CSTRR:
Personally, I believe pikin wey good don good from belle.

The ones wey go spoil go spoil from small. It is hard to change it.

Na to pray make God give you better children.

I have seen highly dysfunctional parents with high flying children who gave themselves the home training and discipline that they needed.

papa na drunk, mama don waka go,but those children excelled.

Life is predestined and freewill is limited. People that will be oloshos and yahoo boys are predestined to become that. No amount of home training can change that.

tunjilee003:
I heard the news from my mum today and i feel bad about.... She has been a very stubborn girl since childhood, she doesn't listen to our parents and yells back at them atimes..
To me I feel someone getting her pregnant will allow her to see the other side of life....

She dey yell at your mum and you could not beat sense into her

nzeobi:
I hope this doesn't alter her journey in life cos it won't be any easy.


Getting the male responsible to accept responsibility will the best way forward for now

f
Can't she terminate

What happen to beating common sense into her , i know some idiot will say it's a form of child abuse as have seen in some comment , but beating naa shape us till today non of our family commit any form of atrocities out of wedlock , if beating didn't work for. You that's your problem , it works for us and that's what I'm going to stick with.

Legendoo:


Lol, the fact that you want me to Google What wokeness means shows you don't understand what we mean when we say wokeness.

I read your earlier explaination on what wokeness is ,you are a few year's behind.


Open your eyes , Google cannot help you here.

You are the one deluding yourself if you think there is another defination to what wokeness stands for

Slayar:


If you raise a child with this mentality, the pikin go spoil.

I was raised with this approach and I did not turn out bad so my siiblings and I,our kids have all turned out right and will keep turning out right.

So keep your silly assumption to yourself

CSTRR:

Go to america.
The vast majority of the black young women are baby mamas or rejected the status with countless abortions.

Their model is not the solution.

If you cannot bring out facts why not shut up instead of churning out balderdash that only exist in your head.

Kobojunkie:
What other side of life?

Well, she has to decide what she wants to do next. Try to make sure the owner of the pregnancy is identified and in the picture so he can contribute his share to her and the process. No need letting him off the hook anytime soon.

Should your sister decide to keep the baby, visit.the courts to learn the process for filing for child support and make this available to her from day one. Try to educate her so she realize that while she has to play her part in contributing to the care of the child, the law also recognizes that the man also has his share of the responsibilities to be help accountable for.

And while you are at it. Time to educate her on use of regular contraception so she does not fall victim again. We can wish all we want but the fact is even we adults sometimes make mistakes, how much more our kids? It is not too late to learn that girl on use of birth control so she does not fall into the same pit anytime soon after this.

Child support ke In this Nigeria

Stop advertising your sister's lack of good upbringing on this forum.

Myzubby:
In this Buhari era
ok
time to give her the support she needs
If possible identify and get the irresponsible niggar he should start footing her bills .

Sometimes this 17years kids should be flogged when they mess up there senses never mature.

Foot bill ke The dude probably see free puna coming from an untrained daughter and maybe he himself has never worked to earn ordinary 5k in his entire life and still depends on parent too

Lightway:
You're a fool

There is nothing like child support in Nigeria

Don't you see that you are proved the fool here by your ignorance?

tunjilee003:
I heard the news from my mum today and i feel bad about.... She has been a very stubborn girl since childhood, she doesn't listen to our parents and yells back at them atimes..
To me I feel someone getting her pregnant will allow her to see the other side of life....

Thank God you understood in the right way

tunjilee003:
I heard the news from my mum today and i feel bad about.... She has been a very stubborn girl since childhood, she doesn't listen to our parents and yells back at them atimes..
To me I feel someone getting her pregnant will allow her to see the other side of life....

Congratulations

Still, she's still part of the family

Says alot about your parents upbringing

bro4u:

You're wrong, some children are destined to be stubborn no matter the amount of discipline instilled in them. That's why most times you get to see children of clerics being the most wayward. It doesn't solely depend on the amount of beatings and floggings.
Don't use this mindset on your kids cos you might end up nurturing beasts immune to physical pains.

I don't believe in destiny. We're a product of our choices.

Raise a child right and he or she will make the right choices in life

AmazonTopaz:

You are the one deluding yourself if you think there is another defination to what wokeness stands for

Wokeness is for retards.


The perpetually aggrieved.

If you don't get it ...

Svlla:
1. Are you telling me this 17y girl doesn't know what birth control pill or contraceptives are? Let's not fool ourselves she may even know more than you.

2. Going to court to get the guy responsible?Guy, are you in Nigeria? Na too much oyibo film dey cause all these kind yarn

1. Knowing about a thing's existence does not translate to understanding it is for you to take advantage of apply. For instance most men and women have heard of family planning but remain ignorant of it.

Education is key in helping girls get over whatever fears they may have about taking such things.

2. If you are not aware that such in fact is available to you via your court systems, please get yourself educated on this abeg.

Ignorance is most likely the reason why this gal ended up pregnant.

YellowMayor:
Child support ke In this Nigeria

Yes, you don't know that it exists there too?

toobusy:
Let her take care of herself henceforth,I think that's the suitable punishment for her long stubbornness and disobedience towards her parents

Exactly

Kobojunkie:
Yes, you don't know that it exists there too?

I meant they're non functional

YellowMayor:
I meant they're non functional

How can that which is legally recognized and in utilized by those aware of its existence in that same Nigeria be considered non-functional?

Kobojunkie:
How can that which is legally recognized and in utilized by those aware of its existence in that same Nigeria be considered non-functional?

Please tell me any government organization that is functioning as it should be in Nigeria

YellowMayor:
Please tell me any government organization that is functioning as it should be in Nigeria

Stop making excuses for your ignorance abeg. If you don't know that you can get child support in your courts, now you know. Go investigate and spread the word.

Legendoo:


[s]Wokeness is for retards.


The perpetually aggrieved.

If you don't get it[/s] ...

Stop peddling alternative facts and heed to the correction and stop adding meanings to things not found in the dictionary.

I am thinking of getting my girlfriend pregnant ooo, so that I will not loss her to already made men

Kobojunkie:
Stop making excuses for your ignorance abeg. If you don't know that you can get child support in your courts, now you know. Go investigate and spread the word.

I thought I was talking to a fellow matured mind, but obviously I was wrong... Don't bother to drag it further, coz I won't reply you henceforth. I don't have time for some stupid teenagers around

YellowMayor:
I thought I was talking to a fellow matured mind, but obviously I was wrong... Don't bother to drag it further, coz I won't reply you henceforth. I don't have time for some stupid teenagers around

Yeah, Whatever!

CSTRR:

The statistics in Nigeria proves she will most likely fall deeper into the babymama trap by having more children out of wedlock.

Nope. She's already energetically rebelious. That child will tame her, force her to channel that energy into something productive. Nothing is as motivating as wanting a better future for your child

AmazonTopaz:


Stop peddling alternative facts and heed to the correction and stop adding meanings to things not found in the dictionary.

From blm the aggreived to degenerates the aggreived.

We see you.

airsaylongcome:


Let her have the kid. In 17 years time it's your mum that will be bragging about her grandchild. And your sister at 34 will be proud to have a daughter who people will be asking of she is sister with her mum. Na belle she get. She nor kill person

This is a terrible advice. The girl should only be allowed to conceive that child, if the family has sufficient resources to take care of an additional human being else, she's better off having an abortion.

AmazonTopaz:

I was raised with this approach and I did not turn out bad so my siiblings and I,our kids have all turned out right and will keep turning out right.

So keep your silly assumption to yourself

Lol,are you to be the judge in your own case? On a faceless forum?