denobaba:
Argh! Pele ti e. Ba mi na omo mi, ko de inu olomo. Get a Yoruba person to translate for you.

MistarT:
Please candid opinions will be appreciated. Thanks.

Itwill do humanity great good, if we hear from marriage counsellors with wide range of experiences, thanks.

denobaba:
Seems like you are out to do PR stunts for single moms. If you have a son would you approve of him to marry one? I'm not saying there's anything intrinsically bad about single moms, but please answer the question why any man should choose a single mom over ladies without kids.

Mendy101:
Bros they are different, the father if alive will always be in the picture. If he is no more then mother and child are free to create a lasting bond with you but if the father is there after all his Bleep up, he can come and cry both mother and child will blindly forgive and leave you that have been struggling to cater for them for years.

denobaba:
Nothing in your posts suggests even the remotest connection to reality. It's either you are very naive or you just wish to be disingenuous.

It's a well established fact that women divert attention to kids as against their husband. If this is the reality of many fathers, tell me how it could not be potentially worse in the case of marriage to a single mom.

Granted, a few single moms may find men who would commit to them for the long-term but don't try to misinform the public of the likely risk that could crystallize. Marrying a single mom will never be a first cause of action for anyone.

CaptainLora:
Wahala!
Why not just a regular girl without all these baggage and have peace of mind? That shitt is too complicated abeg.

frozen70:


Tell them in which ever way it's left for you to convince them that she is the one that will make life happier with

MistarT:
Please candid opinions will be appreciated. Thanks.

It will do humanity great good, if we hear from marriage counsellors with wide range of experiences, thanks.

denobaba:
No way! Don't preach this myth to a brother lost in emotions. Would say the same if he were to be your biological brother?

There are tons of ladies out there who will make him far happier. By all means, begin your own family as opposed to a pre-rolled one. Who dash monkey banana

frozen70:


At least he wasn't forced to start

Toktee:
Just Bleep her and run.... anything she tell you as a reason for her been single is lies.





They are sadist.


They are really bittered.


They are manner less


They are wayward.


Most of them just take a break from active prostitution.

MrBrownJay1:


you made plenty of sense and then you wrote the above... are you saying that a woman who had a child for some dude and then they parted ways, will always let that man mount her?! do you see how insecure it is of you to claim the above?! even you yourself, some babe got pregnant for you and you didnt want the child, would you even want to have sex with her again?!?!? come on bro!

the above you wrote says a lot about the weak insecure mindset of some men...so because she had sex with someone before, you are so insecure that you believe that she can never love you and be faithful to you ever. thats he will always be drawn to the bastard who may have abandonned/dropped her etc.... thats deep! no wonder men are running away from these single mothers!

MistarT:
Please candid opinions will be appreciated. Thanks.

Itwill do humanity great good, if we hear from marriage counsellors with wide range of experiences, thanks.

satandeterrible:

Okay. Captain save-a-hoe.
White Knight in shining armour. Carry on.

MrBrownJay1:


i have absolutely NO DISCRIMINATION towards single mothers because i do believe that being a single mother doesnt make a woman a bad person nor does it makes that woman a future bad wife nor a future bad mother, therefore why should i/we discriminate against a woman with a child?!

being with a single moher is 10x better than being with one of them fancy single ones you see out there, who go to Dubai every weekend that may have been fukced by dogs and eating excrements.


and whats so wrong about that?! its not like he is gonna continue fukc your wife or sleep in your bed, is it?! remember, you are just a "surrogate" father at best to this child, and nothing more. dont try to play "captain save a child" here as this is NOT your child. so whether he has a father still alive (or not) is irrelevant here. sadly, your misplaced ego is giving you funny thoughts and you are so insecure that you believe that the baby daddy could come anytime and just tell your woman to :"lets go" and she will just follow the yeye dude. come on!



come on now.... even with your biological child and his mother, you could suffer the same above fate... so instead of telling us stories, why dont you guys tell us EXACTLY What you are scared about?!?!?



many women out there may "seem" that they have no baggage but they will carry more load than a single mother (all them Dubai sista that are all fancy and beautiful but get mounted by dog and eat shiiit). again, you guys are not being honest about what really is bothering you with this single mother issue....because it is obvious, the flimsy excuses you all give here on this thread doesnt sound valid....especially when good women are scarce in 9ja.

denobaba:
Can you recommend the same for your brother? Please answer the damn question.

frozen70:


What goes around comes around
If you are a single father, are you forbidden to get a woman

satandeterrible:

Okay. Captain save-a-hoe.
White Knight in shining armour. Carry on.

Puskas:
Any attempt from you to discipline the child will not always go down well with her. She will be seeing it as a hatred for the child because the child is not yours

denobaba:
This is a different dynamic. Men approach women for marriage and not the other way round. Given that a man is the provider, he is free to approach any lady of his choice. It's up to the lady to accept or decline.

We cannot say the same about single mom. If you raise your own son and send him to school. Would you be happy for him to bring home a single mom for marriage? Please try to be realistic.

Toktee:
Just Bleep her and run.... anything she tell you as a reason for her been single is lies.





They are sadist.


They are really bittered.


They are manner less


They are wayward.


Most of them just take a break from active prostitution.

frozen70:


Being a single mother is not a curse

Circumstances normally leads to it

In every single mother, there is a single father

The good part of them is that they took the kid along while some will drop the child to the man's family and doesn't care what comes out of the child

You see most times, the single mothers takes the child because being a mother is priceless

The other thing is that they get more matured and experienced after the encounter that lead them to single parenthood

Have you ever wondered why at a stage in some situations in a man's life, he will be looking for a single mother to marry

E get why

MistarT:
Please candid opinions will be appreciated. Thanks.

Itwill do humanity great good, if we hear from marriage counsellors with wide range of experiences, thanks.

SyrusdeHansome:
Bro if u really knw the person u wanna marry, if she gives u peace of mind marry her. Don't let pple's opinion of someone they knw contribute to u losing a good lady

MistarT:
Hmm deep i am learning something, thank you.

frozen70:


Whatever rocks his boat, all I want is a peaceful marriage

denobaba:
You have no clue. You assume single moms could have great qualities that are completely exclusive for single ladies. How does that even work? Lols

Deeace01:
As it's popularly said that experience is a very good teacher if not the best even.
As long as the father of the child involved is still alive then future vicissitudes is far beyond the sexual part, sadly and bitterly as it may sound....the father of the child is usually a cross on the new man coz there's usually unforseen circumstances that may befall the new man through the old one

ogene144:
I pray you didn't fell into this single mother hand I didn't pray 4 my enemies to marry single mother they are evils and wicked

denobaba:
Lols! I pray to God his father will be around in this critical phase of his life. Left to you, that boy child is in grave danger of misguidance.

Kai, children really need their fathers.

Kriss216:

Even a girl you married as a virgin will care for her child more than the husband.

The only problem with single mother;
The father of her child has 98.783% access to her kpekus.