool I don't mind spending to keep your affirmations. I believe in your ideas ....... the respect for your response to my lines can't be too much...2Pac was legendary.... but I'd put in more creativity to fetch your happiness. Spent 20+ years on the streets but I won't say you deserve violence..... you're now part of my business. Doh Reh Mih To Davido Mih Doh Reh To Mon Ami Decipher my mind......enter my heart and tell me what you find .. I don't want to waste the time of your kind. You are a good inspiration .......worthy to meet .... even outside marriage... I can't regret it.... the conversation is enough to keep me not so bothered.... like a therapeutic stuff... I don't think I'm blind. Naira Marley may be dancing with ice..... I spit something deeper.... what you have to meditate upon..... not just the instrumentals. It's worth the flames in my head and it will set music platforms ablaze except nobody hears it..... speaking of individuals. At the moment,my flow is steady.... working forever.....meant to fortify this dude...he should be a rapper... Tell that producer it's the lines of a monster.... such that doesn't have to be Jigga.... the mindset is tougher.... overcoming accusations and condemnations from wherever.... the impact is bigger..... the Notorious B.I.G would have made that clearer.. Lyrically beyond anyone's greatness.....what else? |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by Exceed15: 3:40pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
The law still remains: Spend less than you make. |
Re: Ladies: Can You Marry A Guy Who Earns Less Than N50,000 Monthly? by havigold(f): 3:44pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
MisterKennedy: Am grateful .... Merry Christmas to you dear And may you have a very wonderful and fantastic new year... May it be the best new year for you so far as well... Peace unto you..... 1 Like |
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