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Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by cocolacec(m): 4:03pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
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Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Divinefavour1: 4:04pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
safarigirl: What seems to you as a rubbish advice might be one the best to some persons facing the challenge. It seems you don't get it that divorce is not an option until every other option considered has failed. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by fof1: 4:04pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
ChiomaCa: DONT HATE URSELF. Discuss the issues with ur Husband for him to overcome this Evil Part he took earlier to ur arrival. Pls do not allow Depression into ur Life because of this. U can Win with over with Trye Love, Prayers, Frank Communication and Attentions to him. What he has been doing is Bad but dont abuse him nor be Tempted to either. He needs GOD'S Mercies and Deliverance,Pls. Sit Down with Him and humbly and Lovingly Talk d issues out very Plainly. Do not Report him again either,Pls. God Help U with Wisdom to Overcome this Satanic Attack on ur Family...IJN |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by johnfem321: 4:04pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Madam don’t blame yourself oo..even he is married to Beyoncé or any of those beautiful prositute he will still visit other prostitute after some days.. you husband is seriously addicted and under demonic control.. I’m also sure he loves you and really feel guilty about his action.. I believe you should do your best to Communicate with him often on how to stop.. Perhaps he can replace his addiction with a good one like going to the gym, if you can also ask him abit about is fantasy and let him Practice some on you ( like anal) and more and most especially pray for him and communicate with him often about it to make sure he is not going back to it |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by CSTRR: 4:05pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Threaten him with divorce. If he begs you, agree on only one condition. That both of you should go see a shrink. And then warn him, that if he sleeps with prostitutes again, you will leave him for good. If he is a good man, and he sees the scope of what he is about to lose, he will change. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Daneguakhi(m): 4:05pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Pornography destroys many a (man's and sometimes woman's) soul. The inordinate lust, and the increasing depravity that the habitual act of consuming pornography brings, has multi-faceted effect in the life of the addict. There are multiple perversions that stem from pornography akin to monstrous many-headed hydra. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Enugurangers: 4:05pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Simran94:Spot on Before you know, the prostitutes won't be enough for him and he starts looking at his own daughter.. I feel sorry for this woman. While some men in that same Canada are busying buying houses with saved money and building their asset with their family, one is busy spending his money from shift job on prostitute and call girls. 1 Like |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by safarigirl(f): 4:06pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Divinefavour1: Divorce is an option the moment adultery comes in Even the Bible specifically lists adultery as a ground for divorce. So, on what ground is divorce not an option? The only ground you can use lists divorce as an option 3 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Praktikals(m): 4:07pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
ShenTeh:For your mind, you have made sense abi? Will you give her a better husband after the divorce? Divorce should only be a last resort after all other solutions fail to work |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Greenerie(f): 4:07pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
[Please ma'am answer me honestly.in the dating stage, initially,who chased each other first,you chased him or he chased you? In the very beginning of everything,how did two of you meet? quote author=ChiomaCa post=109416018] I'm honest with my story. And I have never for once deny him of sexual intimacy. Infact, most time I make move, almost all the time. I swear to God Almighty. I'm feeling as if I'm ugly and not good looking enough[/quote] |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Chris2863(m): 4:07pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
It's unfortunate Nairaland is becoming something else these day. The st*p*d alpha males will still blame you for your husband's promiscuity. Let your husband know there is a little you can bear, don't let him manipulate you as usual with his pleading. If it requires you shouting at him, please do and for the main time, insist on him using protection when having fun with him. 1 Like |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by pseudonomer: 4:08pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
safarigirl: Enjoy yourself dear. I have contributed my own part. 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by SoapQueen(f): 4:08pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Enugurangers: Looooool. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by cococandy(f): 4:08pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Amanee:as in eh 1 Like |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by cococandy(f): 4:10pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Please shut up your nonsense mouth StPete: 4 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by CSTRR: 4:12pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
safarigirl: Adultery is a ground for divorce, but it doesn't change the fact that prayer changes lives. God hates divorce. He won't penalize you for divorcing an adulterous man, which is scriptural. You won't go to hell for that as long the lady remains unmarried. God won't be pleased with it though. What is joined together, let no man put asunder. 1 Like |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Boyhood: 4:12pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
lomprico:I still don't understand why you had to mention me (boyhood) here. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by cococandy(f): 4:12pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
The boys advice on this thread is a clear example of the reason why nobody should feel an iota of empathy for them when they get the rewards of their labor . Harvest what you grow and support 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Jennifer89(f): 4:13pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
ChiomaCa: the truth is that your husband is a sex addict imagine him sleeping with prostitutes and also doing anal mhennnn.... the man has gone Farr no be today e start probably he has been doing it in Nigeria before he travelled out. please never blame your self biko even if you like do all the beautification he'll still go back to the ashewo house. does he take Viagra? coz he seems to have so much appetite for sex. I won't advice you to divorce him. keep talking to him especially after divotion if you notice he hasn't change move out. you guys should be sperated pending when he decide to change. forget about what family people will say, tell them about their brothers promiscuity let no one make you fell guilty for their brother's adulterous act. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by oluplus(m): 4:14pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
KillIgbohoN0W: The most stupid comment I have read in 2022. I owe you an award for this 3 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by ImoleNaija: 4:15pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
God knows I detest any being that fvcks around like a dog. OP's hubby is sexually loose & should be treated as thrash. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by pocohantas(f): 4:15pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
MNDY: She can’t disfigure her butthole to please a husband!!! Would you shoot out your bum for your wife to penetrate you from behind? Make una dey talk wetin una fit do abeg! 1 Like |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by cococandy(f): 4:16pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
JONNYSPUTE:so in order to avoid getting beat up, she should open her legs and collect deadly diseases? If your wife has been sleeping with multiple guys, will you say the same thing to yourself? Many of you are so chronically insensitive it’s awful to watch 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Nobody: 4:16pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
pocohantas:despite the fact you made a lot of sense, you still derailed it by generalizing. No two men behave alike, people choose what they will and exhibit it accordingly. 1 Like |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Abbeyme: 4:16pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
ShenTeh: Why advising a divorce? You have well stated that it is the hubby that needs help, so, if she divorced him, how will the needed help ever come? For me, the man needs counseling. And the woman must stay by his side as much as she could. Staying by his side should ensure the man’s mind do not wander nor go astray into cyber-disgusts. 1 Like |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Prenonjebose: 4:18pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Chioma Ca. Your husband needs help. The problem is not you. Don't copy any prostitute. Not in dressing or action. That is not going to work for both of you. Just dress well and look good both indoor and outdoor. Don't report this to his family again. Please don't. Since he is religious, then, pray with him, pray for him and share the word of God with him in love. Don't rebuke or tease him while at it. I believe he would change with time. Good luck |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by dlox147(m): 4:18pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
pocohantas: The real issue with relationships, especially for women, is not accepting the reality: men are polygamous in nature. While present day social orientation is fighting hard to change this reality, Nature will always win and the result will be conflicts, that will lead to failed relationships. I feel your concerns and it is well understood but unfortunately it is not our reality! If divorce and separation would have solved the problem of cheating husband's, men would have stopped cheating a long time ago. The painful Truth, is for us to accept our reality and seek a more accommodating approach to assist our spouses to stop or reduce the act. |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Nobody: 4:19pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
ChiomaCa:This your reply will make alot of nairalanders, change what they initially had in mind to type after reading your predicament. Most guys here see women as gold diggers, after many must have read where your hubby took you to canada, it will validate their thought, now after reading this your reply, it will change their thought again . I feel most stories here, are cooked up, but let me add my opinion anyways, I think you should invite those white garment church that use, cain and plank to deliver people, into your home to come and deliver your husband, i think he is possessed, thats why he lacks self control. 1 Like |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by CHoccolaTE: 4:19pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
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Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by gistmega: 4:20pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
My sister. People asking you to divorce him do not mean you well. This isn't a case of divorce. That man is an addict to women and the fact that you beg for sex shows that is not pleased with your body changes post natal. I know that your daughter takes your time too but then, there is a crisis in your marriage. I want to assure you first that you are still beautiful and there is no thing wrong with you. Stop getting depressed over this. Your case is not more than many women out there. Take it easy and address this issue with caution and sensitive gloves. First, get real with him about the changes you have endured from having a baby. Educate that man well enough so that he can appreciate the effort that you put in to carry a human being to birth. Get some nice clothes like the prostitutes get and work on your body as much as you can. communication is very essential in marriage. You both must not be afraid to discuss sensitive topics. do not let him sweep issues under the carpet. Saying that you forgive a man without asking for the initial reason for his actions is furtive. A man cheats cos he has fantasies. Are you in his book of fantasy? Ask yourself. His brothers cannot change him, you can. He is a human and a subject to change. He is not totally gone. Divorcing him exposes you to even more cheat kings. At least, he has one problem. Only one! You should focus on it and work on your man to fix it. Read the Bible together. Not only praying, but let him read the word and take time to analyse it, then pray. Propose ideas to him and ask him to reveal his sexual fantasies to you. some men require a strong event in their lives to make changes, like being jailed for illegal sex or experiencing a near-death incident. some just need a support to help them change. It may be in his heart to change but the pressure compels him to visit the girls. Intensify your assistance and help him overcome his struggle. see it from that angle. It is addiction. He needs help. Don't give up on him as yet. Fight for the love in your affair. 1 Like |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by Kmf0: 4:20pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
When he was alone and sex starved you expect him not to go out there and enjoy himself He was already use to it before you joined him in canada Best advice is when a partner plan to move it’s always better both of you move together |
Re: Help My Husband Seems To Be Addicted To Prostitutes! by cococandy(f): 4:21pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
CHoccolaTE:after they will start crying paternity fraud. No who No know dem 2 Likes |
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