Hmm.  Well, you can see why many of the people tells you that your man could have married you to get the "opportunities" in Austria that you think he wouldn't have gotten it in Nigeria.

My husband waited 2 years for me, because I was to young to marry him and it was hard for him. He could marry a lot of women this time to get what he want. A Nigerian women with Austrian citizenship was interested in him, but he waited for me and I think that speaks for him . Now he has me  , our lovely children and a good job in Austria what he wants more? His hopes for a better life , haben sich erfüllt  

So their concerns are sensible not saying it is true for YOUR MAN and that explains why Home Offices aren't issuing out any type of visas all nilly willies which is sad for those who are legit.  

Of course I understand.

SarahMaria:


this happen do me all the time. most is strangers who come up to me. They do not know us but they judge us  

if a stranger speak to me, i'll 1. dont even liste ( WTF a stranger got to tell me!?!?!?   ) and 2. where do they get time to talk to u if u dont give them the chance. i mean, r u shopping and they just stop u in the street to hold u a sermon abt ur husband!?!?  

anyway, i personally have never experienced this kinda thing. . . it sound very funny to me.

Mr Chima you must know Austria very well .

SarahMaria:

Mr Chima you must know Austria very well .

It is Mrs. and yes I am well traveled.

if a stranger speak to me, i'll 1. dont even liste ( WTF a stranger got to tell me!?!?!?  Undecided ) and 2. where do they get time to talk to u if u dont give them the chance. i mean, r u shopping and they just stop u in the street to hold u a sermon abt your husband!?!?  Undecided

anyway, i personally have never experienced this kinda thing. . . it sound very funny to me.

on partys from friends, in the bus, in other forums, this always happen. be lucky that it do not happen to you.
Are you a Nigerian ?

It is Mrs. and yes I am well traveled.

So you are one of the bad ones

Where have you been in Austria?

SarahMaria:



My husband waited 2 years for me, because I was to young to marry him and it was hard for him. He could marry a lot of women this time to get what he want. A Nigerian women with Austrian citizenship was interested in him, but he waited for me and I think that speaks for him . Now he has me  , our lovely children and a good job in Austria what he wants more? His hopes for a better life , haben sich erfüllt  

was kümmert dich dann was die anderen sage!?!?
as i said, what people say is not a factor. . .

hmm, natürlich hast du recht.

but I am thinking about this. Thats my kind of person

I do not take things easy.

SarahMaria:



My husband waited 2 years for me, because I was to young to marry him and it was hard for him. He could marry a lot of women this time to get what he want. A Nigerian women with Austrian citizenship was interested in him, but he waited for me and I think that speaks for him . Now he has me  , our lovely children and a good job in Austria what he wants more? His hopes for a better life , haben sich erfüllt  

Of course I understand.

Longevity is what many Home Offices looks for the longer you know the person the more "credible" your case is.  If Austria is where he could prosper then God be with him.  

i'm not a nigerian.

i heard that austria is a very conservative country. . .that could be one reason why people talk to u this way.
if someone speak to u, just tell that this is a personal issue and that it doesnt concern any of them. change topic and enjoy the party . . .

SarahMaria:

So you are one of the bad ones  

Where have you been in Austria?

I am not Nigerian suga and well traveled means I don't just google countries I visits them.  

Or you saying I am a bad person generally?  I could be.    Hairspray and fire is my specialty.

someone here just said that  the Nigerians who travel are bad. You did not read it?
So you are not Nigerian, what are you and where have you been in Austria`?

Mrs.Chima:

Down killer down.  

So you saying your Nigerian husband moving or moved to Austria for a better life?  

Well, she said it people!  

SarahMaria:

Yes of course. like most immigrants here.

[size=15pt]Thanks. we got lota foreigners here. why do you think they are here? if not in search of greener pasture[/size]

Mrs.Chima:

Hmm.  Well, you can see why many of the people tells you that your man could have married you to get the "opportunities" in Austria that you think he wouldn't have gotten it in Nigeria.  
 

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So you are indirectly saying that your Nigerian man married you to get a better life[/size]   LSMH

koolkamzzy:

So you are indirectly saying that your Nigerian man married you to get a better life[/b][/color][/size]   LSMH

There are over 500 Nigerians born on American soil every year so you do know not all Nigerians aren't born in Nigeria right?  Of course you didn't.    


Nothing like a documented man

Huh?

'm not a nigerian.

i heard that austria is a very conservative country. . .that could be one reason why people talk to u this way.
if someone speak to u, just tell that this is a personal issue and that it doesnt concern any of them. change topic and enjoy the party . . . Grin

austria is changing at the moment. the situation for foreigners is worster than before. the Austrians are more , rechtsradikal , now. where are you from?

Mrs.Chima:

That's why i check BIRTH Certificate

What happen to true love

Da Doctor:

^^Mrs Chima , so you take your trade outside the shores of naija, ?^^
NA WA FOR U O!

koolkamzzy:

You know about that trade huh?

koolkamzzy:

What happen to true love

I don't know what happens to it. Did it ran away?

All countries are endowed with bad and good people, otherwise, God will come down and resides among the 'all-good-people-country'. The fact is: whether you believe it or not (of course there is freedom of believe), Nigerians are the best and will remain the best anytime anywhere. A few bad ones can not change that.

@SarahMaria: Your destiny is in your hands, except you don't know that is why you allow people to belittle you becos of your choice,

It is up to you

koolkamzzy:

What happen to true love

i myself am african and half nigerian and its true. you nigerian men are players not all but most are, my aunt is nigerian and she always warns me about u guys. the thing is i never listened to her , which was a bad idea, if only i listened to her i would of never been screwed over and degraded.

9jafetish:

i myself am african and half nigerian and its true. you nigerian men are players not all but most are, my aunt is nigerian and she always warns me about u guys. the thing is i never listened to her , which was a bad idea, if only i listened to her i would of never been screwed over and degraded.

Im surprised at dat statement. You alone can define how u see urself. No matter wat kinda stuff u go thru in life, u are left with a choice. If ur past relationship ended terribly to the point of dat statement, u have the choice to take ur pride, flush it down the drain and claim to be "degraded" . . .which every other person will see . .

orrrr . . .

U move on with ur pride intact, see it as HIS LOSS and maintain the self respect u know u have. That respect will mirror out in ur appearance and no one will see u as DEGRADED. Just a personal opinion.


@SarahMaria . . People will always talk . . . Listen to watever u think is worth listening to and shun d rest. Forget about wat people say about a nation cos im sure ur smart enuff to know that a survey was never conducted. NEVER allow side comments influence ur decision. U love ur husband. GOOD. Leave it dat way. Forget about other Nigerian men and watever trash-talk u hear from ur Austrian friends.

9jafetish:

i myself am african and half nigerian and its true. you nigerian men are players not all but most are, my aunt is nigerian and she always warns me about u guys. the thing is i never listened to her , which was a bad idea, if only i listened to her i would of never been screwed over and degraded.

Hmm. You was with a bad apple that's all. Pick yourself up and dust it off. Keep your head up and look forward to something positive. It will be okay.

WOW!!! I wonder what will be going on in the mind of SarahMariah. Firstly we Nigerians are not animals. We are a good people mixed with bad eggs occasionally, just like any other big country. On a forum like this, you only have to follow comments and advices that are are meaningful, helpful and practical and sieve out the junks. We Nigerians always make fun out of everything whether good or bad. If you choose to be naive about some of our comments, we'd only make fun of you the more.
Back to business, Being good or bad is no country's monopoly. The individual we are dealing with matters. If a guy is going to be bad, there are always some early signs to warn you, but most times we ignore them. Part of the issues with Nigeria is our population which accounts for these crime figures worldwide, since we are the most widely traveled. 18% annual crime victims in Austria amounts to about 1.8M crimes yearly. If you subject the same (percentage) crime rate to Nigeria, we are looking at almost 29M crimes annually. If you distribute 29m criminals, carrying Nigerian passport worldwide; then you would understand why people say a lot of trash about Nigerians even though I have just compared us with Austria using the same crime victims rate.
Please hold on to your marriage. You have a very wonderful Nigerian husband for you to always back him up. A good number of us Nigerian men are also here at home and we're representing Naija for life.
So if anybody asks you again or talks Nigerian men down again, tell them to go to hell and that you got the best husband in the world in a Nigerian. Thank you.

I will do that

No sorry.

Most of my friends are already in relationships with different kind of men.


And when I think about it, all ma friends are together with non-Austrians , the friends who are with austrians broke up with me since I am with my husband.

I would not call them racist. They warn me. They always told me he is not good, he does not have future and I am to young to start a family. They was afraid I think.

But when you fall in love you can not understand that talking from your friends. I was so angry of them then.
I just wanted them to accept my husband They could not, so it is better when they go.

My husband had a friend before. He was telling him that I am a blond LovePeddler. He should not be with me That we white girls are all the same.
I think he was from Guinea. My man throw him out of our flat