Hello,

I am french, 47 years old man, and I have a nigerian gf since 2 years now... We love to spend time together even if it s on internet and it s tough, we really try to act as a normal couple and stay strong. She is currently home; it's the second time she come here and she stay for 1 month, we are at the second week already.

Few days ago, we were just watching a series in tv and enjoying. On the show a black woman just fight 3 men alone and beat them out... I laugh and said how unrealisitic it was but she was not agree and said for example she is convinced she could handle me. I laugh more telling her nicely im a 5'9 man while she is 5'6. I love to tease her, it s how we laugh and getting close together. She said that even if she has no martial art background she could win vs me because she do some yoga.. I laugh and tease her imitate her doing yoga pose but it didnt make her laugh. She didnt show she was mad but i feel the ambiance started to be a bit more "electrical".. She said fine, if it's that I challenge u and we put a bet on it. Of course i refuse, telling it s going too far (but that im still stronger)but she insist and finaly i said ok let's try it if you dare, i'll be soft..

So we fix the rules, no punch, only kick and soft ones. 1 point for kick in the leg, 2 points for belly and 4 for the head, first to score 15 points win, I agree. For the bet, the looser ll have to do all the chores for the next 2 weeks... Ok no problem... It was in good ambiance but in the same time a bit of tension. I know she is competitive because we did play some video games and I am a bit too...

So it start, at first we were going slow but we dont like to lose and so I quickly took it seriously, and so she does. i confess it was tougher than i imagine, even if she is shorter she is energic and have a lot of speed... After couple of minutes, she was slighting winning and getting close to the 15 points. i started to be tired and toasted.. She is 34 while im 47 and it was more and more tough for me. She noticed it and start to tease me while smiling. Then, while i was about to kick her, she send me really her foot right in the stomach pretty hard.. I fall on my knees, she laugh and started to count while she was just skipping... i had my breath cut so I did give up... She laugh and tease me while celebrating by dancing and saying idiot things about white men... I had trouble to breath and basically feel like a d*ck... She then help me to stand up and put me on the sofa, being pretty satisfied about herself...

Since that, it's strange but she really act bossy with me... ok it s a part of the deal that i have to make the chores but she s like having pleasure telling me to do this or to do that...It's like something has change. if I try to talk her about it she just start to be mad and to say that she win and i need to listen to her... I dont really know how to deal with that..

Do you have an idea of what did happen in her mind?

Thx

will she stay like this?

In the off chance that this is not fake:

Stories like this can be found on Reddit. This is not a purely Nigerian girl thing.

She didn't like being assumed to be weaker and wanted to prove herself.

That's all.

what can i do for her tos top behave like that?

Don't even know where to come in

Is she Igbo? If she is Igbo, my bro, your gf will soon breakup with you cause that is their way. They are usually over reactive on little things and often bossy.

If this later escalate into a brawl, just take it cool and find a way to leave the scene as soon as possible cause they are very violent.

JustPowerApps:
Is she Igbo? If she is Igbo, my bro, your gf will soon breakup with you cause that is their way. They are usually over reactive on little things and often bossy.

If this later escalate into a brawl, just take it cool and find a way to leave the scene as soon as possible cause they are very violent.

hi

no she is Yoruba. Since that she a bit humiliate me with fact im white..

You are on the safe side if she is Yoruba, you can still talk things through with her later. It will be better if you let her be right now though, just try as much as possible to accommodate her bossy behavior. I am very sure she will come around later.

patrick49000:


hi

no she is Yoruba. Since that she a bit humiliate me with fact im white..

You are on the safe side if she is Yoruba, you can still talk things through with her later. It will be better you let her be right now though, just try as much as possible to accommodate her bossy behavior. I am very sure she will come around later.

JustPowerApps:


You are on the safe side if she is Yoruba, you can still talk things through with her later. It will be better you let her be right now though, just try as much as possible to accommodate her bossy behavior. I am very sure she will come around later.

Thx u so much dude! Sometimes I really want to slap her, particulary when she told me to serve her drink while i have to do all the chores alone... I have 2 more weeks to let her rule all, I ll try to accomodate, ur right it s probably the best thing to do

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patrick49000:


Thx u so much dude! Sometimes I really want to slap her, particulary when she told me to serve her drink while i have to do all the chores alone... I have 2 more weeks to let her rule all, I ll try to accomodate, ur right it s probably the best thing to do

You got emasculated by your woman lol. You better take back your balls. You can start with that slap.

JustPowerApps:
Is she Igbo? If she is Igbo, my bro, your gf will soon breakup with you cause that is their way. They are usually over reactive on little things and often bossy.

If this later escalate into a brawl, just take it cool and find a way to leave the scene as soon as possible cause they are very violent.

hello your very very stupid to use that on all lgbo ladies are u sure ur normal

JustPowerApps:
You are on the safe side if she is Yoruba, you can still talk things through with her later. It will be better if you let her be right now though, just try as much as possible to accommodate her bossy behavior. I am very sure she will come around later.

just negodu this one

And at OP....you ought to know when you give a woman power, she will abuse it

Well, just carryon with the deal, it doesn't change the fact you lost to a woman, deal with that... African women are not your regular french soft ladies.

Better wash those plates make e dey shine....!!

Why are you people not calling him SIMP?

Is it because he's white and French.

If it's a Nigerian guy now, you people will fill this thread with cries of SIMP

patrick49000:
Hello,

I am french, 47 years old man, and I have a nigerian gf since 2 years now... We love to spend time together even if it s on internet and it s tough, we really try to act as a normal couple and stay strong. She is currently home; it's the second time she come here and she stay for 1 month, we are at the second week already.

Few days ago, we were just watching a series in tv and enjoying. On the show a black woman just fight 3 men alone and beat them out... I laugh and said how unrealisitic it was but she was not agree and said for example she is convinced she could handle me. I laugh more telling her nicely im a 5'9 man while she is 5'6. I love to tease her, it s how we laugh and getting close together. She said that even if she has no martial art background she could win vs me because she do some yoga.. I laugh and tease her imitate her doing yoga pose but it didnt make her laugh. She didnt show she was mad but i feel the ambiance started to be a bit more "electrical".. She said fine, if it's that I challenge u and we put a bet on it. Of course i refuse, telling it s going too far (but that im still stronger)but she insist and finaly i said ok let's try it if you dare, i'll be soft..

So we fix the rules, no punch, only kick and soft ones. 1 point for kick in the leg, 2 points for belly and 4 for the head, first to score 15 points win, I agree. For the bet, the looser ll have to do all the chores for the next 2 weeks... Ok no problem... It was in good ambiance but in the same time a bit of tension. I know she is competitive because we did play some video games and I am a bit too...

So it start, at first we were going slow but we dont like to lose and so I quickly took it seriously, and so she does. i confess it was tougher than i imagine, even if she is shorter she is energic and have a lot of speed... After couple of minutes, she was slighting winning and getting close to the 15 points. i started to be tired and toasted.. She is 34 while im 47 and it was more and more tough for me. She noticed it and start to tease me while smiling. Then, while i was about to kick her, she send me really her foot right in the stomach pretty hard.. I fall on my knees, she laugh and started to count while she was just skipping... i had my breath cut so I did give up... She laugh and tease me while celebrating by dancing and saying idiot things about white men... I had trouble to breath and basically feel like a d*ck... She then help me to stand up and put me on the sofa, being pretty satisfied about herself...

Since that, it's strange but she really act bossy with me... ok it s a part of the deal that i have to make the chores but she s like having pleasure telling me to do this or to do that...It's like something has change. if I try to talk her about it she just start to be mad and to say that she win and i need to listen to her... I dont really know how to deal with that..

Do you have an idea of what did happen in her mind?

Thx

Ur people brought simping into the world and made men look like puppies infront of women... she will still 4k other men and justify that u are a weak man ,thats y she cheated... enjoy ur humiliation

patrick49000:


Thx u so much dude! Sometimes I really want to slap her, particulary when she told me to serve her drink while i have to do all the chores alone... I have 2 more weeks to let her rule all, I ll try to accomodate, ur right it s probably the best thing to do

Dont mind @ justpowerapp ... yoruba women are the worst in Nigeria ....they are lazy as 4k and like taking control of their husbands if they identify that he is weak ...

She's a girlfriend not a wife, if you're not comfortable with her attitude let her go and look for someone else.

If you keep enduring her I see you dying of severe beating from her.

This I have seen.

Who is paying the bills?

Which French man answers Patrick?

ITbomb:
Who is paying the bills?

Nairalanders are dumb to believe this crap

You were du.m.b to play that kind of game with a woman .
Why will you both be practising fight for what
If she said yes
You should have just said no to the fight and left

Guy code

(1)never prove your self to a woman
It worthless she will easily skale you

This person is 3 years short of 50! Imagine that, 50!

Now you have to beat her. Like really make her angry which will result into a real fight. Hold nothing back and beat her.

You'll have proven that you can really beat her and she'll fall back in line and into her place.

But you might end up in jail.

Really, there's no coming back from where you are right now. You should have won the fight even if it meant breaking the rules and hitting her really hard.

patrick49000:
Hello,

I am french, 47 years old man, and I have a nigerian gf since 2 years now... We love to spend time together even if it s on internet and it s tough, we really try to act as a normal couple and stay strong. She is currently home; it's the second time she come here and she stay for 1 month, we are at the second week already.

Few days ago, we were just watching a series in tv and enjoying. On the show a black woman just fight 3 men alone and beat them out... I laugh and said how unrealisitic it was but she was not agree and said for example she is convinced she could handle me. I laugh more telling her nicely im a 5'9 man while she is 5'6. I love to tease her, it s how we laugh and getting close together. She said that even if she has no martial art background she could win vs me because she do some yoga.. I laugh and tease her imitate her doing yoga pose but it didnt make her laugh. She didnt show she was mad but i feel the ambiance started to be a bit more "electrical".. She said fine, if it's that I challenge u and we put a bet on it. Of course i refuse, telling it s going too far (but that im still stronger)but she insist and finaly i said ok let's try it if you dare, i'll be soft..

So we fix the rules, no punch, only kick and soft ones. 1 point for kick in the leg, 2 points for belly and 4 for the head, first to score 15 points win, I agree. For the bet, the looser ll have to do all the chores for the next 2 weeks... Ok no problem... It was in good ambiance but in the same time a bit of tension. I know she is competitive because we did play some video games and I am a bit too...

So it start, at first we were going slow but we dont like to lose and so I quickly took it seriously, and so she does. i confess it was tougher than i imagine, even if she is shorter she is energic and have a lot of speed... After couple of minutes, she was slighting winning and getting close to the 15 points. i started to be tired and toasted.. She is 34 while im 47 and it was more and more tough for me. She noticed it and start to tease me while smiling. Then, while i was about to kick her, she send me really her foot right in the stomach pretty hard.. I fall on my knees, she laugh and started to count while she was just skipping... i had my breath cut so I did give up... She laugh and tease me while celebrating by dancing and saying idiot things about white men... I had trouble to breath and basically feel like a d*ck... She then help me to stand up and put me on the sofa, being pretty satisfied about herself...

Since that, it's strange but she really act bossy with me... ok it s a part of the deal that i have to make the chores but she s like having pleasure telling me to do this or to do that...It's like something has change. if I try to talk her about it she just start to be mad and to say that she win and i need to listen to her... I dont really know how to deal with that..

Do you have an idea of what did happen in her mind?

Thx

She won't try it with a Nigerian man

InTheCloudySky:

Je pense que tu dois lui parler de ça. La communication est importante pour éviter tout malentendu. Bonne chance!

Merci, j'ai essayé mais elle ne me laisse pas en placer une. Quand j'essaye elle me coupe et me dit de pas négocier, que j'ai perdu alors je dois faire ce qu'elle me dit...

FalseProphet1:
She's a girlfriend not a wife, if you're not comfortable with her attitude let her go and look for someone else.

If you keep enduring her I see you dying of severe beating from her.

This I have seen.

i wont let her beat me anyway

ITbomb:
Who is paying the bills?

i do of course

Sammy101111:
You were du.m.b to play that kind of game with a woman .
Why will you both be practising fight for what
If she said yes
You should have just said no to the fight and left

Guy code

(1)never prove your self to a woman
It worthless she will easily skale you

i know it was a mistake.. i just want to show her she was wrong..

Double0h7:
This person is 3 years short of 50! Imagine that, 50!

what do u mean?