DaddyRochie1642:
Run very fast, she's want to kill herself and if your not careful, she'll take you along with her and all your efforts will be in vain

Lalami3232:
She never ready to die. If she wan die, she knows 1000 ways to achieve it. I hate when people dey blackmail other people emotionally. She's indirectly telling you to invest more in her.
Bros, I'm a very realistic person ooooo. If she thinks death is the best solution, then make she kukuma kill herself na. Why come to your house to cut her wrist? Maybe that girl na village people wey wan implicate you or maybe she has psychological problem.
But either ways, I feel say she's indirectly blackmailing you to do better. Na this kind person wey no fit face hard time na you wan marry? You don dey see the signs oooo, it's left for you to make your village people win or lost.


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, " the day I go mistakenly born girl pikin, I go *****"

GRAMMARJAMES:
Good afternoon Nairalanders.
We've been together for a year and 2 weeks.
I intending settling down with her so I proposed to her 6 months to the relationship.
Before proposal, she tells me so many things about herself. eg.
She doesn't have so many friends, she's the church type and her life revolves around house, church, and my place sometimes.
She has concluded her service year but no job. I opened a POS for her to keep her busy and engaged and she's really doing well in it because I do see the inflows and outflows. She's not the material type . Very prudent in spending. She's kind, generous , from a well cultured home.

What causes the depression.

Their parents only gave birth to 3 of them. She's the first and only girl. (27yrs). The other two are boys. She thinks about alot of things like she' has yet to start giving her parents returns, very soon she will get married, who's going to look after her parents and younger ones, the POS is stressful to her as she will leave home in the morning and when she gets back home in the evening, she will still need to cook and do other chores, she' doesn't have time for herself, she has an ambition of being a Medical doctor but look at her under the scorching sun hustling POS stipends. She doesn't socialise, now self, she has stopped going to church, always sleeping , crying and gets angry at herself and other person's for absolute no reason. The last time she came over to my place, I wasn't around, she knew where I kept my room keys, she entered and cut herself with blade on her wrist and dropped a note.. (I'm sorry). I was so scared, I had to call her younger brother which we rushed her to the nearby hospital without the knowledge of her parents. The last one that shock me was when I saw sniper in her bag. I bought her ice cream, on helping her put it inside her bag, I saw it. I confronted her and she just started crying. I keep encouraging her that suicide isn't an option, she should consider how many people she will hurt by killing herself. We've prayed together, she even told me she doesn't believe in God anymore. I keep encouraging her, keep praying for her. I'm just confused about the whole situation.

Please Nairalanders, what's your take.
Should I go ahead and marry her, I had the plan of visiting her parents Q4 this year.
Thanks
Lalasticlala

GRAMMARJAMES:
Good afternoon Nairalanders.
We've been together for a year and 2 weeks.
I intending settling down with her so I proposed to her 6 months to the relationship.
Before proposal, she tells me so many things about herself. eg.
She doesn't have so many friends, she's the church type and her life revolves around house, church, and my place sometimes.
She has concluded her service year but no job. I opened a POS for her to keep her busy and engaged and she's really doing well in it because I do see the inflows and outflows. She's not the material type . Very prudent in spending. She's kind, generous , from a well cultured home.

What causes the depression.

Their parents only gave birth to 3 of them. She's the first and only girl. (27yrs). The other two are boys. She thinks about alot of things like she' has yet to start giving her parents returns, very soon she will get married, who's going to look after her parents and younger ones, the POS is stressful to her as she will leave home in the morning and when she gets back home in the evening, she will still need to cook and do other chores, she' doesn't have time for herself, she has an ambition of being a Medical doctor but look at her under the scorching sun hustling POS stipends. She doesn't socialise, now self, she has stopped going to church, always sleeping , crying and gets angry at herself and other person's for absolute no reason. The last time she came over to my place, I wasn't around, she knew where I kept my room keys, she entered and cut herself with blade on her wrist and dropped a note.. (I'm sorry). I was so scared, I had to call her younger brother which we rushed her to the nearby hospital without the knowledge of her parents. The last one that shock me was when I saw sniper in her bag. I bought her ice cream, on helping her put it inside her bag, I saw it. I confronted her and she just started crying. I keep encouraging her that suicide isn't an option, she should consider how many people she will hurt by killing herself. We've prayed together, she even told me she doesn't believe in God anymore. I keep encouraging her, keep praying for her. I'm just confused about the whole situation.

Please Nairalanders, what's your take.
Should I go ahead and marry her, I had the plan of visiting her parents Q4 this year.
Thanks
Lalasticlala

GRAMMARJAMES:
Good afternoon Nairalanders.
We've been together for a year and 2 weeks.
I intending settling down with her so I proposed to her 6 months to the relationship.
Before proposal, she tells me so many things about herself. eg.
She doesn't have so many friends, she's the church type and her life revolves around house, church, and my place sometimes.
She has concluded her service year but no job. I opened a POS for her to keep her busy and engaged and she's really doing well in it because I do see the inflows and outflows. She's not the material type . Very prudent in spending. She's kind, generous , from a well cultured home.

What causes the depression.

Their parents only gave birth to 3 of them. She's the first and only girl. (27yrs). The other two are boys. She thinks about alot of things like she' has yet to start giving her parents returns, very soon she will get married, who's going to look after her parents and younger ones, the POS is stressful to her as she will leave home in the morning and when she gets back home in the evening, she will still need to cook and do other chores, she' doesn't have time for herself, she has an ambition of being a Medical doctor but look at her under the scorching sun hustling POS stipends. She doesn't socialise, now self, she has stopped going to church, always sleeping , crying and gets angry at herself and other person's for absolute no reason. The last time she came over to my place, I wasn't around, she knew where I kept my room keys, she entered and cut herself with blade on her wrist and dropped a note.. (I'm sorry). I was so scared, I had to call her younger brother which we rushed her to the nearby hospital without the knowledge of her parents. The last one that shock me was when I saw sniper in her bag. I bought her ice cream, on helping her put it inside her bag, I saw it. I confronted her and she just started crying. I keep encouraging her that suicide isn't an option, she should consider how many people she will hurt by killing herself. We've prayed together, she even told me she doesn't believe in God anymore. I keep encouraging her, keep praying for her. I'm just confused about the whole situation.

Please Nairalanders, what's your take.
Should I go ahead and marry her, I had the plan of visiting her parents Q4 this year.
Thanks
Lalasticlala

GRAMMARJAMES:
Good afternoon Nairalanders.
We've been together for a year and 2 weeks.
I intending settling down with her so I proposed to her 6 months to the relationship.
Before proposal, she tells me so many things about herself. eg.
She doesn't have so many friends, she's the church type and her life revolves around house, church, and my place sometimes.
She has concluded her service year but no job. I opened a POS for her to keep her busy and engaged and she's really doing well in it because I do see the inflows and outflows. She's not the material type . Very prudent in spending. She's kind, generous , from a well cultured home.

What causes the depression.

Their parents only gave birth to 3 of them. She's the first and only girl. (27yrs). The other two are boys. She thinks about alot of things like she' has yet to start giving her parents returns, very soon she will get married, who's going to look after her parents and younger ones, the POS is stressful to her as she will leave home in the morning and when she gets back home in the evening, she will still need to cook and do other chores, she' doesn't have time for herself, she has an ambition of being a Medical doctor but look at her under the scorching sun hustling POS stipends. She doesn't socialise, now self, she has stopped going to church, always sleeping , crying and gets angry at herself and other person's for absolute no reason. The last time she came over to my place, I wasn't around, she knew where I kept my room keys, she entered and cut herself with blade on her wrist and dropped a note.. (I'm sorry). I was so scared, I had to call her younger brother which we rushed her to the nearby hospital without the knowledge of her parents. The last one that shock me was when I saw sniper in her bag. I bought her ice cream, on helping her put it inside her bag, I saw it. I confronted her and she just started crying. I keep encouraging her that suicide isn't an option, she should consider how many people she will hurt by killing herself. We've prayed together, she even told me she doesn't believe in God anymore. I keep encouraging her, keep praying for her. I'm just confused about the whole situation.

Please Nairalanders, what's your take.
Should I go ahead and marry her, I had the plan of visiting her parents Q4 this year.
Thanks
Lalasticlala

badboyTee:
as a relationship adviser here I advise you to retreat let her leave because of wahala if she dies nah your head he go fall on

Rosement:

You are right in a way. He has to distance himself from her but he should inform her parents about her condition and advice them on what to do.

GRAMMARJAMES:
Good afternoon Nairalanders.
We've been together for a year and 2 weeks.
I intending settling down with her so I proposed to her 6 months to the relationship.
Before proposal, she tells me so many things about herself. eg.
She doesn't have so many friends, she's the church type and her life revolves around house, church, and my place sometimes.
She has concluded her service year but no job. I opened a POS for her to keep her busy and engaged and she's really doing well in it because I do see the inflows and outflows. She's not the material type . Very prudent in spending. She's kind, generous , from a well cultured home.

What causes the depression.

Their parents only gave birth to 3 of them. She's the first and only girl. (27yrs). The other two are boys. She thinks about alot of things like she' has yet to start giving her parents returns, very soon she will get married, who's going to look after her parents and younger ones, the POS is stressful to her as she will leave home in the morning and when she gets back home in the evening, she will still need to cook and do other chores, she' doesn't have time for herself, she has an ambition of being a Medical doctor but look at her under the scorching sun hustling POS stipends. She doesn't socialise, now self, she has stopped going to church, always sleeping , crying and gets angry at herself and other person's for absolute no reason. The last time she came over to my place, I wasn't around, she knew where I kept my room keys, she entered and cut herself with blade on her wrist and dropped a note.. (I'm sorry). I was so scared, I had to call her younger brother which we rushed her to the nearby hospital without the knowledge of her parents. The last one that shock me was when I saw sniper in her bag. I bought her ice cream, on helping her put it inside her bag, I saw it. I confronted her and she just started crying. I keep encouraging her that suicide isn't an option, she should consider how many people she will hurt by killing herself. We've prayed together, she even told me she doesn't believe in God anymore. I keep encouraging her, keep praying for her. I'm just confused about the whole situation.

Please Nairalanders, what's your take.
Should I go ahead and marry her, I had the plan of visiting her parents Q4 this year.
Thanks
Lalasticlala

GRAMMARJAMES:
Their parents only gave birth to 3 of them. She's the first and only girl. (27yrs). The other two are boys. She thinks about alot of things like she' has yet to start giving her parents returns, very soon she will get married, who's going to look after her parents and younger ones, the POS is stressful to her as she will leave home in the morning and when she gets back home in the evening, she will still need to cook and do other chores, she' doesn't have time for herself, she has an ambition of being a Medical doctor but look at her under the scorching sun hustling POS stipends. She doesn't socialise, now self, she has stopped going to church, always sleeping , crying and gets angry at herself and other person's for absolute no reason. The last time she came over to my place, I wasn't around, she knew where I kept my room keys, she entered and cut herself with blade on her wrist and dropped a note.. (I'm sorry). I was so scared, I had to call her younger brother which we rushed her to the nearby hospital without the knowledge of her parents. The last one that shock me was when I saw sniper in her bag. I bought her ice cream, on helping her put it inside her bag, I saw it. I confronted her and she just started crying. I keep encouraging her that suicide isn't an option, she should consider how many people she will hurt by killing herself. We've prayed together, she even told me she doesn't believe in God anymore. I keep encouraging her, keep praying for her. I'm just confused about the whole situation.

GRAMMARJAMES:
Good afternoon Nairalanders.
We've been together for a year and 2 weeks.
I intending settling down with her so I proposed to her 6 months to the relationship.
Before proposal, she tells me so many things about herself. eg.
She doesn't have so many friends, she's the church type and her life revolves around house, church, and my place sometimes.
She has concluded her service year but no job. I opened a POS for her to keep her busy and engaged and she's really doing well in it because I do see the inflows and outflows. She's not the material type . Very prudent in spending. She's kind, generous , from a well cultured home.

What causes the depression.

Their parents only gave birth to 3 of them. She's the first and only girl. (27yrs). The other two are boys. She thinks about alot of things like she' has yet to start giving her parents returns, very soon she will get married, who's going to look after her parents and younger ones, the POS is stressful to her as she will leave home in the morning and when she gets back home in the evening, she will still need to cook and do other chores, she' doesn't have time for herself, she has an ambition of being a Medical doctor but look at her under the scorching sun hustling POS stipends. She doesn't socialise, now self, she has stopped going to church, always sleeping , crying and gets angry at herself and other person's for absolute no reason. The last time she came over to my place, I wasn't around, she knew where I kept my room keys, she entered and cut herself with blade on her wrist and dropped a note.. (I'm sorry). I was so scared, I had to call her younger brother which we rushed her to the nearby hospital without the knowledge of her parents. The last one that shock me was when I saw sniper in her bag. I bought her ice cream, on helping her put it inside her bag, I saw it. I confronted her and she just started crying. I keep encouraging her that suicide isn't an option, she should consider how many people she will hurt by killing herself. We've prayed together, she even told me she doesn't believe in God anymore. I keep encouraging her, keep praying for her. I'm just confused about the whole situation.

Please Nairalanders, what's your take.
Should I go ahead and marry her, I had the plan of visiting her parents Q4 this year.
Thanks
Lalasticlala