SmartPolician:
The truth is, marriage is not for everyone.

poweredcom:


Baba don talk am ...this generation is not a marrying type

Na just 10 percent go end up in husband house ...these girls of today are not ready to help you grow in d wedding

Jay5mie:
My simple advice to my innocent brothers out there considering getting married is...



DON'T DO IT!!!


No talk say i no warn una o

franchasng:
That's an imbecilic advice



Name one successful man in the world who died at 50yrs plus as a single man who didn't marry at all?


Marriage is part of a man's success stories.


You are not successful until you are married.


Don't mention Aliko Dangote because he was married but divorced and wanted to remarry Yaradua's daughter when Yaradua was the President and she rejected it cos she and Dangote's daughter were close friends.


I am sure Dangote's decision now not to remarry is to protect his business empire from family tussle when he dies. Not that he doesn't desire to.



Marriage is good, it helps to shape a man. It makes a man more admirable, more confident and more focused to achieve greater things, except you married wrongly and ended up with the wrong partner.


Being married has never affected me negatively in any way, instead it has helped me to understand life more and even achieve more with ease.


So bra, go and find one sweet chick and marry oh

GuyWise101:
Nna mehnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

With all the divorce and negative complaints that are always gracing the nairaland's frontpage you still want us to go ahead and marry these present arrogant non-virgin and over-bleeped pussies?
Haha who Go Marry them then?

womenareapess:
don't even get the idea of marrying because those baboons (naija women) ain't worth it

Naija women are way useless as you think, and marrying those frustrated useless piece of shiit is like welcoming the devil into your life

Free yourself from those self-entitlement piece of shiit

And if you must marry! Marry a foreigner, be it Togo, Zimbabwe, and any other except NAIJA women

Belial06:
Most over aged unmarried women these days are singing the marriage is not for everyone mantra

While I agree it's not for everyone ,it's still not a self consolation theme to be adopted by every unmarried dame out there . If as a lady you aren't married at 33, no , not all men are bad, maybe ,just maybe the problem is from you.

Just saying

RandyOku:
In Nigeria now, 98% of Ladies are Marrying Money or for SURVIVAL ... That's enough reason to put marriage on hold right now if you intend Marrying a NAIJA LADY..

In mosdii voice, all NAIJA Ladies are useless

phosky:
6 signs you’re not ready to get married



https://www.pulse.ng/lifestyle/relationships-weddings/6-signs-youre-not-ready-to-get-married/eczq1kv.amp

VeeVeeMyLuv:


Gbam!!!

The Best way to describe them is they believing that the way big and famous prime Ronaldo & Messi are at the moment is exactly the way their mums gave birth to them from the womb as adult with 32 teeth muscles e.t.c!

That they never grew and mature from childhood to adulthood, that the talent and game was bestowed on them automatically.

This is exactly the way they reason

Now if u check most of these successful athletes union, u will find out that their significant other is reffered to as childhood sweet heart, friend

SmartPolician:
The truth is, marriage is not for everyone.

Bridget95:
Low bank account balance coupled with unemployment or under employment is the major reason many youths aren't getting married in Nigeria even in their 40s.

This country has failed its youths.

OgunkeelAllMod:
many Nigerians ladies are simply NOT IT.. Sometimes it ain't really about cash but FINDING THE RIGHT, GOOD FEMALE, that's really COMPATIBLE.. compatibility matters a lot too.. because people come from different backgrounds and upbringings and therefore, must equally different behaviors, attitudes, mannerisms and outlook. Some comes from averagely OK background, books, school, cars,good environment, modern homely setting and the rest(not necessarily very rich setting o. Now, imagine someone, a lady for instance who was brought up from the exact opposite of the picture I just described,what do you will happen?it doesn't matter WHERE you meet such a person,or beautiful, handsome, whatever, NOTHING meaningful would come out such relationship .that aside, most Nigerians ladies first and last love is money.. Love alone can only go so far. They have all kinds f wrong orientations, set too high and unreasonable ,unrealistic expectations from men. Something they may not even possess themselves. So, at end of the day, most end up being dissapointed ,bitter and turned man haters. many men are scared of marrying now even more than before.