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Confused State Of Mind by sandlakes14: 3:23am On Apr 30, 2022
Sorry for my typo but I just need ur advice
There was this girl I met around March last year via Facebook. We started talking and we became some close till the extent that we entered into a relationship.

I connected her with my family base on I was convinced that I am going to marry her due to the good attitude she showed. I finally travelled to meet her around July for the first time. We all had the fun and made a pledge never to leave each other

So after a while I noticed a change of attitude from her and I confronted her but she will still insist that we are cool that nothing is wrong. The frustration was was so much that I had to confide in her friend and she secretly told me that it is not only me she is dating that her ex boyfriend came back.

I then confronted the girl with confidence so when I did that with pressure she couldn't resist that. She opened up everything to me that it happened immediately Ieft her around July that the guy came back around October to apologise to her

Although I already asked her about her ex before. She told me that she doesn't know what she did to the guy, the guy only said that he is not longer interested in her again. She pleaded and pleaded but the guy just said he is just not interested in her again so that was how they separated

So it was during that time I came into the picture before she finally accept my offer. So now the guy came back after eight month and has apologised to her and the babe now told him that she already has a guy that she is dating. The guy now said that does she want to leave him now that has she forgotten the oath between them. The girl now said okay that he should give her time till when she conclude her investigation but pending the time that they won't be sex between them the guy agreed to it and since then they guy has been doing all his possible best to win the heart of the girl

Pls I am seriously confused, what should I do?
Re: Confused State Of Mind by Extratyre01(m): 3:58am On Apr 30, 2022
sandlakes14:
Sorry for my typo but I just need ur advice
There was this girl I met around March last year via Facebook. We started talking and we became some close till the extent that we entered into a relationship.

I connected her with my family base on I was convinced that I am going to marry her due to the good attitude she showed. I finally travelled to meet her around July for the first time. We all had the fun and made a pledge never to leave each other

So after a while I noticed a change of attitude from her and I confronted her but she will still insist that we are cool that nothing is wrong. The frustration was was so much that I had to confide in her friend and she secretly told me that it is not only me she is dating that her ex boyfriend came back.

I then confronted the girl with confidence so when I did that with pressure she couldn't resist that. She opened up everything to me that it happened immediately Ieft her around July that the guy came back around October to apologise to her

Although I already asked her about her ex before. She told me that she doesn't know what she did to the guy, the guy only said that he is not longer interested in her again. She pleaded and pleaded but the guy just said he is just not interested in her again so that was how they separated

So it was during that time I came into the picture before she finally accept my offer. So now the guy came back after eight month and has apologised to her and the babe now told him that she already has a guy that she is dating. The guy now said that does she want to leave him now that has she forgotten the oath between them. The girl now said okay that he should give her time till when she conclude her investigation but pending the time that they won't be sex between them the guy agreed to it and since then they guy has been doing all his possible best to win the heart of the girl

Pls I am seriously confused, what should I do?
I feel your pains mate
Re: Confused State Of Mind by Nobody: 4:07am On Apr 30, 2022
Lol.. girls dating on that app are 80% loose cannons. Una pass 2. Know that and know peace.
Re: Confused State Of Mind by davosea(m): 4:07am On Apr 30, 2022
Time like this..... Let wait for the elders to speak.
Re: Confused State Of Mind by Kimiso(m): 4:10am On Apr 30, 2022
You see all these relationship matter i no dey interfere,but ontop these your matter i no know the igbedu wey we go sing to it
Re: Confused State Of Mind by Ahmed0336(m): 4:50am On Apr 30, 2022
I all advice you let her go and look for another girl.
She's not over him.
Start looking for her replacement with the speed of light.
Re: Confused State Of Mind by InfernoNig: 5:51am On Apr 30, 2022
Let her go. Don't be a simp.
Re: Confused State Of Mind by MAGG0T(m): 6:34am On Apr 30, 2022
This generation now breed weak men.


Look at what an adult with a full grown mane on his blokos is asking...

The said girl is really smarter than you
Re: Confused State Of Mind by EzendiEgo1: 6:37am On Apr 30, 2022
Bleep her and leave her straight.
Re: Confused State Of Mind by Uniquetani1(f): 7:26am On Apr 30, 2022
As an Elder, I will advice you to let her go. She never liked you from start.
What girls going back to their ex don't know is, they will only be used and dumped again.
When he is done, she will start thinking of coming back to you.

Guy, try and move on.
She doesn't worth it as she is indecisive

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