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Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by RickSanchez: 9:06am On May 01
dettolgel:



You called her a LovePeddler because she is fucking other guys and you went to describe your own hoeing days as "having your share of pussies".

That says a lot about you.

Until the day Nigerians stop putting too importance on sex you guys will not know peace.

At a certain age both boys and girls will have a very strong urge to Bleep and as long as we preach "suppression" we will mostly get this hide and seek behaviour.

You're right, everyone has a past, the truth to mine is I never coerced things and always said the truth, even now.
Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by RickSanchez: 9:08am On May 01
nenyewrites:


If you've really become a good guy, stop fornicating! Secondly, before getting married, look for ways to treat yourself delayed ejaculation, women don't like men that stay for a long time. It makes the whole thing boring. Also, it feels like you don't love them and only see them as a sex machine. Moderacy is key.
I will fornicate bro, that's a male human need. My DE I'm working on but even as at that I had the assumption the longer you lasted the better, now I'll try to work on that.
Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by RickSanchez: 9:10am On May 01
Raymeg7:
. Baba I feel for u, but all I want u to know is ur just unlucky, she don't deserve u, there are good once too, don't because of her and hate girls ok, u will find a good one very soon, just try and keep urself busy, and move on, but main while, u fit teach me crypto I beg, ur man dey hungry
Thanks for the advice bro. Teaching crypto is something I shy away from because of the commitment. I can recommend good sources to you on YouTube though.

Coin bureau
Altcoin Daily
Whiteboard Crypto
Crypto Casey
etc.

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Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by HRSweetness(f): 9:40am On May 01
RickSanchez:
Thanks for the reply bro, actually there was a commitment between us to end in marriage or find someone else if we drift too far apart.

There really was no commitment. How do you commit to getting married or finding someone else? Sounds like you both were just flinging. Why did you break up?

I actually think you're mad that she beat you at your game. This is just a case of a dude who got his big ego deflated. You just can't handle the fact that she ain't pining for you and she audaciously moved on.
You woulda been okay if she was alone and miserable while you strutted with your new prey. LOL. On the low, you're a narcissist.

Dude, did she really cheat on you? You know you're making up these stories to make her look bad so you feel a little good but it ain't really working.

And, stop masturbating, it should help with your DE.

Lastly, if you choose to let past bitter experiences guide your decisions in future endeavors, you're gonna be the bigger loser.

Talmabout not loving hard cos you let yourself fall for the wrong kind. undecided "Becoming desensitized to feelings in relationships", that's freaking hilarious, please come back and share how well that goes for ya. undecided

Stay fresh okay.. LOL.

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Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by efficiencie(m): 9:43am On May 01
RickSanchez:
Thanks for the reply bro, actually there was a commitment between us to end in marriage or find someone else if we drift too far apart.

No offense bro. If a lady is willing to spread her legs before you know and meet her parents for marriage she is either naive or a hoe and you don't want either of the two. This does not mean that all ladies who deny you sex before marriage are clean but in this case you have a defense. If after the wedding you examine the door and find out that the door is already opened, oga send her back to her father's house and ask for your bride price back ...any attempt to continue could result in you going through that door and landing in hell. The door that leads to paradise is locked and only you should have the key and I assure you if you go in you go understand the differentce between 6 and half a dozen. She will be conditioned to you and be loyal. Whatever you do don't marry a hoe. If you do you will regret it.

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Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by Honestfrend: 9:45am On May 01
RickSanchez:
I'd like to start by saying I'm serving, Sorry if the story is all messed up as my mind is F'ed up right now.

I got into a corpers lodge which used to be a lounge. I didn't want to date anyone but this hoe kept disturbing me to. Gave in.

Usually I'm a crypto investor, I have money, I look good, I dress good. I'm not saying all these things to hype myself up but I'm okay.

Sexually I can last hours, I made her cum consistently. The only problem I have is delayed ejaculation. Which she complains about.

Now, I'm not the type to love hard as I'm already used to heartbreaks. So we dated and broke up after 4 months or so. I was okay with the breakup.

Only to find out she's been fucking around the whole time I was loving up, as she(in my mind) opened up to me about the guys that played her and broke her heart.

She goes to church frequently and if you see this girl outside you'd think she's a saint, she doesn't party, she doesn't usually drink and no smoking.

Anyway I found out that she'd be fucking her our fellow corper guys and was getting passed around, while still pretending she still loved me(after the breakup).

When I knew and she came to my side and I told her to go Bleep the guy she usually goes to she said she doesn't care.

This person who I thought had a conscience was probably a covert narcissist who wants male attention from anywhere she'll get it.

To be honest it pains me to say this but I felt foolish for actually loving the girl and started to doubt myself as a man.

I'm usually the one girls cheat on their guys with(when I was in uni) but this time around I got my share(after I became a good guy), it hit hard and it disgusted me how I got to know she was being pounded by other niggas.

Funny thing is now she doesn't hide it, she blows kisses to the nigga openly in everyone's presence.

Don't want to bitch all day about this but honestly it feels evil how someone can switch like the devil cause I had nothing but good intentions for her. And she not only did all that but boldly told people I was the one disturbing her life. Lol. It is well. I know it's the times we shared that's causing me to feel undeserved.

The one thing on my mind I Sha know is that at the end of the day I'm still an awesome dude, no matter how a hoe wants to pay me back I'll still make bank and get back out there. Thanks for reading and if you have things to add, both good or bad I'm willing to read through.

Addition ; wanted to marry her as I had enough money to and we shared(to my understanding) the same values and dreams. I doubt I'll ever fall for words or even actions of love again as I was genuinely convinced she was good.

Bro I have learnt that accepting a cheating partner back.. Is like eating ur vomit..

I learnt mine d hard way...
Please teach me crypto..

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Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by phemmyfour: 9:45am On May 01
RickSanchez:
I'd like to start by saying I'm serving, Sorry if the story is all messed up as my mind is F'ed up right now.

I got into a corpers lodge which used to be a lounge. I didn't want to date anyone but this hoe kept disturbing me to. Gave in.

Usually I'm a crypto investor, I have money, I look good, I dress good. I'm not saying all these things to hype myself up but I'm okay.

Sexually I can last hours, I made her cum consistently. The only problem I have is delayed ejaculation. Which she complains about.

Now, I'm not the type to love hard as I'm already used to heartbreaks. So we dated and broke up after 4 months or so. I was okay with the breakup.

Only to find out she's been fucking around the whole time I was loving up, as she(in my mind) opened up to me about the guys that played her and broke her heart.

She goes to church frequently and if you see this girl outside you'd think she's a saint, she doesn't party, she doesn't usually drink and no smoking.

Anyway I found out that she'd be fucking her our fellow corper guys and was getting passed around, while still pretending she still loved me(after the breakup).

When I knew and she came to my side and I told her to go Bleep the guy she usually goes to she said she doesn't care.

This person who I thought had a conscience was probably a covert narcissist who wants male attention from anywhere she'll get it.

To be honest it pains me to say this but I felt foolish for actually loving the girl and started to doubt myself as a man.

I'm usually the one girls cheat on their guys with(when I was in uni) but this time around I got my share(after I became a good guy), it hit hard and it disgusted me how I got to know she was being pounded by other niggas.

Funny thing is now she doesn't hide it, she blows kisses to the nigga openly in everyone's presence.

Don't want to bitch all day about this but honestly it feels evil how someone can switch like the devil cause I had nothing but good intentions for her. And she not only did all that but boldly told people I was the one disturbing her life. Lol. It is well. I know it's the times we shared that's causing me to feel undeserved.

The one thing on my mind I Sha know is that at the end of the day I'm still an awesome dude, no matter how a hoe wants to pay me back I'll still make bank and get back out there. Thanks for reading and if you have things to add, both good or bad I'm willing to read through.

Addition ; wanted to marry her as I had enough money to and we shared(to my understanding) the same values and dreams. I doubt I'll ever fall for words or even actions of love again as I was genuinely convinced she was good.
Karma happens to you
Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by Godsbaby1(f): 9:47am On May 01
Aaaaarghmed:
how fa,just move on.i made a mistake of taking a cheating girl back.Dont ever make the mistake.move on,even though e hard.can you teach me crypto.i wan learn
same here I want to learn
Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by madakx: 9:47am On May 01
Bro lets talk private na, flash me pls 08038505552
Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by HRSweetness(f): 9:49am On May 01
Ayt27:


“Listen, Morty, I hate to break it to you, but what people call ‘love’ is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed.”-- You know who said that.

She'll come back bro, they always do but then you'd have moved waaaaaaay on.


That's just flawed mahn.

And no, she ain't going back. She's moved on. It's why he's mad.
Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by Naijaolosho2: 9:50am On May 01
RickSanchez:
Thank you so much bro. About the crypto part it's challenging to start now. I'm not in the right head space but I'll try teach you some things. Email me.


Sorry about the hoe,forget her and move on.

Can I also email you? I wanna learn crypto also.
Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by izubext007: 9:51am On May 01
The worst mistake any body could make is going after a church like girl or brother . They are the worst people on earth.
In my church, they is one girl called cladys , a PA to pastors wife , but she dey Bleep for Africa.

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Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by pholu88: 9:58am On May 01
grin grin grin pay back time for you
Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by freddie009(m): 10:37am On May 01
I don't trust a woman. If she like let her be a pastor. I always protect my end, so if the relationship goes south I wouldn't be at the losing end. I always make such in any relationship we both make sacrifices.
Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by freddie009(m): 10:39am On May 01
RickSanchez:
Thanks for the advice bro. Teaching crypto is something I shy away from because of the commitment. I can recommend good sources to you on YouTube though.

Coin bureau
Altcoin Daily
Whiteboard Crypto
Crypto Casey
etc.
These are the people making money from crypto, they don't teach. You see those organising classes upandan, them one use you cashout.
Thanks for this.

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Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by blue01(m): 10:43am On May 01
OP stop simpin and go fucck some pussyy and drink some wine.
Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by Emma1Oj(m): 10:55am On May 01
Fiscus105:


I pray you get ur own wife in brothels.
too late prophet Nebuchadnezzar.
Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by Wuppdex: 11:04am On May 01
Don't mind the SIMP forming Mr cool online, i'm sure he wept like a baby.
Double0h7:
LOL, so op, you would've been happier if she was dumped by you and feeling down and out? I thought you said you don't experience heartbreak and you were fine with breaking up? Why are you confusing yourself with feelings all of a sudden
Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by airliner(m): 11:08am On May 01
czarr:
If a woman complains to you about how bad guys treated her in the past. Ask her how long she stayed with the guys if she stayed with them for more than a year it means she loves the treatment metted out to her by those guys.

Naive you would want to do better than those guys but what you don't know is that there is a reason she chose to date those bad guys, she is damaged and can only be aroused by guys who treat her poorly....if you treat her better she'll be bored, cheat on you and leave.

Nuff said


Oil yapa for ur head

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Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by Wuppdex: 11:13am On May 01
All gender cheats that's true, but it's only disturbing if it's becoming a culture of normalcy, then it can destroy societal values, lack of trust and unhealthy relationships.
whytediamond:
Can we stop already with the debased view of our women?

All gender cheats please.
Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by Digmygold: 11:15am On May 01
You wey wan marry "church girl". You be "church boy"? Karma finally located you.

You will always find your female replica no matter how smart you think you are. Stop wailing and carry your cross abeg.

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Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by poweredcom(m): 11:16am On May 01
Thank gaaad you never take a wh.ofe as a housewife

Op you were so good and notin wrong in being good

The problem I have with such girls is they are the type that are Influencing other girls

Look that beech is a harlot just forget Many of these. NAija girls as my hood friend here @womenareapess all naija gals are useless
Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by Digmygold: 11:18am On May 01
freddie009:
I don't trust a woman. If she like let her be a pastor. I always protect my end, so if the relationship goes south I wouldn't be at the losing end. I always make such in any relationship we both make sacrifices.


If you ain't a "church boy", don't go looking for a "church girl". Karma will locate you and na olosho wey dey church you go wife las las. It's that simple.

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Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by Wuppdex: 11:20am On May 01
SIMP, he should show understanding until she sends him to his early demise. Mainstream brainwashing about being extremely weak, now tell me which gender are the most manipulative and deceiving ?
Southernigbo:
Just 4give her, u know women are extremely weak and easily deceived and manipulated. Try n put eyes on her and b close by
Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by vengedre(m): 11:22am On May 01
Don't let one person change who you are. Teach me crypto boss �
Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by Wuppdex: 11:22am On May 01
Kpekus naturally enlarged grin
Paulianfa:
Always pray to God for a faithful wife, cos these generation of everything enlarged are confusing people.
Hip enlarged,
Breast enlarged,
Buttocks enlarged,
Eye enlarged.
Hmmmmmmm prayer is the key brother.

To cure congee na in cause am.
Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by Wuppdex: 11:24am On May 01
Nigerian girls and Nigerian government are competing on this statement, so who's the most useless ? grin
drmikeadams:



After this whole write up....can you totally agree and accept that according to the legend mosdii"Nigerian girls are useless, all of them"
Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by Digmygold: 11:25am On May 01
RickSanchez:
I'd like to start by saying I'm serving, Sorry if the story is all messed up as my mind is F'ed up right now.

I got into a corpers lodge which used to be a lounge. I didn't want to date anyone but this hoe kept disturbing me to. Gave in.

Usually I'm a crypto investor, I have money, I look good, I dress good. I'm not saying all these things to hype myself up but I'm okay.

Sexually I can last hours, I made her cum consistently. The only problem I have is delayed ejaculation. Which she complains about.

Now, I'm not the type to love hard as I'm already used to heartbreaks. So we dated and broke up after 4 months or so. I was okay with the breakup.

Only to find out she's been fucking around the whole time I was loving up, as she(in my mind) opened up to me about the guys that played her and broke her heart.

She goes to church frequently and if you see this girl outside you'd think she's a saint, she doesn't party, she doesn't usually drink and no smoking.

Anyway I found out that she'd be fucking her our fellow corper guys and was getting passed around, while still pretending she still loved me(after the breakup).

When I knew and she came to my side and I told her to go Bleep the guy she usually goes to she said she doesn't care.

This person who I thought had a conscience was probably a covert narcissist who wants male attention from anywhere she'll get it.

To be honest it pains me to say this but I felt foolish for actually loving the girl and started to doubt myself as a man.

I'm usually the one girls cheat on their guys with(when I was in uni) but this time around I got my share(after I became a good guy), it hit hard and it disgusted me how I got to know she was being pounded by other niggas.

Funny thing is now she doesn't hide it, she blows kisses to the nigga openly in everyone's presence.

Don't want to bitch all day about this but honestly it feels evil how someone can switch like the devil cause I had nothing but good intentions for her. And she not only did all that but boldly told people I was the one disturbing her life. Lol. It is well. I know it's the times we shared that's causing me to feel undeserved.

The one thing on my mind I Sha know is that at the end of the day I'm still an awesome dude, no matter how a hoe wants to pay me back I'll still make bank and get back out there. Thanks for reading and if you have things to add, both good or bad I'm willing to read through.

Addition ; wanted to marry her as I had enough money to and we shared(to my understanding) the same values and dreams. I doubt I'll ever fall for words or even actions of love again as I was genuinely convinced she was good.

You thought she was a "saint" yet she was "collecting" from you? LoL. You no get sense. Are you her husband? Maybe you go find saint when you reach heaven or hell in your own case. You got what you deserve. You ain't a saint yourself so you will only end up with the type of woman who is exactly like you. It's called Karma. So shut the fvk up man.
Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by Wuppdex: 11:26am On May 01
Confusion everywhere, Naija don cast
Palema007:
ibo la tun jasi yii....

Bro, you mean clubs and bar joint are the best place to look for a wife? Lol... The way you guys change narratives to suite your half thought opinions is amazing. cheesy grin grin
Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by placeofallure(f): 11:32am On May 01
Brownshoe:
omo osogbo, i sight you

I no be Osogbo o! Which kain Osogbo? I be proudly Kogi State o.
Re: Got Cheated On And This Is How. by mosaicafrique: 11:33am On May 01
See how you hype your self, probably she discover that the money you claim to make was peanut. Make money and she will stick like glue and call you sir instead of pet name. You are out of school, you need real money

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