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Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by ChybuzzDD(m): 8:08am On Jan 09, 2022 |
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Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by IMASTEX: 8:10am On Jan 09, 2022 |
MufasaLion:At bolded is always the major contributing factor. They will see the obvious red flag, but because they have low self-esteem, saw body shapes, etc they will move on thinking they would have the power to change the table after marriage. 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by oilmane(m): 8:14am On Jan 09, 2022 |
[quote author=oladiddy post=109185510]My wife and I have been married for over 3 years now with a beautiful daughter who is 2years plus but things are falling apart everyday. Whenever we had arguments she will want to sabotage my job. Couple of months ago, we had an argument and I was to give update to my team via teams meeting (I work from home)..My wife keep raising her voice, I left the living room and went to bedroom lock the door behind to continue with my meeting but surprisingly to me, my wife went through the window and started the drama again. Just yesterday there was another drama and she picked my phone unknowingly and call my overall boss. Note: it is from this job am sponsoring her Masters in one of the centers in Uniport and also feeding the family. More than 70% of my monthly earnings goes to her. I am not a social person..I don't drink and either spend lavishly. My wife is a very proud person and she has this obvious non challant attitude which are all seen by family members. Everybody keep talking about her but she's not changing. Although I have my own differences as well but she believe I can't control her. She's not submissive at all...I can say that over again and again. Even while she's doing her masters, I was the one taking care of my daughter at home (thanks to covid)..in fact all my team members knows my daughter as my second colleague. I believe we all know how working from home with kids is like. Please I need your advice. I am already thinking of divorce but the fear of loosing my daughter to her custody is my biggest challenge. I am loosing my mind. It is obvious your wife don't love you or she have spiritual problem, no sane wife will do anything to jeopardize her husbands job, it is best you involve her family, if it doesn't work then you should move out of the house for a while to see if your absence will format her brain. Divorce her if none of the above works, your daughter is your daughter, she will always be yours no matter what happens. 2 Likes |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Ramanto(m): 8:18am On Jan 09, 2022 |
You have not seen anything sir. Wait until she completes her masters and gets a good job. You don't have a wife, may God give you your own rightful partner. Just divorce her legally. It's not late to start afresh. With the little you said about her, I understand exactly the kind of person she is, and she's never going to change, it'll only get worse. 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by BigBashiru: 8:24am On Jan 09, 2022 |
Valuc: Women have no code... they are greedy selfish beings just like everyone else.... |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Farfalla(f): 8:28am On Jan 09, 2022 |
ayenika1: Believe it or not, her character is very attractive to majority of men. I dare say 80% of men. Despite all the things men say, they'll pick drama over tranquility. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by vickydevoka(m): 8:37am On Jan 09, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:If I get this kind wife na beating she go de collect. I go find separate room de sleep n4 she stab me. I no go chop her food again b4 she poison me. Na she go use her hand pack |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Farfalla(f): 8:41am On Jan 09, 2022 |
oladiddy: Since you men say that women marry whoever is available and men marry who they want/love, jejely bear the cross. Shebi you picked who you loved? 2 Likes
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Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by vickydevoka(m): 8:43am On Jan 09, 2022 |
onojaford: The man didn't suffer b4 getting a good paying job, that's y. Hand way u give woman na en woman go take follow you. Some men no get sense. To me women are wiser with their small fish brain. How can a man see all this wahala n still be panshin the woman. b4 u knw u will see 3 kids. N her character will remain thesame. Before you know the man will die of HBP. # I pity the bros when him go loose en job 2 Likes |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by BigBashiru: 8:56am On Jan 09, 2022 |
incogni2o: This ur write up is nonsense.... religious folks still treat women like "eggs"... tit for tat treatment is what women deserve.... |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Chrisesh10(m): 9:07am On Jan 09, 2022 |
My advice to you is go seek a counselor and I also recommend you watch the movies " Fire Proof" With your wife and I trust God will start the healing process of your marriage. Remember God hates devoice. Malachi 2 |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Kasco(m): 9:11am On Jan 09, 2022 |
I stay in ph and I need a very good laptop daddytime: |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Dybala11(m): 9:13am On Jan 09, 2022 |
Iyaebe:The question is do you too have money?? Imagine a broke and jobless little girl trying to broke shame hardworking and hustling guys. Once again, may I never make the life destroying mistake of meeting people with your set of ideology. Na greedy girls like this dem dey use for money rituals. Whatever works for you sha, you know what you want therefore there's no big deal in going for it, but looking down on others when you yourself have little next to nothing is shamelessness of the highest order. |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Nobody: 9:14am On Jan 09, 2022 |
Oga, you're a capital SIMP you can't even control her and you made it clear that she's the one controlling and manipulating you and once a lady starts controlling you, she'll never have respect for you again. She starting talking to you anyhow etc. Even in your own house you're still simping around. You better receive become a red piller and enjoy peace of mind. |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by handsomeyitayo(m): 9:17am On Jan 09, 2022 |
Some men don't hear word .. When them see fibe girl nah marriage straight, Dem no wan hear say she is this that, just marriage ni... instead of them studying her and Know who she is...nah den dey jealous pass because of the girl ...after he marry her. His eyes will clear... Those girls are outside disguising, after marriage you will see there through colour, to see a God fearing lady ,e no easy.... Me I have two daughters, with different mother coz they are stubborn, I only care for my daughters.... Since then love any other woman, I stop it, I have peace of mind and love my daughters... I just have girl friend..so anytime I need her I call her over... I don't want to die young.. I know what my friend is facing in marriage now ..his wife is worst than jezebel, same lady I know before my friend tie knot wigh her...very gentle, calm, but after five years....hmmmm I will still post the story.... Fear woman....be thinking she will change or you will change her. Stay there till you your blood pressure high, you die young |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by daddytime(m): 9:19am On Jan 09, 2022 |
Kasco:Do me Whatsapp let's talk and show you a couple. |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Nobody: 9:26am On Jan 09, 2022 |
That's not your wife. Flee! |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by fammava: 9:39am On Jan 09, 2022 |
You can work from my hostel space in uniport everyday as your office, this will eliminate the issue of your wife sabotaging your job while you think of her replacement...You go teach me wetin you dey do sha 2 Likes |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by EXOUSIAng: 9:49am On Jan 09, 2022 |
oladiddy:Same shit different toilets. Thank God I didn't marry officially. I don call agent this morning. M moving out |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Kriss216: 9:55am On Jan 09, 2022 |
EXOUSIAng:Great decision you're taking, man. Na man you be. 2 Likes |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Nobody: 10:01am On Jan 09, 2022 |
oladiddy: What exactly are you talking about? I don't think you are serious with your job. There are multiple open spaces for public use in town. Haven't you seen people coming to fast food outlets with their laptops to work and conduct video conferencing? Are there not over 5 outlets in your town? They also carry their chargers along. Damn, you talk like a kid. You are not supposed to work from home, supposedly in a very noisy environment with children and a lousy wife. |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Exmay(m): 10:08am On Jan 09, 2022 |
oladiddy: So sorry to read about your travails. I can see that the fear here is that you may lose your daughter in a case of divorce. To prevent this, you need to show evidence that you are the one caring for the little one plus show that she is the violent one. to do this, you will need to invest in some covert recording devices, preferably video recording devices. start recording her from now anytime she starts misbehaving. Should you have enough incriminating stuff on her, it can be tendered in court during the divorce process. also keep a record of your spending with receipts if possible. Your mental wellbeing needs to be guarded selfishly. 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Biafraaa: 10:20am On Jan 09, 2022 |
Guy be calming down. Tell us waiting make you dey para like this. The girl offend you no? Kriss216: |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by mfm04622: 10:30am On Jan 09, 2022 |
oladiddy: A woman that is wicked enough to attempt to take your job away from you will NEVER stay and suffer with you. The earlier you accept the fact you don't have a wife, the better 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by survemeka(m): 10:37am On Jan 09, 2022 |
Bro, at least something made you marry her in the first place. It can still work! Divorce may not be your best bet right now. It may also cost your job since your enemies in the firm can capitalize on your likely stress-related incompetence. Why not give one more try. Since you work from home you can work from almost anywhere. You can plan a family trip to the Serengeti in Tanzania, or to Seychelles. Talk things over, talk about how a divorce will affect you both. Pray together if you can. If stuff like this doesn't work, you may then follow your heart. Wish you all the best! |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by MacANDIES: 10:45am On Jan 09, 2022 |
Iyaebe: See marriage counselor wey no fit hold down relationship. Abeg get out |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by drmuchin: 10:50am On Jan 09, 2022 |
Why would a common dispatch rider birth 6 children? No be Mumu be that!? mexioni: |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by damosade(m): 10:56am On Jan 09, 2022 |
Iyaebe: Iya Ibe you fall my hand today, Do you know what technology is at all? |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Munzy14(m): 11:16am On Jan 09, 2022 |
Iyaebe:Here you can have it...
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Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Munzy14(m): 11:19am On Jan 09, 2022 |
Kriss216:Lmao...na wrestling match you carry Armoured tank enter like this... The lady enjoys pressing neck, seems she got you on this one...And you came with a fatality... |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Pacesetter2021: 11:23am On Jan 09, 2022 |
You may be catholic but best believe, your wife needs deliverance. It's not normal what she is doing and may most likely be in need of deliverance, so that demon is cast out. All the best. Draw near to God and He will draw near to your problems too. May God help you. |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by ibrocool(m): 11:23am On Jan 09, 2022 |
Women in the house should pardon me for using this word, "women are senseless". They act first and now think later instead of doing the opposite. You are not alone in this mess. My wife took my gentility for granted and did all sort of things that I hate which she knows. She won't take care of the house, leave every place dirty and rant abuses like I am her servant. She never assist in anything at home and I buy everything needed. You will only see her behave when she needs something from me. She will fail to cook for like 20 days in a month and won't even wash the dirty dishes and toilet for days. On one faithful day, when this argument started, she refused to let me sleep and poured water on the bed, I became very mad at her. I packed all her things and fling them outside, she started making calls at 1a.m and her family kept coming morning and night for 3 days to beg me. After everything, I set rules and regulations and insisted that if she is to stay with me, she must follow it or go back to her family. Believe me, her brain was reset instantly. 1 Like |
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