toujurs:
It's not a negative energy, it's the truth. Either she takes it or not, her choice. , At 36 she should be smarter now. So you expect her to still wait for her spec at 36 abi, so she could get to 45yrs at her parents house abi

toujurs:
husbands do come for most ladies when they are in their early and mid twenties but most ladies aren't ready and would decline thinking they have enough time. And playing love with one fine boy who is testing his manhood and struggling to start a life career , with out she knowing na cruise she dey. Some girls are mumu, Most atimes is not what you want life gives you, its what you can make out of what life gives you, that's what makes individuals happy.

Sammy101111:
Sandra you are from imo state right
Now i want you to know understand this at your age now let your intentions be cleared to any man will to love you let him know if its not heading to marriage he should not propose to date and let him know you are not forcing him to date you just dont want time waster

BoredBerry:
Sorry... I'll rather trust a snake than a Nigerian man... Snakes make more sense... The latter are spawns of the devil... Breed like rats, generally unintelligent, have issues settling down, evil...and the list goes on...

I've never thought of being loyal to one... They don't deserve it

toujurs:
Which man will tell a lady the truth, when most ladies don't like hearing the truth, why she is interested in the truth now, is because e dn choke her.

You that is saying this, if you see a pretty lady as in full option, and she enter your eyes, so you will go and tell her you just just to knack her .

everythinggirly:
Sorry darling. Some men always want to play on our faithfulness while they go after the unfaithful. But be the best you and believe God's time is the best. Ikechukwu can never change the plans of God in your life.

toujurs:
My dear you are right on that bad character side oh, Any lady i see still single at 32 and doesn't even have a boyfriend, i see them as disrespectful ladies with bad characters, as a reason for them being single at such old age.

On the part on about being faithfull, i agree with you, you can't put all your eggs in one basket, that other guy that is telling you he likes you, keep me at a side. I said keep oh, i didn't say you should be knacking him. While you stay with the main guy. Incase main guy mess up. Even in business you can't invest all your money in one business na, Most of you ladies are smart, it's good to be faithfull and loyal. But human will always be humans. Madam ehn at 36yrs. Any guy that comes and his serious, just accept the person. It's just four years remaining for your time to give up. Or you inject a sperm and take care of your child, if you are lucky you will give birth to a boy

Michelle55:

What kinda negative energy is this?
When do you suddenly turn God to map out her life like that?
Kindly keep mute if you've got nothing tangible to say!
PS: before you call me names, I acknowledge the fact that I'm 42, old and wrinkle already. Whatever you would say next wouldn't hold water!

sandra50:
Imagine..I didn't find his comment funny at all.

Michelle55:

What kinda negative energy is this?
When do you suddenly turn God to map out her life like that?
Kindly keep mute if you've got nothing tangible to say!
PS: before you call me names, I acknowledge the fact that I'm 42, old and wrinkle already. Whatever you would say next wouldn't hold water!

sandra50:
He is talking like someone is about to die..

sandra50:
I don't understand what you mean by it's remaining 4 years for me to give up..give up how?that any guy that comes I should accept him..did you not see where I said there is someone that is asking me to accept him back so we can get married after he messed up?why should I accept any man that I don't like because of marriage?I will rather have kids than to accept any guy because of marriage.

Michelle55:

Perhaps he's about to, pay him no mind at all.

Michelle55:

What kinda negative energy is this?
When do you suddenly turn God to map out her life like that?
Kindly keep mute if you've got nothing tangible to say!
PS: before you call me names, I acknowledge the fact that I'm 42, old and wrinkle already. Whatever you would say next wouldn't hold water!

Sammy101111:
Sandra you are from imo state right
Now i want you to know understand this at your age now let your intentions be cleared to any man will to love you let him know if its not heading to marriage he should not propose to date and let him know you are not forcing him to date you just dont want time waster

toujurs:
Which man will tell a lady the truth, when most ladies don't like hearing the truth, why she is interested in the truth now, is because e dn choke her.

You that is saying this, if you see a pretty lady as in full option, and she dey enter your eyes, so you will go and tell her you just want to knack her .

toujurs:
four years i meant wasn't about wishing her death, haba . Why will i wish her death . Four years i meant is when menopause would set in. .

Michelle55:

What kinda negative energy is this?
When do you suddenly turn God to map out her life like that?
Kindly keep mute if you've got nothing tangible to say!
PS: before you call me names, I acknowledge the fact that I'm 42, old and wrinkle already. Whatever you would say next wouldn't hold water!

Karleb:


Shey if you be man, you fit marry 36 yr old aunty?

The guy gave a solid advice, if she sees anyone serious even if they don't tick all boxes, let her marry o! By the time she knacks 40 without an assurance, her age alone will repulse guys.

This one no be woman hating o!

Michelle55:

As I'm 42 already so I should give up on my specs just because age isn't by my side?

sandra50:
What do you mean e don choke her?if you see me in person you will probably look older than me.please mind what you say..

Karleb:


That's you. Your reality is different from hers besides, you might be one unserious person who isn't interested in marriage.

Your chances of marrying your spec at that age is really really low, in fact, at 42, most guys of your age or older are now happily married.

It's hard for some guys at that age to find a partner unless they are rich, not to talk of a woman.

I hope you are not trolling though.

All I'm saying is that no one can decide another's specs and age has got nothing to do with this.
Nobody needs all these pressures and I think it's time we stop giving out all these negative vibes all in the name of advice for

sandra50:
Well it's not every guy I see that I would want to get married to..what if along the line you find out he is not someone you can marry how then will I pull out after telling him marry.

Michelle55:

All I'm saying is that no one can decide another's specs and age has got nothing to do with this.
Nobody needs all these pressures and I think it's time we stop giving out all these negative vibes all in the name of advice for

Karleb:


Let's tell our selves the truth from time to time abeg!

Age has a lot to do with specs for both men and women, especially men.

This pressure is needed, and I don't even think it's a bad. It's better than being involuntarily single even though you dearly desire marriage as a woman. You can compare it to the pressure of writing an examination, it isn't bad, in fact some students wouldn't read if they don't see examination timetable.

That aunty need to sit tight because, older women always find it harder getting married. It's a fact!

I know of an aunty that died late last year @50, no husband or child, in terms of beauty I'd rate her at least 6/10.

What saved another one I know is the fact that someone introduced her to a widower, it's been 6 years after the marriage and the aunty looks old. If she had missed that mam, I'm not sure if she wouldn't be miserable by now.

I just feel pity for this aunty because according to her story, she na good woman but she needs to buckle up. Life doesn't care if you are good or not.

sandra50:
I don't understand what you mean by it's remaining 4 years for me to give up..give up how?that any guy that comes I should accept him..did you not see where I said there is someone that is asking me to accept him back so we can get married after he messed up?why should I accept any man that I don't like because of marriage?I will rather have kids than to accept any guy because of marriage.

Karleb:


Shey if you be man, you fit marry 36 yr old aunty?

The guy gave a solid advice, if she sees anyone serious even if they don't tick all boxes, let her marry o! By the time she knacks 40 without an assurance, her age alone will repulse guys.

This one no be woman hating o!

toujurs:
at 36? . You still feel you look younger. Your village people are really on your matter, like a panel beater . You want bam bam na, nw you dey run tiki tiki and taka taka, you no fit drink water drop cup