backtalkG:
Are you back now?

No

Bignuell:
Hi, mind if i send a pm

Alright?

Me.
According to her.

The English suppose don tire you before all this one sef.

SailorUgo:
Nice girl
Not lazy
Worked for her money
Never asked me for money
I wouldn’t hesitate to marry her sef if I wanted.

But na my Ashawo age be this abeg
I gats enjoy am full time

Don’t want to waste a good girls time

The two of us was stupid.

PerfectStranger:

They always have a backup package. Trust them at your peril.

no b lie my broda

Larrysung:
So chelsea's ending this season trophyless! Lmao

I was having fun reading comments and learning till I got to yours and reality hit me
But not to worry we will win the treble next season for sure UP BLUES

I was broke and unsecured, babe will ask for as little as transport fare to school and I will pick up quarrel because I didn't have. Las las, she left, but I still thank her for believing in me even when I didn't believe in myself......


God punish poverty

Remag666:

I was having fun reading comments and learning till I got to yours and reality hit me
But not to worry we will win the treble next season for sure UP BLUES

lol... Let's see

Dandicker:
It wasn't my fault, we broke up because of wedding plan... She needs a big wedding and I want a small one of like 1m. She move on because I can't afford her dream wedding.

Dearest brethren; it's like you don't know that the good Lord has done for you and saved you from; if to say you marry her laidis, it would have been constant billing for you in marriage. Sharwarma every night on a steady, visits to the spa, frequent trips to Dubai and the Bahamas. And then what do you get ? You are only left with one trouser and shirt you wont even be able to save and achieve your own dreams cos you are living life to please her.

Keniwit:
Why girls com dey ghost for this kin thread nw?

Guilty conscience

Me.

I knew from the first week of meeting (2nd outing) , that she wasn't the one for me.
Our communication didn't click..our interests didn't align.

We managed to do the distance rship for 11months.
When I relocated to lagos, I summoned the courage to officially break it up..citing the truth... mutual incompatibility.

Gurls, don't jump into relationship after first sex.

To most guys, it's just casual sex, it's part of the getting-to-know-you process...but una dey turn am to the beginning of dating.

It's wrong.

alleygra:
he flipped on me a proper narcissists'.....i went through hell....i am so grateful its all over, i have my little gurl to care for and a blooming career, i have healed and looking forward to a more productive future .......our mothers didnt do well raising the boy child,,,,,

Lol. Maybe it's your mom who didn't do well in raising you, else, she'd have taught you that there is dignity in abstinence and not going about opening your legs for dicks.

Is it about that Devilish black Monkey...

Red flag

It was all my fault though I admitted my fault and pleaded for forgiveness but she lost confidence and kept making reference to the issue which did not go down well with me. At the long run, I discovered she was talking to her ex and at that time I told myself the truth and moved on.

Pretentious and materialistic, f•cked a wrinkled old man's dick for iPhone XS, f•cked a guy prior because he uses an 8+ and she wanted to be snapping with it. Oh well I found out all and ghosted.

LadyRosa:



You dey crase?
Who you dey look up to?I resemble ya mama?!
Na this character make girls no dey fit open up for nairaland again like in the old times.

10 years ago nairaland wasn't this hypocritical,yet the abomination wey dey happen now is alarming.

I no dey find person trouble but I no dey forgive person wey find me.Nexr time,avoid me if you no get better thing to talk.

My toto dey smell, na me e smell e no smell you.

Nairaland is hypocritical and you are guilty too.

Women will be shouting men are scum..and lamenting about cheating men. Yet they have the same skeleton in their closets.

Your story isn't new or shocking..I wonder why that guy is looking up anywhere. That story is the story of every girl nowadays. The difference is the calibre of men they fling with.

Y'all should just quit calling men cheats when you are all greatest cheats.

PrinceMajestic:
hmmm, nawo o. Rose I dey look up to u b4

You are looking up to a woman? Its like you want to fall inside a ditch.

Get sense

There's usually no asking out, we just start dating and it just vanishes like that.

I don't know how we started dating or how we broke up. We left the same way we came.

I certainly don't know who's at fault.

Really complicated

cayorday89:
Not all situations you even have the understanding of the situation to even know who is at fault, in my case, there where excuses and the situation on ground then made it seem like it's all true(Covid restriction), it was hard to communicate or get to see until I realized I have been left behind, but YAWA no dey, it's something I was prepared for from day one because from my younger days, I got to know that no human actually owns any human, not even parents and child relationship. Some will stay true to you and some won't. Who is at fault, I no still know.

same thing happened to me exactly. We politely broke up. Distance and her change of attitude during covid 19

I'm the one responsible I won't lie. I was a user. Once I'm done, I leave. I always do the leaving. Heart has never been broken. Guilty as charged!
I got deceptive looks - soft, gentle, mummy's girl, church girl kinda look but I'm not innocent, far from it. They don't always see it coming, before they realise it, I've struck and gone. The last episode was over a decade ago though. I've been good and consistent at it.

Emaprince:
You are looking up to a woman? Its like you want to fall inside a ditch.

Get sense

fhck you man, looking up to smashing the bitch. A real nigga would understand

placeofallure:
I'm the one responsible I won't lie. I was a user. Once I'm done, I leave. I always do the leaving. Heart has never been broken. Guilty as charged!
I got deceptive looks - soft, gentle, mummy's girl, church girl kinda look but I'm not innocent, far from it. They don't always see it coming, before they realise it, I've struck and gone. The last episode was over a decade ago though. I've been good and consistent at it.

At least you are honest about your flaws. Try change sha..

Emaprince:
Nairaland is hypocritical and you are guilty too.

Women will be shouting men are scum..and lamenting about cheating men. Yet they have the same skeleton in their closets.

Your story isn't new or shocking..I wonder why that guy is looking up anywhere. That story is the story of every girl nowadays. The difference is the calibre of men they fling with.

Y'all should just quit calling men cheats when you are all greatest cheats.

And who the 4vk cares if men cheats?Like is a new thing,or like women don't cheat too.And who do you called an hypocrite? Me? You just be jonzing to call me the very opposite of who I'm.

I cheat, you may cheat,so 4ck what?!
Abeg swerve.

Slynation:
Omo fear women oO...
Everything was all rosy and sweet, all of a sudden, in her place of work, she started receiving this kinda late calls and was using bedroom voice for the guy...Ahhhh, Nooo!! That voice sounds familiar and unique to me alone but as a coded guy I comport myself, she noticed a little bit and said was it because of the call and I told her YES oO...I won't hide my feelings, cos I always own up to every sh*t/responsibilities bordering me like a fearless terrorists...!!

So she began singing to me like a well decorated choir mistress, but I know that lyrics of "He's just a friend" and this was the first time he was calling, and I quickly interrupted and reminded her that I was once just a friend and I know what I did...

It didn't take long before my observations becomes reality, I visited her one day and saw a new jotter, I was about to glance through and she pounced on me and collected it saying it's girls things... that stroked my awareness but I shrugged it off

On a very fateful day as devil may have it, I visited again but she told me she went out to get something before my arrival but she dropped her keys with someone, I got the keys and was jejely pressing my phone, then a call came into my phone and requesting I call out a friend phone number for him, I told him I will get back to him while I put it into writing...make I carry paper and pen oO, I now saw that jotter and said lemme even see the girls thing afterall we talking about my GF of a year plus here who doesn't hide anything from me (so I simpingly thought tho)

I opened it and at the middle page was her diary, I read all the rubbish she wrote inside, that same guy who was just a friend had already collected his maximum 3points, another guy in her neighbourhood whom we only shake hands whenever I come around has collected maximum 3points (No...this one should be 6points home and away because he was closeby) and the most painful aspects was that I was even the side boyfriend of her main boyfriend in Lagos... wow...so I have been dating a community project all this while I said to myself...

Well no issues shaah, I comfort myself like nothing happened and left her side, I maintained full status quo like nothing happened and what happened next should better be left unsaid because she's always a guests on NL and I like my anonymous status here...

LOL... She wrote how many times she has had sex with each of them?

WondaBeauty:
None of us did any wrong.
I was travelling abroad and he said he won't be able to keep up with the long distance(i sensed he was insecure) so we had to part ways peacefully but we are still good friends though.

It's not about insecurity I suppose, some of us have chosen not to do distance, equally what's the duration of your stay? What's the likelihood of fidelity? what will be in place to maintain bond (communication and by what method at what time zones)? Has there been any sense of commitment to the relationship with a define deadline for something definite?

I mean the questions to answer are numerous, I've had my own fair share of distance, wasn't the lady's fault the mum just didn't like my region, had to pay dearly for that bkos I've invested so much. Since then if you're far away all the best, except I see certain traits, I no do.

LadyRosa:


Me...

I cheated,we broke up.
I went back to the guy I cheated with.ONE OF THE BEST DAMN FLING I EVER HAD IN MY WHOLE LIFE.Omo, If that niggar can give that much on a fling I wonder how e go be if na real thing mehn

My ex just dey para that night.I remember how he tried removing his suit that night like say na nightgown.Snashed my phone,called my fling.
I warned him not to find out who he is oooo.Niggar come go do small detective work.
Him humble!Quiet like pikin..AFTER VISITING his social media pages. .
Him come dey beg make I no see the guy again, ofcourse e see who pass am by far in every sphere.
Better food wey I just put for mouth....make I no finish am?

Clean sweet, chivalrous guy! Exactly wetin I like chop but the upgraded pro- premium version.

I warn am oooo,say I just dey respect am.He should quit treating me anyhow.E no gree!

He begged me to stop seeing him!

How!?!?
I tried,but e haaaarddddddd.Guy wey if him pull him preek for my eye dey big like Roast chicken dipped in barbecue sauce, spiced with hot chilli pepper and a chilled nkwu enu to join?!Ife n'alike

Nna,them no dey free that kind food na!

I tell am hoo haaaa say the guy don scatter my brain to pieces!NO REMEDY.

Charley, wherever you are, thanks for giving me one of the best times of my life.

Now you have left the both of them!

Slynation:
Omo fear women oO...
Everything was all rosy and sweet, all of a sudden, in her place of work, she started receiving this kinda late calls and was using bedroom voice for the guy...Ahhhh, Nooo!! That voice sounds familiar and unique to me alone but as a coded guy I comport myself, she noticed a little bit and said was it because of the call and I told her YES oO...I won't hide my feelings, cos I always own up to every sh*t/responsibilities bordering me like a fearless terrorists...!!

So she began singing to me like a well decorated choir mistress, but I know that lyrics of "He's just a friend" and this was the first time he was calling, and I quickly interrupted and reminded her that I was once just a friend and I know what I did...

It didn't take long before my observations becomes reality, I visited her one day and saw a new jotter, I was about to glance through and she pounced on me and collected it saying it's girls things... that stroked my awareness but I shrugged it off

On a very fateful day as devil may have it, I visited again but she told me she went out to get something before my arrival but she dropped her keys with someone, I got the keys and was jejely pressing my phone, then a call came into my phone and requesting I call out a friend phone number for him, I told him I will get back to him while I put it into writing...make I carry paper and pen oO, I now saw that jotter and said lemme even see the girls thing afterall we talking about my GF of a year plus here who doesn't hide anything from me (so I simpingly thought tho)

I opened it and at the middle page was her diary, I read all the rubbish she wrote inside, that same guy who was just a friend had already collected his maximum 3points, another guy in her neighbourhood whom we only shake hands whenever I come around has collected maximum 3points (No...this one should be 6points home and away because he was closeby) and the most painful aspects was that I was even the side boyfriend of her main boyfriend in Lagos... wow...so I have been dating a community project all this while I said to myself...

Well no issues shaah, I comfort myself like nothing happened and left her side, I maintained full status quo like nothing happened and what happened next should better be left unsaid because she's always a guests on NL and I like my anonymous status here...

Lols, I love this your story. Funny die

mopol123:
while i was busy trying to secure a job, baby girl was busy asking another out in church. She gave me her phone to charge and i went through her whatsaap, still hang around for the last and memorable but raw bang before telling her. That bang resulted in pregnancy which i refered her to the church guy... That was her punishment

Oga punisher, no let karma serve you your own punishment o

LadyRosa:


Me...

I cheated,we broke up.
I went back to the guy I cheated with.ONE OF THE BEST DAMN FLING I EVER HAD IN MY WHOLE LIFE.Omo, If that niggar can give that much on a fling I wonder how e go be if na real thing mehn

My ex just dey para that night.I remember how he tried removing his suit that night like say na nightgown.Snashed my phone,called my fling.
I warned him not to find out who he is oooo.Niggar come go do small detective work.
Him humble!Quiet like pikin..AFTER VISITING his social media pages. .
Him come dey beg make I no see the guy again, ofcourse e see who pass am by far in every sphere.
Better food wey I just put for mouth....make I no finish am?

Clean sweet, chivalrous guy! Exactly wetin I like chop but the upgraded pro- premium version.

I warn am oooo,say I just dey respect am.He should quit treating me anyhow.E no gree!

He begged me to stop seeing him!

How!?!?
I tried,but e haaaarddddddd.Guy wey if him pull him preek for my eye dey big like Roast chicken dipped in barbecue sauce, spiced with hot chilli pepper and a chilled nkwu enu to join?!Ife n'alike

Nna,them no dey free that kind food na!

I tell am hoo haaaa say the guy don scatter my brain to pieces!NO REMEDY.

Charley, wherever you are, thanks for giving me one of the best times of my life.

Your guy no try for the other room?

WondaBeauty:
None of us did any wrong.
I was travelling abroad and he said he won't be able to keep up with the long distance(i sensed he was insecure) so we had to part ways peacefully but we are still good friends though.

Marry your best friend