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Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by TheGift: 9:00pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: You haven’t finished “waka-ing pass”? Guy, I’m gone, like you requested. |
Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by Victoria938(f): 9:11pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
The adopted son |
Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by Mom007(f): 9:15pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
Regardless of what you feel in your heart, I don't think its right to tell an adopted son he is adopted... Especially if he was a baby when adopted and has no recollection of any father but you. That is not disclosure but witchcraft! In fact. This question sef is witchcraft! Op you are not clean honestly! Love both of them as well as you can w With no obvious discrimination. Love is a funny thing. You may even come to love the adopted son more than the biological especially when he is diligent and loyal. |
Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by Svlla: 9:30pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
Bunch of liar and hypocrites, say one thing online and do another in real life. Nature has made it so that you will love your natural born children more than others....but watch how women, the embodiment of this natural order and protector of their natural born offspring will be the first to say otherwise......only on social media though The story of Abraham, Sarah and Isaac, Ismael and Haggai |
Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by Svlla: 9:46pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
You're partly right on this because Jewish and Christian scholar will tell you Hagar was Sarah's concubine as was supported and written in the Bible however Muslims argued that she was Abraham's second wife and legitimate but was sent out by Abraham on insistence of Sarah. That will also bring us to the question of Keturah and if she was the second wife of Abraham as the Bible claimed or Hagar returned (after the death of Sarah) However both are progenitors of Arabs (Hagar and Ketura) Kobojunkie: |
Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by Kobojunkie: 9:56pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
Svlla:In the Torah and also Bible scripture, Sarah is recorded to have given Hagar to Abraham for a wife meaning Hagar was Abraham's second wife. Keturah was his third wife. This isn't questioned in the Torah so I don't see why there should be an issue around this anywhere. Abraham would not have had her as a concubine given that would have been against God's marriage law. Now slave wife maybe since she was Sarah's slave, but not concubine - a sex partner. |
Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by Iamlakexide(m): 10:05pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
Grgton:YES |
Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by aalangel(f): 10:17pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
That's why people adopt girls. |
Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by ibinaboonline: 10:22pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
Gobe |
Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by Nobody: 10:26pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
Iamlakexide:you are just being emotional on the adopted!! Biological issue of the man is his son ! Infact his first sperm |
Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by Nobody: 10:27pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
Iamlakexide:you are just being emotional on the adopted!! Biological issue of the man is his son ! Infact his first sperm haha |
Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by Double0h7(f): 10:32pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
Mom007: A child should know the truth about their history. It is their right to know everything about themselves. Do you know how damaged the child would be when they find out that they were adopted, that their whole life is a joke? People have the right to know the truth about their lives, the good, the bad, and the ugly. I wouldn't change an adopted child's name, and I would make it very clear that I am their adopted parent. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by ukaface(f): 10:43pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
caesymore:mehhhhn You go dey harsh small o |
Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by ukaface(f): 10:44pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
MrBrownJay1:will you want to tell your biological son ,his elder brother isn't blood |
Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by CaptMarvel(m): 10:54pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
Even if I adopted 100 children before my first child that came from my bowel, that first child is my first born first son, and the heir, others will be taken care of and settled! Know this and know peace! thanks |
Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by MrBrownJay1(m): 11:13pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
ukaface: as soon as they will be old enough, everyone will know and understand that as much as one child may be adopted, he/she is just as legally/morally/physically mine as they are. sadly, in the west there isnt such a big wahala for the 1st born as the way Africans take this like a major issue. i believe that, if you raise your children rightfully and have a sound will in place, there wouldnt be such an issue as to 1st born bla bla bla. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by PrimadonnaO(f): 12:27am On Feb 20, 2022 |
Angelfrost: God bless you! 1 Like |
Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by DSDLIVEREPORT: 3:58am On Feb 20, 2022 |
Wait until the adopted som grow to know you are not his real biological mother. |
Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by Dotez: 6:00am On Feb 20, 2022 |
Well I don't know about what anyone choose to do. Buh the most important thing is to not allow your biological child to be aware that your adopted child isn't actually their biological siblings. This will also depends on the kind of person whom your adopted child grew up to become. If he grew up to become responsible and well mannered, never let this secret out his/her other siblings,but if reverse is the case,then your biological son/daughter should be made aware incase of any danger that might be posed at them in future |
Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by yemiyemi: 6:42am On Feb 20, 2022 |
Adoption is as old as Man....even the bible recognizes adoption....Moses was adopted and raised by Pharaoh even when he knew he was a Jew. He gave and bestowed upon him all the rights and privileges' repose on legitimate child. If that could happen then, why not now where civilization is order of the day. Exodus 2: 1-10 explains more........ ''Now a man from the house of Levi went and took as his wife a Levite woman. 2 The woman conceived and bore a son, and when she saw that he was a fine child, she hid him three months. 3 When she could hide him no longer, she took for him a basket made of bulrushes and daubed it with bitumen and pitch. She put the child in it and placed it among the reeds by the river bank. 4 And his sister stood at a distance to know what would be done to him. 5 Now the daughter of Pharaoh came down to bathe at the river, while her young women walked beside the river. She saw the basket among the reeds and sent her servant woman, and she took it. 6 When she opened it, she saw the child, and behold, the baby was crying. She took pity on him and said, “This is one of the Hebrews’ children.” 7 Then his sister said to Pharaoh’s daughter, “Shall I go and call you a nurse from the Hebrew women to nurse the child for you?” 8 And Pharaoh’s daughter said to her, “Go.” So the girl went and called the child’s mother. 9 And Pharaoh’s daughter said to her, “Take this child away and nurse him for me, and I will give you your wages.” So the woman took the child and nursed him. 10 When the child grew older, she brought him to Pharaoh’s daughter, and he became her son. She named him Moses, “Because,” she said, “I drew him out of the water.” Exodus 2:1-10 |
Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by Joshmanfashion(m): 7:22am On Feb 20, 2022 |
[√ Valid quote author=Hatesin post=110310300] "Easily said than done"[/quote] |
Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by DCONE1(m): 7:22am On Feb 20, 2022 |
InTheCloudySky:Both of them are his first son ,only that one is Not biological and one is . That's the way I see it. One is his biological first son and the other is his non biological first son .let's keep sentiments away. |
Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by Elbeamer: 7:38am On Feb 20, 2022 |
The reason for adoption is to have a son that means your first son, so any more adoptions or biological will be second But left for me I will share my stuff 50 50 in a will |
Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by plucky16(m): 8:03am On Feb 20, 2022 |
Ishmael Vs Isaac |
Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by Farfalla(f): 9:28am On Feb 20, 2022 |
Hatesin: Adoption is not for you. 1 Like |
Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by Skinky: 10:16am On Feb 20, 2022 |
Eno easy abeg |
Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by Ungodly: 10:17am On Feb 20, 2022 |
I can never adopt any child. I don’t like the idea, simple. |
Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by Ungodly: 10:23am On Feb 20, 2022 |
InTheCloudySky:easier said. |
Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by Thazard(m): 11:39am On Feb 20, 2022 |
InTheCloudySky: Apt |
Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by cococandy(f): 12:26pm On Feb 20, 2022 |
caesymore:then don’t adopt 2 Likes |
Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by BafanaBafana: 3:36pm On Feb 20, 2022 |
CHIMAOBICCU:For you to think of this, adoption is not for you. Never do it |
Re: You Adopted A Boy And Later Gave Birth To A Boy. Who Is Your First Son? by bepositive11: 4:17pm On Feb 20, 2022 |
Dawn91: Stupid topic to you, very interesting topic to me and many others |
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