odinson1:

Some men would rather die in silence, than admit they are Are being Controlled by their wives in their own house

odinson1:



You people really don't have conscience,like that man is a Slave to his wife. He works the money,and the wife decides when and how to spend it. I don't think you know what a Slave-master relationship is.

You'll be okay with that if it were your son? After toiling night and day,the wife bars him from touching the fruit of his labour,then there must e something really wrong with you women.

Romanoff:


Have you considered if he's a gambler or a frivolous spender?

Kelechi009:


He his a very stupid person, so he wouldn't have prospered in life if he never married his wife?

Before he got married, how did he save for marriage.
How did he save to help his family and needs of his family, He needs therapy.

Kelechi009:


That is what I am saying, he needs therapy. Woman not accountant. If she dies tomorrow (God Forbid), it means the family will die of poverty because he cannot cater for his family due to his terrble habits. Are women made to solve men's terrible habit in marriage? Is that the reason women get married?

Simrangadgets:

Try to calm down.
The man might be addicted to gambling or something and when money enters his account, he uses it up to gamble again. In such scenario, if such man needs healing he needs someone closer to him and trustworthy to hold his ATM card to avoid relapsing.

wpadmin:


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No man will tell another man that he is a slave to his wife. For him to ask that money, he didn't know his friend will understand it that way.

See ba, I have a friend that locked money in Piggyvest. When you lock money in Piggyvest, you cannot withdraw it until the scheduled time you set.

Now my friend called me and said "WP how far, I beg no vex, I lock money for Piggyvest, come borrow me like 20k till month end".

I understood why he locked the money but I jokingly told him "Guy, you lock money for Piggyvest come get mind dey ask me for money".



I know about Femdom and female-led relationships... I am 70% sure that the man told his wife to help him keep his money to control his spending.

Romanoff:


Who block your ear before?

Abeg go see ENT doctor, make you for know wetin dey make ear pain you.

milann:
if i catch you, i go blow your fùcking brains. Buyakabuyaka

Lordmech:
One of my colleague at work came begging for cash and I ask him. What happen to your ATM or salary and he reviewed that the wife is the one who sees alert and holds the card.. I was shocked.
My pipo is this love or stupidity?

Camelot65:
But the man dey ask another person for cash.

Romanoff:


Well, it's a flaw that his wife has helped him curb.

They didn't have when they got married, they grew and prospered together. Today, they are wealthy.

The wife handles all their finances including sending money to both their parents, subscribing DStv for both parents, health care for both parents etc.

haslaw:


Why are you adding what wasn't stated in the write up.
The write up didn't say he was a gambler.

haslaw:


@ bolded. You know this because you live with them abi?

wpadmin:


Let's assume that you want to travel to Canada by December and you need 3 million naira.

Your salary is 350,000 Naira monthly.

You need to save 250,000 for 12 months to complete the money.

Now, you know that you are an extravagant spender..

Won't you find a way to save that money by all means even it means giving someone you trust to hold it for you?

I have a friend that locks money on Piggyvest because he wants to start a business. When he exhaust the cash he has for expenses, he begs his friends (like me) for money. I am the only person he told that he locked the money because I introduced him to Piggyvest.

The OP's friend has an end goal and he doesn't care if he has to beg for small money to reach that goal.

The only mistake he made was telling his friend that his wife holds the money.

MoneyGoDrop:
This actually worked for my parents till date. It happens where the couple are open and true to themselves and know each others capacities. Women are better managers than men.

Simrangadgets:

I said “he might” because the poster never gave any reason as to why his friend’s wife is in possession of his ATM card. So it is left to everyone to make assumptions

haslaw:


Haaaaaa... There is God ooo
You judged a man based on your assumptions?

saintjimos:
As far as they've peace , please let them be

MoneyGoDrop:
This actually worked for my parents till date. It happens where the couple are open and true to themselves and know each others capacities. SOME Women are better managers THAN SOME men .

Romanoff:
I've seen this work for many couples, especially when the man knows he's not prudent and his wife is a better manager.

If it works for them, mind your business.

When you marry, do wetin work for you.

JustforMen:
Will Smith's ATM dey with his wife.
The shit some simple men do for pussy, ehn. Even devil dey shock.

Romanoff:
I've seen this work for many couples, especially when the man knows he's not prudent and his wife is a better manager.

If it works for them, mind your business.

When you marry, do wetin work for you.

Lordmech:
One of my colleague at work came begging for cash and I ask him. What happen to your ATM or salary and he reviewed that the wife is the one who sees alert and holds the card.. I was shocked.
My pipo is this love or stupidity?

ChybuzzDD:


You didn't read that the man came to him to borrow money

How would he mind his business when someone he receives salary same day with turns around to borrow from him

Surprisingly, 164 morons liked your post without asking questions!

Kelechi009:


So this is how the man would go around borrowing and inconveniecing his friends in the name of It is working for him, abeg let him borrow that money from his wife and not distrub coworkers. Case solved.

Coworkers have wives and family too, we don't go around asking every body for money.

haslaw:


This one dey frustrate no be small.

May God heal you.

Romanoff:
I've seen this work for many couples, especially when the man knows he's not prudent and his wife is a better manager.

If it works for them, mind your business.

When you marry, do wetin work for you.

Romanoff:
I've seen this work for many couples, especially when the man knows he's not prudent and his wife is a better manager.

If it works for them, mind your business.

When you marry, do wetin work for you.

Romanoff:


The reason that man might not be able to ask the wife is cause he's into a vice that drains his money.

Think about it.