pocohantas:


Christianity didn’t stop you from Fornicating, lying and killing yourselves for rituals, but it stopped you from marrying extra wives??

Lady I speak for myself, Christianity is as a norm and whoever does contrary is seen as deviant..
All the sins you mentioned do you yourself not see it as abomination? Yes same wya you see Yahooboys as deviants..bcus we all see it through the eyes of Christianity and holier than thou attitude

ChiomaCa:
Hello everyone, I'm in need of an advice, I got married to a man 5yrs+ ago. He relocated some months after marriage to Canada, I went to meet him 2 years after. And we had a baby 10months after my arrival. Immediately I arrived his place, I noticed he flirt alot onlline, Sex chats, Video sex chats, Visit porn sites, visit Prostitue Sites, and the rest. I caught him red-handed twice and he begged and pleaded not to do such again. I forgive him and I believe maybe because of the distance we had in two years.

We move on and I promise myself not to even go near his Laptop or mobile phone anymore.

I adhered to that for more than a year, which I'm still doing that till December 23 of 2021.

My daughter threw his I-watch inside water. Then I picked it up to drain for some minutes, after I drianed, I realised a message popped up , which Read " Do you enjoy me yesterday Do I book you for tomorrow again"

I was forced to check what's this. I saw hell. In short, he visited two different Prostitues in a hotel to book 30 minutes session with them for $160 and $220, I also saw other messages asking for Anal sex from these Escorts. I realised, he visited them 3rd, 1st 22nd of December. During these period, I was the one begging him for sex. He said he's not interested that he's Fixed with many activities and Shifts at work.

I was in the house hopping my husband as gone to work, not knowing he's doing something else within his short break and free time.

Immediately I saw this, I was devastated,I was mad at my self. We are very religious. Why all these for God sake, this is the 3rd time, what have I done to myself, have made a wrong choice?

I called his brother back in Nigeria and I inform and sent all what I saw to him, he called and talked to him, the next day, my husband came to me, apologize and promised not to do that again. I accept and forgive him.

Few days ago, I have been having this kind of feeling, I feel like I'm not beutiful because why will my husband prefer a Prostitue than me.

I hate myself, I think about it every minutes, whenever I see him, my mind keep breathing fast. I'm sad and I'm not happy, I don't know what to do.

I can't discuss with my parents, because they see my husband as the most religious person.

He doesn't talk much, keep friends nor drink.

I need advice dear mummy and daddy please is this a red light?

Since he apologies and not argue about it, seems there is a problem somewhere. Have a heart to heart talk with him while praying and consulting alongside. I don't believe he is irredeemable. God will help you as you do this.

[This woman has been the one always begging him for sex,doing all to please him,...always initiating sex,it has become so bad that she is now questioning her self worth?


quote author=Naughtysex post=109420166] My advice will base on personal experience
I will ask you some questions (just answer yourself and be sincere to yourself)

Is your sex life (during the marriage) the same like when you guys were dating?

Have you stopped him from doing somethings he use to do and enjoy when you guys were dating during love making?

Sexually, compare how you have been making move for sex during your courtship and now.

To be honest with you ma'am, everything i asked here is what has been happening in my own marriage
I was forced to taste another kpekus outside and i'm beginning to think on how to make that outside kpekus permanent

Please don't get me wrong, all I'm saying is to first evaluate yourself sexually and see if you are the cause of his madness [/quote]

pocohantas:


Christianity didn’t stop you from Fornicating, lying and killing yourselves for rituals, but it stopped you from marrying extra wives??

if I were your husband and asked you to turn around bend over for me to penetrate your butthole would you not judge me and call me names,why? Bcus you consider it perverse talkmore of a religious man asking of it from his wife

Smh

I always advice young men, don't marry a religious woman, they re ungrateful liabilities.
Why would your husband choose to sleep with how's? You must have contributed to his decision to spend time and money on how's.
You think because you re married and bare kids for him sex is over?
You don't take care of your appearance, you decide to get fat and ugly,( like every other Nigerian married woman)
Dey there dey cry, no wise up.

ChiomaCa:
Hello everyone, I'm in need of an advice, I got married to a man 5yrs+ ago. He relocated some months after marriage to Canada, I went to meet him 2 years after. And we had a baby 10months after my arrival. Immediately I arrived his place, I noticed he flirt alot onlline, Sex chats, Video sex chats, Visit porn sites, visit Prostitue Sites, and the rest. I caught him red-handed twice and he begged and pleaded not to do such again. I forgive him and I believe maybe because of the distance we had in two years.

We move on and I promise myself not to even go near his Laptop or mobile phone anymore.

I adhered to that for more than a year, which I'm still doing that till December 23 of 2021.

My daughter threw his I-watch inside water. Then I picked it up to drain for some minutes, after I drianed, I realised a message popped up , which Read " Do you enjoy me yesterday Do I book you for tomorrow again"

I was forced to check what's this. I saw hell. In short, he visited two different Prostitues in a hotel to book 30 minutes session with them for $160 and $220, I also saw other messages asking for Anal sex from these Escorts. I realised, he visited them 3rd, 1st 22nd of December. During these period, I was the one begging him for sex. He said he's not interested that he's Fixed with many activities and Shifts at work.

I was in the house hopping my husband as gone to work, not knowing he's doing something else within his short break and free time.

Immediately I saw this, I was devastated,I was mad at my self. We are very religious. Why all these for God sake, this is the 3rd time, what have I done to myself, have made a wrong choice?

I called his brother back in Nigeria and I inform and sent all what I saw to him, he called and talked to him, the next day, my husband came to me, apologize and promised not to do that again. I accept and forgive him.

Few days ago, I have been having this kind of feeling, I feel like I'm not beutiful because why will my husband prefer a Prostitue than me.

I hate myself, I think about it every minutes, whenever I see him, my mind keep breathing fast. I'm sad and I'm not happy, I don't know what to do.

I can't discuss with my parents, because they see my husband as the most religious person.

He doesn't talk much, keep friends nor drink.

I need advice dear mummy and daddy please is this a red light?

The down side or problem with religious marriages is they don’t tell themselves the truth. They are more occupied with try to look perfect than trying to actually be perfect.

Most times it’s a facade and not as real as it seems. Ur real husband is the misled one jumping around with prostitutes and not the one jumping in church. He likes them or is just inna phase depending on how long this has been going on.

Do don’t be shocked it’s just time to help him get back on the right track in a sensible way without hypocritical condemnations and approach that religious people have.

ChiomaCa:


My daughter threw his I-watch inside water. Then I picked it up to drain for some minutes, after I drianed, I realised a message popped up , which Read " Do you enjoy me yesterday Do I book you for tomorrow again"

I was forced to check what's this. I saw hell. In short, he visited two different Prostitues in a hotel to book 30 minutes session with them for $160 and $220, I also saw other messages asking for Anal sex from these Escorts. I realised, he visited them 3rd, 1st 22nd of December. During these period, I was the one begging him for sex. He said he's not interested that he's Fixed with many activities and Shifts at work.

I was in the house hopping my husband as gone to work, not knowing he's doing something else within his short break and free time.

Immediately I saw this, I was devastated,I was mad at my self. We are very religious. Why all these for God sake, this is the 3rd time, what have I done to myself, have made a wrong choice?

I called his brother back in Nigeria and I inform and sent all what I saw to him, he called and talked to him, the next day, my husband came to me, apologize and promised not to do that again. I accept and forgive him.

Few days ago, I have been having this kind of feeling, I feel like I'm not beutiful because why will my husband prefer a Prostitue than me.

I hate myself, I think about it every minutes, whenever I see him, my mind keep breathing fast. I'm sad and I'm not happy, I don't know what to do.

I can't discuss with my parents, because they see my husband as the most religious person.

He doesn't talk much, keep friends nor drink.

I need advice dear mummy and daddy please is this a red light?

Go and do STD test but make sure you do this test HPV, HSV, chlamydia.. these are common std that are prevalent in the north America.
Of course, you should also do HIV, gonorrhea which is common in Africa.

Look no further, try divorce your husband. If the tables were to turn, he will call you all sort of names and divorce you.

ChiomaCa:
Hello everyone, I'm in need of an advice, I got married to a man 5yrs+ ago. He relocated some months after marriage to Canada, I went to meet him 2 years after. And we had a baby 10months after my arrival. Immediately I arrived his place, I noticed he flirt alot onlline, Sex chats, Video sex chats, Visit porn sites, visit Prostitue Sites, and the rest. I caught him red-handed twice and he begged and pleaded not to do such again. I forgive him and I believe maybe because of the distance we had in two years.

We move on and I promise myself not to even go near his Laptop or mobile phone anymore.

I adhered to that for more than a year, which I'm still doing that till December 23 of 2021.

My daughter threw his I-watch inside water. Then I picked it up to drain for some minutes, after I drianed, I realised a message popped up , which Read " Do you enjoy me yesterday Do I book you for tomorrow again"

I was forced to check what's this. I saw hell. In short, he visited two different Prostitues in a hotel to book 30 minutes session with them for $160 and $220, I also saw other messages asking for Anal sex from these Escorts. I realised, he visited them 3rd, 1st 22nd of December. During these period, I was the one begging him for sex. He said he's not interested that he's Fixed with many activities and Shifts at work.

I was in the house hopping my husband as gone to work, not knowing he's doing something else within his short break and free time.

Immediately I saw this, I was devastated,I was mad at my self. We are very religious. Why all these for God sake, this is the 3rd time, what have I done to myself, have made a wrong choice?

I called his brother back in Nigeria and I inform and sent all what I saw to him, he called and talked to him, the next day, my husband came to me, apologize and promised not to do that again. I accept and forgive him.

Few days ago, I have been having this kind of feeling, I feel like I'm not beutiful because why will my husband prefer a Prostitue than me.

I hate myself, I think about it every minutes, whenever I see him, my mind keep breathing fast. I'm sad and I'm not happy, I don't know what to do.

I can't discuss with my parents, because they see my husband as the most religious person.

He doesn't talk much, keep friends nor drink.

I need advice dear mummy and daddy please is this a red light?

"if the foundation is destroyed what will the righteous do?"First take charge of your emotion because you are more likely to say and do things you will regret in no time. Secondly, do not involve family and friends they will ignoratly destroy the marriage. Thirdly, the solution is(1) therapeutic and (2)spiritual. You need two reputable professionals(1) psychologist/guidance & counselor (2) Man of God. You both need visit this places. Lastly monitor his progress. Do not forget the bedroom skills. Cheers!

Make him see a therapist plus make him tell you all those things hoes do that he loves that you don't do

Laurene:
Dress sexy, workout and mind what you eat.

this is not about the lady but the character of the man. Dressing seductively won't solve anything, the man is gone.

ChiomaCa:
I'm not with him because of wealth. I have a company here in Nigeria and it's still functioning! My brother manage this on my behalf... Also whenver he wanna talk about his traveling out success story, he will definitely mention my mum and I

So sorry for your predicament. You need to understand his background.

He was brought up in a judgemental society (nig.) He was not allowed to express himself sexually.

He got to a free society where people don't judge you.
He tasted freedom and now exploring
He doesn't hate you, or see you as unattractive.
It's just a phase.
Try as much as possible to persuade him.

You can tell him how his action could cost him his marriage and the attendance effect on your children, you and his finance.

But please don't divorce him.

You will loose more in a divorce scenerio. You don't want to be passed around like football.

pocohantas:


Then marry multiple wives. No one is stopping you men from marrying 100 wives. Marry 100 women that are interested in practicing polygamy with you. Don’t marry one woman and start pursuing 200L girls upandan. If they get pregnant you will tell them to abort it. That is not polygamy, that is a useless man in action. A subset many of you fall into.

Like I said, it is a reality you cannot wish away,neither will the anger or abuses.

The first step of dealing with a problem is accepting the existence of that problem.

Many women, have unknowingly created a problem for themselves with the concept of "cheating husband". Men are men everywhere and anywhere,.and the refusal to accept this reality is the reason for the bitterness in most women.

dlox147:

The painful Truth, is for us to accept our reality and seek a more accommodating approach to assist our spouses to stop or reduce the act.

I don't know why it's easy for men to accept Hypergamy but hard for women to accept Polygamy.

Honestly, there is nothing to accommodate.

Both genders have to accept their natures and L's at the same time and move on.

It is what it is!

While a lady refuses to date a guy because he's not financially at her level, she should also accept the fact that the well to do one she's eyeing, probably dating and hoping for something serious has other prettier and curvy ladies vying for his attention.

The competition too excites her in a way: it is called pre selection.

Even some ladies know this hence the phrase "better to cry in a jeep than a face me I face you".

My only grouse with the husband is that he's not discreet enough about his rendezvous.

dlox147:


Like I said, it is a reality you cannot wish away,neither will the anger or abuses.

The first step of dealing with a problem is accepting the existence of that problem.

Many women, have unknowingly created a problem for themselves with the concept of "cheating husband". Men are men everywhere and anywhere,.and the refusal to accept this reality is the reason for the bitterness in most women.

Marry more wives, Oga. No one is stopping you. Marry them and bring them home. There is no refusal here. This is me reminding you that the Nigerian customary law isn’t against you marrying multiple wives. MARRY THEM and quit the excuses.

dlox147:


Like I said, it is a reality you cannot wish away,neither will the anger or abuses.

The first step of dealing with a problem is accepting the existence of that problem.

Many women, have unknowingly created a problem for themselves with the concept of "cheating husband". Men are men everywhere and anywhere,.and the refusal to accept this reality is the reason for the bitterness in most women.

Both genders are the same everywhere but it seems only men are the ones that have accepted this fact. Women are yet to.

Furcko:
if I were your husband and asked you to turn around bend over for me to penetrate your butthole would you not judge me and call me names,why? Bcus you consider it perverse talkmore of a religious man asking of it from his wife

Smh

Marry a woman that is open to anal. You refused to marry her and came for me?

And why did you assume I am one of you hypocritical Nigerian christians? I resemble anybody for your church? God forbid I marry a religious Nigerian man!!!

ChiomaCa:
Hello everyone, I'm in need of an advice, I got married to a man 5yrs+ ago. He relocated some months after marriage to Canada, I went to meet him 2 years after. And we had a baby 10months after my arrival. Immediately I arrived his place, I noticed he flirt alot onlline, Sex chats, Video sex chats, Visit porn sites, visit Prostitue Sites, and the rest. I caught him red-handed twice and he begged and pleaded not to do such again. I forgive him and I believe maybe because of the distance we had in two years.

We move on and I promise myself not to even go near his Laptop or mobile phone anymore.

I adhered to that for more than a year, which I'm still doing that till December 23 of 2021.

My daughter threw his I-watch inside water. Then I picked it up to drain for some minutes, after I drianed, I realised a message popped up , which Read " Do you enjoy me yesterday Do I book you for tomorrow again"

I was forced to check what's this. I saw hell. In short, he visited two different Prostitues in a hotel to book 30 minutes session with them for $160 and $220, I also saw other messages asking for Anal sex from these Escorts. I realised, he visited them 3rd, 1st 22nd of December. During these period, I was the one begging him for sex. He said he's not interested that he's Fixed with many activities and Shifts at work.

I was in the house hopping my husband as gone to work, not knowing he's doing something else within his short break and free time.

Immediately I saw this, I was devastated,I was mad at my self. We are very religious. Why all these for God sake, this is the 3rd time, what have I done to myself, have made a wrong choice?

I called his brother back in Nigeria and I inform and sent all what I saw to him, he called and talked to him, the next day, my husband came to me, apologize and promised not to do that again. I accept and forgive him.

Few days ago, I have been having this kind of feeling, I feel like I'm not beutiful because why will my husband prefer a Prostitue than me.

I hate myself, I think about it every minutes, whenever I see him, my mind keep breathing fast. I'm sad and I'm not happy, I don't know what to do.

I can't discuss with my parents, because they see my husband as the most religious person.

He doesn't talk much, keep friends nor drink.

I need advice dear mummy and daddy please is this a red light?

I live here too and I have seen too many of this scenario playing out daily among our folks.
Try and arrange a family meeting and discuss the issue before its late,you might need to move on with your life before he will transmit an incurable disease to you all in the name of been religious. Marriage isn't a do or die affair.

ChiomaCa:
I'm honest with my story. And I have never for once deny him of sexual intimacy. Infact, most time I make move, almost all the time. I swear to God Almighty. I'm feeling as if I'm ugly and not good looking enough

From ur story i don't see any indication that ur hubby does not love you, maybe he loves you in a religious way, however most men pamper fvck women dey love in bed, i think he has some sexual preference he is probably shy or he does not want to do them with you out of respect he has for you or he might even be scared of how you will feel if he proposes such preferences to you.
Some men prefer to keep their sexual pervasion outside marriage, cos they want a perfect image of a decent/virtuous wife in their head.
way forward as his wife are you ready to become a LovePeddler for your hubby, upgrade your sex life and give him whatever he is looking for out there,

pocohantas:


Marry a woman that is open to anal. You refused to marry her and came for me?

And why did you assume I am one of you hypocritical Nigerian christians? I resemble anybody for your church? God forbid I marry a religious Nigerian man!!!

Do you live in Nigeria? Are you married? Has your husband ever cheated? Are you still with him? Please answer these questions before you continue ?

Richy4:

Can I just ask for who's benefits is she dressing sexy and working out? The man or for herself?... I need to know...

Because if it's for the benefit of the man in question, forget it, it won't work..She can carry all the weight lifting in Olympics or run from Wuse to Gwagwalada every morning, it won't move him..

lol at wuse to gwagwalada.

Our Abuja brethren

holybabayo:
Change your church. He needs the fire of the Holy Spirit to burn off that powerful spirit in him.

The power of the holy spirit cannot and can never stop a bulging libido. A man or woman at his peak of sexual desire.

Nature will find his way.

Pray for him.

12inchess:


Do you live in Nigeria? Are you married? Has your husband ever cheated? Are you still with him? Please answer these questions before you continue ?

Is this about a cheating man or a man on wild sexual escapades? Did your father go about having anal sex with prostitutes? Did your mother leave him?

Something is wrong with your head.

pocohantas:


Is this about a cheating man or a man on wild sexual escapades? Did your father go about having anal sex with prostitutes? Did your mother leave him?

Something is wrong with your head.

.... Hahahahahahaaah.

ChiomaCa:
Hello everyone, I'm in need of an advice, I got married to a man 5yrs+ ago. He relocated some months after marriage to Canada, I went to meet him 2 years after. And we had a baby 10months after my arrival. Immediately I arrived his place, I noticed he flirt alot onlline, Sex chats, Video sex chats, Visit porn sites, visit Prostitue Sites, and the rest. I caught him red-handed twice and he begged and pleaded not to do such again. I forgive him and I believe maybe because of the distance we had in two years.

We move on and I promise myself not to even go near his Laptop or mobile phone anymore.

I adhered to that for more than a year, which I'm still doing that till December 23 of 2021.

My daughter threw his I-watch inside water. Then I picked it up to drain for some minutes, after I drianed, I realised a message popped up , which Read " Do you enjoy me yesterday Do I book you for tomorrow again"

I was forced to check what's this. I saw hell. In short, he visited two different Prostitues in a hotel to book 30 minutes session with them for $160 and $220, I also saw other messages asking for Anal sex from these Escorts. I realised, he visited them 3rd, 1st 22nd of December. During these period, I was the one begging him for sex. He said he's not interested that he's Fixed with many activities and Shifts at work.

I was in the house hopping my husband as gone to work, not knowing he's doing something else within his short break and free time.

Immediately I saw this, I was devastated,I was mad at my self. We are very religious. Why all these for God sake, this is the 3rd time, what have I done to myself, have made a wrong choice?

I called his brother back in Nigeria and I inform and sent all what I saw to him, he called and talked to him, the next day, my husband came to me, apologize and promised not to do that again. I accept and forgive him.

Few days ago, I have been having this kind of feeling, I feel like I'm not beutiful because why will my husband prefer a Prostitue than me.

I hate myself, I think about it every minutes, whenever I see him, my mind keep breathing fast. I'm sad and I'm not happy, I don't know what to do.

I can't discuss with my parents, because they see my husband as the most religious person.

He doesn't talk much, keep friends nor drink.

I need advice dear mummy and daddy please is this a red light?

As a woman, I will advise you to first of all stop every form of sex with your husband cos your life is on the line here because of STDS like Hepatitis which is very common abroad, HIV , herpes virus etc
Secondly, focus on yourself and your daughter, develop your business, expand, go on holiday if you need to cos no matter who you report him to a cheating man will only change if he wants to. Just keep praying for him while you abstain from him cos your daughter need you to take care of her Incase he catches a deadly virus. That is my 1 cent

You can private chat for a thorough talk in this. Only God can intervene here.

pseudonomer:
You seeking advice from people whose homes are already broken and they are on a mission to make sure everyone else is like them.

You got the typical advice from those sad individuals, Divorce. But don’t do it without fighting for the marriage first, unless he’s physically abusing you or not treating you right.

What he has is an addiction problem, if he apologizes everytime and still goes back to his old ways, it shows he has a problem, he’s always trying to stop but couldn’t help himself. He needs you more than ever, and that’s why you are his wife, please don’t give up on him yet.

Try to talk to him, maybe he should see a therapist or something, and you can threaten that you’d have no option to divorce him if he continues, I’m sure he loves you and his family, maybe that will help him overcome this addiction. Just try anything that will help him.

Also, make him free to tell you everything, trying to appear pious will always make one to pretend. Put being religious aside, ask him what are his fantasies, what attracts him sexually, what makes him begs for more.

Addiction is a serious problem, please help him, without trying to help him, don’t listen to those sad humans.

You've bared it all bro

ChiomaCa:
Hello everyone, I'm in need of an advice, I got married to a man 5yrs+ ago. He relocated some months after marriage to Canada, I went to meet him 2 years after. And we had a baby 10months after my arrival. Immediately I arrived his place, I noticed he flirt alot onlline, Sex chats, Video sex chats, Visit porn sites, visit Prostitue Sites, and the rest. I caught him red-handed twice and he begged and pleaded not to do such again. I forgive him and I believe maybe because of the distance we had in two years.

We move on and I promise myself not to even go near his Laptop or mobile phone anymore.

I adhered to that for more than a year, which I'm still doing that till December 23 of 2021.

My daughter threw his I-watch inside water. Then I picked it up to drain for some minutes, after I drianed, I realised a message popped up , which Read " Do you enjoy me yesterday Do I book you for tomorrow again"

I was forced to check what's this. I saw hell. In short, he visited two different Prostitues in a hotel to book 30 minutes session with them for $160 and $220, I also saw other messages asking for Anal sex from these Escorts. I realised, he visited them 3rd, 1st 22nd of December. During these period, I was the one begging him for sex. He said he's not interested that he's Fixed with many activities and Shifts at work.

I was in the house hopping my husband as gone to work, not knowing he's doing something else within his short break and free time.

Immediately I saw this, I was devastated,I was mad at my self. We are very religious. Why all these for God sake, this is the 3rd time, what have I done to myself, have made a wrong choice?

I called his brother back in Nigeria and I inform and sent all what I saw to him, he called and talked to him, the next day, my husband came to me, apologize and promised not to do that again. I accept and forgive him.

Few days ago, I have been having this kind of feeling, I feel like I'm not beutiful because why will my husband prefer a Prostitue than me.

I hate myself, I think about it every minutes, whenever I see him, my mind keep breathing fast. I'm sad and I'm not happy, I don't know what to do.

I can't discuss with my parents, because they see my husband as the most religious person.

He doesn't talk much, keep friends nor drink.

I need advice dear mummy and daddy please is this a red light?

Reading some of the comments here, I want to believe you are at the wrong place.

How do you want to hear honest opinion from some one who doesn't have an idea of how marriage works.

Give him a pack of condoms... simple

pocohantas:


Marry more wives, Oga. No one is stopping you. Marry them and bring them home. There is no refusal here. This is me reminding you that the Nigerian customary law isn’t against you marrying multiple wives. MARRY THEM and quit the excuses.

I can sense some level of anger?
No need to get all emotional and personal...

ChiomaCa:
Hello everyone, I'm in need of an advice, I got married to a man 5yrs+ ago. He relocated some months after marriage to Canada, I went to meet him 2 years after. And we had a baby 10months after my arrival. Immediately I arrived his place, I noticed he flirt alot onlline, Sex chats, Video sex chats, Visit porn sites, visit Prostitue Sites, and the rest. I caught him red-handed twice and he begged and pleaded not to do such again. I forgive him and I believe maybe because of the distance we had in two years.

We move on and I promise myself not to even go near his Laptop or mobile phone anymore.

I adhered to that for more than a year, which I'm still doing that till December 23 of 2021.

My daughter threw his I-watch inside water. Then I picked it up to drain for some minutes, after I drianed, I realised a message popped up , which Read " Do you enjoy me yesterday Do I book you for tomorrow again"

I was forced to check what's this. I saw hell. In short, he visited two different Prostitues in a hotel to book 30 minutes session with them for $160 and $220, I also saw other messages asking for Anal sex from these Escorts. I realised, he visited them 3rd, 1st 22nd of December. During these period, I was the one begging him for sex. He said he's not interested that he's Fixed with many activities and Shifts at work.

I was in the house hopping my husband as gone to work, not knowing he's doing something else within his short break and free time.

Immediately I saw this, I was devastated,I was mad at my self. We are very religious. Why all these for God sake, this is the 3rd time, what have I done to myself, have made a wrong choice?

I called his brother back in Nigeria and I inform and sent all what I saw to him, he called and talked to him, the next day, my husband came to me, apologize and promised not to do that again. I accept and forgive him.

Few days ago, I have been having this kind of feeling, I feel like I'm not beutiful because why will my husband prefer a Prostitue than me.

I hate myself, I think about it every minutes, whenever I see him, my mind keep breathing fast. I'm sad and I'm not happy, I don't know what to do.

I can't discuss with my parents, because they see my husband as the most religious person.

He doesn't talk much, keep friends nor drink.

I need advice dear mummy and daddy please is this a red light?

Madam it is spiritual thing ,grab ur Bible or quran and face the masquerade or visit Omega power ministry via Facebook or YouTube on Sunday service 4 action if u love ur husband .life is to short,days is going ...u are warn

Raalsalghul:


Both genders are the same everywhere but it seems only men are the ones that have accepted this fact. Women are yet to.

Probably because men are less emotional