bigpicture001:
Met this lady recently, and I have been single for over 12 months now. We chatted , and from different conversation, it turns outs she usually dump guyz stating one fault or the other

Now the problem is she took her immidaite past guy to court citing threat to life. When she showed me the text message that she said was threat to life, although he made mention of acid bathing and knives stabbing, but he refered it to what happens in messy ended relationship where the dumper makes the dumper looks small and like a a shit..... He begged her to desist from making a mess of her dumping him so they don't get to the news with bad report.. ND he added God forbid.

She confessed the guy is not anything close to violence, but my concern now is that she dumps people up nd down ND now has tasted the evil called judiciary in relationship matters....she works and earn quite well

Will it be okay to continue with such girl..?

Omo! Run

Yes

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Yes. And while you’re at that, why don’t you dive nose first into an anthill. Since you love pain and suffering

bigpicture001:
Met this lady recently, and I have been single for over 12 months now. We chatted , and from different conversation, it turns outs she usually dump guyz stating one fault or the other

Now the problem is she took her immidaite past guy to court citing threat to life. When she showed me the text message that she said was threat to life, although he made mention of acid bathing and knives stabbing, but he refered it to what happens in messy ended relationship where the dumper makes the dumper looks small and like a a shit..... He begged her to desist from making a mess of her dumping him so they don't get to the news with bad report.. ND he added God forbid.

She confessed the guy is not anything close to violence, but my concern now is that she dumps people up nd down ND now has tasted the evil called judiciary in relationship matters....she works and earn quite well

Will it be okay to continue with such girl..?

you have seen the signs already and still asking unnecessary questions

bigpicture001:
Met this lady recently, and I have been single for over 12 months now. We chatted , and from different conversation, it turns outs she usually dump guyz stating one fault or the other

Now the problem is she took her immidaite past guy to court citing threat to life. When she showed me the text message that she said was threat to life, although he made mention of acid bathing and knives stabbing, but he refered it to what happens in messy ended relationship where the dumper makes the dumper looks small and like a a shit..... He begged her to desist from making a mess of her dumping him so they don't get to the news with bad report.. ND he added God forbid.

She confessed the guy is not anything close to violence, but my concern now is that she dumps people up nd down ND now has tasted the evil called judiciary in relationship matters....she works and earn quite well

Will it be okay to continue with such girl..?

It's ok but b prepared and stay ahead of her jus incase. When she starts acting up u can look her in d face wit a smile I KNEW THIS DAY WILL COME BITCHH

bigpicture001:
Met this lady recently, and I have been single for over 12 months now. We chatted , and from different conversation, it turns outs she usually dump guyz stating one fault or the other

Now the problem is she took her immidaite past guy to court citing threat to life. When she showed me the text message that she said was threat to life, although he made mention of acid bathing and knives stabbing, but he refered it to what happens in messy ended relationship where the dumper makes the dumper looks small and like a a shit..... He begged her to desist from making a mess of her dumping him so they don't get to the news with bad report.. ND he added God forbid.

She confessed the guy is not anything close to violence, but my concern now is that she dumps people up nd down ND now has tasted the evil called judiciary in relationship matters....she works and earn quite well

Will it be okay to continue with such girl..?

Yes it is okay to continue with such a girl...we will be expecting you here with your own sorry story soon!

Run

bigpicture001:
Met this lady recently, and I have been single for over 12 months now. We chatted , and from different conversation, it turns outs she usually dump guyz stating one fault or the other

Now the problem is she took her immidaite past guy to court citing threat to life. When she showed me the text message that she said was threat to life, although he made mention of acid bathing and knives stabbing, but he refered it to what happens in messy ended relationship where the dumper makes the dumper looks small and like a a shit..... He begged her to desist from making a mess of her dumping him so they don't get to the news with bad report.. ND he added God forbid.

She confessed the guy is not anything close to violence, but my concern now is that she dumps people up nd down ND now has tasted the evil called judiciary in relationship matters....she works and earn quite well

Will it be okay to continue with such girl..?

Ikpa, you won't last in this relationship since she is a Pro in date and dump game. But are you not scared about her body count

I pity you...

Better run for your life...

She is only here for the best not for any trying time.

The day she will summon your mother or siblings to court for visiting your apartment without notice. You go know why...

The day you guys get frisk and she got injury...court summon

The day you do any mistake court summon

The day you over s** her court summon

What a life �

Run ooo

Should we know him

Well!. It's a matter of deep concern ...

Bobloco:

Relationships should be hassle free

Life is too short, don't get yourself entangled in such a complicated lady

Let her go

Goat like OP won't listen until they get sting with her venon

RPG2020:
Lucky Dube,Mama ......go and listen then come back in few days time to give your testimony

"is not easy" is the song title......seems he was not lucky with women.

bigpicture001:
Met this lady recently, and I have been single for over 12 months now. We chatted , and from different conversation, it turns outs she usually dump guyz stating one fault or the other

Now the problem is she took her immidaite past guy to court citing threat to life. When she showed me the text message that she said was threat to life, although he made mention of acid bathing and knives stabbing, but he refered it to what happens in messy ended relationship where the dumper makes the dumper looks small and like a a shit..... He begged her to desist from making a mess of her dumping him so they don't get to the news with bad report.. ND he added God forbid.

She confessed the guy is not anything close to violence, but my concern now is that she dumps people up nd down ND now has tasted the evil called judiciary in relationship matters....she works and earn quite well

Will it be okay to continue with such girl..?

yes if not for the rest of ur natural life u will be delirious… now delirious as a word should be noted and allow ur understanding be contextual..I.e for as long as u are with her u will avail ursef the first hand experiences of all meanings of the word Delirious..


We know eventually from history books who the weaker one is actually..

Hahahahahaha

Guys love a working class and independent woman,now she don get money for court case you dey run.... �..abeg ooo

ivolt:

Most violent partners use indirect threat such as this, they rarely say 'I will bath you in acid' directly.
The girl must be intelligent to have decipher the subtle threats in the man's language.

On whether she is good for you, we can't really tell since we don't know you.
But if you are the guy that react badly or violently to break up, then it is better you find your way.

From your writeup, she sounds like a lady that will not put up with suffering or unfair dealings
in relationship just to appease society.
If you are the type of man who respects your partner and have strong sense of justice even
when you are the guilty, then you might just be right for one another.

Be careful with that justice aspect. Some can be vengeful in the name of justice,one has to be very careful. He could do what is best for him and she will feel unfairly treated then the justice aspect kicks in.

Dear OP.. I will advice u, not to get into this type of relationship with this type of girl.
The past is a clue to the future.
This girl is not good for u at all. A girl who dumps guyz anyhow speaks a much volume. She surely has character problem like my ex.. same thing she dumps, block guyz, eat their money and the rest. When my friend was telling me that this girl is not a good wife material I was busy forming love untill all her bad character began to show up after months into relationship.
She is selfish
She is greedy
She is self centered
She has no respect
She does not care about you but it's all about the money, what she can benefit
She does not take correction she does not apologize.
She is a manipulator

I asked her about what led to the break up of her last relationship, she said she found out that the guy had another girl.. that was all she said, she painted her self good and took the victim position untill I had my own experience with her.
I tried to correct her on something she did, she never bulged ... She went straight to block me. This someone I made so much sacrifice for.
Op becareful, you are seeing redflags... This kind of person won't take shit from a guy, she won't be patient to build a relationship that will last, she won't fit into a submissive for you. What happens if you both date and translate into marriage she can as well dump you by filling for devorce

People are saying that she is independent and knows what she wants but all I see is a lady who is is mentally unstable and can make irrational decision.
No one is stopping you, but thread with caution and never love her more than she loves you. She will put herself in order if she is loving you more than you are loving her.
Be wise

elmagnifico411:
You can date the babe, just have your mid prepared so she won't catch napping. Yiu can even surprise her with some kinda move, like "this relationship is leading nowhere. I think I want to bounce" and see how she reacts..

What do men gain from all their useless, childish tests like this one mentioned above? You are waiting for a perfect person? Someone that will give you perfect responses to your most unreasonable demands, because you are born to give other people a hard time or what? This is just another childish approach to relationships.

Let's hope you are tested yourselves and pass all of them, and that when you fail you aren't dumped on such petty grounds.

Xilsbridalhouse:
Such threats shouldn’t be taken likely...

She has every right to move away from unhealthy relationships, and if you are sure you are not in her life to play games, then you could continue otherwise move on!

Her reasons for dumping her exes must be valid and the latest one seems valid to me.
Threats like acid and knife stabbing is enough for a reasonable person to japa whether you trust the person could do it or not as devil has a way of manipulating situations and before you know it they start blaming the devil.

I second your opinion. Whether joke or not, that threat is worth to quit a relationship.

Lol….wahala wa ooo

1x2x3:



Be careful with that justice aspect. Some can be vengeful in the name of justice,one has to be very careful. He could do what is best for him and she will feel unfairly treated then the justice aspect kicks in.

She has only demonstrated that she will not risk her happiness or wellbeing for any relationship
and prefer to dissolve unfair relationship.

If he does no actual harm to her, he has nothing to fear but himself .

Did u read his post at all? Abe shift one side.

BRATISLAVA:


What do men gain from all their useless, childish tests like this one mentioned above? You are waiting for a perfect person? Someone that will give you perfect responses to your most unreasonable demands, because you are born to give other people a hard time or what? This is just another childish approach to relationships.

Let's hope you are tested yourselves and pass all of them, and that when you fail you aren't dumped on such petty grounds.

elmagnifico411:
Did u read his post at all? Abe shift one side.

Reread your post that was quoted. And tell us if you weren't suggesting he tests her with a pointless statement to see her reaction?

bigpicture001:
Met this lady recently, and I have been single for over 12 months now. We chatted , and from different conversation, it turns outs she usually dump guyz stating one fault or the other

Now the problem is she took her immidaite past guy to court citing threat to life. When she showed me the text message that she said was threat to life, although he made mention of acid bathing and knives stabbing, but he refered it to what happens in messy ended relationship where the dumper makes the dumper looks small and like a a shit..... He begged her to desist from making a mess of her dumping him so they don't get to the news with bad report.. ND he added God forbid.

She confessed the guy is not anything close to violence, but my concern now is that she dumps people up nd down ND now has tasted the evil called judiciary in relationship matters....she works and earn quite well

Will it be okay to continue with such girl..?

U open ur Korokoro eye wan enter fire, then u dey ask us.

I believe that as you are typing this, your mind is telling you the truth. So kindly follow the truth.

See how she will deal with you.

Have you come across a cobra that narrowly escaped a trap?

She go dey more vigilant, wiser and loaded with a heavily concentrated venom.

One bite, ten die.

Run for your life

All these men sef. Dem suppose to dey wooz una left eye with left back hand slap.