wirinet:

That's the koko of the matter. She got pregnant for another guy and did not want you to find out. Why will a newly married woman do an abortion secretly? How did you even find out.

Back to the topic. This is obviously transferred aggression. She must be transferring the anger of losing her real lover and the baby, and you are to blame for both.

Kobojunkie:
Maybe it is time to engage the aide of a professional marriage counselor. Since she has already pulled out weapons in the past, having a third party there is best to help mediate and maybe dig to discover the root cause of the problem which may be psychological- mental illness - as that is what I suspect from what you have said so far.

Also consider a temporary separation or living apart until the problem is resolved. I am not here attempting to break up your marriage, No. I am interested in helping you save it.

Mood11:


Don't be scared. She's just showing you her true colors. Just buy helmet so that she won't break your head one day.

On a serious note :
Kick the fvvcking retired hoeloeshoe back to her parents house until she receive sense.
What kind of Lily livered men do we have nowadays

streetzdreamz:
Can't we just read a good, educative, motivating post about marriage on this forum? The married ones enjoying their marriages should atleast create one. This incessant tale of woes is becoming something else.

Blame the moderators.. they feel that bad news is the real deal

Rubbiish:

God bless u for this!
This is where many men get it wrong
A woman did an abortion without informing u & u just let it slide & even planning to set up a business for her & u expect such woman to respect u?? Some men are something else.
Personally I just believe some of the stories are made up, because they are too ridiculous to be true!

Lucaslookers:
Please married folks in the house,

My lovely wife and I have been married for almost 2 years now. I know I am not a perfect person and she is not too but we have been managing.

Why I opened this thread is that I am very afraid of her new attitude of always carrying weapons anytime we have a misunderstanding.

It started when I found out she had an abortion without telling me and when I confronted her she flared up and started behaving like a tout jumping here and there.

On Friday last week we were discussing about how to go about the new business I want to set up for her and somehow we got into an argument and she ran into the kitchen and grabbed a knife.

Again, this morning I simply asked her to waybill some foodstuffs to her father as I wouldn't be able to do that before heading to my place of business and she grabbed my clothes and started calling me names, next thing she picked up the belt hanging on the wardrobe and started threatening to teach me a lesson.

I have never been a woman beater and honestly don't know what has gotten into her.
We have a pending issue we are yet to sort out but still I am keeping my calm why is she the one suddenly going violent??

Please what do I do? I don't want blood on my hands because if I touch her it will be very bad.
My marriage is still young.

Fiscus105:



Oga keep on against marriages o, in fact be canvassing for gay and avoid woman completely. ..........Before small challenge marriage na scam, as if they are not having problems in other sector of their life

pussyphilia:
Op, no smoke without fire. You must have done something to offend your wife. She is reacting to a deep rooted anger you must have caused her before.

Solution: wake her up in the midnight, go on your knees and apologize for any wrong you might have caused her that is making her to react like that. Promise her never to offend her again. Also, double your hustle and make more money so you can meet her financial needs and make her happy always.

Thank me later....

Mood11:


Don't be scared. She's just showing you her true colors. Just buy helmet so that she won't break your head one day.

On a serious note :
Kick the fvvcking retired hoeloeshoe back to her parents house until she receive sense.
What kind of Lily livered men do we have nowadays

HopeNeverDies:
Damnnnn!!!! Can someone please get me a good song to mend a broken Heart?? Thanks

I'm fucking tired of the relationship I'm into currently...


About your own case Sir...I have nothing special to say..

HopeNeverDies:
Damnnnn!!!! Can someone please get me a good song to mend a broken Heart?? Thanks

I'm fucking tired of the relationship I'm into currently...


About your own case Sir...I have nothing special to say..

HopeNeverDies:
Damnnnn!!!! Can someone please get me a good song to mend a broken Heart?? Thanks

I'm fucking tired of the relationship I'm into currently...


About your own case Sir...I have nothing special to say..

Lucaslookers:
Please married folks in the house,

My lovely wife and I have been married for almost 2 years now. I know I am not a perfect person and she is not too but we have been managing.

Why I opened this thread is that I am very afraid of her new attitude of always carrying weapons anytime we have a misunderstanding.

It started when I found out she had an abortion without telling me and when I confronted her she flared up and started behaving like a tout jumping here and there.

On Friday last week we were discussing about how to go about the new business I want to set up for her and somehow we got into an argument and she ran into the kitchen and grabbed a knife.

Again, this morning I simply asked her to waybill some foodstuffs to her father as I wouldn't be able to do that before heading to my place of business and she grabbed my clothes and started calling me names, next thing she picked up the belt hanging on the wardrobe and started threatening to teach me a lesson.

I have never been a woman beater and honestly don't know what has gotten into her.
We have a pending issue we are yet to sort out but still I am keeping my calm why is she the one suddenly going violent??

Please what do I do? I don't want blood on my hands because if I touch her it will be very bad.
My marriage is still young.

msakhere:
How long did you two court? Did she display these behaviors while you were courting?

What she is displaying now is her true nature that she never showed you before now, report to her family and yours too. Let everyone be aware of what you are seeing o, let them know on time. Na wa

Since you don't have a child yet, it's best to dissolve the marriage, let her carry her craze elsewhere before we hear bloodshed stories, God forbid.

Lucaslookers:
Please married folks in the house,

My lovely wife and I have been married for almost 2 years now. I know I am not a perfect person and she is not too but we have been managing.

Why I opened this thread is that I am very afraid of her new attitude of always carrying weapons anytime we have a misunderstanding.

It started when I found out she had an abortion without telling me and when I confronted her she flared up and started behaving like a tout jumping here and there.

On Friday last week we were discussing about how to go about the new business I want to set up for her and somehow we got into an argument and she ran into the kitchen and grabbed a knife.

Again, this morning I simply asked her to waybill some foodstuffs to her father as I wouldn't be able to do that before heading to my place of business and she grabbed my clothes and started calling me names, next thing she picked up the belt hanging on the wardrobe and started threatening to teach me a lesson.

I have never been a woman beater and honestly don't know what has gotten into her.
We have a pending issue we are yet to sort out but still I am keeping my calm why is she the one suddenly going violent??

Please what do I do? I don't want blood on my hands because if I touch her it will be very bad.
My marriage is still young.

Righteousness2:
There is Something fishy.
It could be much more than you think.
Your wife needs a touch from GOD.
Take her to the Lord's Chosen this Tuesday and Thursday. Service starts 8am. Make Power touch her.

genkins:


I can agree with you. The baby she aborted might not be his. When women commit, they become violet when you question them. For me, I would have sent her packing for aborting her pregnancy and only forgive if she can prove it was mine

AndreSalvatore:
captain save a h**

cutieBR:
Hmmmm, it's well..

Righteousness2:
There is Something fishy.
It could be much more than you think.
Your wife needs a touch from GOD.
Take her to the Lord's Chosen this Tuesday and Thursday. Service starts 8am. Make Power touch her.