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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by suffering: 12:13pm On Mar 26, 2022
Change the status quo then.

With how many titles will this topic hit front page? About four days ago it graced the front page. In the next few days it’ll appear again.
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by King125007(m): 12:14pm On Mar 26, 2022
The simple answer

No money, country hard my brother

Every man want to get married, but with the kind of life style our current girls want and want the society na assume to be prerequisite for marriage, no man want to die under pressure


Back in the olden days a man get married early without any tangible or good sources of income because, the moment he get married, his family still support him, even the girls family, in short both family...you can ask your parents . Look at our parents now.. Afa dere life.. They grew nd progress together

Nowadays once you make the decision to get married, everyone assume you have money, assume you can do it all alone, so the pressure start from both family

This practice is now common in the south, east and west, an exception to the north, that's why guys still get married early in the north with little or no pressure

Country hard my brother.. Nor be sy we nor wan marry.. Forget all the lies they tell to cover up.

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by porthouse7(f): 12:14pm On Mar 26, 2022
freesoul12:


Wats is loneliness at 40 ... U think its only marriage that makes life lively. Well thats ur opinion though
what remain of a guy of 40+ still fuckin around and not having a family, at 40 u have seen it all
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Gamesmart: 12:14pm On Mar 26, 2022
Stewart883:


I'm 42 years old, I have a fantastic career and I live very comfortably. Although I have a 13 year old daughter already. I am very happy and fulfilled. What you said up there makes no sense.

Don't mind her and her rubbish projection.

https://www.nairaland.com/7047493/why-there-many-single-guys/3#111384291

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Gallistotle1: 12:15pm On Mar 26, 2022
Niggurs,build ursef 1st,set up a standard business to support ur job,get peace of mind,more money,flex up,freshen up as well and also stay out of trouble and lets see if u wouldnt find happiness.

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by samguru(m): 12:15pm On Mar 26, 2022
tayepop:
I have realised so many of my friends and colleagues at over 30 years are still single, this doesn't use to be the case.

I think the person in the best position to answer this question is Buhari and not nairalanders

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by MansoryMX(m): 12:15pm On Mar 26, 2022
MrBrownJay1:
...because marriage is overrated and many dont need/want to get married until much later.

also, we have the sad deluded ones that are waiting to hit it big before getting married, not knowing they probably will never "hit it big"

and finally we have men who dont believe in marriage and therefore will just chop and clean mouth until they get to 80yrs old, then find one Regina something to marry, just to flaunt it in the face of all the young boys in town, lol.


Marriage isn’t overrated. The problem is people! People are losing their senses, their morale, desires for pleasures and thirst from multiple partners, ways of lifestyle from peers around them. I got married at 27, my wife 22. Today we have two kids. 6 and 2 years old. Do the maths. People no longer understand the importance of self discipline and preservation.

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by porthouse7(f): 12:16pm On Mar 26, 2022
Cutehector:
taa..scam..rubbish. na una line wey una dey use for men to make them have a rethink, it will not work..

Any lady that tells me wait until you are 40 and lonely, na to carrry bucket stone am..she dey mad
calm down na experience man u dey follow talk no pussy
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by AutoChick4U(f): 12:16pm On Mar 26, 2022
tayepop:
I have realised so many of my friends and colleagues at over 30 years are still single, this doesn't use to be the case.
introduce one to me. He should have money abeg

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by DoctorOlasDesk: 12:17pm On Mar 26, 2022
AutoChick4U:
introduce one to me. He should have money abeg


You and wahala na 5 & 6. Na everywhere table dey scatter, dem dey see you grin
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Gamesmart: 12:18pm On Mar 26, 2022
CalmElder:
I'm 43 and single.
I will marry when I'm READY.

Exactly!

While your "responsible" mates are divorcing or divorced despite all their "wisdom" and "achievements".

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by DoctorOlasDesk: 12:18pm On Mar 26, 2022
MansoryMX:



Marriage isn’t overrated. The problem is people! People are losing their senses, their morale for pleasures and thirst. I got married at 27, my wife 22. Today we have two kids. 6 and 2 years old. Do the maths. People no longer understand the importance of self discipline and preservation.



People are losing their senses, their morale for pleasures and thirst.

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Highlyrespected(m): 12:18pm On Mar 26, 2022
Yamiriflathead:


Theres no such thing as the right person.
You in charge because you've got the resources to throw around. When it dries up ur mind go dey
But how can you conclude that I'd used resources to attract girls.....
I am introvert guy and I hardly engage convo with anyone especially girls.

And change this ur mindset that "when it dries up"..... Are you praying for it to dries up even assuming we are talking about reality here.

Use your sense and spend wisely when you're dealing with ladies of 21st century.

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by BigBashiru: 12:19pm On Mar 26, 2022
Palema007:
Women are at the receiving end? Stay there make trousers dey wear you. grin grin Do you see women opening threads upon and down Nl searching for love or seeking advice every now and then like men do here?

Why do you think women support baby mamaism grin ( if that's a word) ? You think they can't close legs and demand marriage first or even avoid pregnancy?

Why do you think women no longer find it worthy to stay in an abusive marriage or manage a marriage?

Do you think all women want to get married?

The problem with most of you men is that you think the world revolves around you, so if things aren't going the way it ought to the problem is with the other person but not you. Keep deceiving yourselves while women are silently enjoying and loving the way things are going now. grin

<<Do you think all women want to get married? >> Not all want to get married.

<<Why do you think women no longer find it worthy to stay in an abusive marriage or manage a marriage? >> Records show women prefer abusive men.... they prefer men that beat them..... and they have high chance of leaving a man in their 20s not in their 30s...

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Archtype(m): 12:20pm On Mar 26, 2022
Money no dey..simple

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Miarose: 12:20pm On Mar 26, 2022
This is interesting. As the business woman that I am, I forsee a rise in old people's homes to cater for surge of old men without families to care for them.
Unfortunately, this won't come cheap.

Food vendors will also have, low salt, oil less menu for the older bachelor population.

Geriatric nursing and home care will boom.

I must cash out from this trend!!!

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Acidosis(m): 12:20pm On Mar 26, 2022
Same story every day. grin
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Gamesmart: 12:21pm On Mar 26, 2022
pekisdgee:
I got married at the age of 29, my first daughter will be 8years old soon ... some of my friends are yet to settle down because country don hard...
assuming i misuse the opportunity i might still be single then blaming buhari like others do now... Thank god i took the bold step Happily married with 3 kids and God has been so faithful...

"Happily" married?

While you are shagging other girls outside?

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Acidosis(m): 12:21pm On Mar 26, 2022
Miarose:
This is interesting. As the business woman that I am, I forsee a rise in old people's homes to cater for surge of old men without families to care for them.
Unfortunately, this won't come cheap.

Food vendors will also have, low salt, oil less menu for the older bachelor population.

Geriatric nursing and home care will boom.

I must cash out from this trend!!!

You're truly a business-minded person. Some homecare in Lagos charge #1.5m to #2m per annum.

Your biggest threat would be government interest. But if we continue to recycle these same sets of useless politicians, many old people will be very miserable with no one to take care or even bury them.

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by SlurUsername1: 12:21pm On Mar 26, 2022
Hammyaladin:
Get married and build a family when you have a sustainable source of income.

Yes I'll get married after i must have amassed so much wealth for myself to a 20yrs old girl when I'm in my 70s
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Czario: 12:22pm On Mar 26, 2022
I pray for all married men out there....
They were shouting go and settle down ...sette down
I didn't know I was already settled as a bachelor...

Single guys take note.

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Cutehector(m): 12:25pm On Mar 26, 2022
porthouse7:
calm down na experience man u dey follow talk no pussy
i go follow stone you o
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by ransomed: 12:25pm On Mar 26, 2022
There are no marriage materials among the ladies. What remains are liabilities and baby mamas.

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by SlurUsername1: 12:26pm On Mar 26, 2022
Gamesmart:


"Happily" married?

While you are shagging other girls outside?

Lmfa.. He won't tell us he is suffering in his marriage because he is being a MAN in public eyes and wants us to experience the "sweetness" of marriage ourselves

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by MansoryMX(m): 12:26pm On Mar 26, 2022
Highlyrespected:
Marriage is blissful when you are with right person.

Marriage is fruitless when you are wrong person.

To settle down is not the issue but to find the right person is the main issue.

Every married couple you see today were once complete stranger to each other within the first 10 years of marriage. It’s a test in marriage every married couple must go through but won’t tell you. It’s a test that usually determines if the marriage is meant be to or two delusion people claiming they are in love with each other. A test that will tell if you are ready for the journey of companionship, tolerance, constant adaption and utmost silence when your spouse madness starts lol. If you can concern this test then an unconditional & pure love will be born that only death or a mistake from either spouse can break.

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Gamesmart: 12:28pm On Mar 26, 2022
Yamiriflathead:

If marriage is unfavorable to women why don't you all become baby mamas and save us the peripheries and extra costs? At least we prefer it that way and you can all have liberty too as there'll be nobody to control or dominate you

Great question!

I want to see her answer.

I can bet she will deflect and go off on a tangent OR blatantly lie.

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by SlurUsername1: 12:29pm On Mar 26, 2022
ransomed:
There are no marriage materials among the ladies. What remains are liabilities and baby mamas.

Truer words have never been said. More grease to ur elbow comrade

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by ArewaTech1(m): 12:30pm On Mar 26, 2022
Lots of great comments... Majority of which makes sense...

But being from a conservative family in the North, I can't relate to none of that.

I'm 24, just bagged my BSc last year. and they already arranged me with this girl. lol & smh

but d girl fine die.

will be getting married sometime in '24
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by Gamesmart: 12:30pm On Mar 26, 2022
Magnoliaa:
Redpillism is destroying them. It is a cancer to the society. Ordinary bird, an average man cannot kill anymore. Deth to all alphas and cheers to the restoration of the Matriachy.

Feminism is what is the real cancer to society.

The countries it has touched has ended up with more intensely selfish women.

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by SyndyB(m): 12:31pm On Mar 26, 2022
Yamiriflathead:


Women have evolved from what they were when God created them to Jezebels. It took them few days to cause man to disobey God.
I'm sure God regretted creating eve after he deceived adam into disobeying God. God cursed women as a result and we are seeing the effect of those curses in their lives today.
Is it not surprising that the last thing God created destabilized his whole plans for MAN? Why does God not have a wife
He clearly doesn't want any distraction



God never cursed woman. He said I regretted creating man, but He never cursed man or woman. Take time and read up Genesis chapter 3. God cursed the serpent, He put enemity between human and serpent. Through labor shall the woman give birth, God cursed the ground for man sake. He NEVER cursed man/woman.

Come to think of it, everything that went wrong in Eden was made right through Jesus Christ on the cross. Read up Galatians 3:13. When Jesus was hung on the cross, he took upon himself the curse for our wrongdoing. For it is written in the Scriptures, “Cursed is everyone who is hung on the cross".

Everything God created is beautiful including women. When you meet the right woman for your life you will know that marriage and women is a blessing from God. Glory to Jesus!

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Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by DoctorOlasDesk: 12:32pm On Mar 26, 2022
SyndyB:




God never cursed woman. He said I regretted creating man, but He never cursed man or woman. Take time and read up Genesis chapter 3. God cursed the serpent, He put enemity between human and serpent. Through labor shall the woman give birth, God cursed the ground for man sake. He NEVER cursed man/woman.

Come to think of it, everything that went wrong in Eden was made right through Jesus Christ on the cross. Read up Galatians 3:13. When Jesus was hung on the cross, he took upon himself the curse for our wrongdoing. For it is written in the Scriptures, “Cursed is everyone who is hung on the cross".

Everything God created is beautiful including women. When you meet the right woman for your life you will know that marriage and women is a blessing from God. Glory to Jesus!



Preach Sir !
Re: Why Are There So Many Single Guys At Over 30? by porthouse7(f): 12:32pm On Mar 26, 2022
Gamesmart:


What are you?

Transwoman?
which transwoman? I carry prick bro no let F decieve u

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