DominusPrime:


I'm sorry if you don't have the balls for it. Others saw it and smiled and even agreed its true. Besides your standard of what is described as rabid is for you and you alone. Don't use that to determine how and what I should type ok.

I believe U misunderstood the meaning. Anyways, it's Ur opinion. I made my opinion, deal with that. Cheers

ahnie:
Redfillers ounje ti'de.

Pls find a way to iron your differences.

Eshe... ati ri ounje ti a fe je baii




And to op
Lmao
You no suppose dey react to some things sha
You saw how she was yours is to quietly remove yourself . And not sendin long messages

Ignore her for days without calling.. try not to view her status... Whilst working on yourself be open to welcoming others just for the sake of banging cause you can't do relationship again yet and by the look of things, this ship is done....

Cheers man

My guy, you wan make we tell you say you don chop breakfast?

Colephbreed hipost=113588416:
Hello guys good day hope y'all are doing great.

Am writing this with so much grief in my heart as I feel depressed, sometimes love can come with somuch pains and joy at same time.

So recently I agreed with my fiance to relocate to a different city since she got a job over there, we agreed a scheduled time we wil have to see each other within a specific period of time. This is someone we share everything in common the love was great, she's an awesome soul to be sincere.

I got so much attached to her, that it made me felt lonely and empty when she left, due to that reason I always want to call and check up frequently, This has been going on For about 4 weeks consistently, the first red flag I noticed was that she asked me not to be calling her frequently that sometimes it's not really cool with her, I respected that fact and reduced the way I call but I was beginning to loose the trust I had for her.

She goes out with her friend frequently and they love partying, even when I consistently warn her about the late nights they keep most times in clubs and partying she keeps telling me she's not a kid and she can handle things herself. Lately the relationship have been filled with lots of argument, misunderstanding, and the trust is beginning to reduce drastically.

Yesterday she uploaded a nasty picture as her display pics on WhatsApp, she was just putting on a top without bra, though she's busty and all that, I asked her take it down and upload something more appealing and decent that am not comfortable with such pics, she began to rant and start saying all manner of things like it's her privacy,her phone, her body,and she decides what to do with it, am an African man and I don't welcome this woke mentality of women nowadays, feeling they need to be half naked to feel sexy I can't cope with such indecent dressing, I told her am not trying to tell her what to do but atleast you should respect my opinion sometimes, I got angry and sent her a very long message about my displeasure. since then she has refused to pick my calls nor reply my messages.

She tried calling earlier today but I didn't pick, I couldn't sleep through out the night the whole drama was just playing in my Head.

Guys is this enough reason to call of a relationship or are my just being too self centered? have actually made up my mind just need to hear from different and more matured people in the house.
Thanks for reading and enjoy the rest of your day.

She is in her Hoe stage...let her be....

ahnie:
Redfillers ounje ti'de.

Pls find a way to iron your differences.

I thought all married women have sence.

You mentioning redpillars means you already know the right answers to his questions.

U that is not a redpillar could not give the guy an answer cus if you do, you already identify with the redpillar movement.

Give the guy an advice,let me see what hypocracy look like

Op
Boss
Make I just clear u for just one thing as someone don already talk am say anything wey no go give u rest of mind n peace of mind discard it

N guy it will be advisable to leave the girl in a simple way just like this "babe can we take a break or let's go our separate ways" I think that should do, because if u no leave her na part 2 torture be that o, being in this Nigeria is already enough to call torture.

BigRocky:



I thought all married women have sence.

You mentioning redpillars means you already know the right answers to his questions.

U that is not a redpillar could not give the guy an answer cus if you do, you already identify with the redpillar movement.

Give the guy an advice,let me see what hypocracy look like

Tell that to the women in your family.

Relationship this, relationship that. If you want decency, then quit relationship, coz its not decent in it self.

You are have been preventing that your girl from living her life, that is why she is happy now, she is far from you.

Take her for whom she is, public girl, or you look for your type

OK!
Clap For Yourself

H

Colephbreed:
Hello guys good day hope y'all are doing great.

Am writing this with so much grief in my heart as I feel depressed, sometimes love can come with somuch pains and joy at same time.

So recently I agreed with my fiance to relocate to a different city since she got a job over there, we agreed a scheduled time we wil have to see each other within a specific period of time. This is someone we share everything in common the love was great, she's an awesome soul to be sincere.

I got so much attached to her, that it made me felt lonely and empty when she left, due to that reason I always want to call and check up frequently, This has been going on For about 4 weeks consistently, the first red flag I noticed was that she asked me not to be calling her frequently that sometimes it's not really cool with her, I respected that fact and reduced the way I call but I was beginning to loose the trust I had for her.

She goes out with her friend frequently and they love partying, even when I consistently warn her about the late nights they keep most times in clubs and partying she keeps telling me she's not a kid and she can handle things herself. Lately the relationship have been filled with lots of argument, misunderstanding, and the trust is beginning to reduce drastically.

Yesterday she uploaded a nasty picture as her display pics on WhatsApp, she was just putting on a top without bra, though she's busty and all that, I asked her take it down and upload something more appealing and decent that am not comfortable with such pics, she began to rant and start saying all manner of things like it's her privacy,her phone, her body,and she decides what to do with it, am an African man and I don't welcome this woke mentality of women nowadays, feeling they need to be half naked to feel sexy I can't cope with such indecent dressing, I told her am not trying to tell her what to do but atleast you should respect my opinion sometimes, I got angry and sent her a very long message about my displeasure. since then she has refused to pick my calls nor reply my messages.

She tried calling earlier today but I didn't pick, I couldn't sleep through out the night the whole drama was just playing in my Head.

Guys is this enough reason to call of a relationship or are my just being too self centered? have actually made up my mind just need to hear from different and more matured people in the house.
Thanks for reading and enjoy the rest of your day.

You can never make a Hoe a housewife.

Know this and watch how peace will reign in your home.

Better oooo.

Dress tbe way you want to be addressed, or rather, dress the way you are.

If you are a doctor, dress like a doctor.
If you are a lawyer, dress like a lawyer.

If you are an Olosho, dress like an Olosho.

OP is the problem here, he wants to turn Olosho into Choir Mistress. Impossicant.

You are doing yourself good, bro.

Telling her to take it down

Una go start with she get beautiful soul.
Beautiful soul kua, abeg pack well.

LadyRosa:
What you put up there as indecent is actually not indecent.

You should focus on the obvious facts,one of which is that she is getting no longer interested in you, and possibly she has got eyes for other guys.


My verdict;

Anything that will not bring you peace of mind,DISCARD IT!

Toor and who told you that it is every man that want peace of mind

It won't end well, my advice for you is to be the one to initiate the breakup because it will hurt you more when she eventually dump you, and yeah she's cheating and fvcking and sucking other dudes. Be wise king.

I for like see the big breast

Na wa o
This one too calls himself "An African Man"

You're more like "A SIMP.le Man" if you ask me.

Must they serve you breakfast before you get sense?

AsomArchitectNG:


I won't mince words as i'll tell u what you need to know

Yes, your woman is an hookup girl, olosho, pr*stit*te, just pick whichever that suits you, so u know, she has someone bankrolling her currently more than you do. It's a big red flag if she wouldn't respect your decision and it clearly means she doesn't love or no longer in love with you. Now I'll tell you this for free. A woman fears and respects the man they love, as she wouldn't want to loose u. You don't force it as it comes naturally.

Now I'll leave you with this question to go and pounder on it...

Can you go ahead with a woman that wouldn't take your words or rather respect you as man?

I believe you've gotten the answer. Now be a man and be logical. *drops_mic

Well said. You hit the nail on it’s head. Op na your hand e dey. worry about your finances instead cuz as for your babe, she don enter street so leave am. Meanwhile what do you do that gives you such time to call her that frequently?

You have lost her so stop lusting after her. She has moved beyond yr class so accept the truth and move on. She is in the commercial world now. What do you have that she will want? So sorry but that is the truth. She has gone Uber and Bolt. Move on NOW

Take it easy with yourself by tuning down the love. What are you doing with a girl that clubs?? I don't understand this una generation o. Seriously, you can't cope. Look for peace.

Cut it off... it doesn't matter. No.give yourself HBP

Carry ur relationship wahala commot abeg
Nigerians dey talk about a better 2023 u come dey talk about boyfriend and girlfriend issue here.

Colephbreed:
Hello guys good day hope y'all are doing great.

Am writing this with so much grief in my heart as I feel depressed, sometimes love can come with somuch pains and joy at same time.

So recently I agreed with my fiance to relocate to a different city since she got a job over there, we agreed a scheduled time we wil have to see each other within a specific period of time. This is someone we share everything in common the love was great, she's an awesome soul to be sincere.

I got so much attached to her, that it made me felt lonely and empty when she left, due to that reason I always want to call and check up frequently, This has been going on For about 4 weeks consistently, the first red flag I noticed was that she asked me not to be calling her frequently that sometimes it's not really cool with her, I respected that fact and reduced the way I call but I was beginning to loose the trust I had for her.

She goes out with her friend frequently and they love partying, even when I consistently warn her about the late nights they keep most times in clubs and partying she keeps telling me she's not a kid and she can handle things herself. Lately the relationship have been filled with lots of argument, misunderstanding, and the trust is beginning to reduce drastically.

Yesterday she uploaded a nasty picture as her display pics on WhatsApp, she was just putting on a top without bra, though she's busty and all that, I asked her take it down and upload something more appealing and decent that am not comfortable with such pics, she began to rant and start saying all manner of things like it's her privacy,her phone, her body,and she decides what to do with it, am an African man and I don't welcome this woke mentality of women nowadays, feeling they need to be half naked to feel sexy I can't cope with such indecent dressing, I told her am not trying to tell her what to do but atleast you should respect my opinion sometimes, I got angry and sent her a very long message about my displeasure. since then she has refused to pick my calls nor reply my messages.

She tried calling earlier today but I didn't pick, I couldn't sleep through out the night the whole drama was just playing in my Head.

Guys is this enough reason to call of a relationship or are my just being too self centered? have actually made up my mind just need to hear from different and more matured people in the house.
Thanks for reading and enjoy the rest of your day.

In relationship with her for three years! What for exactly? You are not ready to settle down yet...that gives room to things like this.

You friend a girl for 3yrs, she never missed period and you call yourself man? My brother, she has started seeing you as her neighbour