Right now I don't know where to start from but let me try

My friends first daughter is married to a man with 4 kids but the husband is not in Nigeria he usually comes n go

My friends co- wife [ that's her husband younger brothers wife] have been sleeping with this her first daughters husband unknown to them
( this is complicated)

I went to visit the co- wife last year so she told me that she wants to divorce her husband she is no longer in love with him

I talked to her thinking it will change her mind but No!
But it got to a point where she had to open up to me that she has someone who is already taken care of her.
mind you this woman already have 6 kids for her husband oo.

I asked her who is this man that is making her take such move

she said he is also a married man with kids but not based in Nigeria he is in USA that he sent her 500k that very day ,
She said he is already making ways for her her to join him hmmm.

I asked what will then happen to the wife she said that's not her problem
That the man has already collected all his children from the wife they are with him over.
That the man's wife is even her friend they know each other very well
I became speachles at this point.

But honestly my mind did not connect that this is a family scandal,

Not until when my friend called me to tell me that someone told her that her co- wife is sleeping with her daughter's husband that he is planning to relocate her to join him

That was when my head now connected to the the whole thing the co wife told me.

The co wife could not tell me that the man she is dating is her husband's elder brothers daughters husband.

I want to tell my friend the truth becos she is worried for her daughter
but I don't want to cos this is a serious scandal it is an abomination.

As I write now the co- wife is already out of her marriage she is waiting for the guy to come for her.

My friends daughter is just there hoping that her husband will come for her since her children are already there with him.

My friend also told me that the person who gave her the info Told her that her co- wife is the reason why her daughter's husband left he
They have been dating for a very long time .

That she is the one handling all his projects and properties in Nigeria
The man even wants to relocate her first son join.


Please any advice?

I am having severe PTSD trying to decipher this story.

This is unbelievable

I nearly had migrane reading the topic, when i come enter the main story...haaaa..i couldnt finish


All this story of sister of brother of cousin that is the aunty of our brother in law they always tire me

Hope say this story na true sha ?

Anyway : I think you should tell the co-wife's pastor or her parent or anybody you know she would listen to about it .
Tell them to intervene ,and stop the looming danger ahead .
Or tell your friend's pastor or anybody that can handle the case with wisdom.
If you should tell your friend she could reacted in a manner that would split the oil badly ,and causes two different marriages to end .

This is a very complicated issue so I would advice that you tread with care or you would also end up becoming a victim .

It is better to keep quite ,and pray for God's intervention than to take a wrong action that would make you to regret later .

underpinna:
This is unbelievable

Theres no barrier people cant cross when it comes to sex...too much indiscipline everywhere

better mind your fvcking business.

But the person is already aware. Nothing new. Meanwhile, try to break the relationship chain better cos it took time to piece this thing together. Elder husband brother husband father husband daughter ..... Tired

My head o, abeg who understand this post?

Tell your friend before it's too late and you end up being an accomplice.

Nawa oh hmmm! U have 6 kids,he has 4 kids and yet u even get mind open leg tueeh! They are both dogs abeg the lady made a mistake by giving her kids 2 him to take abroad...only God knows whether he isn't a sex freak...expose them but 2ru someone else i bet u aren't the only one that knows...ashawo under disguise of co-wife,co-wife oshii...i pity kids involved,please do something asap for the kids sake,thanks.

Joezinho:
I am having severe PTSD trying to decipher this story.

As in, I couldn't read past the first line...I almost had migraine

advanceDNA:
I nearly had migrane reading the topic, when i come enter the main story...haaaa..i couldnt finish


All this story of sister of brother of cousin that is the aunty of our brother in law they always tire me

All I saw was my cousin elder brother sister husband wife

Na wa oo

It's hard to decipher

Joezinho:
I am having severe PTSD trying to decipher this story.

Walahi my brain dae overwork

advanceDNA:
I nearly had migrane reading the topic, when i come enter the main story...haaaa..i couldnt finish


All this story of sister of brother of cousin that is the aunty of our brother in law they always tire me

Asin

The story is not my problem , my problem was when I saw 500 k I mean for this hardship wey dey this country . Women and lies eeee. Unless the woman use juju on the so called man . I dont believe this story. Someone with 4kids and you have 6 children. Like say your punna na gold . He no see young girl abi

I wan die your writing dey fo mi lori, aswear , abeg I need translation pls. I no fit read the french.

Omo tell your husband younger sister' son to go and meet her younger brother husband daughter to..wtf

Talentempire:

The co wife could not tell me that the man she is dating is her husband's elder brothers daughters husband.


Please any advice?

Wettin be this ffs

nawa oo i almost fainted trying to understand what is written here

Simple, tell the Co wife that the brothers first daughter husband is having affair with the USA man and money is involved but don't do it in a haphazard manner. The other wife and the Co wife are at fault but the husband is also guilty, meanwhile the abroad man is innocent so calmly understand me the way I understood you. I hope you understand. Thank you.

Will read these again let me go and eat first. if someone can interpret these write up in language I will understand better.

The way I will balance and tell my friend ehn.....I will even add spices join

That co-wife is evil, I hate evil people

malaria:
The story is not my problem , my problem was when I saw 500 k I mean for this hardship wey dey this country . Women and lies eeee. Unless the woman use juju on the so called man . I dont believe this story. Someone with 4kids and you have 6 children. Like say your punna na gold . He no see young girl abi

This is not a story
It is real!

Is very difficult for one to believe sha

Karma will have it place. Anyway, women are shit

Speaklove:
Hope say this story na true sha ?

Anyway : I think you should tell the co-wife's pastor or her parent or anybody you know she would listen to about it .
Tell them to intervene ,and stop the looming danger ahead .
Or tell your friend's pastor or anybody that can handle the case with wisdom.
If you should tell your friend she could reacted in a manner that would split the oil badly ,and causes two different marriages to end .

This is a very complicated issue so I would advice that you tread with care or you would also end up becoming a victim .

It is better to keep quite ,and pray for God's intervention than to take a wrong action that would make you to regret later .

This is very true
There is no better way to write this
myself am confused over the whole thing
This issue is deeper than what I wrote here