And what's the "normal way" that family members treat each other? Isn't it love?

We4all:


Love ke? She should be treated as they normally would have treated her and not shower her with any special love or attention.

A girl that was recalcitrant enough to defy her parents should be made to face the consequences of her actions. I hate nonsense.

tunjilee003:
I heard the news from my mum today and i feel bad about.... She has been a very stubborn girl since childhood, she doesn't listen to our parents and yells back at them atimes..
To me I feel someone getting her pregnant will allow her to see the other side of life....

Btc for sell

michlins:
you don't start disciplining a child when he or she is ten. You start from the day they are born.

This water is already gone past the bridge. Take care of your sister with maximum love cause she deserves all the love but ensure she takes responsibility for her decisions. She must be made to bear the responsibility of parenting.

The idea of taking a child from the mother so she can live her full life doesn't sit well with me.

I pray you raise your kids properly.

Are you surprised that a 17 year girl is pregnant? In this age,where everything moves at warp speed. The sex drives of many teenagers are in overdrive. Some of them are even sexually active before age 10.
Pregnancy is the end of consistent shagging. You didn't notice your sister was sexually active.Maybe you guys didn't pay enough attention to her. If u did ,you would have noticed some of her sexual urges.
The sad thing about some young people of this age is that they're taken in by the corrosive ,yet destroying effects of the information age,namely,the social media. In this world,fake lives are painted with glitz and glamour; ugly is pancaked as attractive. These young people think life is just linear,that life is black and white,not knowing that things go backsides at times. In this life,dreams can crumble quicker than packs of biscuits and ambitions can fizzle like smoke. It's a world where you might not always get what u deserve,but get what you fight hard for.Sadly,the young people of this contemporary age don't see it that way.

tunjilee003:
I heard the news from my mum today and i feel bad about.... She has been a very stubborn girl since childhood, she doesn't listen to our parents and yells back at them atimes..
To me I feel someone getting her pregnant will allow her to see the other side of life....

Congratulations

I don't understand why already impoverished Nigerians don't make more noise about the need for contraceptives.

Child pregnancy is one of the chief causes (and signs) of endemic poverty.

If she does not want it. Take it out let her life go on.
There is no big deal in that.
At 17 no be pikin matter she surpose de face.

Then what do you want me to do about that... when she was doing it and enjoying it did she call me

michlins:
you don't start disciplining a child when he or she is ten. You start from the day they are born.


This water is already gone past the bridge. Take care of your sister with maximum love cause she deserves all the love but ensure she takes responsibility for her decisions. She must be made to bear the responsibility of parenting.

The idea of taking a child from the mother so she can live her full life doesn't sit well with me.

True!! You start training a child the day the baby is born.

Let he who impregnates, marry the impregnatee. Soon they will have a bouncing baby and experience d joy of parenting

michlins:
if you raise your child right in a good environment from day one, chances of them going wary is very low.

A child is like a book, whatever you write is what stays. You can't raise a child in a dysfunctional family and society and expect him or her to turn out right.

Story, just give them good environment and pray for the best. Peer train teenagers faster than parents, unless the kid is strong minded.

tunjilee003:
I heard the news from my mum today and i feel bad about.... She has been a very stubborn girl since childhood, she doesn't listen to our parents and yells back at them atimes..
To me I feel someone getting her pregnant will allow her to see the other side of life....

sorry oooo. D truth is dt whenever dt their nipple is just coming out at d initial stage, they start misbehaving not knowing dt d more pointed d nipple, d less is d number of days remaining for them to leave their parent's house.
Congratulations!

Since she is less than 18, this is statutory rape and the perpetrator should be immediately arrested

He is a pedophile

I hope they pedophile has been arrested because this is child abuse

alexvic12:
And what's the "normal way" that family members treat each other? Isn't it love?

Some over pamper and that’s not love.

AmazonTopaz:


You don't know the meaning of 'wholeness Google it up before abusing the word.

Lol, the fact that you want me to Google What wokeness means shows you don't understand what we mean when we say wokeness.

I read your earlier explaination on what wokeness is ,you are a few year's behind.


Open your eyes , Google cannot help you here.

Myzubby:
In this Buhari era
ok
time to give her the support she needs
If possible identify and get the irresponsible niggar he should start footing her bills .

Sometimes this 17years kids should be flogged when they mess up there senses never mature.

Any girl wey don fvck dick, flogging no fit change her again. E go even amplify her to do more.

Make una find the man give him his responsibility.

If you quote me you will die..

If the pregnancy is less than 2/3 Months , go and remove it .

Your sister will thank you for life.

Again, quote me and die.

OBALOLA55:
WHAT ARE YOU GUYS WAITING FOR

Why u de advice her to move in with the guy ? The guy will continue to fuhk her till she reach 5months na twins she may carry if care is not taking .
Thy have plan it well before tht she will get pregnant for him.so he can marry her and he won't deny the pregnancy.

Na so real guys de do they don't run away..

tunjilee003:
I heard the news from my mum today and i feel bad about.... She has been a very stubborn girl since childhood, she doesn't listen to our parents and yells back at them atimes..
To me I feel someone getting her pregnant will allow her to see the other side of life....

So sorry. She needs Jesus

airsaylongcome:


Let her have the kid. In 17 years time it's your mum that will be bragging about her grandchild. And your sister at 34 will be proud to have a daughter who people will be asking of she is sister with her mum. Na belle she get. She nor kill person

WHAT is worth doing is what doing WELL!!! If she wanted to get married at 18 year let her bring home responsible young man and wedding be conducted.

She being impregnated by all these boys ( that is even if she knows the owner of her pregnancy) that move about sleeping with girls in the name of girlfriend.

17yrs on Nigeria now is too old to get pregnant now

12-13yrs dey get pregnant now even 10yrs old depending on her body,
Some girls at age 10 their breast son mature wella.

tunjilee003:
my parents did the best they could, but after receiving beating, she would still commit more atrocities...

Dont mind that fool, my parents beat the hell out of my elder sister then but she still got pregnant! She kept the baby though. Today she is a health worker in the USA with her son! Earning very good pay, same person people thought was a bad influence to their kids! She grew up and life happened. That your sister is this way now doesn’t mean she is going to remain that way, show her support and care let she learn from her mistakes. Leave the rest to God.

May we not have a kid we can't raise.

tunjilee003:
I heard the news from my mum today and i feel bad about.... She has been a very stubborn girl since childhood, she doesn't listen to our parents and yells back at them atimes..
To me I feel someone getting her pregnant will allow her to see the other side of life....

now your sister will live her life as a single mum and never to experience the goodness of preek again

No man will love to preek a single mum unless she hid the status of her baby, and no man will see a single woman and say he will marry her!

Your sister just got admission to feminist (frustration coalition group)

BRATISLAVA:


You should be happy she isn't barren. She's blessed with a child, what more could you want of her? She's mixed up the order, but she will get it right.

If it's such a bad thing, why not let her do the worrying about her pregnancy? Take it as a blessing and move on.

You are not well, a minor gets pregnant this is what you can say, who would pay the bills, how about taking care of the unborn baby, your hatred for Men had made you not to see anything wrong you think there's a justification for any wrong done by the female folk, we are talking about a minor and you are saying at least she's not barren. Hopefully you will never raise a female child cos this your mentality is totally messed up

OBALOLA55:
IS SHE IN THE MAN HOUSE YET

Most likely a boy around the same age got her pregnant

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