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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by amba2017: 2:11pm On Feb 19, 2022
go rent small house for her
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by MadamExcellency: 2:14pm On Feb 19, 2022
soundOsonic:

Abraham married his cousin, Jacob married his cousin.
Most of your ancestors married their cousin. What is wrong with marrying your cousin?
People marry within their clan. Having sex with your cousin isn't incest. Go and check what is incest.
There is no law or rule that sleeping with ones cousin is bad. No culture prohibits it.
Simply because it is not common doesn't make it abominable

Leviticus 18:6
None of you shall approach to any that is near of kin to him, to uncover their unclothedness: I am the LORD.
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by ThinkSmarter: 2:21pm On Feb 19, 2022
Maxwell775:
My cousin sister (from my mother's side) who just got admitted into the university have been staying with me for the past 4 months now. I live in a 2 bedroom flat, and my house is just a throw stone to the university school gate.

Due to financial issues she couldn't rent an apartment, so she goes to school from my house. She's 20yrs old, I'm way older than her with abt 10yrs.

Before she started living with me, it was my mother who told her parents that she could stay with me, without my knowledge or permission.

The very first day she was on her way coming to my house, my mother called me and was like her sister's daughter is coming to stay with me bla bla bla.. At first I was upset, atleast she would have informed me. Am not really close to my mom's family people, we have this distance relationship (no hate, no grudges)

Now here is the problem. She likes wearing mini skirts, short gowns and tight trousers or leggings. Infact what she wears indoors is worse, she will put on very hot bum short, crop top and all manner of rubbish!!

Truth be told, I use to have very strong and hard erection whenever she walks. @20 if you see her banging body?? Slim, figure 8, Coca-Cola bottle shape. Her nyash dey clap if she dey walk. I don't wanna be emphasizing on that...But seriously she's tormenting me. Make I no go shift her pant, I don't wanna commit abomination. But mind you, I have a girlfriend.

Nairalanders please, How do I talk to her about dressing decently, without her feeling insecured or impression of a pervert. undecided
Let me be frank, I'm a pervert.
But I will discipline myself and resist the temptation by assuming she is my blood sister, especially if she is a daughter to my mother's sister or brother
But if she's cousin from my mother's step sister or step brothe.
I will damn the consequences.
Maybe your mother is codedly using due diligence by arranging a cousin marriage.
Maybe you should hold a conversation with the lady.
If after explaining your situation to her, she keeps exhibiting that courtship behaviour.
Then I will tell her after dinner, please would you mind keeping my company tonight.
If she's interested, she may knock on the door with the best lingerie.
Then, place a pillow under her waist.
Turn her over and make her kneel.
Thrust her vjaay like a stud.
And if she declines, I advise you stay cool and be a good cousin.
But I bet she will fall.
Especially during her ovulation.
But remember to play safe.
Use contraceptive endorsed by society for family health.
And if you are going to hate her afterwards, please don't yield to the temptation.

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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Holluwhakemmy(f): 2:25pm On Feb 19, 2022
What you need is total self control. Your mum must not hear this, she won't be happy with you.
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Positiveme2020: 2:30pm On Feb 19, 2022
candidladyTemp:
sad


God iam ready to trade... Bring back aliyah and lefteye, take this pervert


You are not normal.... Are you guys cursed like em swear for una no no did someone place a spell on y'all





Madam who banned you?
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Pero003: 2:31pm On Feb 19, 2022
Please sit her down ooooh I dey warn you na ,pussy and dick be like negative and positive wire,make u no go do finish your eye go clear at once.

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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by BePrepared: 2:35pm On Feb 19, 2022
Stedygrowth:
Op, what you're going through is normal. The response you're experiencing is completely biological in nature, remember, you have not met her before. She, being your cousin's sister, does not in any way, stop from being a woman she is. The problem here is that, there is no conditioning between you two that establish the fact that you guys are sisters, as such, there is a clear prediction that if you have opportunity, you will make love to her.
Based on the above submission, I will suggest you help her find a place to stay. Even if she changes the way she dresses from now on, it will not still change anything, because you have been conditioned already. Until you will not rest. So, to be on the safe side, find a place for her as quickly as possible.
This does not require discipline, it require removing or staying away from the source of the stimulus. If you keep staying, you will do it one day.


Most sensible comment

I love u for this

Kai wise words

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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by ungara17: 2:44pm On Feb 19, 2022
Qatar2022:

Shame on you dummy
it can happen to any guy in as much as your hormones are active and it's been control when you see things that triggers erection. just advice him.

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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Twenty8: 2:48pm On Feb 19, 2022
Maxwell775:
My cousin sister (from my mother's side) who just got admitted into the university have been staying with me for the past 4 months now. I live in a 2 bedroom flat, and my house is just a throw stone to the university school gate.

Due to financial issues she couldn't rent an apartment, so she goes to school from my house. She's 20yrs old, I'm way older than her with abt 10yrs.

Before she started living with me, it was my mother who told her parents that she could stay with me, without my knowledge or permission.

The very first day she was on her way coming to my house, my mother called me and was like her sister's daughter is coming to stay with me bla bla bla.. At first I was upset, atleast she would have informed me. Am not really close to my mom's family people, we have this distance relationship (no hate, no grudges)

Now here is the problem. She likes wearing mini skirts, short gowns and tight trousers or leggings. Infact what she wears indoors is worse, she will put on very hot bum short, crop top and all manner of rubbish!!

Truth be told, I use to have very strong and hard erection whenever she walks. @20 if you see her banging body?? Slim, figure 8, Coca-Cola bottle shape. Her nyash dey clap if she dey walk. I don't wanna be emphasizing on that...But seriously she's tormenting me. Make I no go shift her pant, I don't wanna commit abomination. But mind you, I have a girlfriend.

Nairalanders please, How do I talk to her about dressing decently, without her feeling insecured or impression of a pervert. undecided
Wahala
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Ladycewhy(f): 3:01pm On Feb 19, 2022
Pathokpo:

It's a totally different scenerio bro. Don't forget he never lived with her nor had much contact with her while growing up. So, she is just like a stranger to him.
So if he has a daughter outside wedluck that never lived with him, by your logic he can also have an erection for his daughter as well.

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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Awkabigboy: 3:11pm On Feb 19, 2022
rabiudon:
You are an idiot. Seems you can’t comprehend
The idiot is u, your fagoot parents who gave birth to an animal who gets erected at the sight of his blood relative , ewu
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by damilonya(m): 3:12pm On Feb 19, 2022
IT IS YOUR FAULT!

From day 1, you should have stopped her from dressing wrongly in your house. And if she is not ready to abide by your rules was at liberty to leave.
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Awkabigboy: 3:12pm On Feb 19, 2022
Ladycewhy:
So if he has a daughter outside wedluck that never lived with him, by your logic he can also have an erection for his daughter as well.
Don't mind all these imps without logic, I don't even toast my town gals bc I see them as sisters let alone of a first degree cousin

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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Ladycewhy(f): 3:13pm On Feb 19, 2022
Awkabigboy:

Don't mind all these imps without logic, I don't even toast my town gals bc I see them as sisters let alone of a first degree cousin
It's sad that alot of men on this thread see this as normal behavior.smh.

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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by dapolaw(m): 3:14pm On Feb 19, 2022
Is your cousin's sister not your own cousin too?

Stop been an He-goat and leave the poor girl alone.
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Mayeldah(m): 3:17pm On Feb 19, 2022
Isn't it funny how women tempt men with their provocative dressing and yet accuse the man of not having self control?

@OP, for sanity sake, please sit her down and warn her not to dress half naked or you find another place for her.

Somethings are better avoided.
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by studentofTruth: 3:23pm On Feb 19, 2022
Stedygrowth:
Op, what you're going through is normal. The response you're experiencing is completely biological in nature, remember, you have not met her before. She, being your cousin's sister, does not in any way, stop from being a woman she is. The problem here is that, there is no conditioning between you two that establish the fact that you guys are sisters, as such, there is a clear prediction that if you have opportunity, you will make love to her.
Based on the above submission, I will suggest you help her find a place to stay. Even if she changes the way she dresses from now on, it will not still change anything, because you have been conditioned already. Until you will not rest. So, to be on the safe side, find a place for her as quickly as possible.
This does not require discipline, it require removing or staying away from the source of the stimulus. If you keep staying, you will do it one day.


The most sensible comment here. Glad to know that there are still reasonable people here.

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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by ITbomb(m): 3:30pm On Feb 19, 2022
Danhumprey:
ItBomb.

grin grin grin grin grin grin
This is just between me and you (no tell the OP)
Tell her this

The way you dress showing all your curves and banging body, my friends think say we don already run things and I no like make person accuse me for something I never do unless say I don do am.
So I will rent a house for you so that you can go and stay there

@OP, by all means, send her out of the house.
You sleep with her, guilt for family side go depress you
You no sleep with am, you will be tormented all the days of your life, it's like person wey wan stop masturbation watching porn everyday
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by DatNaijaGuy: 3:34pm On Feb 19, 2022
candidladyTemp:
sad


God iam ready to trade... Bring back aliyah and lefteye, take this pervert


You are not normal.... Are you guys cursed like em swear for una no no did someone place a spell on y'all





If you don't have advice to give then shut up.
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by rabiudon: 3:41pm On Feb 19, 2022
Awkabigboy:

The idiot is u, your fagoot parents who gave birth to an animal who gets erected at the sight of his blood relative , ewu
I insist, you lack comprehension. Local Anambra boy
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Kobojunkie: 3:44pm On Feb 19, 2022
Ladycewhy:
So if he has a daughter outside wedluck that never lived with him, by your logic he can also have an erection for his daughter as well.
Or even a step daughter....

ROFLMAO
grin cheesy grin cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Awkabigboy: 3:46pm On Feb 19, 2022
rabiudon:
I[s] insist, you lack comprehension. Local Anambra boy[/s]
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by kansoboy: 3:52pm On Feb 19, 2022
bizzibodi:

LOL it is not his whole self that has erection it was his independent cockerel.

Hhahahaahahahah.brl u are very funny
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by AIIyIic(f): 3:53pm On Feb 19, 2022
Stedygrowth:
Op, what you're going through is normal. The response you're experiencing is completely biological in nature, remember, you have not met her before. She, being your cousin's sister, does not in any way, stop from being a woman she is. The problem here is that, there is no conditioning between you two that establish the fact that you guys are sisters, as such, there is a clear prediction that if you have opportunity, you will make love to her.
Based on the above submission, I will suggest you help her find a place to stay. Even if she changes the way she dresses from now on, it will not still change anything, because you have been conditioned already. Until you will not rest. So, to be on the safe side, find a place for her as quickly as possible.
This does not require discipline, it require removing or staying away from the source of the stimulus. If you keep staying, you will do it one day.

candidladyTemp... This is the best advice. You really can't control d male organ. Only if it is a close relative and from what he said, dat was d first time they are meeting. It is really very natural to feel that way. Probably, you would know better if you're a guy

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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Aaaoo: 3:57pm On Feb 19, 2022
Stop checking just report her to avoid temptation
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Eaglefine(f): 4:01pm On Feb 19, 2022
Maxwell775:
My cousin sister (from my mother's side) who just got admitted into the university have been staying with me for the past 4 months now. I live in a 2 bedroom flat, and my house is just a throw stone to the university school gate.

Due to financial issues she couldn't rent an apartment, so she goes to school from my house. She's 20yrs old, I'm way older than her with abt 10yrs.

Before she started living with me, it was my mother who told her parents that she could stay with me, without my knowledge or permission.

The very first day she was on her way coming to my house, my mother called me and was like her sister's daughter is coming to stay with me bla bla bla.. At first I was upset, atleast she would have informed me. Am not really close to my mom's family people, we have this distance relationship (no hate, no grudges)

Now here is the problem. She likes wearing mini skirts, short gowns and tight trousers or leggings. Infact what she wears indoors is worse, she will put on very hot bum short, crop top and all manner of rubbish!!

Truth be told, I use to have very strong and hard erection whenever she walks. @20 if you see her banging body?? Slim, figure 8, Coca-Cola bottle shape. Her nyash dey clap if she dey walk. I don't wanna be emphasizing on that...But seriously she's tormenting me. Make I no go shift her pant, I don't wanna commit abomination. But mind you, I have a girlfriend.

Nairalanders please, How do I talk to her about dressing decently, without her feeling insecured or impression of a pervert. undecided

Sit her down and talk to her about her dressing since you're not comfortable about it.
Better still; get her a new place if you have the money her to avoid "it's devil's hand work"
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Ladycewhy(f): 4:02pm On Feb 19, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Or even a step daughter....

ROFLMAO
grin cheesy grin cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
That people are condoning such behavior is even more worrisome little wonder why men sleeping with their daughters is on the rise . Just see the number of men that have agreed with stedygrowth whose opening statement was that what the op is feeling is normal. Like wtf! Too many drepaved perverts on this forum.

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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Helper1991(m): 4:04pm On Feb 19, 2022
I am not saint. But my advice is for you to overlook her and mind your business. At most tell her politely that she needs to be covering up because you are someone who easily get erected. If that produced no result, go and masturbate or get your girlfriend. Don't dare try to sleep with that girl, it won't end well with you
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Kobojunkie: 4:07pm On Feb 19, 2022
Ladycewhy:
That people are condoning such behavior is even more worrisome little wonder why men sleeping with their daughters is on the rise . Just see the number of men that have agreed with the comment whose opening statement was that what the op is feeling is normal. Like wtf! Too many drepaved perverts on this forum.
It isn't on the rise though. Instead, more gals are refusing to remain quiet about it is all. undecided

Growing up, we had many such perverted old men and guys in my neighborhood. Rumors spread ofcourse about them but no formal reports were made by the victims because society pinned the fault, most times on the victims. The same we see happening here with many of these individuals suggesting the gal be scolded for causing a grown man to have an erection.... "how dare she live her life she way she does when a grown man is unable to control himself as a result..." imagine that. undecided

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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Sensiblerealist: 4:11pm On Feb 19, 2022
It's common amongst the Fulanis and they copied that from Arabs.
But in Southern Nigeria, it's an abomination.
It means you can do that too


Sarsaproko:
Just bang her if she let you. Sanusi Lamido married his cousin..So kini big deal angry
Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by Blue3k(m): 4:11pm On Feb 19, 2022
Before she started living with me, it was my mother who told her parents that she could stay with me, without my knowledge or permission.

Nigerian parents need to respect boundaries. You can't volunteer things that aren't yours.

Nairalanders please, How do I talk to her about dressing decently, without her feeling insecured or impression of a pervert.

She's staying in your house so put your foot down by setting ground rules. If she doesn't like it she can find new place to stay. Just say "while you're inside the house I'd prefer you dress this way from now on because it's more appropriate". When she steps out the house that's her business. Anyway a few questions by her might expose your perversion but whatever.

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Re: Help! Am Having Erection For My Cousin Sis. How Do I Tell Her To Dress Decently by alizma: 4:21pm On Feb 19, 2022
candidladyTemp:
sad


God iam ready to trade... Bring back aliyah and lefteye, take this pervert


You are not normal.... Are you guys cursed like em swear for una no no did someone place a spell on y'all




Are you normal, did you not see the gap in what he said? He is not close to his maternal relatives, that is a clue to the you that there is tendency that he see her just like every other girls he is not related to. More so he mentioned the kind of dress the girl put on which can provoke sexual reaction considering the absence of family bound between them.
When are you girls going to understand that the way this things work for you is not the same way it work for men?

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