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Re: Help!!! My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian. I Found Out Today by Nobody: 7:33am On Mar 22, 2022
Trustwallet:

We are on same page, the kind of hatred i have for those gays, to the extent am ready to kill any guy who try any stupid gay sh*t with me.
So if u give birth to a gay u would kill him? in reality u are a friend with a gay, u've once dine with a gay without even knowing. What I'm trying to say is that; gays have com to b part of us either we like it or not, hence, we can't do anything but to accept them!

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Re: Help!!! My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian. I Found Out Today by Flamemignon1(m): 7:59am On Mar 22, 2022
Hartugrin27:


Heaven is your reward
I sha pray u reconsile with your dead membrane
What's your stress? A lot of men in the comments say they love lesbians and lesbian sex,you didn't come for them but a woman saying the opposite and your wings are in a bunch. look man, it's natural,some men are turned on by lesbian porn while some women are turned by gay porn because of a lot of factors especially asian women who consumes 65% of gay porn

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Re: Help!!! My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian. I Found Out Today by LushGreenz: 8:21am On Mar 22, 2022
Kuriosmynd:
No solution to your problem. Once a lesbian,always a lesbian.
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Move on or just marry her like that and face the brutal consequences later on.
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There's nothing like fixing.
She can never tell you the truth of how long she's been a les. What if she's been like that since 16 (secondary schl) do you expect her to tell you that? Lol.
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Do you even know if her lesbian aspect is the most pleasurable and fullfiling sexual experience for her, while u are just the expendable provider for her needs and emotional baggage?
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Guy. Run. Run o
Most lesbian or bi dey dey wicked for guys. Cos na Dem carry feminism put for head pass.
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Na when dem enter ur house, u go see their true colors. They have no regard or respect for men o...Forget the love she's showing. Na fake. She's looking for the societal ring and the unlucky man she go use practice her feminism for marriage...lol

You Too Correct bro.
Don't mind Fernandez saying nothing wrong about being bisexual.
If you have a partner getting sexual satisfaction anywhere else(whether with a male or female) outside of your union/relationship, it's still cheating. And YES once bi/Les there's never a turning back.

And the fact that it'd be hard for you to figure out what female friend she's effing with is a problem for me. She'll always trigger your insecurities.

Don't waste your time and emotions man. Those gender-dysphoric people ain't worth it. Choose Heterosexuality, choose a straight partner.

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Re: Help!!! My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian. I Found Out Today by Winters23: 8:43am On Mar 22, 2022
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FERNANDEZISBACK:
She ain't a lesbian she's bisexual.. stop that nonsense.. lesbians don't do guys.. undecided
Actually there is nothing wrong with her being bisexual...the problem is she should have told you about it..

Talk to her about it and stop being overly emotional.. she's just being herself.. help her out.. have a one on one conversation and stop feeling bad..
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Mr woke grin

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Re: Help!!! My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian. I Found Out Today by FERNANDEZISBACK: 8:44am On Mar 22, 2022
Winters23:
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[s]Mr woke
grin
Re: Help!!! My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian. I Found Out Today by blackpanda: 8:44am On Mar 22, 2022
Even in 21st century many Nigerians remain dull. A lesbian will name date u. She's bisexual and there's nothing wrong with that. The problem is you that is still ignorant. Let her go if u can't deal. Cheers

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Re: Help!!! My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian. I Found Out Today by Elidrisy20: 8:45am On Mar 22, 2022
If you no like her like that, leave her alone
Re: Help!!! My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian. I Found Out Today by Franking: 8:45am On Mar 22, 2022
It happens.
Re: Help!!! My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian. I Found Out Today by Divoc19(f): 8:46am On Mar 22, 2022
She's not a lesbian.
She is bisexual

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Re: Help!!! My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian. I Found Out Today by mployer(m): 8:48am On Mar 22, 2022
80% of women are sexually attracted to fellow women.

Though the degree of attraction varies among them

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Re: Help!!! My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian. I Found Out Today by KIDfurniture(m): 8:50am On Mar 22, 2022
You Dey mad ooo



Thrycimacus:
Hello guys I'm in need of a solution. I started dating my babe since last year, and we plan on getting married this year.

Believe me, I'm completely in love with her. Since I met this girl, it's as though every other girl isn't worth my time. I would say that we love ourselves to the best of my knowledge.

I didn't ever believe that my babe was a cheat, so I don't suspect her, neither do I read her text messages , nor even ask who called her and all that.

Something stupid happened today though. I checked my babes whatsapp chat out of curiosity without her permission (please guys forgive me for that). She was working on a project beside me while I was reading her chat.

I noticed she wasnt comfortable as I told her I only wanted to preview her whatsapp stickers. As I spent more time with her phone, she became so worried that she had to get her phone, asking what I was doing with her phone.

I told her I was reading her chat, then she got real angry, that I shouldn't have read her messages. There are contents there she doesnt want me to see.

Pretending as though I havent seen anything yet, I asked her , which content? Then she was already angry and collected her phone.

I tried getting g her phone but to no avail. Then I sat her down. Babe tell me, are you a lesbian ? She vehemently denied, asking why I will even ask her such question. Then I told her about her chat with one girl. She was trying to defend her self that the chat doesnt mean anything. The said chat was actually lesbian related.

I asked my babe, is the girl you were chatting with a lesbian, she said yes. I said fine, give me your phone let me continue reading then if you have nothing to hide from me. She refused.

I told her that her refusal only means 1 thing, and that can threaten our very relationship...

To cut the low g story short, at some point, she began to cry. I told her I knew she was a lesbian from that chat, I only wanted her to tell me with her mouth. She didnt directly admit it though, but she said that she was working on fixing her problem.

Admit it baby, so I know if its something I can fix with you, babe said she will tell me everything tomorrow, that she can't get herself to discuss anything with me today. With this, I had to understand and let her go. Hopefully tomorrow she can confide in me finally about her (I suppose) lesbian affairs.

Honestly I love this babe. Up until today, i have always believed that she loves me too. But this revelation is really threatening to destroy my future with her.

Before she left today , after I must have given her my word that telling me all her dark truth will not stop me from loving her, she said I was saying those just so she can open up. That if I leave her or change my behaviour towards her when she tell me what shes been hiding, it will not be good.

Please guys, how do I face this serious problem now in a mature way ?

Please I'm not here to play, I need mature contributions.

I created a new account for privacy sake

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Re: Help!!! My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian. I Found Out Today by Hotguy27: 8:50am On Mar 22, 2022
Just start doing her and her other partners na.
Re: Help!!! My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian. I Found Out Today by dhoncesar(m): 8:50am On Mar 22, 2022
Why should you be surprised?. Most girls are bisexual. She ain't a lesbian. So its better you decide to move along with her or drop off. Because that's the deepest shit ever. If you are willing to share her with other girls then enjoy your relationship. If not, guy drop off !!! Because there's no way on this earth that you can change her !!! Its never done. Except of you are fooling yourself.

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Re: Help!!! My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian. I Found Out Today by Oceanjagaban: 8:50am On Mar 22, 2022
Your story too long,I no go read am
Re: Help!!! My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian. I Found Out Today by Tallesty1(m): 8:50am On Mar 22, 2022
Datboredberry:
Change her sexuality? Jesus!
You're calling Jesus on a fornication and bisexual thread?



Your case is worse.

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Re: Help!!! My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian. I Found Out Today by WHITELIGHTER: 8:50am On Mar 22, 2022
98% of girls are lesbians/bi
Re: Help!!! My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian. I Found Out Today by 07kjb: 8:52am On Mar 22, 2022
Like people will say here 70% of women have lesbian tendencies,I have anonymously chatted my girlfriends as a lesbian and they all failed.I don't know what is wrong with women honestly... though she might not be a practicing lesbian

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Re: Help!!! My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian. I Found Out Today by Lepon02: 8:52am On Mar 22, 2022
Thrycimacus:
Hello guys I'm in need of a solution. I started dating my babe since last year, and we plan on getting married this year.

Believe me, I'm completely in love with her. Since I met this girl, it's as though every other girl isn't worth my time. I would say that we love ourselves to the best of my knowledge.

I didn't ever believe that my babe was a cheat, so I don't suspect her, neither do I read her text messages , nor even ask who called her and all that.

Something stupid happened today though. I checked my babes whatsapp chat out of curiosity without her permission (please guys forgive me for that). She was working on a project beside me while I was reading her chat.

I noticed she wasnt comfortable as I told her I only wanted to preview her whatsapp stickers. As I spent more time with her phone, she became so worried that she had to get her phone, asking what I was doing with her phone.

I told her I was reading her chat, then she got real angry, that I shouldn't have read her messages. There are contents there she doesnt want me to see.

Pretending as though I havent seen anything yet, I asked her , which content? Then she was already angry and collected her phone.

I tried getting g her phone but to no avail. Then I sat her down. Babe tell me, are you a lesbian ? She vehemently denied, asking why I will even ask her such question. Then I told her about her chat with one girl. She was trying to defend her self that the chat doesnt mean anything. The said chat was actually lesbian related.

I asked my babe, is the girl you were chatting with a lesbian, she said yes. I said fine, give me your phone let me continue reading then if you have nothing to hide from me. She refused.

I told her that her refusal only means 1 thing, and that can threaten our very relationship...

To cut the low g story short, at some point, she began to cry. I told her I knew she was a lesbian from that chat, I only wanted her to tell me with her mouth. She didnt directly admit it though, but she said that she was working on fixing her problem.

Admit it baby, so I know if its something I can fix with you, babe said she will tell me everything tomorrow, that she can't get herself to discuss anything with me today. With this, I had to understand and let her go. Hopefully tomorrow she can confide in me finally about her (I suppose) lesbian affairs.

Honestly I love this babe. Up until today, i have always believed that she loves me too. But this revelation is really threatening to destroy my future with her.

Before she left today , after I must have given her my word that telling me all her dark truth will not stop me from loving her, she said I was saying those just so she can open up. That if I leave her or change my behaviour towards her when she tell me what shes been hiding, it will not be good.

Please guys, how do I face this serious problem now in a mature way ?

Please I'm not here to play, I need mature contributions.

I created a new account for privacy sake










Ok.
Re: Help!!! My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian. I Found Out Today by Nobody: 8:53am On Mar 22, 2022
If there is nothing evil in homosexuality then there is nothing like evil ......don't equate your hollow spiritual life with another person"s.
FERNANDEZISBACK:

Nothing Evil in homosexuality..it's who they are..stop disturbing everyone with your imaginary creature pls...
He has no business with reality....

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Re: Help!!! My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian. I Found Out Today by Nchenches: 8:54am On Mar 22, 2022
Thrycimacus:
Hello guys I'm in need of a solution. I started dating my babe since last year, and we plan on getting married this year.

Believe me, I'm completely in love with her. Since I met this girl, it's as though every other girl isn't worth my time. I would say that we love ourselves to the best of my knowledge.

I didn't ever believe that my babe was a cheat, so I don't suspect her, neither do I read her text messages , nor even ask who called her and all that.

Something stupid happened today though. I checked my babes whatsapp chat out of curiosity without her permission (please guys forgive me for that). She was working on a project beside me while I was reading her chat.

I noticed she wasnt comfortable as I told her I only wanted to preview her whatsapp stickers. As I spent more time with her phone, she became so worried that she had to get her phone, asking what I was doing with her phone.

I told her I was reading her chat, then she got real angry, that I shouldn't have read her messages. There are contents there she doesnt want me to see.

Pretending as though I havent seen anything yet, I asked her , which content? Then she was already angry and collected her phone.

I tried getting g her phone but to no avail. Then I sat her down. Babe tell me, are you a lesbian ? She vehemently denied, asking why I will even ask her such question. Then I told her about her chat with one girl. She was trying to defend her self that the chat doesnt mean anything. The said chat was actually lesbian related.

I asked my babe, is the girl you were chatting with a lesbian, she said yes. I said fine, give me your phone let me continue reading then if you have nothing to hide from me. She refused.

I told her that her refusal only means 1 thing, and that can threaten our very relationship...

To cut the low g story short, at some point, she began to cry. I told her I knew she was a lesbian from that chat, I only wanted her to tell me with her mouth. She didnt directly admit it though, but she said that she was working on fixing her problem.

Admit it baby, so I know if its something I can fix with you, babe said she will tell me everything tomorrow, that she can't get herself to discuss anything with me today. With this, I had to understand and let her go. Hopefully tomorrow she can confide in me finally about her (I suppose) lesbian affairs.

Honestly I love this babe. Up until today, i have always believed that she loves me too. But this revelation is really threatening to destroy my future with her.

Before she left today , after I must have given her my word that telling me all her dark truth will not stop me from loving her, she said I was saying those just so she can open up. That if I leave her or change my behaviour towards her when she tell me what shes been hiding, it will not be good.

Please guys, how do I face this serious problem now in a mature way ?

Please I'm not here to play, I need mature contributions.

I created a new account for privacy sake

That she was having sexual relationship with another girl doesn't make her a lesbian. It's usual pastimes things for girls who avoid pregnancy or don't want to be messed up by men.
A lesbian can't think of marriage to a man.

A nice man should not be asking a woman he loves about her past love affairs.
If she tells the man, and the man eventually marries her, the marriage relationship can easily get sour as time goes on.
A lady should not be telling intended husband about her past sexual relationship.

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Re: Help!!! My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian. I Found Out Today by FERNANDEZISBACK: 8:54am On Mar 22, 2022
flavnwokem:
If there is nothing evil in homosexually then there is nothing like evil ......don't equate your hollow spiritual life with another person"s.
Stop disturbing me with your nonsense pls.. religion is nonsense so take it out of my face..

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Re: Help!!! My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian. I Found Out Today by Olayetan(m): 8:55am On Mar 22, 2022
Thrycimacus:
Hello guys I'm in need of a solution. I started dating my babe since last year, and we plan on getting married this year.

Believe me, I'm completely in love with her. Since I met this girl, it's as though every other girl isn't worth my time. I would say that we love ourselves to the best of my knowledge.

I didn't ever believe that my babe was a cheat, so I don't suspect her, neither do I read her text messages , nor even ask who called her and all that.

Something stupid happened today though. I checked my babes whatsapp chat out of curiosity without her permission (please guys forgive me for that). She was working on a project beside me while I was reading her chat.

I noticed she wasnt comfortable as I told her I only wanted to preview her whatsapp stickers. As I spent more time with her phone, she became so worried that she had to get her phone, asking what I was doing with her phone.

I told her I was reading her chat, then she got real angry, that I shouldn't have read her messages. There are contents there she doesnt want me to see.

Pretending as though I havent seen anything yet, I asked her , which content? Then she was already angry and collected her phone.

I tried getting g her phone but to no avail. Then I sat her down. Babe tell me, are you a lesbian ? She vehemently denied, asking why I will even ask her such question. Then I told her about her chat with one girl. She was trying to defend her self that the chat doesnt mean anything. The said chat was actually lesbian related.

I asked my babe, is the girl you were chatting with a lesbian, she said yes. I said fine, give me your phone let me continue reading then if you have nothing to hide from me. She refused.

I told her that her refusal only means 1 thing, and that can threaten our very relationship...

To cut the low g story short, at some point, she began to cry. I told her I knew she was a lesbian from that chat, I only wanted her to tell me with her mouth. She didnt directly admit it though, but she said that she was working on fixing her problem.

Admit it baby, so I know if its something I can fix with you, babe said she will tell me everything tomorrow, that she can't get herself to discuss anything with me today. With this, I had to understand and let her go. Hopefully tomorrow she can confide in me finally about her (I suppose) lesbian affairs.

Honestly I love this babe. Up until today, i have always believed that she loves me too. But this revelation is really threatening to destroy my future with her.

Before she left today , after I must have given her my word that telling me all her dark truth will not stop me from loving her, she said I was saying those just so she can open up. That if I leave her or change my behaviour towards her when she tell me what shes been hiding, it will not be good.

Please guys, how do I face this serious problem now in a mature way ?

Please I'm not here to play, I need mature contributions.

I created a new account for privacy sake


Ever since you met her, what can you say about your sexual life with her, if you don't observe any light thing affecting your sexual relationship with her, then she's normal.
Pls, don't try to read people's messages again cux of your mental health, some things are better left unknown.
Re: Help!!! My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian. I Found Out Today by illuminutty: 8:55am On Mar 22, 2022
AccessME:
So if u give birth to a gay u would kill him? in reality u are a friend with a gay, u've once dine with a gay without even knowing. What I'm trying to say is that; gays have com to b part of us either we like it or not, hence, we can't do anything but to accept them!

God forbid my son turns gay. If he does, heaven or hell would receive a new entrant the day I find out.

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Re: Help!!! My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian. I Found Out Today by Nobody: 8:56am On Mar 22, 2022
Uprightness100:
She needs Great Deliverance. There are wicked Spiritual Forces that you get exposed to when you Engage in these evil acts. And Only GOD can Completely deliver from these evil acts.

I Hope you do not engage in the act fornication. Because if you do, you also Need Deliverance.

On point. I dont agree with many of your hell post, but this is on point.

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Nothing Evil in homosexuality..it's who they are..stop disturbing everyone with your imaginary creature pls...
He has no business with reality....
Well, I have homos as friends, and I always tell them the truth. It is all about who you are. If you are spirit filled, you cannot stay with evil. As long as it is God related issue...homo is evil. It is clearly written in the Bible. Homo is what brought Rome down, and hmmm...it is what I see bringing down the US too. Though,I dont like how righteousness here puts it out every now and them. Homo is evil as far as being spirit filled is concerned.

If you do not belong to the group who accepted Holy Spirit, who am I to judge you? But please...in God's name...do not put it out like this.

Lastly, the last time I check...homosexuality is still a crime in Nigeria. And from the research I made, most girls and boys were born like that but were initiated into it. The use of intimacy gadgets prompted it seriously.

So, if you choose to accept it, that is you. That was how the Roman's accepted it and judged every other person who didnt. Also, they went as far as persecuting those who stood on morality. At the end, what is the reward? And the signs are already showing that America is losing its world power status. Is it coincidence?

There is evil in homo... stop spreading lies...it is not who they are. They are just possessed. And if you are one, I pray you receive deliverance in Jesus' name. As usual, I expect you to not accept it. But las las...you will be alright.

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Re: Help!!! My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian. I Found Out Today by ignis: 8:56am On Mar 22, 2022
charlesdinho7:
the best thing to do here is to break up with her. she will definitely cheat on you with ladies when you get married to her. but if you can marry her with her lifestyle, good for you

Gbam
Re: Help!!! My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian. I Found Out Today by Enemyofpeace: 8:57am On Mar 22, 2022
The bitch is a modafokn bisexual

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Re: Help!!! My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian. I Found Out Today by FERNANDEZISBACK: 8:57am On Mar 22, 2022
PeaceJoyLove:

On point. I dont agree with many of your hell post, but this is on point.


Well, I have homos as friends, and I always tell them the truth. It is all about who you are. If you are spirit filled, you cannot stay with evil. As long as it is God related issue...homo is evil. It is clearly written in the Bible. Homo is what brought Rome down, and hmmm...it is what I see bringing down the US too. Though,I dont like how righteousness here puts it out every now and them. Homo is evil as far as being spirit filled is concerned.

If you do not belong to the group who accepted Holy Spirit, who am I to judge you? But please...in God's name...do not put it out like this.

Lastly, the last time I check...homosexuality is still a crime in Nigeria. And from the research I made, most girls and boys were born like that but were initiated into it. The use of intimacy gadgets prompted it seriously.

So, if you choose to accept it, that is you. That was how the Roman's accepted it and judged every other person who didnt. Also, they went as far as persecuting those who stood on morality. At the end, what is the reward? And the signs are already showing that America is losing its world power status. Is it coincidence?
I have no business with religion..its pure nonsense..so?
Re: Help!!! My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian. I Found Out Today by watchindelta(m): 8:58am On Mar 22, 2022
2 can play the game, no need for the crying.
Re: Help!!! My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian. I Found Out Today by Nobody: 8:58am On Mar 22, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:

I have no business with religion..its pure nonsense..so?
Oh...ok. I get you. Hmmm! Sorry oooo!
Re: Help!!! My Girlfriend Is A Lesbian. I Found Out Today by Kenturkey048(m): 8:59am On Mar 22, 2022
FERNANDEZISBACK:

Nothing Evil in homosexuality..it's who they are..stop disturbing everyone with your imaginary creature pls...
He has no business with reality...
Nothing evil with homosexuality?
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Do you mean there is nothing evil in passing a dick through the Anus.??

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