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Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by BamakSNR(m): 5:11pm On Dec 28, 2021
It happens but you don't have to mind them. It's so common to women especially the ones that always stay home. Too negligence. Just move on and never discuss anything unnecessary with them. Just leave them on their own. Be used to people's madness. Some people will even confront you in order for you to react but you can dominate your emotions by ignoring them.

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Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by Joygift3666: 5:16pm On Dec 28, 2021
You are lucky you heard it from the horse' mouth not dem talk say, do not worry their talk will scatter them.

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Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by domino4211(m): 5:55pm On Dec 28, 2021
It is called a SMEAR CAMPAIGN. That is a tool used by covert narcissists. Read up on covert narcissism, flying monkeys and smear campaigns and how to handle them. You'll find your solution on Google.

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Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by EM123: 6:02pm On Dec 28, 2021
Kriss216:
Women and Gossip undecided


Nothing about this gender is worth emulating.


Tueh!
bro no be only women dey gossip ooo, even my male neigbhour gossip so tey him gossip give person say na him buy motor give our landlord , because our landlord na driver, na wey dat my neigbhour and his gossip partiner start to quarrel d gossip come to puplic and dat lead to his sake from the compound. (how can you buy a car for your landlord when you are still leaving in his house?)

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Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by NOETHNICITY(m): 6:13pm On Dec 28, 2021
KiNg0G:
you went out and greeted them?

and came back inside your house? jubilating because you thought you saw mere guilt in her face

what were you trying to prove?.... you seem like those ajebutters kinda breed.

make i tell you how mama okemute go handle am for area here.

She go carry chair come outside, then she go tell them to continue.
because she too still get her own to talk.


full area go scatter

na Dc go settle the matter... make hu na stop to dey act like ajebo.
na 9ja we dey o....if you do smei smei for your present them go use you play ball.
So he should go and fight simply because people discussed about him?
So has being a kpako helped your ur life

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Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by KiNg0G: 6:14pm On Dec 28, 2021
NOETHNICITY:
So he should go and fight simply because people discussed about him?
So has being a kpako helped your ur life
you nor go see next year
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by NOETHNICITY(m): 6:17pm On Dec 28, 2021
KiNg0G:

you nor go see next year
Thank God say no be you be God, so you don't get to decide how long I live

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Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by RosyIsBlessed: 6:20pm On Dec 28, 2021
Kriss216:
Women and Gossip undecided


Nothing about this gender is worth emulating.


Tueh!
.

This includes your mother, right?
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by lagosrd: 6:48pm On Dec 28, 2021
Ignore the jerk
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by Truvelisback(m): 6:49pm On Dec 28, 2021
Opeyemiextra:
So, I have this neighbor who sells some stuff but for some reasons, I wasn't comfortable buying from her. I buy from the market. This really got her angry and I didn't even know this until recently when she would mention it.

To what really happened, I was home one day and she probably assumed I wasn't. She started saying very terrible things about me to another neighbor that it scared me that another human being would really do that. I was very angry while I was inside my room deciding what exactly to do. I thought of confronting but I decided against it. Eventually I went out, greeted both of them and she was shocked that I was at home. I could see guilt written all over her even days after.

Have you walked in on people or heard by chance people talking ill and evil about you? How did you handle it?
No give her face again.

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Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by meedoLock(m): 6:58pm On Dec 28, 2021
firstbornson:


Stop making stupid and immature generalization.

It seems bashing "women" is what sells on this platform now.

Bashing is what people do now when they have nothing to say.


You wouldn't a said it better bro! I don't know why most male nairalanders derives joy in bashing the opposite gender, forgetting they could have been born as a female gender and, you will wonder if it will be ok to get bashed often.


Stop generalisation, them you would access normal things the way they are.
NB: No one was ever and will ever be directly born from a man. Invariably, Let's respect our ladies.

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Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by Nobody: 8:09pm On Dec 28, 2021
Kriss216:
Women and Gossip undecided


Nothing about this gender is worth emulating.


Tueh!
You we’re given birth to and raised by a woman who instilled some morals however minuscule you live by right now, and after all these years you see nothing worthy in emulating in her. You have female relatives. They probably treat you better than the males but you still only see the airheads you approach for meaningless sex in obscure bars to use a lens to view all women.

Anytime I see your moniker I know I’m about to read a sentence or paragraph that was typed by person that cannot reason if his head were split open and common sense poured in.

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Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by Nobody: 8:13pm On Dec 28, 2021
meedoLock:



You wouldn't a said it better bro! I don't know why most male nairalanders derives joy in bashing the opposite gender, forgetting they could have been born as a female gender and, you will wonder if it will be ok to get bashed often.


Stop generalisation, them you would access normal things the way they are.
NB: No one was ever and will ever be directly born from a man. Invariably, Let's respect our ladies.
Lol. Forgetting they have female family. They say all sort of things. I’ve been bullied on this platform by your kind for years, one has even taken my photo and drew my boobs as droopy in a mock picture with a pen then started circulating in to bully me.

It’s just odd. When men talk about women, they don’t even consider their mothers who gave them life or their sisters who cook for them.

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Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by Nobody: 8:21pm On Dec 28, 2021
KiNg0G:
you went out and greeted them?

and came back inside your house? jubilating because you thought you saw mere guilt in her face

what were you trying to prove?.... you seem like those ajebutters kinda breed.

make i tell you how mama okemute go handle am for area here.

She go carry chair come outside, then she go tell them to continue.
because she too still get her own to talk.


full area go scatter

na Dc go settle the matter... make hu na stop to dey act like ajebo.
na 9ja we dey o....if you do smei smei for your present them go use you play ball.
Don’t take this advice.
Human beings have long evolved past using verbal or physical violence to get their point across. After all, she didn’t say it to your face right? If she did, that’s a different thing, but she didn’t. The moment you give her any attention, you have gotten in the mud with her making both of you the same. Both guilty of the same offense. Gossips, eavesdroppers.

The power is in your hands now and she will be deemed guilty to whoever you tell this story to. You can use this guilt she is feeling and terrorize her systematically. Also, you can be rest assured, she will try not talk about you again.

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Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by Nobody: 8:27pm On Dec 28, 2021
bluefilm:

I dey tell you.

Nothing at all
You’re the product of a pornnstar. Of course you have nothing emulate from her

Please keep quiet abeg.

MUMU
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by uzomaigwe: 8:31pm On Dec 28, 2021
The best thing you can do is just to overlook that and never behave like the act is affecting you

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Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by Nobody: 8:40pm On Dec 28, 2021
Goldentulip2:


Lool haha
A senseless person dropped a senseless quote about a gender your birth mother and sisters belongs to and you are here laughing like a giraffe instead rearranging his teeth the cybercafe way.

What a person.
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by Rollitout: 8:52pm On Dec 28, 2021
Ask God to safe you from them.
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by Cousin9999: 8:56pm On Dec 28, 2021
Dailyparrot:
Let me share my experience in my house.

I am the type that don't talk to people and this makes them assume that I am arrogant and proud.

So, the whole people in the compound are just waiting for anything that they will use to mock me but I didn't give them any.

When I see people sitting on my car, I would scream and tell them to desist from that.

Boom, they are gossiping that I feel like I drive one kind big car that no one else drives.

Secondly, because I like moving with slim girls with pretty face, they gossip that I carry under age girls.

These were gossips that they had within themselves until I had a little misunderstanding with one of them, voom, she started vomiting all that they have been talking at my back but I give no single f_ck.

I told them to call the police on me any time they see me move in with any girl they suspected to be underage and as for my car, you can't carry your oversized self and sit on my bonnet as though it is a seat.

Well done.

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Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by Mondrous(m): 9:00pm On Dec 28, 2021
Eagba:
you can NEVER be my bro NEVER. I don't even take most men to be my bro how much more you. I was only speaking metaphorically.
she was only joking
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by KiNg0G: 9:17pm On Dec 28, 2021
Bobmarie:
Don’t take this advice.
Human beings have long evolved past using verbal or physical violence to get their point across. After all, she didn’t say it to your face right? If she did, that’s a different thing, but she didn’t. The moment you give her any attention, you have gotten in the mud with her making both of you the same. Both guilty of the same offense. Gossips, eavesdroppers.

The power is in your hands now and she will be deemed guilty to whoever you tell this story to. You can use this guilt she is feeling and terrorize her systematically. Also, you can be rest assured, she will try not talk about you again.
your a stupid introvert, who don't understand that advice.

I save my strength can't explain more
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by Hkff: 9:51pm On Dec 28, 2021
Mind your business
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by Goldentulip2: 10:50pm On Dec 28, 2021
Bobmarie:
A senseless person dropped a senseless quote about a gender your birth mother and sisters belongs to and you are here laughing like a giraffe instead rearranging his teeth the cybercafe way.

What a person.

Smh thank you. Quote by the so called “senseless person” got a little truth and kinda funny to SOME folks. Sorry but get a sense of humor. It will help u
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by Nobody: 11:09pm On Dec 28, 2021
Goldentulip2:


Smh thank you. Quote by the so called “senseless person” got a little truth and kinda funny to SOME folks. Sorry but get a sense of humor. It will help u
Lol. If the case were reversed and a lady typed that about men that early in a thread, she would be torn to pieces. But you won’t admit that because you’re a hypocrite. And a very funny one at that.

There is no truth is saying nothing can be gotten from a woman when one birthed him. He wasn’t joking and he calls ladies useless all the time. I just left a thread where he commented something similarl. Also, you need help if you found that funny. You don’t know what a ‘sense of humor’ is and when to use it the phrase either because there is nothing remotely funny about saying nothing good can be gained from women.

This was as simple as can be.
If you still have something opposing to say to my compelling argument, keep it to yourself because that shows you are not that smart and I don’t engage unintelligent people who cannot think for themselves.
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by Amanda4life: 12:52am On Dec 29, 2021
Opeyemiextra:
So, I have this neighbor who sells some stuff but for some reasons, I wasn't comfortable buying from her. I buy from the market. This really got her angry and I didn't even know this until recently when she would mention it.

To what really happened, I was home one day and she probably assumed I wasn't. She started saying very terrible things about me to another neighbor that it scared me that another human being would really do that. I was very angry while I was inside my room deciding what exactly to do. I thought of confronting but I decided against it. Eventually I went out, greeted both of them and she was shocked that I was at home. I could see guilt written all over her even days after.

Have you walked in on people or heard by chance people talking ill and evil about you? How did you handle it?
Correct SLAPP
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by dnawah(m): 7:11am On Dec 29, 2021
Opeyemiextra:
So, I have this neighbor who sells some stuff but for some reasons, I wasn't comfortable buying from her. I buy from the market. This really got her angry and I didn't even know this until recently when she would mention it.

To what really happened, I was home one day and she probably assumed I wasn't. She started saying very terrible things about me to another neighbor that it scared me that another human being would really do that. I was very angry while I was inside my room deciding what exactly to do. I thought of confronting but I decided against it. Eventually I went out, greeted both of them and she was shocked that I was at home. I could see guilt written all over her even days after.

Have you walked in on people or heard by chance people talking ill and evil about you? How did you handle it?
no mind them,them go tire.am facing same thing here Andi don't care.

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Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by meedoLock(m): 8:33am On Dec 29, 2021
Bobmarie:
Lol. Forgetting they have female family. They say all sort of things. I’ve been bullied on this platform by your kind for years, one has even taken my photo and drew my boobs as droopy in a mock picture with a pen then started circulating in to bully me.

It’s just odd. When men talk about women, they don’t even consider their mothers who gave them life or their sisters who cook for them.




Ohh that's so immature. Any sensible guy would consider all of these and put his mouth where it's right. Well, like I always do here, it's a faceless forum, I try as much as possible to remember this when anyone mention me, so dear sister it will be better you don't get moved by all of that.

But trust me you can learn alot on this platform as faceless as it seems.

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Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by Goldentulip2: 9:15am On Dec 29, 2021
Bobmarie:
Lol. If the case were reversed and a lady typed that about men that early in a thread, she would be torn to pieces. But you won’t admit that because you’re a hypocrite. And a very funny one at that.

There is no truth is saying nothing can be gotten from a woman when one birthed him. He wasn’t joking and he calls ladies useless all the time. I just left a thread where he commented something similarl. Also, you need help if you found that funny. You don’t know what a ‘sense of humor’ is and when to use it the phrase either because there is nothing remotely funny about saying nothing good can be gained from women.

This was as simple as can be.
If you still have something opposing to say to my compelling argument, keep it to yourself because that shows you are not that smart and I don’t engage unintelligent people who cannot think for themselves.

Loool, Smh. Even from anyone reading your write up will know your type. SOME of you are just the same. Btw I have other things to do, not just sitting there and following threads smh.
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by Kolena: 2:15pm On Dec 29, 2021
Kriss216:
Women and Gossip undecided


Nothing about this gender is worth emulating.


Tueh!
Very pained creatures
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by Nobody: 2:33pm On Dec 30, 2021
Goldentulip2:


Loool, Smh. Even from anyone reading your write up will know your type. SOME of you are just the same. Btw I have other things to do, not just sitting there and following threads smh.
This answer is quite asinine and has nothing to do with what I sent to you. But I expected you to go off topic and type gibberish. No one likes to be caught in hypocrisy.

My type? Lol. You must be a child. Assumptions are for children so lay off that lame stuff if you want to ever find genuine people, life is full of difference.
Re: How Do I Handle My Neighbor Talking Ill About Me? by Nobody: 2:51pm On Dec 30, 2021
meedoLock:





Ohh that's so immature. Any sensible guy would consider all of these and put his mouth where it's right. Well, like I always do here, it's a faceless forum, I try as much as possible to remember this when anyone mention me, so dear sister it will be better you don't get moved by all of that.

But trust me you can learn alot on this platform as faceless as it seems.
Anything that doesn’t put dollars in my pocket doesn’t concern or move me much less random posts on the internet.

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