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Re: How Do You Guys Move On??? by Danhumprey: 1:05pm On Apr 05
Ezendimmuo:
There is this girl I'm dating
Tbh...
I don't trust her...
She has lied to me in the past and also cheated on me...
I called her on Saturday..
I called her in the morning...

Someone was playing music in her room...
I asked her who it was....
She got angry that I don't trust her
I called her at night also
I swear I heard someone's voice in her room at night
She got angry when I asked who was there...hung up on me and switched off her phone ..
I apologized for "hearing" things...

Yesterday...
An anonymous person called me out of pity and told me that my girl usually stays in a guys room...
This same guy has kissed her twice even when she knows we are dating..
He even calls her when m around and tells her he wants to see her even when he knows m around...
She said she saw her coming out of the guys room that morning...
I asked her about it...
She got angry and wanted to know who told me about it...
She said I was a big fool and I do not have sense for believing the person...

Mind you ..my girlfriend has lied to me in the past and I have no reason to doubt the caller because she has nothing to gain if we break up...
What even made me break up with her was the fact that she started calling me names
I'll attach a message she said to me when I told her I was done...

My problem is this ..
We started having small talks after the whole thing...
I started explaining things to her!!

Can you imagine??
I feel like a fool right now...

Legends in the house...
How do I break up with her and never look back
She's toxic to both my emotions and finance
But still
A part of me won't completely let go
I need help guys

Lol. grin grin
Re: How Do You Guys Move On??? by zinizta: 1:06pm On Apr 05
Ezendimmuo:
There is this girl I'm dating
Tbh...
I don't trust her...
She has lied to me in the past and also cheated on me...
I called her on Saturday..
I called her in the morning...

Someone was playing music in her room...
I asked her who it was....
She got angry that I don't trust her
I called her at night also
I swear I heard someone's voice in her room at night
She got angry when I asked who was there...hung up on me and switched off her phone ..
I apologized for "hearing" things...

Yesterday...
An anonymous person called me out of pity and told me that my girl usually stays in a guys room...
This same guy has kissed her twice even when she knows we are dating..
He even calls her when m around and tells her he wants to see her even when he knows m around...
She said she saw her coming out of the guys room that morning...
I asked her about it...
She got angry and wanted to know who told me about it...
She said I was a big fool and I do not have sense for believing the person...

Mind you ..my girlfriend has lied to me in the past and I have no reason to doubt the caller because she has nothing to gain if we break up...
What even made me break up with her was the fact that she started calling me names
I'll attach a message she said to me when I told her I was done...

My problem is this ..
We started having small talks after the whole thing...
I started explaining things to her!!

Can you imagine??
I feel like a fool right now...

Legends in the house...
How do I break up with her and never look back
She's toxic to both my emotions and finance
But still
A part of me won't completely let go
I need help guys


1. play along and dont act angry and jealous.

2. while playing along , start seeing other girls and when you get the one you feel is serious with you then break up with her.
Re: How Do You Guys Move On??? by luminouz(m): 1:06pm On Apr 05
Redpill Mudafucker!!!

That's how you move on.

Oneitis and Monomania is killing you slowly. The girl knows you are too weak to move on.

Is she the only girl in Nigeria worthy of your attention? Why spike your BP?

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Re: How Do You Guys Move On??? by Charliej: 1:11pm On Apr 05
Baba run oh 440 actually you can from what I observed shes of no benefit to you asides sex and it seems thts what your attached to not that you love her so get busy talk to other girls it's a matter of time a month or 3 ul both be memories
Re: How Do You Guys Move On??? by tmoneyu: 1:11pm On Apr 05
Bury your emotions and move on, don't reply her text, block her line from calling u, delete her number, try to mix with with guys and focus on developing your self, you will meet your match on the road to success, remember sex is just a knack, she can knack you to bring back the emotions, don't ever stay with someone that cheated on you before because she will repeat the same and still get away with it because she sees you are a weakling, you are on the road to recovery and I pray God will see you through

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Re: How Do You Guys Move On??? by Odinaka00(m): 1:12pm On Apr 05
You move on
Re: How Do You Guys Move On??? by Odinaka00(m): 1:17pm On Apr 05
Come to South Africa, you will never be this Simp again. I can’t believe that men like you still exist in this hard life.

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Re: How Do You Guys Move On??? by imagrg(m): 1:27pm On Apr 05
Pretend you didn't see or hear anything and continue to fire on.
Till you engage her, most girls still cheat behind your back!
It's not easy to break off completely until you have another girl. That would give her a competition.
Ezendimmuo:


Bro
Calm down
That's why I posted this
So I can get help on how to do this...
It's not something I want to do.
It feels like an addiction
M letting my heart control my head...
Show me way abeg
Re: How Do You Guys Move On??? by SweetVibe: 1:30pm On Apr 05
chatinent:

It was at this moment you should have allowed the relationSHIP sail away to the rift.


Are you for real? She's playing the victim card now?

We'll come back to this...and come back to the message she sent you.

Tell me this is not true. How did you guys reach this level?


Your girlfriend? Still calling her your girlfriend?


Ok?

No, you don't. Actually, if titles were given to people freely, you should be called Foolish Man Bayo...because the quantity of foolishness I see bayo side is too much.


What?!

I don't know you or where you are from, brother, but pray make me and you no meet for this life.
For the first time you spoke like a real man....
I used to think you were a simp and feminist advocate.

I am proud of you for once
.

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Re: How Do You Guys Move On??? by sauceEEP(m): 1:35pm On Apr 05
Op shut up will you, in one of your threads you claimed one girl overpowered you mounted and tried to lipsrsealed you.... Here you are wailing because of a mere suspicion and worst part was even that someone told you...... You really don't deserve that babe and please work on your insecurity.
Re: How Do You Guys Move On??? by Jman06(m): 1:38pm On Apr 05
When you THINK about the fact that ladies are nothing but bleeding fatty tissues arranged on bones and functioning under the influence of body chemicals, you'll realize that they're not worth stressing your precious heads about.

Put your heart in checks and avoid stooping so low to feminine animals you're so much better than.

Thank me later

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Re: How Do You Guys Move On??? by 4kizo(m): 1:40pm On Apr 05
SIMPle men everywhere
Re: How Do You Guys Move On??? by Lastborn0074: 1:40pm On Apr 05
There were red flags everywhere, but you ignored. Truth is, she never loved you for one day. Look before you leap next time. If there was anything going on bt you two, it was friends with benefits, nothing more. My advice: forget about her, take time to heal and don't rush into another rshp. Cheers.

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Re: How Do You Guys Move On??? by Jh0wsef(m): 1:49pm On Apr 05
chatinent:

It was at this moment you should have allowed the relationSHIP sail away to the rift.


Are you for real? She's playing the victim card now?

We'll come back to this...and come back to the message she sent you.

Tell me this is not true. How did you guys reach this level?


Your girlfriend? Still calling her your girlfriend?


Ok?

No, you don't. Actually, if titles were given to people freely, you should be called Foolish Man Bayo...because the quantity of foolishness I see bayo side is too much.


What?!

I don't know you or where you are from, brother, but pray make me and you no meet for this life.

Hahahahaha
Re: How Do You Guys Move On??? by Lamasta(m): 1:54pm On Apr 05
She said I was a big fool and I do not have sense for believing the person...


Ezendimmuo:


Bro
Calm down
That's why I posted this
So I can get help on how to do this...
It's not something I want to do.
It feels like an addiction
M letting my heart control my head...
Show me way abeg
Which nonsense help are you looking for No wonder your girl called you a fool a big one for that matter since you don't want to have sense
Re: How Do You Guys Move On??? by Aimhyer(m): 1:56pm On Apr 05
Ezendimmuo:
There is this girl I'm dating
Tbh...
I don't trust her...
She has lied to me in the past and also cheated on me...
I called her on Saturday..
I called her in the morning...

Someone was playing music in her room...
I asked her who it was....
She got angry that I don't trust her
I called her at night also
I swear I heard someone's voice in her room at night
She got angry when I asked who was there...hung up on me and switched off her phone ..
I apologized for "hearing" things...

Yesterday...
An anonymous person called me out of pity and told me that my girl usually stays in a guys room...
This same guy has kissed her twice even when she knows we are dating..
He even calls her when m around and tells her he wants to see her even when he knows m around...
She said she saw her coming out of the guys room that morning...
I asked her about it...
She got angry and wanted to know who told me about it...
She said I was a big fool and I do not have sense for believing the person...

Mind you ..my girlfriend has lied to me in the past and I have no reason to doubt the caller because she has nothing to gain if we break up...
What even made me break up with her was the fact that she started calling me names
I'll attach a message she said to me when I told her I was done...

My problem is this ..
We started having small talks after the whole thing...
I started explaining things to her!!

Can you imagine??
I feel like a fool right now...

Legends in the house...
How do I break up with her and never look back
She's toxic to both my emotions and finance
But still
A part of me won't completely let go
I need help guys
If it's in Lagos sorry, almost all Lagos girls are hook up specialist, na public property
Re: How Do You Guys Move On??? by Pedklose: 2:03pm On Apr 05
grin grin

Mr Man run from that girl. She's emotionally stronger than you. Try working on yourself and your relationship with girls in general. Follow badt Guys so they can teach you how to be bolder with girls. Try relating with a lot of girls too.

If you love reading, you can check out "the Rationale Male" or "No more Mr Nice Guy."
Re: How Do You Guys Move On??? by suffering: 2:11pm On Apr 05
I remember when this was my situation in the past. I eventually gave myself sense from getting cuckolded and called her up one day. I told her I was putting our situation on hold for matters which came from me and I’d contact her sometime in the future. I adviced her not to try reconnecting because I would reinitiate contact when I sort things out. She said “okay” and that was it — I was free. A few weeks later she started calling me eight times daily, but I was healing; weaning myself off her presence. As time passed the situation started getting easier. I wouldn’t lie, I cried myself to sleep and from sleep some days, however the process paid off. I won a losing battle.

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Re: How Do You Guys Move On??? by emmaodet: 2:12pm On Apr 05
Ezendimmuo:
There is this girl I'm dating
Tbh...
I don't trust her...
She has lied to me in the past and also cheated on me...
I called her on Saturday..
I called her in the morning...

Someone was playing music in her room...
I asked her who it was....
She got angry that I don't trust her
I called her at night also
I swear I heard someone's voice in her room at night
She got angry when I asked who was there...hung up on me and switched off her phone ..
I apologized for "hearing" things...

Yesterday...
An anonymous person called me out of pity and told me that my girl usually stays in a guys room...
This same guy has kissed her twice even when she knows we are dating..
He even calls her when m around and tells her he wants to see her even when he knows m around...
She said she saw her coming out of the guys room that morning...
I asked her about it...
She got angry and wanted to know who told me about it...
She said I was a big fool and I do not have sense for believing the person...

Mind you ..my girlfriend has lied to me in the past and I have no reason to doubt the caller because she has nothing to gain if we break up...
What even made me break up with her was the fact that she started calling me names
I'll attach a message she said to me when I told her I was done...

My problem is this ..
We started having small talks after the whole thing...
I started explaining things to her!!

Can you imagine??
I feel like a fool right now...

Legends in the house...
How do I break up with her and never look back
She's toxic to both my emotions and finance
But still
A part of me won't completely let go
I need help guys

I understand that you are a SIMP but it is okay, we all have been there.
TBH, i really need you to be beside me and i give you a brain resetting slap to jolt you out of your simping.

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Re: How Do You Guys Move On??? by Lllag1111: 2:15pm On Apr 05
You no this female besties also have feelings...........

HopeNeverDies:
Damnnn!!! LoL

I understand your feelings bro... It's kinda hard to let the heart go. But try out this trick, find a female bestie to pass time with coz if you're alone, you'd definitely be thinking about it all over Everytime..
Re: How Do You Guys Move On??? by Nobody: 2:15pm On Apr 05
Hassanmaye:

Hahahhahahaha
just imaginegrin grin grin

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Re: How Do You Guys Move On??? by Seanjay(m): 2:19pm On Apr 05
AmgMakanaki:
I have promise myself never to advice anyone. Because a man in love is just like a baby still receiving breast milk


Bro I lost your contact my phone got wiped can you please dm it to me
Re: How Do You Guys Move On??? by judatech: 2:23pm On Apr 05
chatinent:

It was at this moment you should have allowed the relationSHIP sail away to the rift.


Are you for real? She's playing the victim card now?

We'll come back to this...and come back to the message she sent you.

Tell me this is not true. How did you guys reach this level?


Your girlfriend? Still calling her your girlfriend?


Ok?

No, you don't. Actually, if titles were given to people freely, you should be called Foolish Man Bayo...because the quantity of foolishness I see bayo side is too much.


What?!

I don't know you or where you are from, brother, but pray make me and you no meet for this life.

Abeg, for realest people, if you are looking for a side hustle, I sell first grade OK shoes in bales and I deliver nationwide within three days. I sell from 100 pairs and above.

First grade means they look like new. Hit my inboxes.
About the shoes...my WhatsApp 08179176060
Re: How Do You Guys Move On??? by Raalsalghul: 2:23pm On Apr 05
emmaodet:


I understand that you are a SIMP but it is okay, we all have been there.
TBH, i really need you to be beside me and i give you a brain resetting slap to jolt you out of your simping.

grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: How Do You Guys Move On??? by Ezendimmuo: 3:10pm On Apr 05
sauceEEP:
Op shut up will you, in one of your threads you claimed one girl overpowered you mounted and tried to lipsrsealed you.... Here you are wailing because of a mere suspicion and worst part was even that someone told you...... You really don't deserve that babe and please work on your insecurity.

Bro
That thread na cruise
You are the only one that didn't get the message
Re: How Do You Guys Move On??? by LoudlyMouthed: 3:30pm On Apr 05
wink
annisy:
Men, a lady that loves you is better than a lady you love - if you want to last long on earth
As in, the same way you dey wear your mask appropriately, use your head sensibly.

Re: How Do You Guys Move On??? by BluntCrazeMan: 3:34pm On Apr 05
Ezendimmuo:
There is this girl I'm dating
Tbh...
I don't trust her...
She has lied to me in the past and also cheated on me...
I called her on Saturday..
I called her in the morning...

Someone was playing music in her room...
I asked her who it was....
She got angry that I don't trust her
I called her at night also
I swear I heard someone's voice in her room at night
She got angry when I asked who was there...hung up on me and switched off her phone ..
I apologized for "hearing" things...

Yesterday...
An anonymous person called me out of pity and told me that my girl usually stays in a guys room...
This same guy has kissed her twice even when she knows we are dating..
He even calls her when m around and tells her he wants to see her even when he knows m around...
She said she saw her coming out of the guys room that morning...
I asked her about it...
She got angry and wanted to know who told me about it...
She said I was a big fool and I do not have sense for believing the person...

Mind you ..my girlfriend has lied to me in the past and I have no reason to doubt the caller because she has nothing to gain if we break up...
What even made me break up with her was the fact that she started calling me names
I'll attach a message she said to me when I told her I was done...

My problem is this ..
We started having small talks after the whole thing...
I started explaining things to her!!

Can you imagine??
I feel like a fool right now...

Legends in the house...
How do I break up with her and never look back
She's toxic to both my emotions and finance
But still
A part of me won't completely let go
I need help guys
I will not call you a fooooll..
But once you start sexing a new lady, all these nonsense will definitely stop
Re: How Do You Guys Move On??? by Masterclass32: 3:36pm On Apr 05
Ezendimmuo:
There is this girl I'm dating
Tbh...
I don't trust her...
She has lied to me in the past and also cheated on me...
I called her on Saturday..
I called her in the morning...

Someone was playing music in her room...
I asked her who it was....
She got angry that I don't trust her
I called her at night also
I swear I heard someone's voice in her room at night
She got angry when I asked who was there...hung up on me and switched off her phone ..
I apologized for "hearing" things...

Yesterday...
An anonymous person called me out of pity and told me that my girl usually stays in a guys room...
This same guy has kissed her twice even when she knows we are dating..
He even calls her when m around and tells her he wants to see her even when he knows m around...
She said she saw her coming out of the guys room that morning...
I asked her about it...
She got angry and wanted to know who told me about it...
She said I was a big fool and I do not have sense for believing the person...

Mind you ..my girlfriend has lied to me in the past and I have no reason to doubt the caller because she has nothing to gain if we break up...
What even made me break up with her was the fact that she started calling me names
I'll attach a message she said to me when I told her I was done...

My problem is this ..
We started having small talks after the whole thing...
I started explaining things to her!!

Can you imagine??
I feel like a fool right now...

Legends in the house...
How do I break up with her and never look back
She's toxic to both my emotions and finance
But still
A part of me won't completely let go
I need help guys

Any partner (male or female) that lies to you and insults you at the slightest opportunity is not worth your time. Such a person does not love you, or they have a weird way of showing their 'love'.

As for moving on, you have to; for your sanity. It will only get worse in the future.

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Re: How Do You Guys Move On??? by Brownshoe: 3:39pm On Apr 05
Enyah, i can feel ur pain, u can't let go, we wey no fine girls dey use us play na,





I guess u simp and not fine.
Re: How Do You Guys Move On??? by Jboynokiaphone(m): 3:47pm On Apr 05
the Sad truth is that you're a SIMP to Her,just move on before it will turn to Premium Tears. angry angry angry
Re: How Do You Guys Move On??? by Bamzyriches451: 3:49pm On Apr 05
Damn!
You're a side niggar bro, the other guy is the main bf. kindly move on

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