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Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by Opeyemiextra(f): 2:30pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
HRSweetness: I am. I don't have the mental energy to cope in a toxic environment. Nigeria itself is tough and rough enough. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by Opeyemiextra(f): 2:33pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
geezville86:I was angry initially but I began to look at it from a broader perspective. This could happen in a place of work or anywhere. People get denied of opportunities because of what someone said which are mostly untrue. Peoples images are damaged because of meaningless comments here and there. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by sisisioge: 2:34pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
I think you handled it well....just continue to buy from everywhere but hers, limit your interactions to barest greetings and start thinking of moving. Good luck. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by HRSweetness(f): 2:41pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Opeyemiextra: LOL. True 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by geezville86: 2:44pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Opeyemiextra: Yeah, I completely understand. You should not allow this to way you down though. This life is really too short y’know. Let it go. We all have no idea about all the malicious comments folks utter behind our backs. You were just opportuned to be privy to this one. Keep being good and do not allow this to have a negative impact on your “worldview” of humanity in general. |
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by Hassanmaye(m): 2:44pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Dailyparrot:� |
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by Eagba(m): 2:45pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Vokians:also know that people that behaves that way are insecure. So be the big bro even if you are a girl. |
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by Opeyemiextra(f): 2:46pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Eagba: I am a lady. Who is your bro |
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by Mypeople2(m): 2:51pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
KiNg0G: |
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by edwinmiles(f): 2:53pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
They are everywhere. I presently have neighbor who talk about everyone in the estate and even talk about her own family. I later realises she does that due to envy. She wishes to be like you and obviously she's caused and spelled to that. Learn to live with it and ignore always. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by Eagba(m): 2:55pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Opeyemiextra:you can NEVER be my bro NEVER. I don't even take most men to be my bro how much more you. I was only speaking metaphorically. |
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by emmykk(m): 3:03pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Opeyemiextra: If your neighbor is selling anything and you don't buy from him or her do not expose the item and pass by the people .we are human it ought to be gossip about. I have a foodstuff business in store in front of our compound,then you don't buy garri,yam,rice or bean or anything from me for your own personal reason. Then you always stroll passed my food store with foodstuff in transparent bag or bag that expose the item. And you think a Nigerian will over look that haba...them nor even gossip you reach |
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by dawndeal: 3:04pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Never give a damn to what people say about you. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by babavik: 3:07pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Kriss216:It seems you come from a messed up family? Did you grow under your mum's care? Was she caring to you? Did you actually see any atom of goodness in her? Was she a kind of role model to you? How about your sisters, Do you have any? Was there love in between? What was your Father's relationship with his family? . . Sorry I asked alot of questions man but the way you guys slam women here prompted me to. I pray 2022 hits with maturity. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by Abudu2000(m): 3:12pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Babisha10:my nigga , sometimes handling tins in a gentle way will make it worse |
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by alagba333(m): 3:13pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Ignore |
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by Dagger79(m): 3:21pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Op what exactly did she say? |
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by miladelly: 3:39pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
I truly commend how you handled the whole situation. And I pray I can do same too. But honestly, I won't because I don't look for trouble, but when my toes are stepped upon when I am privately minding my business then I won't take that rubbish lightly. I won't be physical, abusive or insutive BUT I will Sternly give that individual warning never ever to talk behind me again. And It's best you didn't even buy from such neighbours because she will still you that as a weapon of gossip. It's better you buy 5k worth produce from the market than from her because its you can't feed well gossip you hear again. Cheerios... I am well educated, civilised and responsible o that doesn't mean I will see someone trashing me and then I won't send them messages of warning. Opeyemiextra: |
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by Exceed15: 3:48pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Just Ignore. Infact carry straight face when u see her. Don't try to be in everybody's good book . It's unnecessary. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by KiNg0G: 3:51pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Vokians: mumu man. come point gun for my head, say I must buy from you. |
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by airsaylongcome: 3:52pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
KiNg0G: From that spelling, e clear say u nobi Wafsider. No Warri person go spell Okiemute as Okemute |
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by saintneo(m): 4:01pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Opeyemiextra: You've done enough already. Just greet them as usual then go do your thing. The greetings is far much stronger than koboko. |
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by KiNg0G: 4:02pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
airsaylongcome:okay oshare, you when be waffi, supposed understand say area nor care about spelling, as far you get the message. fûcking mumu boy, you better get sense... nor be everybody hu na go just dey quote anyhow to yan okpata for. I nor follow you drag warri, so use your brain box. |
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by Testimony1988(m): 4:02pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
No need to confront her, just ignore her. |
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by airsaylongcome: 4:17pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
KiNg0G: See ẹkpa. Vwẹ'ọrhuẹ Wetin u dey talk be real mumu talk. E just be like make Igbo person spell Igbo name as Shukuma or Yoruba spell Sola as Sholla. Ẹkpa dẹẹn You for spell Akpẹvwẹ as Apewe na. As spelling no matter 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by KiNg0G: 4:29pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
airsaylongcome: because of I when nor dey okemute when I spell, na make your brain dey touch like so? you forget say oke na person name on its own. lol I nor be urhobo boy, better run inside those hu na thick thick bush towns for mosogha n the rest. and leave waffirians for us when dey warri. bush urhobo boy.. na small pickin Sense dey work you |
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by airsaylongcome: 4:34pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
KiNg0G: Lol.. Eze na person name. Ese na person name. Similar spells but completely different names. Ọkiemute is NEVER spelt Okemute. Ọkeoghene shortened to ỌKE is not the same as Okẹ. Okemute is not the same as Ọkiemute. And whether you be Urhobo or not nor matter. Whether u be sheke or Ijaw, all of those tribes know how to spell each others names so far na Warri dem dey. I no go spell sheke name Omatsola as Omashola. I no go spell Preye as Priye 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by Ovis1302(m): 4:41pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
KiNg0G:Area! |
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by KiNg0G: 4:50pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
airsaylongcome: Real recognize real. Na only people when get witch like hu na for area,. Na dey behave like so...
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Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by jclassiq(m): 4:53pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Dailyparrot:Lol. Nice. |
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by Vokians(m): 5:10pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
KiNg0G:Did I mention you? Why call yourself mumu man? |
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