Just marry her off.

Use condom they will say they don't enjoy it with condom, na wa oh

AmazonTopaz:

And you think today's parents don't still beat their kids,after all the beating they still end up as yahoo boys,ritualist, runs girls, gigolos and other vices you think those ones were not beaten abi?

Better study the psychology of children beating does not work on every child sometimes what they see you do is enough to correct them, for others communication helps it depends on the kind of communication languages some children have some are auditory others are not.

The parenting of those days were no better because the kids still turned out bad and hid things from their parents that wasn't discipline but fear.Parenting is with love you are raising humans not animals that you must always abuse in the name of beating without correction.If the parents of old were so good we won't be so corrupt, hateful and bitter and lack basic human emotion/love or call it decency.
It was the older generation that thought us every known corruption and vices we have today despite all the beating, no ground breaking innovation or progress attributed to the Nigerian society.

You don't know the meaning of "woke" study it and don't make it look like a bad or terrible thing, you Nigerians should stop buying into racist conservative narrative that was designed to attack the true purpose of what "woke" means which is to be alert and aware of racial/social injustices in our society there is nothing wrong in being woke.

The earth is evolving, we are in the information era, the age of Aquarius the era of social/political and environmental awareness and enlightenment.

Go to america.
The vast majority of the black young women are baby mamas or rejected the status with countless abortions.

Their model is not the solution.

Kobojunkie:
What other side of life?

Well, she has to decide what she wants to do next. Try to make sure the owner of the pregnancy is identified and in the picture so he can contribute his share to her and the process. No need letting him off the hook anytime soon.

Should your sister decide to keep the baby, visit.the courts to learn the process for filing for child support and make this available to her from day one. Try to educate her so she realize that while she has to play her part in contributing to the care of the child, the law also recognizes that the man also has his share of the responsibilities to be help accountable for.

And while you are at it. Time to educate her on use of regular contraception so she does not fall victim again. We can wish all we want but the fact is even we adults sometimes make mistakes, how much more our kids? It is not too late to learn that girl on use of birth control so she does not fall into the same pit anytime soon after this.

Unfortunately it will happen again. Therate at whic teenage pregnancy is on the loose, it calls for serious attention.

tunjilee003:
I heard the news from my mum today and i feel bad about.... She has been a very stubborn girl since childhood, she doesn't listen to our parents and yells back at them atimes..
To me I feel someone getting her pregnant will allow her to see the other side of life....

Lucky girl. Watch, that child will turn her life around. She'll end up achieving a lot

tunjilee003:
I heard the news from my mum today and i feel bad about.... She has been a very stubborn girl since childhood, she doesn't listen to our parents and yells back at them atimes..
To me I feel someone getting her pregnant will allow her to see the other side of life....

Well, motherhood ain't easy but she go understand if she doesn't abort it.

tunjilee003:
I heard the news from my mum today and i feel bad about.... She has been a very stubborn girl since childhood, she doesn't listen to our parents and yells back at them atimes..
To me I feel someone getting her pregnant will allow her to see the other side of life....

She has gotten what she has been looking for. Your parents should ensure she gives birth to that child.

If you find out well the dude that impregnate her sef can't even pay his bills talk more of taking care of a pregnant girl

Personally, I believe pikin wey good don good from belle.

The ones wey go spoil go spoil from small. It is hard to change it.

Na to pray make God give you better children.

I have seen highly dysfunctional parents with high flying children who gave themselves the home training and discipline that they needed.

papa na drunk, mama don waka go,but those children excelled.

She might not even be sober sef,
Just try help her in which ever way you can

michlins:
if you raise your child right in a good environment from day one, chances of them going wary is very low.

A child is like a book, whatever you write is what stays. You can't raise a child in a dysfunctional family and society and expect him or her to turn out right.

going "wayward" you mean ?

franchasng:
Use condom they will say they don't enjoy it with condom, na wa oh

Madam! These kids careless. We have many cases of out of school children as a result of teenage pregnancy. How about nthe menace some corp members.have committed, some have absconded and others are remorseful nd have taen responsibility. The number onecause of teenage pregnancy is lake of sex education

PoliteActivist:


Lucky girl. Watch, that child will turn her life around. She'll end up achieving a lot

The statistics in Nigeria proves she will most likely fall deeper into the babymama trap by having more children out of wedlock.

CSTRR:

Go to america.
The vast majority of the black young women are baby mamas or rejected the status with countless abortions.

Their model is not the solution.

Why the reference to only black young women in America for Pete's sake?

Elporo:


Was she raped?

U will not die young

michlins:
Should we tell him guys.


Your parents failed in parenting her. What happened to the old style of beating sense into a child when they start getting wayward. Dem no born you well to talk back to my parents. Parenting is a very difficult job and not for the soft hearted

This woke generation will tell you it's wrong but see where it landed her.

My heart goes out to the innocent unborn child who didn't do anything to deserve being brought into this mess

Chill, beating doesn’t stop some people from being wayward. I speak from experience.

tunjilee003:
I heard the news from my mum today and i feel bad about.... She has been a very stubborn girl since childhood, she doesn't listen to our parents and yells back at them atimes..
To me I feel someone getting her pregnant will allow her to see the other side of life....

congratulations 2 ur family she will deliver safe and sound,

after she give birth make una make sure say she carry d child go anywhere she wan go even if na toilet she dey go let her carry her cross

Congratulations!!!
Make she born am oo.so she go calm down

michlins:
if you raise your child right in a good environment from day one, chances of them going wary is very low.

A child is like a book, whatever you write is what stays. You can't raise a child in a dysfunctional family and society and expect him or her to turn out right.

Oga leave all this story you are talking about 15 out of the 20 cases we are handling are from very good homes.

The thought of giving birth to a female child scares a lot out of me especially in Nigeria

Kobojunkie:
Why the reference to only black young women in America for Pete's sake?

They have the highest percentage of abortions relative to their population.

Spherical77:
Someone was responsible for it na guy, no dey talk like this

So she’s not equally responsible too?? That’s why that guy asked if she was raped

OscarJaden:
The thought of giving birth to a female child scares a lot out of me especially in Nigeria

It should no scare you ensure youtah her sex education, it very important

kansoboy:
Congratulations!!!
Make she born am oo.so she go calm down

Certainly she will but will relapse into vices

Do not blame it on parents, you heard d brother, he said she is stubborn [i][/i][b][/b]

michlins:
Should we tell him guys.


Your parents failed in parenting her. What happened to the old style of beating sense into a child when they start getting wayward. Dem no born you well to talk back to my parents. Parenting is a very difficult job and not for the soft hearted

This woke generation will tell you it's wrong but see where it landed her.

My heart goes out to the innocent unborn child who didn't do anything to deserve being brought into this mess

CSTRR:

They have the highest percentage of abortions relative to their population.

I guess I am still not clear what "model" you were referring to in that response of yours.

alexvic12:
This is the best time to conquer her with love. You guys should go all out to help her through the pregnancy period.

I know it is hard and easier said than done, but you can do it. Sure, she has done wrong, but don't abandon her to her fate.

Twenty years from now when that baby becomes a young adult and brings countless smiles to you, you'll not even remember the pains you're feeling now.

Shower her all the love that you can.

Love ke? She should be treated as they normally would have treated her and not shower her with any special love or attention.

A girl that was recalcitrant enough to defy her parents should be made to face the consequences of her actions. I hate nonsense.

Dem nor dey tell pikin sey make e nor grow teeth, but make e grow the one mouth go cover... Na the result of her exam be that make she bear am"

nzeobi:
I hope this doesn't alter her journey in life cos it won't be any easy.


Getting the male responsible to accept responsibility will the best way forward for now

You want an irresponsible man to take responsibility?

tunjilee003:
I heard the news from my mum today and i feel bad about.... She has been a very stubborn girl since childhood, she doesn't listen to our parents and yells back at them atimes..
To me I feel someone getting her pregnant will allow her to see the other side of life....

If u refuse to learn from others u will still learn from ur own experiences either ways life must teach u and u will learn. Lol

She will have to take responsibility for her actions and her life now. When u have no direction u will go in any direction thrown at u.

Ikea81:
You want an irresponsible man to take responsibility?

The law is there to force him to,whether he likes it or not.