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Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Emanex18: 3:20am On Jan 09, 2022 |
Nothing is wrong with marriage as an institution, in fact, marriage with the right person is the best thing that can happen to any individual. A wife you're doing all these for, yet she's not submissive? What are you guys enjoying in this institution called marriage? No woman in this world is worth your peace of mind. [/quote] 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by PeachtreeReside(f): 3:22am On Jan 09, 2022 |
Step 1 :Reduce your help to her and let her know her dramatic antics has caused you your job. Step 2: Move out while you start divorce proceedings which you may not follow through. Some women feel.they cannot divorce Step 3: If she sobers up, then go for licensed marriage counselling not with a religious person. Step 4: If she doesn't sober up , begin the divorce proceedings. Your daughter will be fine Don't lose your life to another individual 's cruelty and insensitivity. Do you deliberately get her to get highly upset Then stop it 2 Likes |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Osanoghodua1: 3:47am On Jan 09, 2022 |
You are not ready. You can't divorce her. Divorce is forbidden in Jesus. Go and pray for her. You knew she was like this, yet you got blinded by beauty and now you seek divorce, hell fire is real. You must manage the situation for been foolish at dating. God be with you bro. |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by yuping(m): 3:47am On Jan 09, 2022 |
oladiddy:Me I know very well that no one will give his child to someone who has lost his mind. When you loose your mind eventually you will loose your kid. |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by ukpahu(m): 4:21am On Jan 09, 2022 |
pls brother your own is small,only God know what i am passing true with my wife,i fill like commit sucide |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Kooldame: 4:49am On Jan 09, 2022 |
I am not here to judge,but search your heart Op if you are completely innocent because some women can go to any length to fight their husband without considering the consequence s if their husband is cheating on them. |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by segtech68: 4:51am On Jan 09, 2022 |
what did you do ? give one example [quote author=oladiddy post=109185510] |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Nobody: 4:54am On Jan 09, 2022 |
oladiddy: I do not knkw your own kind of person and behavior, but people who blame others have their own faults from experience, so in refuse to make comments about the attitude of your wife. But if you lose your job, this wife will leave you. The handwriting is clear on the wall. If you have a disability, she will dump you. So why are you playing with your life? You marry first for companionship, but you arent getting it. And your excuse now is your daughter. I am sure you had an excuse for marrying her when you saw the red flags. The truth is to be single is better than marrying a demon. But many in Nigeria rush marriage because of what the society thinks about them. And this wrong habit has put us in a big mess economically which we will realise soon. The population is exploding and people still do not care. People who should have one kid are having 5 and above. And still exploding...then, the 5 children also have 6 children each. What kind of life is that? Now, Lagos has been over populated that it has become too crowded. Yet, madness is everywhere. Sir, give yourself peace of mind ooo. And the only way out is staying away from a toxic partner. Just based on your mental and emotional health, stay away from her. Better you pack out. Go and consult a lawyer how you can get your daughter, or how you can make her not to run away with her. Yes, she cannot run away even she has thw custody if you are fast and you have used the law to compel her. After all you are taking care of your child. Take videos and evidences of periods you shared with your daughter cos you will need it. The worst case is that you will have joint custody. But for you to be the bread winner and even have time to take care of your kid, then, it is very likely you will get the custody. Act fast. When you are ready, serve her a divorce letter..simple.. And if she decides to run away with the girl, there is nothing much you can do. But you can prevent it. After all I have written, I am sure you will still hesitate. But remember, it is your life. If you had taken the right step, you wouldn't have got to this. So, you have been making bad decisions. If you dont do what is right, that woman and even your daughter you are using as the reason to stay in an emotional abused relationship will even insult you. I pray nothing happens to your source of income. When you marry the wrong spouse, you are already dead. Just look at you not having any plan. Just dumping money on that woman. 70% of your salary for many months went into a lady who doesnt appreciate it. Or mayne you want her to serve you like a god cos you did it. I really cant say, but just think before igs too late. You better stay single so you dont kill yourself before your time., or you end up with a woman who will make your old age more terrible. Life is too short. Before you know it, you are already over 65 and that's retirement. So, you better make the right decision. Again, staying single is better than staying with a wrong spouse. But most men cant stay single. They can't even cook for themselves. Lol. Goodluck! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Kooldame: 4:55am On Jan 09, 2022 |
ukpahu:That's serious, sit her down and ask if she wants you dead or alive.If she's not ready to reconcile go and see her ppl and let them call her and question her while she's acting like that.If she's not ready to change suggest that both of you should live separately for that least 3 months then come together thereafter if this will refresh d marriage because of d tension btw both of you.During this period both of u should check yourselves and work on your imperfections,I believe there's going to be some differences 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by ChybuzzDD(m): 5:33am On Jan 09, 2022 |
kansoboy: Stop shouting, bros. Most times, women don't reveal their real characters during courtships, and they do that intentionally to ensure the marriage goes ahead. You need to understand this. 3 Likes |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by mybiz234: 5:44am On Jan 09, 2022 |
Iyaebe: You mean a woman that wants him to lose his job is normal in a marriage? Are you sure you are not a curse to womanhood? Your own life is absurd and you want to counsel others on how to live their lives? What an absurdity? |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Jacksparrow7(m): 6:22am On Jan 09, 2022 |
oladiddy:"Pack and go" in kiss Daniels voice. Divorce her and collect your daughter. The child belongs to the man of the house. Don't share your income with your wife, Instead she should share her own with you, since na she cause am, she be the reason why you are running away for ur dear life, sign am for lawyer paper. Put the house for rent as soon as you "Pack and go". Please don't plan to have any other child, don't get stuck in the rat race. Collect the house rent, don't give her shishi even 10 Kobo, only according to her contribution to build the house are you allowed to give her something. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Munzy14(m): 6:29am On Jan 09, 2022 |
Iyaebe:Taa!!! |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Munzy14(m): 6:29am On Jan 09, 2022 |
Kriss216:Lmaooo |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Nobody: 6:31am On Jan 09, 2022 |
Munzy14:Remember You owe me a car |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Munzy14(m): 6:36am On Jan 09, 2022 |
oladiddy:You married another man's wife....So sorry man.. The biggest fear of any focused man is to avoid marrying another man's wife.. With your own wife and soul mate, good things will start happening to you the moment you meet her.......Words of my Dad. This one is attacking your source of livelihood, she is there to render you useless.. Oga divorce is an option...Before you go 6feet below sea level.....Your daughter will never forget you as long as you are there for her...With basic training she need to stand on her feet. Too many good ladies out there...No let one dangerius lady kill you before it is your time. 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Hassanmaye(m): 6:38am On Jan 09, 2022 |
Kriss216:This is why I Hate marriage |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Hassanmaye(m): 6:41am On Jan 09, 2022 |
Aidejay:This is why we are telling this guys to enjoy themselves vagina People only think of themselves |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Hassanmaye(m): 6:43am On Jan 09, 2022 |
Iyaebe:Do you say rubbish blood of Zachariah! It's the future of money |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by sylve11: 7:08am On Jan 09, 2022 |
Aidejay: Correct. @op, find your way. |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Lumidee007(m): 7:11am On Jan 09, 2022 |
Iyaebe: Full |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by ChybuzzDD(m): 7:14am On Jan 09, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: What's this idiot always saying? Our forefathers 'manned' up and were fully in charge of their various homes; their wives were humble, hardworking and respected them. There was no such thing as a woman then rubbing shoulders or dragging headship of the family with her husband. Women then understood what marriage meant and their positions as wives/keepers of home, and divorce rates were very low. What nonsense are you even saying. If you don't know anything about history, go back and update your rusty knowledge on it. |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by josh6633: 7:15am On Jan 09, 2022 |
oladiddy: Sometimes, I wonder where u guys sees all this mad ladies; were there are many responsible ladies who are ready to sacrifice everything to be with u. How did u even marry a proud lady with such attitudes. Sometimes 80% of our problems is caused by ourselves. U think when u get married to her she will change abi, and u went ahead and married her just because she has big back side, and she beautiful. Now u are tired of the back side and her beauty and u are considering devorce. When they warned u people not to marry a lady for her beauty and back side u people with not hear. And I believe you parents could have warned u but u claimed u lover her not knowing u are blind because honestly u are not in love but infatuated. For so many guys reading this post pls Mary a lady who respect u and ready to sacrifice everything for u. They are available and I can assure u that. But sometimes, when such ladies comes to ours lives, we take advantage of them and go and marry the one that will kill us. 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by patpaul: 7:18am On Jan 09, 2022 |
WE ARE IN THE SAME SHOES MAN! |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by josh6633: 7:23am On Jan 09, 2022 |
Kriss216: Hahahaha |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Nobody: 7:27am On Jan 09, 2022 |
ukpahu: You are a disgrace to humanity. Assuming I know you, I would have punched your face. You want to commit suicide because of a woman, is she the one feeding you? Are you incapacitated? I am so angry typing this. You don't know your way out? Suicide is only what you think because of so called wife so that you put your family members in mourning state. Go and meet someone around your house now to punch your mouth. 2 Likes |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by MostIncredibleDFirst: 7:31am On Jan 09, 2022 |
Op, you be fool. You didn't see all these character traits before you marry am? Why you simps men dey always like dey stupid for woman matter, and after you go come dey disturb the rest of us with your problems? |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by psalmylee(m): 7:36am On Jan 09, 2022 |
With all this stories. Wey I dey read here to marry self no be priority again o. na make God dey help person oo. KARASIKA everywhere. 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by emmanuelbrown26: 7:39am On Jan 09, 2022 |
yemi1504:One love man, I wish your every peace of mind u desire in this world 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Saintinoo(m): 7:42am On Jan 09, 2022 |
Kriss216:I wonder why men marry these days. 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Pat081: 7:51am On Jan 09, 2022 |
MufasaLion:your comments are what is killing both husband and wife in marriage, they will be thinking that he or she will change after marry he or her |
Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Pat081: 8:00am On Jan 09, 2022 |
ukpahu:pls do so that means one fool goes back home out of the fool we have in men because I don't know why you can not walk away from her or send her away |
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