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Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by EDOSBROWN: 5:30pm On May 07, 2022
IT SUCKS LIKE MTN DATA

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Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by toujurs: 5:32pm On May 07, 2022
Candidlady:
Cuz of em dudes want sex.. and IAM not ready to tear my rubbers!!! Saving it for the man that will marry me tongue
So you are protecting your vagina, from sex, until he proposes. You were bleeped and dumped afterwards that is why you are this protective. Try to be more productive with your life, so guys can see more than having sex with you

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Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by Lordofalmajiri(f): 5:32pm On May 07, 2022
Love is not for me. cool cool
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by tweakdude1: 5:34pm On May 07, 2022
No candidate available
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by UgoEvans(m): 5:34pm On May 07, 2022
il n'y a pas d'argent grin grin
Shikina
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by Silentgroper(m): 5:35pm On May 07, 2022
Candidlady:

Lmao
Let's go run a virginity test to clear your doubts

Your post


So u've never been high to d extent u hopped on a random dvck and ride it to stupor..

So u're saying u've never been in a relationship too.

by d way, yes lets have some virginity test nd i'll be the specialist conducting it right?
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by Candidlady: 5:37pm On May 07, 2022
Silentgroper:
So u've never been high to d extent u hopped on a random dvck and ride it to stupor..

So u're saying u've never been in a relationship too.


by d way, yes lets have some virginity test nd i'll be the specialist conducting it right?


@bolded

You are myopic

Relationship ain't always bout sex mr
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by Myexdisturbs: 5:38pm On May 07, 2022
Vinnie2000:
Hmm, na so! Savings ko, debit ni! Abeg make we hear word!
She has answered , why not answer yours and leave hers, nawa o
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by braine(m): 5:39pm On May 07, 2022
Supply chain issues.

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Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by HillaryVictor(m): 5:40pm On May 07, 2022
I believe there's time for everything, it's not yet time. All I need now is to be focused on my career and future. Relationship can wait. cool

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Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by mrksquare: 5:40pm On May 07, 2022
VictorUSA:
The truth is that men's perception of women here is bad.I'm only trying to catch cruise but that's not me in person.


Lol!! Chai!! Nothing person no go see for Nairaland.
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by rimijoshua(m): 5:46pm On May 07, 2022
Those ladies I hold in high esteem have never reciprocated my kind gesture towards them,I see it as a waste of time..

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Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by Asianjollof007: 5:47pm On May 07, 2022
Relationship doesn't make any sense to me rn, i have a lot going on in my head and i hardly have time for anyone. Most girls i have dated complained i give less attention, i always tell them not to catch feelings. Getting emotionally attached in this present generation is worthless and unbeneficial, everyone's just aggresively fornicating in the name of being in relationship.

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Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by bluefilm: 5:49pm On May 07, 2022
Beautygoddesss:
stop generalizing nigerian gals there are both good and bad ones or else all nigerian men are useless as well

Where do you belong?
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by LOVEGINO(m): 5:56pm On May 07, 2022
Prettygirl200:
I know me know say for reality they are very soft. But will come here to form redpilll shit as if they don't have mother's. Motherfuckers
my dear, Na sapa.
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by nastynic(m): 5:58pm On May 07, 2022
I don't like commenting on love and romance related stuff but...
Personally I think abstaining from relationship under the disguise of being hurt before sound like cowardice to me (I'm not saying you are a coward tho)
Those saying waiting for the right one is also not making sense and I will tell you why,
Most would likely say if you meet the right one you would know, well why that might sound pleasing to the ears, the bigger question is how do you know this is the right person?
You might say the major predicator for that is how they make you feel well since times memorial we know the greatest deception always occur when the con artist give you your desires for a certain period of time before the checkmate.

The possible solution is just finding who you admire and building something with them while watching out for reciprocity of gestures.
Always avoid quantifying these gestures because in a relationship, the person of higher resources tend to give more which is normal but that doesn't mean the spouse with lower resources is absolved of giving.
To add to that, always reward or explain in details actions or characters your partner does that you cherish or love because they would tend to do more of that if it's been appreciated.
Runaway from any relationship at all you are not comfortable in although that doesn't mean there exist a relationship without conflict and I said conflict not violence.

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Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:03pm On May 07, 2022
Ariyke:
yes he got someone else pregnant

I left one last week due to heartless of her part. It was until I left she realise she was wrong and she gave me more than 100 missed calls. I have to focus on tech applying for different jobs. we are in the shoe but different circumstances.

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Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by blue01(m): 6:04pm On May 07, 2022
Badfinga:
It has been over two years since I attempted the relationship stuff. From my heart of heart, I think I no longer believe in love. When I see the opposite gender, I only think of having a nice time with them. So I concluded within me to remain single instead of hurting someone's feelings.
For clarification purpose, I no sleep with any girl ooo within this period . Hoping one day things will turn out for the better and I will love unconditionally again.

@bolded, I feel that's just it, I don't want anyone accusing me of hurting them.

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Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by Bamzyriches451: 6:04pm On May 07, 2022
Damn!!
I'm avoiding billing
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by seglabsy(m): 6:04pm On May 07, 2022
Badfinga:
The journey of a thousand miles, begin with a step.
what's ur own now,be happy
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by Badfinga: 6:06pm On May 07, 2022
Pojaay:

You have age expectations that’s why. Bro look for a lady that’s a bit older than you and start a conversation with her, then thank me later. Times has changed
Speaking from experience? But I can't date a lady older than me.
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by Silentgroper(m): 6:08pm On May 07, 2022
Candidlady:



@bolded

You are myopic

Relationship ain't always bout sex mr
That doesnt answer d question.. Its nt abt sex bt sex still does happen right ... Why are u trying so hard to make claim of what u're nt
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by Miller4mee: 6:08pm On May 07, 2022
Are you sure the rubber is still follow come
Candidlady:
Cuz of em dudes want sex.. and IAM not ready to tear my rubbers!!! Saving it for the man that will marry me tongue
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by Badfinga: 6:10pm On May 07, 2022
[quote author=anochuko01 post=112610012] I think we share the same ideology here.

Why have I been single all the while?
I wouldn't date just anybody. If I don't see you as one I can marry, then there's no point dating. So I'll rather stay single and face my life than go hunting girls.

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Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by Loris576(m): 6:10pm On May 07, 2022
Badfinga:
It has been over two years since I attempted the relationship stuff. From my heart of heart, I think I no longer believe in love. When I see the opposite gender, I only think of having a nice time with them. So I concluded within me to remain single instead of hurting someone's feelings.
For clarification purpose, I no sleep with any girl ooo within this period . Hoping one day things will turn out for the better and I will love unconditionally again.

I'm not in a relationship cos I don't want wahala
Wahala too much for relationship especially with women of these days

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Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by Brodahud: 6:10pm On May 07, 2022
To be honest I want to marry this year.i only need a good Samaritan who can empower me with either Keke napep or any small car so as to use am hustle and be an independent so that I'll be able to take care of my wife to be.so any of my destiny helper out here help me,God shall reward u too.i only need the tools, I'll make make God willing.here is my number incase.07068919550.
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by Candidlady: 6:13pm On May 07, 2022
Silentgroper:
That doesnt answer d question.. Its nt abt sex bt sex still does happen right ... Why are u trying so hard to make claim of what u're nt


Tell me why you don't believe me
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by KingsleyCEO: 6:14pm On May 07, 2022
VictorUSA:
Because women are all useless regardless of their origin.

Including your mother and sisters?
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:15pm On May 07, 2022
Candidlady:
Cuz of em dudes want sex.. and IAM not ready to tear my rubbers!!! Saving it for the man that will marry metongue

Come and marry me grin
Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by Badfinga: 6:17pm On May 07, 2022
Olayetan:
No descent girl anymore, majority are into hookup and they are proud.
I believe we still have decent girls out there. Just pray one day you come across one.

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Re: Be Sincere. Why Are You Not In A Relationship? by deewhy0711: 6:17pm On May 07, 2022
Badfinga:
It has been over two years since I attempted the relationship stuff. From my heart of heart, I think I no longer believe in love. When I see the opposite gender, I only think of having a nice time with them. So I concluded within me to remain single instead of hurting someone's feelings.
For clarification purpose, I no sleep with any girl ooo within this period . Hoping one day things will turn out for the better and I will love unconditionally again.




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