lavamaestro:


I don't mean for any gender to be enslaved to another. As long as she is coming to see you and you requested for it, then courtesy demands you foot her tfare. If a man comes to see me, I always give him transport back because courtesy demands it. They always reject it but I offered at least. Same way it goes for dating. Whoever asked for the date pays be it a female or male.
Anyway, I always advice against traveling or going to see someone you met online especially when it is a different state. Security for Nigeria isn't present. No man is worth the risk of leaving my state for him when I have never met him before.