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Why Are Some Guys So Clingy? by Rosement(f): 5:50pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
I met a particular guy when I attended a short course. He was in a relationship with me in his mind, even after he asked me out and I told him we can only be friends. He was bothering me with frequent calls and complaining whenever I did not pick his calls. I found out after the program ended that he told several people he was in a relationship with him and we are having sexual affairs. A male mate of mine was upset with me because of that but I did not try to prove myself to him. Several people started asking me about the relationship also. When I told him to stop pestering him, he started pestering my brother. He met my brother when my brother visited me during the short course. The guy is a stalker. He even called my mum and told her he had something very important to discuss with her about her daughter, my mum was about to go and lecture her students that day but she had to wait to listen to his nonsense. I did not introduce him to my mum but he had my mum's number because one day I missed his call and I used my mum's phone to call him back, then I did not know he was a liar. I unfollowed him on instagram and addressed a warning video to him. He sent me a DM asking me to delete the video and he promised to stop pestering me but he recently followed me back and started liking my pictures. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Some Guys So Clingy? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 5:52pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
Rosement pls that thing is a stalker..get rid of him as soon as possible..those kinda persons are not usually mentally stable..don't get yourself hurt.. cut em off.. These kinda person are obsessive and highly narcissistic individuals...they are controlling and manipulative...most actually lack empathy.. All stalkers like that guy have personality disorders.. Secondly pls ignore the insultive comment that might come up.. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Are Some Guys So Clingy? by LucyArts: 5:53pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
Re: Why Are Some Guys So Clingy? by Futurethankgod(m): 5:55pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
several people he was in a relationship with him Sorry Can't hold it But that guy no try sha!!! |
Re: Why Are Some Guys So Clingy? by illicit(m): 5:55pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
He is a simp 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Some Guys So Clingy? by fikayormi(m): 5:56pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
Your write up seems somehow to me , I don't think that is the full story but anyway why is the guy acting like a fool ? Anyway just block him every where since he has decided not to have sense . Who still dey mumu for girls this days ? 7 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Guys So Clingy? by Rosement(f): 5:58pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK:Thank you so much for the advice, I will do just that. |
Re: Why Are Some Guys So Clingy? by rickpat(m): 6:00pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
more of an obsessed fellow,avoid him..those kind can get really dangerous...it's good people know about him and his "madness" around you 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Guys So Clingy? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 6:03pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
Rosement:One last thing..pls I beg of you be extra security conscious..I know why I am saying this.. Don't want a situation whereby he might find a way to get back at you...he might be planning some nonsense you don't know about.. creepy.. Be very observant... always be at high alert and when you see something strange.. voice out asap.. enjoy.. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Guys So Clingy? by toujurs: 6:03pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
You sounded like a lady, that has been in a very rough relationship, before this dude came in. The guy is actually a fool, to feel that attached, attachment is a ladies thing. Please call him to order again, for the last time and warn him to desist from anything regarding you. Some guys can be so stupid. And he is definitely one of them. Very toxic. 8 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Guys So Clingy? by Nobody: 6:03pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
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Re: Why Are Some Guys So Clingy? by Nobody: 6:05pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
Incomplete. Someone is stalking u and u also claim he's pestering u yet u still had to call him back using ur mom's phone? Secondly why do a video when u could have simply blocked him and report his account. Why u nor block am I feel this story isn't as it is tho... so many errors 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Some Guys So Clingy? by SurvivorM(f): 6:09pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
Sorry dear, I hate clingy people with passion. They are so annoying and always getting jealous when you are not even in a relationship with them. Stay Safe dear and make sure to tell everyone around you of his toxic behaviour 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Guys So Clingy? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 6:10pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
killmods:It was her choice to address him that way.. believe it or not...stalkers are disgusting creature.. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Guys So Clingy? by SurvivorM(f): 6:11pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
killmods:Chill she only called him back when she hadn't noticed he was creepy and she did a video probably to tell people of his toxic ass which was a right call 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Guys So Clingy? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 6:11pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
LIGHTHEARTED0: |
Re: Why Are Some Guys So Clingy? by garriAndsugar: 6:30pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
I hope you're not accepting gifts from him? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Guys So Clingy? by Uzomacharles: 6:32pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
THIS IS A CHARACTERISTICS OF A SIMP AND WE ALL HATE IT.... INCASE YOU'RE READING THIS THREAD AND YOU'RE ACTING THIS WAY,. PLS STOP!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Guys So Clingy? by Truvelisback(m): 6:36pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
When will these guys stop doing this? 1 Share
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Re: Why Are Some Guys So Clingy? by Rosement(f): 6:40pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
toujurs:I don't want to call him out on instagram again, not everybody will understand, some people might just find it funny or childish. When I called him out on instagram, one guy I met during the program told me that I shouldn't have done that because of my own reputation. |
Re: Why Are Some Guys So Clingy? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 6:53pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
Thesourcerer hope you are doing great? |
Re: Why Are Some Guys So Clingy? by TheSourcerer: 6:54pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK:oh yeah , see you're having a swell day ? glad. |
Re: Why Are Some Guys So Clingy? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 6:56pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
TheSourcerer:Thanks.. You..been a while right? Everything going on perfectly well with you?.. |
Re: Why Are Some Guys So Clingy? by TheSourcerer: 7:00pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK:yeah and its raining that's a plus. Wyd? |
Re: Why Are Some Guys So Clingy? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 7:02pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
TheSourcerer:Raining? You are having a great time.. Blasting.. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Guys So Clingy? by SurvivorM(f): 7:02pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
Rosement:Forget what that dude said, the world is full of people with mental problems, you think you have problems now wait until you start dating someone and this dude start harassing the person and spreading vicious lies about you, he is already telling guys that he has slept with you to push them away. The only way is to show him you are not scared of him or putting his craziness out there. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Some Guys So Clingy? by LINTUNE(m): 7:05pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
The movie : perfect guy....comes to mind...go and watch the movie u will understand, lol ego boosting as all these might seem,abeg run from that guy,for ur own safety... |
Re: Why Are Some Guys So Clingy? by TheSourcerer: 7:05pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK:Ah convenient, blasting too haha Jhene Aiko - Blue dream , try it out , let me know . |
Re: Why Are Some Guys So Clingy? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 7:08pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
TheSourcerer:That's a song for the soul tho..the beat is nice..still listening to it.. Think I am in love with the feeling... 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Guys So Clingy? by toujurs: 7:09pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK:This one you just said reminded me of a lady, i wooed for over six months, she was doing hard to get, finally she fell. And we had sex multiple times, which at some point she requested for it, the affection i initially had for her vanished, i was actually surprised at my self. How a girl i was so much eager to have, now i have her, i wasn't still happy, i had to tell her i was done, and was no longer interested, she cried and cried. And was begging. I was like wait a minute why is she crying this way. Its not like she liked me initially. We went out seperate ways. Only for this girl to stand at the entrance of an eatery at night. Waiting for me to come out so she can stab me and run away, luckily for me the security guard saw her. he observed something fishy and held her. Only for him to see a knife. When i came out i saw her, And was so shocked at what i heard. Some people can be so heartless. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Some Guys So Clingy? by FERNANDEZISBACK: 7:12pm On Mar 20, 2022 |
toujurs:Are you for real? Wow..I don't know why this gave me some goose bumps..to be sincere some people can go a long way if they ain't getting what they want.. Hope you was fine and still fine tho? |
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