Cyntie55:
He has every right to show him the message, I know the girl is not a kid but she's the last born, she's surrounded by guyz and they would want to do anything to protect her.

He doing this won't stop the girl fvcking if she wants. Anyway, i get ur point. But do u know it could backfire him? It could ruin his friendship with the girl.

You've done your part by linking both together, why not start minding your business before insult will be dished out to you�
They are both adults, if the guy isn't comfortable with you, chatting abi seeing the girl you stop...that's not too difficult na

Make the girl no come tell you strong word one day and you go begin regret..
Leave her elder bro(your friend) to do the work.

Cyntie55:
I'm a lady, let us be reasonable here, I understand the op very well. From his write up, he has known the girl and her elder brother for over 15 years while the other guy for 4 years. So do you think the op would throw away 15 years friendship just like that? Of course he would show the girl's bro the message.

What I can sense here is that, the op is just worried, he actually brought the girl into the relationship and he's scared because if anything happens to the girl, don't you think the girl's elder bro would blame op without considering the fact that they knew each other for over 15 years??

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